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blissfullyecho · 1 year
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13 essential daily habits i implement to level up and improve myself
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number 1: meditation— at least 5 minutes per day
number 2: prayer— morning, afternoon, and night
number 3: going outside— inhaling stale inside air < outside air
number 4: not sitting for more than an hour at a time
number 5: being consistent on this blog (this helps with motivation and is my online journal)
number 6: being active for at least 45 minutes daily— whether it’s a strenuous workout or a hot girl walk
number 7: swapping 30 minutes of a tv show or listening to music with a podcast, self-development video, or reading a book
number 8: positive self-talk / mirror work whenever i walk past a mirror
number 9: falling asleep to affirmations from youtube
number 10: spending less time on my phone— allowing myself 1-2 hours a day on social media and the internet (i used to spend ALL day on my phone)
number 11: drinking at least 60oz of water
number 12: parenting myself (for example: if i’m getting carried away with being on my phone and i have to run errands, i make myself to get off my phone and to walk out the door)
number 13: dedicating an hour in the morning after waking up and an hour in the evening before going to bed for self-care and organization. NO PHONE, TV, FRIENDS, etc.
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theambitiouswoman · 4 months
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Journal Prompts To Welcome The New Year 🤍✨
✨ Reflecting on the Past Year:
What were your three most significant moments of the past year?
What lessons did you learn in the last year?
Which achievements are you most proud of from the past year?
✨ Gratitude:
What are you most thankful for as you look back over the past year?
Who made the biggest impact on your life last year, and why?
✨ Setting Goals and Intentions:
What are your top three goals for the New Year?
How do you plan to step out of your comfort zone this year?
What new skills or hobbies would you like to explore?
✨ Personal Growth:
How do you want to grow personally in the coming year?
What daily habits do you want to cultivate or change?
✨ Challenges:
What challenges from the past year are you still dealing with, and how do you plan to overcome them?
What fears or obstacles do you want to conquer this year?
✨ Future:
What are you most looking forward to in the New Year?
How do you envision your life one year from now?
✨ Creative:
Write a letter to your future self, describing your hopes and expectations for the year.
Create a vision board in your journal for the New Year.
✨ Relationships:
How do you wish to strengthen your relationships this year?
Are there new connections or communities you wish to be part of?
✨ Health and Wellness:
What are your health goals for the year?
How do you plan to take care of your mental and physical well-being?
✨ Experiences:
What new experiences do you want to have this year?
Is there a place you wish to visit or an adventure you’re dreaming of?
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My 20s will be my most treasured decade.
I learned to play tennis in my 20s
I learned to put myself first in my 20s
I became more confident in my 20s
I defined my style in my 20s
I am at my healthiest in my 20s
I am more mature in my 20s
I developed 6 hobbies in my 20s
I made my own philosophy in my 20s
I study better in my 20s
I make friends based on shared values in my 20s
I started wearing SPF in my 20s
I have learned the most lessons in my 20s
I practiced balance in my 20s
I started driving in my 20s
I started speaking publicly in my 20s
I learned to bake in my 20s
I learned to stop comparing myself in my 20s
I began reading every week in my 20s
I became more curious in my 20s
I started investing in my 20s
You may learn somethings as a teenager or as 20 something year old, what’s important is that you learn. Growth is a continuous journey. I’m still learning, growing, and becoming.
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thesapphireprincess · 2 years
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monicafinias · 4 months
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Because truly the only way to truly enjoy the soft life, is when it comes with commitment!
Most men with money have broken the code, they know if they dangle a few shiny things in front of us, we are sold. But all it os is, he takes what he wants and leaves us empty with just a few high end restaurant experiences, a purse or two and nothing else.
The damage to our hearts can not compare to what we get.
Let’s be sober minded in 2024, and not take the bare minimum.
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wickedxvixen · 9 months
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audrinawf · 7 months
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kingess · 2 years
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Could you share tips on how to focus on myself and be more attractive? thanks 🖤
I got you.
How to detach and become more Attractive
If you feel anxiety or codependent tendencies with your close connections you likely have deep rooted issues with low self worth, so let's get you started with some tangible basics.
Cleanse your mental diet. Stop watching and engaging with media that romantizises sadness and heartache. Stop listening to music that validates the victim mentality. Instead be very mindful of your consumption and start creating playlists with music that only focuses on feeling yourself and high vibe energy. The lyrics you listen to are the affirmations you program your mind with. Make your Spotify recommend music that aligns with your desired self, train those algorithms. Remain intentional.
Talk to yourself nicely. How you talk about yourself inside your head determines your entire self concept. You create who you are, so when you catch yourself scolding yourself, snap out of it and remind yourself that you're a queen deserving of respect.
Practice self care religiously. Normalize rest as productivity. Make loads of time to take care of your health and looks. Take time to refine your style, scent, hair, makeup, elegance, etiquette. by doing these things for yourself you teach your brain that you are someone worth putting effort in for. Which you are, you are your number one fan, don't you ever try to find someone else to take that place or you'll be giving all of your power in someone else's hands.
Keep your own promises. Same goes with showing yourself that you're a trustworthy person. If you can't trust yourself to be there for yourself you'll end up seeking that elsewhere. Your actions towards yourself will wire your brain to perceive you as just as worthy as you show it you are. Remember that the next time you accept mistreatment.
Expand your social life. Instead of trying to find a special someone to validate your existence it's better to first have a variety of humans to share fulfilling experiences with. Not everyone is for everything and that's okay. Learn to spread your social reality to different things with different people.
Force yourself out of the shame cycle. Shame and embarrassment are the biggest killers to all of your flow. Once you catch your self-shaming patterns you can start unlearning and accepting a new path of thinking, directing yourself to openness towards the world where attraction can show up.
Date multiple people. Dating multiple people at the same time will teach you not to put all your eggs in one basket. You can choose to date just for gaining experience, this will take the pressure off and you don't have to worry about the outcome because you know you're doing it just to gain better social skills and train your charm. Practice is important and often overlooked. You shouldn't date for a relationship until you feel total indifference and you're ready to walk away.
Stay busy & grateful. A busy person with a fulfilling life is a person that doesn't live from a place of need. Once you start needing you approach life from a place of lack. Instead of this mindset try saying you 'prefer'. You'd prefer a certain lifestyle which guides your choices. But you're already contented for what you have. - No one wants people in their lives who drain their energy sources, we want people who add value. This shift in mindset will change your energy noticeably as you switch from tensity to peace. You'll have charisma that radiates self assurance that will convince everyone that you are of value because you recognize your own value. And they will react & treat you accordingly.
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glossrose · 9 months
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My Ideal Woman (where I'm going)
(Inspired by @soie-lux)
Physical - she eats healthy, nourishing, and satisfying meals - she is aware of how much she is eating, and she avoids over-indulgence - she makes time for some sort of exercise most days - she carries herself well, with good posture - she keeps up with her daily skin and hair care routines - she dresses nicely
Intelligence - she reads both for knowledge and for pleasure - she is aware of current events - she takes time to continuously learn about topics that she is interested in
Emotional - she is in touch with her emotions and expresses them healthily, rather than keeping everything in and allowing them to become overwhelming - she is sympathetic to others without taking on their emotions - she is positive, but she is realistic
Financial - she is vigilant about tracking her finances - she knows when to be stringent, but also makes allowances to spend on things that she enjoys - she is financially secure and makes her money work for her
Social - she prioritises her family - she has a small group of friends - she is a wonderful hostess
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letssweettalk · 1 year
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4 Red Flag Lovers To Avoid At All Costs
There might not be a clear-cut rule on how to pick the ultimate partner, but there are at least four types of lovers you should avoid like spoiled leftovers.
1. Unrefined Leader
“Women don’t know how to be submissive.” It may not be that women don’t know how to be submissive, but rather no woman feels safe enough to let him lead. To be submissive, you must be able to trust the person you submit to blindly. You’ll learn that this person is not as dependable as they believe they are, and while you may love to submit, their actions don’t allow you to rest in their guidance.
2. Humble Pie Server
“You think you’re too good.” Carefully watch out for lovers whose primary goal is to humble you. They always find a way to remind you the things that make you happy are out of reach. There is no shame in being “too good” for something that would otherwise make you feel small. These insecurities show up when you express your interest, dreams, or plans, and they seem unattainable to the person you are sharing them with.
3. Jealous Lover
“Congratulations…” Jealousy flows without borders and can show up in relationships through backhand compliments and anti-celebratory comments. You’ll find that in moments when you have accomplished something big or small, they drag their feet to show you support. If it isn’t congratulations, then it could be hating.
4. Alpha Male Regurgitator
“I’m an alpha male, so that won’t work.” Self-taught masculinity often begins in an unrefined and toxic atmosphere. If a man's masculinity is cultivated through youtube and social platform leaders, they are likely to digest these messages in an unhealthy manner. The most dangerous part of false alphas is they will suffocate the flame of the pure feminine.
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insiderfemme · 2 years
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You deserve to thrive in your femininity and be with a masculine man. A masculine man that plays his role, therefore giving you space to be in your feminine and live your ultimate soft life. Don’t settle! Real men are out there, just make sure to use this time to prepare and work on yourself so you can attract- not chase.
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blissfullyecho · 1 year
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activities, hobbies, and skills that nurture your femininity (pt. I)
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cooking (+ points for scratch cooking or farm-to-table)
baking (+ points for scratch baking)
quilting
embroidery
crocheting
knitting
card-making
scrapbooking
flower arrangements
reading/book club
dancing
pilates
yoga
interior design/decor
painting
playing an instrument— piano, flute, harp, violin, etc.
organizing
jewelry making
homemade garment making
fashion design
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theambitiouswoman · 1 year
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Inner beauty manifests in our outer beauty. You should spend as much time working on your inner self, as you do your looks.
Some feminine attitudes you can work on:
1. Happiness: when you’re happy with yourself you radiate positivity, joy and peace that is magnetic. You are a joy to be around because you make others feel good just by being around you.
2. Classiness: being classy is more than how we dress. It’s also about our attitude, our manners, how we speak and interact with others.
3. Kindness: being “nice” can be faked. Kindness cannot. Kindness comes from the heart, it’s warm, loving, caring, and compassionate attitude that comes from a person who isn’t lead by their ego.
4. Authenticity: authenticity means being the real you, unapologetically. being the real you without living for others or getting triggered and offended by others thoughts about you is the core of self confidence. People respect real confidence and can see through fakeness.
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The Power of Positive Self Talk.
Me: I wasn’t selected for the second round of interview.
Self-love: it’s okay, don’t bash yourself, there’s more to come.
Discipline: You can devote more time to interview practice.
Perseverance: you can apply again next year.
Courage: But have you reached out to an employee who works there?
Me: Not yet
Self-confidence: Then you should, I know you can do it.
Me: Look, I have done this before for other internships, they are usually too busy for a coffee chat.
Patience: But how many times though? Things don't just happen overnight.
Consistency: Patience is right, you just need to keep doing it regularly.
Optimism: You will get that internship eventually. if not there, then somewhere even better.
Motivation: Trust me, after a few interview practices and coffee chats you will be able to land an internship.
Part 2
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I’ve said it once and I’ll say it again, the man you choose is the life you choose. I’m so sick of this 50/50 conversation. I will not accept a life I do not deserve. Some things are simply traditional and shouldn’t be changed. A man paying for the date is the gentleman like thing to do. No if, ands or buts about it. Men who want you to pay 50/50 are lazy. Men have been paying for dates for generations and it’s something that shouldn’t change. I rather be single than be with a man who wants me to pay 50/50. There are men who will literally carry you up the stairs so you don’t have to walk, the type of man who wouldn’t think twice about splitting the bill. He would never want to do that. Only date men who are super into you not half into you. Take your time getting to know them and walk away from anything that doesn’t align with your standards and boundaries. Princess treatment only or leave me alone.
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theadhdhomemaker · 6 months
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Creating a Cozy and Chaotic Haven: Welcome to The ADHD Homemaker
Home is where the heart is, and as homemakers, we have the incredible privilege of shaping and nurturing that heart. Welcome to The ADHD Homemaker, your online guide to the art of homemaking. Whether you're a seasoned homemaker or just beginning your journey, you've found a welcoming space where we celebrate the magic of home.
The ADHD Homemaker isn't just a blog; it's a community of people who are passionate about learning more about homemaking and finding peace within the chaos of this crazy world. Here, we explore the many facets of homemaking, from organization and decor to cooking, cleaning, and everything in between.
I believe in the transformative power of homemaking. It's not just about keeping a tidy house; it's about cultivating a nurturing environment that reflects your personality and values. Homemaking is an art, a labor of love, and we're here to help you embrace it with enthusiasm.
This blog is your resource for all things homemaking, offering a wealth of ideas, advice, and inspiration. In the upcoming posts, we'll dive deep into various aspects of homemaking, including:
Home Decor: Discover tips and tricks for decorating your living spaces to reflect your style and create an inviting ambiance.
Cooking and Recipes: Explore delicious recipes, cooking techniques, and meal planning ideas for all skill levels.
Organization and Cleaning: Learn how to keep your home tidy and efficient, making daily life smoother and more enjoyable.
DIY Projects: Get creative with DIY projects and crafts to add a personal touch to your home.
Homemaking is a labor of love, and it's even more rewarding when shared with a like-minded community. We encourage you to share your insights, ask questions, and engage with us and fellow homemakers. Together, we can make the journey of homemaking more enjoyable and fulfilling.
I am thrilled to have you join me on this homemaking adventure. Together, we'll find joy in everyday life, create spaces that envelop us with comfort, and turn our houses into homes filled with love. Stay tuned for our upcoming posts, and let's embark on this journey of homemaking and heartwarming together.
Thank you for becoming a part of our homemaking family!
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