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theambitiouswoman · 1 year
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Inner beauty manifests in our outer beauty. You should spend as much time working on your inner self, as you do your looks.
Some feminine attitudes you can work on:
1. Happiness: when you’re happy with yourself you radiate positivity, joy and peace that is magnetic. You are a joy to be around because you make others feel good just by being around you.
2. Classiness: being classy is more than how we dress. It’s also about our attitude, our manners, how we speak and interact with others.
3. Kindness: being “nice” can be faked. Kindness cannot. Kindness comes from the heart, it’s warm, loving, caring, and compassionate attitude that comes from a person who isn’t lead by their ego.
4. Authenticity: authenticity means being the real you, unapologetically. being the real you without living for others or getting triggered and offended by others thoughts about you is the core of self confidence. People respect real confidence and can see through fakeness.
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bootobeneficiary · 8 months
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Mood of the Board: Calling on God
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exquisiteelifee · 7 months
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Traits of a high value woman
1. She loves and respects herself
2. She embraces her femininity
3. She knows her worth
4. Shes sexually confident
5. Shes happy on her own
6. She has strong self esteem
7. Shes self sufficient
8. She has her own life
9. She has high standards
10. Shes kind
11. Shes emotionally intelligent and stable
12. Shes committed to personal growth
13. She knows how to set healthy boundaries
14. She's self aware
15. She knows how to keep her expectations in check
16. She takes care of herself
17. She embraces her vulnerability
18. She's comfortable expressing herself
19. She doesn't chase men
20. She understands her purpose in life
21. She dresses well
22. She’s educated
23. She gets money
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I Challenge You To..
Be as delusional as possible for a week.
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Take 2 selfies a day. You need to be very self aware of your beauty and pretty privilege. Do not wait 5-10 years and see how it’s like to feel average.
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If you only drink water when you brush your teeth, begin drinking at least 1 bottle of water (16.9 oz) every 2 hours. Water changes your mentality and enforces self-discipline.
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Literally embody your feminine archetype. If you’re worried you’ll be seen as an attention seeker because your archetype or femininity is trending on social media, GET OFF OF SOCIAL MEDIA AND SMELL THE ROSES.
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Grandiose displays of femininity have ALWAYS been around but we now have pictures and audios within arm’s reach! Wear that outfit you’ve been staring at, hang up a woven teabag full of Epsom salt, orange zest and rose petals on your shower faucet, wear the lipstick that’s been sitting on your counter and speak the language you’ve been practicing for years in public!
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Remove self-limiting beliefs and restrictions. You are the blueprint, a sex symbol and inspirational. You don’t need permission to wear what you want and to act emboldened because they’ll copy you anyways. Some people will sell their souls for your voice intonations, skin color and hair.
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Pause overthinking. Referring back to displays of femininity, do not waste your time, sanity or money watering down what could happen if you take up space in a room or envision yourself as a desirable goddess.
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View your self esteem as a trophy behind glass in a vault. No one can intrude unless they have your fingerprint.
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chichiscloset · 19 days
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WHAT IS THIS SEASON OF LIFE TRYING TO TEACH YOU?
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When you’re in pursuit of the life of your dreams along the journey there will be many seasons. Some seasons will be triumphant and you’ll feel like anything is possible, while others will be so difficult you’ll be unsure how you’re even going to make it through this season of life.
I want you ladies to remember, and as a reminder to myself as well, that the only constant in life is change. When change comes are you able to withstand the turbulence of life while remaining faithful and focused? And when things are great can you show gratitude for all that you prayed for and received?
“To whom much is given, much will be required”
I love that quote! It’s a reminder that if you want a lot you have to go through a lot. The best things in life are found through effort and experience. I know the “soft life” has convinced us all that being a “bad bitch” is enough to achieve the life of your dreams. However, in reality, that’s not all it takes! The life of your dreams doesn’t just appear! It is a treasure, and like a treasure, a hunt is required because you only find what you seek!
God/the universe, whatever you believe in, is always guiding you to become your best self. Let life mold into what you need to become, so that you can receive the desires of your heart. There is a lesson to learn in every season, and it’s your job to have enough wisdom to let life be your teacher.
At the end of the day, as much as we all want to, there is no avoiding the process or the discomfort that different season bring. If you are not already born into money you’re going to have to figure out how to get everything you dream of. Which means, you’ll have to go through some thangs!
How to embrace each session if your life?
I. PRAY
Pray, pray, pray.
Seriously! Without getting too religious, prayer works! Plenty of the darkest seasons of my life required a crap ton of prayer to get through the days. You have to remember nothing is happening to you, and everything is happening for you. You are where you are because that’s where you’re supposed to be. Trust that God has a plan, and it’s more beautiful than anything you could imagine.
Pray for guidance, pray for clarity, and pray for wisdom. Prayer has a way of providing calm in the midst of a storm.
II. SLOW DOWN
Take a moment to reflect on everything that lead you to where you are today.
Realize that some days will be productive, while others will feel like you aren’t doing hardly enough. We are all human, and growth is never linear. If you’re always moving and doing it’s hard to hear your intuition. It’s ok to slow down and listen to what the universe is trying to tell you.
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III.FIND A NEW PART OF YOU TO EXPLORE
As humans we’re always evolving. We change the way we dress, the activities we enjoy, who/how we like to spend our time, and everything in between.
As you enter a new season of being take the time to reflect on what’s changing about yourself. Is it a change you like? Are you regressing? Take the time to explore and get to know this new version of yourself. Be curious without being judgemental.
IV. PRACTICE GRATITUDE
Practicing gratitude is the quickest way to call more good into your life. By being thankful for the good things in your life, no matter how big or small they may be it allows you to focus on the positive aspects of your life and acknowledge the good things that have come your way.
Some ways to practice gratitude include keeping a gratitude journal and expressing gratitude to others, taking time to appreciate nature, and focusing on the present moment. By practicing gratitude regularly, you can improve your overall well-being and increase your happiness, and better weather any season in your life.
Ultimately, accepting the changes and transitions that come with different stages of life, whether they be joyful or challenging. It means acknowledging that life is a journey with ups and downs, and learning to appreciate each moment for what it is. By embracing the seasons of life, we can grow, learn, and become more resilient individuals.
Until we talk again ❤️
Chichi
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decadencediary · 4 months
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Just a reminder that: You Can.
You can do whatever you put your mind to. Do you have good ideas ? Great now put in the work. Your results aren’t aligning with your plans? Pray about it & get back to the drawing board. Struggling between the girl you are and the women you want to become? MOVE LIKE SHE WOULD FROM NOW ON.
You Can.
You Can.
You will.
So work towards it. everyday. No matter the length of the labor you put into that day, the effort you put into reshaping your mind and focus will soon put you in the rooms you’ve once dreamed of…
Don't give up on YOURSELF
I promise you will become HER.
Join our sisterhood for guidance, motivation & support!
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— The Black Feminine Society 💋
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hajar-diamond · 5 months
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Stop breaking your feminine standards, being authentic pays off.
If you don't like swearing/cussing, don't.
If you like elegant and beautiful clothing , wear it.
If you don't like to wear street wear, don't wear it.
If you don't like vulgarity, don't engage.
If you like to read books read, and don't be ashamed.
Vice versa for everything as well. It's common for some to follow negative influences. If you stick around those people longer than 3 months, you might turn into a totally different person. Everything you didn't want to be.
Don't lower standards, don't belittle your likes and dislikes, keep your standards, say no, or simply don't engage further.
Be who YOU want to be as a feminine woman. We all want to fit in, but don't fit in at your own expense. ✨
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daughterofcainnnn · 2 months
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I deserve to be spoiled and treated like a princess! 🎀
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wickedxvixen · 8 months
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theambitiouswoman · 1 year
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Resting in your feminine means:
💗 Having self control.
💗 Having standards and setting boundaries.
💗 Building your financial literacy.
💗 Seeking help even when you can do it yourself.
💗 Trusting that all of your needs are met.
💗 Maintaining hobbies and habits that make you your best self because you know you deserve it.
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bootobeneficiary · 2 years
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Three Big Girl Investments I’m Asking Him For
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The girls in the femininity/hypergamous courses wouldn’t tell you what I would for FREE! Take notes and like ❤️ to save for later.
Disclaimer: I am not asking for anything I am not financially prepared to invest in myself if I am told “no”. These are all “Hoe” appropriate asks for the man I don’t want to marry but he’s cool for this chapter. These are all advanced asks and not suggested for anyone to use as reference if you are not educated nor prepared to do so.
A Gas Station/EV Charging Station
We are transitioning into tech based times and major car companies are producing electric vehicles which indeed need charging. Road trips for work, relocation or vacation isn’t going anywhere anytime soon.
I bet you wish you owned a gas station when the prices went up earlier this year. Gas prices in the 90’s were like $1 and NOW WE ARE AT SIX DOLLARS A FUCKING GALLON!
MY IDEA: A location right off a highway and preferably not surrounded by a chain of gas stations. I also want to be accessible for truckers whether it’s day or nighttime.
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Male Dominated Business
A cigar lounge. A barbershop. A sports bar. One of the wisest things I’ve been advised as a woman is to invest in a male dominated business. Men who grow their hair need shape-ups, so I cannot wait to begin construction on a barbershop. Men are die hard loyal to their favorite pubs and sports bars (especially if their team is in the playoffs) so I want to profit off of that and have no shame.
Most strip clubs, bikini bars and burlesque clubs are owned by men. I want to flip the script for my personal satisfaction (and profit).
MY IDEA: I prefer to get my feet wet with a barbershop in order to gain hands on insight on the male consumer since the barbershop is where men vent and bond. I would secure a location in a neighborhood where I can secure enough black barbers both male and female.
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A Franchise
At first I wasn’t interested in owning any franchise, however when I did further research I figured out how I plan on maximizing my investment. People are more willing to purchase something when they’re waiting for their flight/bus/train so I’m going to go that route.
MY IDEA: Maybe a Dunkin/Subway in a bus/train station. Amtrak isn’t going anywhere until we can teleport so I want to capitalize off of folks who want a coffee while waiting for their delayed train. I know someone pocketed big bucks off of me!!!
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Egg Freezing (bonus)
This one is suggested for anyone who intends to become a mother. This costs around 10,000-20K according to this source with an average storage fee of $800 a year. I’m thinking long term and I want to pass on investments to my children. Even if you insist on not being a parent, you may want to save them just in case on someone else’s dime. Nothing against those who do not desire children because I commend anyone responsible enough to opt out of a responsibility they know they do not want. That’s smart.
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Hope this inspired you in the slightest! Happy healing 🕯🧿
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exquisiteelifee · 5 months
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Ways To Heal Financial Trauma
1. Talk about it, pray to God for guidance
2. Write a forgiveness letter
3. Educate Yourself
4. Create financial goals & write down your money visions (S.M.A.R.T goals)
Also, just remember money is out here, heal the blockages that are causing your ability to receive.
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10 Pretty Privilege Affirmations FORCED
My beauty brings men to tears every nanosecond
My desirability increases by 10,000% increments at the universe’s speed
I am a show-stopper at every place I visit every nanosecond
My confidence is increasing in magnetism at the universe’s speed
My pretty privilege makes me money every nanosecond
I am immune to low quality experiences every nanosecond
My walk brings traffic to a standstill
I am so stunning, I naturally have a spotlight every nanosecond
I am immune to time wasters every nanosecond
My pretty privilege is opening every door I desire at the universe’s speed
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kingess · 2 years
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Could you share tips on how to focus on myself and be more attractive? thanks 🖤
I got you.
How to detach and become more Attractive
If you feel anxiety or codependent tendencies with your close connections you likely have deep rooted issues with low self worth, so let's get you started with some tangible basics.
Cleanse your mental diet. Stop watching and engaging with media that romantizises sadness and heartache. Stop listening to music that validates the victim mentality. Instead be very mindful of your consumption and start creating playlists with music that only focuses on feeling yourself and high vibe energy. The lyrics you listen to are the affirmations you program your mind with. Make your Spotify recommend music that aligns with your desired self, train those algorithms. Remain intentional.
Talk to yourself nicely. How you talk about yourself inside your head determines your entire self concept. You create who you are, so when you catch yourself scolding yourself, snap out of it and remind yourself that you're a queen deserving of respect.
Practice self care religiously. Normalize rest as productivity. Make loads of time to take care of your health and looks. Take time to refine your style, scent, hair, makeup, elegance, etiquette. by doing these things for yourself you teach your brain that you are someone worth putting effort in for. Which you are, you are your number one fan, don't you ever try to find someone else to take that place or you'll be giving all of your power in someone else's hands.
Keep your own promises. Same goes with showing yourself that you're a trustworthy person. If you can't trust yourself to be there for yourself you'll end up seeking that elsewhere. Your actions towards yourself will wire your brain to perceive you as just as worthy as you show it you are. Remember that the next time you accept mistreatment.
Expand your social life. Instead of trying to find a special someone to validate your existence it's better to first have a variety of humans to share fulfilling experiences with. Not everyone is for everything and that's okay. Learn to spread your social reality to different things with different people.
Force yourself out of the shame cycle. Shame and embarrassment are the biggest killers to all of your flow. Once you catch your self-shaming patterns you can start unlearning and accepting a new path of thinking, directing yourself to openness towards the world where attraction can show up.
Date multiple people. Dating multiple people at the same time will teach you not to put all your eggs in one basket. You can choose to date just for gaining experience, this will take the pressure off and you don't have to worry about the outcome because you know you're doing it just to gain better social skills and train your charm. Practice is important and often overlooked. You shouldn't date for a relationship until you feel total indifference and you're ready to walk away.
Stay busy & grateful. A busy person with a fulfilling life is a person that doesn't live from a place of need. Once you start needing you approach life from a place of lack. Instead of this mindset try saying you 'prefer'. You'd prefer a certain lifestyle which guides your choices. But you're already contented for what you have. - No one wants people in their lives who drain their energy sources, we want people who add value. This shift in mindset will change your energy noticeably as you switch from tensity to peace. You'll have charisma that radiates self assurance that will convince everyone that you are of value because you recognize your own value. And they will react & treat you accordingly.
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decadencediary · 4 months
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**a manifestation board of being with a man who adores you, the ground you walk on and takes pride in providing for you**
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