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kingess · 2 years

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How to love bomb a male

Tangible steps to manipulate men by love bombing them

Love bombing a male is nowhere near as simple as it is a girl, as women often desire an established partnership and oftentimes a family from way earlier ages than men. Men don't come with social expiration dates nor have societal pressure for love, so love bombing them requires deep drilling into their unhealed desires and actual passions. Do understand that mens first and primary goal with you will always be sex. That's the first thing in their mind even if they do want something more as well. Don't let this discourage you to manipulate them past it & override it.

Listen to his life goals and derive knowledge about what need he's trying to fill with that goal or what wound he's trying to patch.

Your job is to be a dopamine rush, learn those things that make him light up with positive emotions and talk about them in different forms.

Make him visualize those things that light him up by telling stories of what you two could do. Does he want to build a house? Talk about tasks you both could do. Does he want to travel Europe? Make up specific imageries of places you two could go to or even talk about yourself as an individual in this fantasy he's just sneakily placed into. Once you plant these images they're like short films he watched and affect him accordingly. Those imageries will activate in his brain when he faces triggers of his dreams & you're right on his mind.

Make him feel special by remembering his favorites and giving him compliments based on his insecurities. If he's been made feel stupid, compliment his intellect, if he feels less accomplished than others make sure to make him feel extraordinarily talented and adept. This will make him feel like you see and know him like no one else does, "the real him", even though it's just his delusional ego stroked through his coping mechanisms.

Try to be genuine with compliments. Identify qualities that are important to him & use them. And never forget to discard him and take it all away from him just when he's started to trust your love.

And hey, Happy hunting babes

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kissmethroughthebone · 2 months

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I don't leave my house for anything that wouldn't give me more bliss than I would have back at home.

I stay in my zone, relax and enjoy my own presence.

I provide my own joy, my own peace, and my own freedom and sense of self. I don't need the validation of others to thrive.

I love to make delicious homecooked meals, for me, myself, and I. The taste of savory rice, exquisitely juicy meat, and fresh cooked veggies always makes me melt. It's so euphoric.

People know to treat me to exactly I deserve, since I give myself nothing less.

I only allow the wealthiest and generous men in my presence, and they cover all things when I leave outside. They give me money just for showing up, since I know my worth is priceless.

I get free gifts from men just to leave my house for them. Plants, gift cards, flowers, money, gemstones. All of it is mine, with a smile on their face!

I get everything I believe I am worthy of, no matter what.

Men pay attention to what I like, and they provide me with everything I love so much, since they love me as well.

I am worth everything I desire and more, and I get everything I desire and more.

I never leave my house for anything not better than what I can do for myself, ever.

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cochellacoco · 1 year

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After constantly feeling the urge to bark back at negativity, being loud in order to be heard, having a bad attitude to get the attention I was lacking, always having to have the last irrelevant words to feel complete, & people pleasing my way into a hole of despair: I am done. I am done stressing about anything, why should I when I can just let it all go, move on & do the things that make me content & allow me to rest in my soft femininity🧘🏽‍♀️

I want to remind you that having the last words aren’t worth your time, being loud to be seen isn’t worth your softness, having a bad attitude isn’t worth your image, & people pleasing isn’t worth your dignity. 🧚🏽‍♀️

#traditional femininity #soft feminine #soft black women #soft life #soft moodboard #levelling up #pretty privilege #hypergamous #hypergamy #femininity #black femininity #level up #pretty #heaux tips #spoiled heaux #luxury heaux #high value woman

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giselleseraphin · 1 year

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Becoming soft spoken affirmations

I am soft spoken

I have a delicate voice

My tone is soft & sweet

People fawn over me even more once I speak

My voice is highly feminine

Now practice saying these phrases in your most feminine natural voice whilst looking in the mirror.

“Oh really? I think that’s actually quite fascinating!”

“I appreciate your offer, but no thank you. Have a lovely day!”

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swingingbaby · 1 year

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HE APOLOGIZED

So I woke up this morning to get ready for school and i find a text message from him

This just shows that if you ignore a man for long enough he’ll come running back.

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playboyearrings · 1 year

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#jennifer check #jennifers body #needy lesnicki #megan fox #spoiled heaux #cosplay #i am god #female manipulator #succubi #self improvement #the feminine urge #luxury heaux

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scorpioluvvr · 1 month

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#high maintenance #femininity #luxury lifestyle #level up #self love #spoiled girlfriend #that girl #hypergamous #spoiled heaux #black girl aesthetic

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idkgoogleit · 2 years

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#luxury heaux #luxe aesthetic #luxury #moodygrams

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bbltheque · 2 years

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#hypergamous #hypergamyblr #spoiled girlfriend #hypergamy #spoiled heaux #femininity #level up #black women in luxury #the feminine urge #that girl #black woman femininity #levelling up

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themiumiubarbie · 1 year

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YouTubers I recommend watching 🎀

ModernGurlz

Chanel Richie

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Elicia Goguen

Kelly Stamps

Tea Renee

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shin

Love Your Natural

adelala

Fernanda Ramirez

Karine Alourde

#that girl aesthetic #youtube #feminine energy #pink pilates princess #luxury lifestyle #leveling up #that girl #femininity #high society heaux #themiumiubarbie

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kingess · 2 years

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Could you share tips on how to focus on myself and be more attractive? thanks 🖤

I got you.

How to detach and become more Attractive

If you feel anxiety or codependent tendencies with your close connections you likely have deep rooted issues with low self worth, so let's get you started with some tangible basics.

Cleanse your mental diet. Stop watching and engaging with media that romantizises sadness and heartache. Stop listening to music that validates the victim mentality. Instead be very mindful of your consumption and start creating playlists with music that only focuses on feeling yourself and high vibe energy. The lyrics you listen to are the affirmations you program your mind with. Make your Spotify recommend music that aligns with your desired self, train those algorithms. Remain intentional.

Talk to yourself nicely. How you talk about yourself inside your head determines your entire self concept. You create who you are, so when you catch yourself scolding yourself, snap out of it and remind yourself that you're a queen deserving of respect.

Practice self care religiously. Normalize rest as productivity. Make loads of time to take care of your health and looks. Take time to refine your style, scent, hair, makeup, elegance, etiquette. by doing these things for yourself you teach your brain that you are someone worth putting effort in for. Which you are, you are your number one fan, don't you ever try to find someone else to take that place or you'll be giving all of your power in someone else's hands.

Keep your own promises. Same goes with showing yourself that you're a trustworthy person. If you can't trust yourself to be there for yourself you'll end up seeking that elsewhere. Your actions towards yourself will wire your brain to perceive you as just as worthy as you show it you are. Remember that the next time you accept mistreatment.

Expand your social life. Instead of trying to find a special someone to validate your existence it's better to first have a variety of humans to share fulfilling experiences with. Not everyone is for everything and that's okay. Learn to spread your social reality to different things with different people.

Force yourself out of the shame cycle. Shame and embarrassment are the biggest killers to all of your flow. Once you catch your self-shaming patterns you can start unlearning and accepting a new path of thinking, directing yourself to openness towards the world where attraction can show up.

Date multiple people. Dating multiple people at the same time will teach you not to put all your eggs in one basket. You can choose to date just for gaining experience, this will take the pressure off and you don't have to worry about the outcome because you know you're doing it just to gain better social skills and train your charm. Practice is important and often overlooked. You shouldn't date for a relationship until you feel total indifference and you're ready to walk away.

Stay busy & grateful. A busy person with a fulfilling life is a person that doesn't live from a place of need. Once you start needing you approach life from a place of lack. Instead of this mindset try saying you 'prefer'. You'd prefer a certain lifestyle which guides your choices. But you're already contented for what you have. - No one wants people in their lives who drain their energy sources, we want people who add value. This shift in mindset will change your energy noticeably as you switch from tensity to peace. You'll have charisma that radiates self assurance that will convince everyone that you are of value because you recognize your own value. And they will react & treat you accordingly.

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haruharuz · 2 years

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Subtle ways to change how people view you:

Lean in slightly to appear more interested in the conversation

Speak slower and softer if you wish to seem like a dream / at peace

Keep your bag organized, when you reach to grab things out of it you’ll seem more put together if there’s little to no struggle to find things

Using a fragrance oil on your wrist and under your ears will seem more Sophisticated than spraying yourself with perfume

Read poetry, keep a select few favorites in your mind. When people ask what you enjoy, say poetry and provide an example. You’ll appear more emotionally intelligent

If you’re going to fake smile, move the muscles under your eyes so that your cheeks raises enough to halfway squint. It seems more genuine that way.

Walk with your head up everywhere. And I mean everywhere.

Stop messing with your little imperfections only you notice. There’s no need to straighten your shirt, rub your hand down your pants etc. Leave it be and you will appear more confident.

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cochellacoco · 1 year

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#soft feminine #hypergamy #hypergamous #hyper feminine #level up #high maintenance #sugar heaux #high value woman #spoiled heaux #luxury heaux #heaux tips #high society heaux #hypergamous heaux

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giselleseraphin · 4 months

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☁️ The burn inside when you feel they’ve gotten away with hurting you, the way they burned pain inside of you and walked away untouched. You wanna make them feel the pain they’ve made you feel. You want a taste of that sweet vengeance. I know you’ve felt it.

The rage. Well I’m here to tell you, you must let it go. Free yourself from the chains they’ve confined you to. Find outlets for that rage, scream, break something (not valuable) let it rage, but don’t let them see. Don’t let them see your pain. It could take days, weeks, or months, but it will pass: it always passes. Don’t let that rage burn through your field of lilies, put it in the sky & turn it into the sun that nourishes your land. 🌷

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kissmethroughthebone · 6 months

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I am high end.

I am elegant.

I am special.

I am so much unlike the others that there is no such thing as comparing me to anyone else.

I am loved.

I am artwork.

I am pleasing; to myself, and to others. But always myself. First and foremost. I never have to work hard to please others, since my natural energy draws them to want to please me first, and never the other way around.

But I am naturally caring, beautiful, and thoughtful. So I love to help with ease.

My value is seen and recognized so easily.

I am so blessed and abundant, always. God bless and amen. Thank you!

#black sugar baby #sugar heaux #goals #hypergamous black women #black women in luxury #spoiled black women #level up #black women in leisure #feminine energy #lovely

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scorpioluvvr · 6 months

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#femininity #high maintenance #level up #self love #hypergamous #luxury lifestyle #spoiled heaux #that girl #black girl aesthetic #spoiled girlfriend

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