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Art gallery opening and dinner

@veryiman

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Stopped by one of my favorite restaurants in Atlanta and ordered to-go. The ultimate take-out solo dinner from Delbar Atlanta.

My Delbar Favorites

Apps: Omani Shrimp, Mushroom Hummus, Dill Labneh

Greens & Grains: Sabzi Polo, Kale Salad

Meats: Joojeh Kabob, Koobideh Kabob, Seabass

Sauce: Try them all, but my favorite is the Garlic Toum

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#delbar #middle eastern food #black girls in luxury #soft life #black femininity #high value woman #misstravel #buckhead atlanta

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Dubai, Five Palm Jumeirah @veryiman

#black girls in luxury #black femininity #dubai travel #five palm jumeirah #black girl aesthetic #luxury aesthetic #misstravel #hypergamy #high value goddess #high value dating

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4 Red Flag Lovers To Avoid At All Costs

There might not be a clear-cut rule on how to pick the ultimate partner, but there are at least four types of lovers you should avoid like spoiled leftovers.

1. Unrefined Leader

“Women don’t know how to be submissive.” It may not be that women don’t know how to be submissive, but rather no woman feels safe enough to let him lead. To be submissive, you must be able to trust the person you submit to blindly. You’ll learn that this person is not as dependable as they believe they are, and while you may love to submit, their actions don’t allow you to rest in their guidance.

2. Humble Pie Server

“You think you’re too good.” Carefully watch out for lovers whose primary goal is to humble you. They always find a way to remind you the things that make you happy are out of reach. There is no shame in being “too good” for something that would otherwise make you feel small. These insecurities show up when you express your interest, dreams, or plans, and they seem unattainable to the person you are sharing them with.

3. Jealous Lover

“Congratulations…” Jealousy flows without borders and can show up in relationships through backhand compliments and anti-celebratory comments. You’ll find that in moments when you have accomplished something big or small, they drag their feet to show you support. If it isn’t congratulations, then it could be hating.

4. Alpha Male Regurgitator

“I’m an alpha male, so that won’t work.” Self-taught masculinity often begins in an unrefined and toxic atmosphere. If a man's masculinity is cultivated through youtube and social platform leaders, they are likely to digest these messages in an unhealthy manner. The most dangerous part of false alphas is they will suffocate the flame of the pure feminine.

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The Art Of Flirtation + 7 Magical Tips

Flirtation requires equal parts charm and charisma, a bit of self-awareness, and a sprinkle of audacity. I am a HUGE, natural flirt. I am what you call an equal-opportunity flirt. I’ll flirt with straight guys, straight girls, gaybies, gay girls, and old ladies, and it is to no particular end other than making myself and others feel good. Flirtation is majorly viewed as a form of communicating sexual interest. However, by digging deeper, you uncover how it can be a disarming social tool and a mechanism that can create harmony and opportunity.

Tip #1:

Good flirting comes from a “feel good” space that you have already created within. The better you feel, the more this “feel good” energy translates to others. It is a natural radiance that is naturally flirtatious! This is why I always encourage our readers to cultivate this radiance before their dates. It will make the date experience that much better.

Read the other 6 tips on www.letssweettalk.com

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3 Reasons Why Hypergamy Is Life-Changing

Hypergamy is not a new concept. In fact, It’s quite ancient. Socially and economically, hypergamy is the act of “marrying up” or marrying someone from a class or caste superior to your own. It is a historical phenomenon that has existed since the idea of class was conceived in the late 1800s. Evolutionarily though, it is an even older concept. It has always been in the female’s best interest to mate with a male who could help her produce offspring most likely to survive.

Hypergamy Inspires Masculinity — Due to the nature of hypergamy, it naturally calls for a masculine and feminine space, each allowing the other to exist in a complementary way due to the Law of Polarity.

Hypergamy Teaches You Soft Power — Also known as persuasion, attraction, or influence. Although it is typically associated with politics, it is an essential skill to have in your arsenal. We live in a world that is dominated by hard power (punishments and rewards). Hard power, by nature, is masculine. We (femmes), will never win a game where we do not make the rules. So, what must we do? We must change the game completely.

Without Hypergamy, The Odds Aren’t In Your Favor — What do I mean by this? Well, babe, it’s no secret that men benefit the most from marriage. When men marry women, they gain years onto their lives, while the women (who stay married) typically lose years. Unfair, isn’t it? Well, I say, you might as well marry someone who will provide your desired lifestyle while securing a future for your offspring. Read the full article at www.letssweettalk.com, and don't forget to comment ❤️.

#soft power #hypergamy #divine femininity #dark feminine #sacred feminine #persuasion #marry wealthy #high value dating #high value woman

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Establishing Traditions: A Lost Feminine Art

When the household you grew up in lacked key components like connection, structure, or support, you may feel like you’re lacking something other people inherently have. Even if your home culture was sound, it could’ve been interrupted by health or economic issues. Either way, you are all grown up now, and whether you’re intentional about it or not, you’re developing your own home culture. Whether you’re single, partnered, or parenting, the responsibility of cultivating connection, structure, or support is on your shoulders. In many ways, traditions are a lost feminine art. From making things with your hands to hosting loved ones. The Key Components Of Establishing Traditions

Intention: Set your intention for each tradition in your life. Be deliberate about why you’re doing them. How do you want to feel during the tradition? What will this tradition bring to the lives of you and those participating?

Comfort: As you plan your traditions, implement all five senses to create a robust and memorable experience for all participating.

Personal: Consider what you love doing or want to try, then implement! Feeling obligated is a femininity killer. Your traditions will only last if they hold significance to you and your people, so do not do them simply because you “should.”

Enjoyable: Keep things light and fun as you plan and participate in your traditions. Embrace imperfection because if things don’t go to plan, you can make adjustments as you go or the next time the tradition comes around.

Continue reading the article on www.letssweettalk.com

#femininity #light feminine #lost feminine art #black feminity #self love #self improvement #sacred feminine #divine female #femininity journey #femininity tips #soft life #high value woman #elegant #elegant woman #hyperfemininity #hypergamy

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Is the feminine art of establishing traditions dead?

Is tradition building a dead feminine art? If your family never established traditions, you could be the first. Read for the keys to establishing traditions in your life.

https://letssweettalk.com/2022/12/23/establishing-traditions-a-lost-feminine-art/

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letssweettalk · 2 years

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Best Tapas in Atlanta 🥘 (Thank me later)

Iberian Pig

Cooks & Soldiers

Barcelona

Bulla Gastrobar

The video is starring Iberian Pig Buckhead

#atlantafood #atlantalxury #Atlanta luxury #Atlanta women #femininity blog #level up blog #level up 2022

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The Dark Feminine: A Reintroduction

Interested in the dark Feminine? It has likely manifested within you before. Read our latest article for a grand reintroduction into your divine shadow.

https://letssweettalk.com/2022/07/19/the-dark-feminine-a-reintroduction/

Movie Clip: Kama Sutra: A Tale Of Love Starring Indira Varma

#dark feminine #dark femininity #shadow work #divine femininity #manifesation #high value woman #black femininity

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Glad I found this blog!

I’m so glad too 🫂 — I post most on Instagram, but I’ll start using Tumblr more regularly as well. The community on this platform is easily a favorite.

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letssweettalk · 2 years

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30 Level Up Lessons I Learned

1. Be mindful of the length of your fingernails. I know I mentioned long nails fit my nails better, but your nails should not be kissing your palms and poking everything and everybody. Keep your nails trimmed to a manageable length if yours grow like weeds.

2. You’ll gain “the stare”. When I was at a steakhouse, I looked at this man I knew didn’t respect this 20-something girl’s worth. He looked through my soul because I knew what they were doing and he was being extremely cheap with her making her eat at the bar when she wanted a table. The Stare makes cheap men feel uncomfortable and angry.

3. You’ll learn what mannerisms you’ll need for the “job”. Practice your tools at home so trial and error doesn’t nab you in behind. Your tiny purse goes in both of your hands when you’re worried instead of rubbing your temples like a man.

Bursting into tears in trivial situations will have an unintended effect like a man putting his wallet back and pulling his phone out for you to call home or a friend.

4. It’s acceptable to be neutral in your attitude. Being all smiles can get you taken advantage of and hurt.

5. There’s ALWAYS bigger fish out there. Don’t compromise on exercising, dieting or practicing your makeup. A lazy eyeshadow can bar you from having your brunch covered. Clothes fitting you weirdly will cause a man to choose another woman to surprise with a fulfilled bill. Be the biggest and best around. Don’t SLACK on your appearance!

6. Don’t be too fast to correct him. If I would’ve been quick to correct, I would’ve spent a lot of money on surprise expenses because I emasculated him.

7. On the way, you’ll learn how to tailor your femininity around women. I’ve mentioned before my feminine demeanor unravels around older (albeit miserable) women.

8. Find smaller targets to practice on. Small doesn’t equal bad or you’re unattractive. It’s as exciting to have your milkshake covered as it is your shopping trip! Hint: Invest in a signature makeup look whenever your intention is shopping. There ARE men out there who look for pretty women to pay for.

9. Appear 2-3 years older than you are when you’ve just entered adulthood. It makes you appear mature and like you know what you want. Don’t look at yourself as a juvenile or confused girl.

10. It’s not your job to make others comfortable with your appearance. Don’t leave the house looking homely because you don’t want to intimidate people.

11. You can look expensive for cheap. Beauty supply beauty can look expensive with lots of alterations. Most of the products aren’t bad, just underrated. I’m not going to pad it, you’ll need a palette mixer and a very good moisturizer to make these shades look good because they are BASIC. I’d allocate a part of my budget and a day or 2 for beauty supply shopping. You’ll find so many gems.

12. It’s not his business how affordable your makeup or outfit was. Your NYX is Nars and your beauty supply makeup is Mac.

13. Average is boring. Average is predictable and shows a lack of preparation. Average means you’re complacent with yourself.

14. You’ll know how to respond to time wasters. I blocked a guy for texting me too early about himself.

15. Learning how to be delicate is difficult. This was a huge issue for me coming from a masculine background when being delicate meant weakness and sacrificing something.

16. Snatch your body before it’s developed into maturity. For most of my followers, your body is most likely changing before your eyes. Not having an exercise regimen can make or break your transformation. Literally, don’t allow your new hips to give away you’re unhealthy.

17. Your real name is not your name in public. I would not use a variant of my name either. Your phone name is your alter ego’s name. He’s not your doctor, roommate, friend or parent. Learn how to not acknowledge someone who recognizes you.

18. You’re whoever you want to be in your element. A socialite, glamorous beauty, girly girl, goth princess, etc. who wears all of the hats in her style.

19. You HAVE to find the standards of a higher class appearance so you won’t be overlooked. What may look appear wealthy in your community may make you invisible in higher end communities. I’ve felt so invisible in affluent areas due to this. The higher class look will equate to more success for you in your own community because men who’ll cover you respect that.

20. Ignore bitter girls. If they’re being aggressive to you in public, find a way to get out of their way as soon as possible.

21. Focus on getting 1 hairstyle right if others look messy on you. 1 is better than nothing or until you get the others right.

22. Wearing wigs doesn’t mean your own hair texture is undesirable. A year into my journey was when I bought my 1st lace front wig. I struggled with telling myself that a wig is a protective style and not a measure of self-hatred.

23. Learn at your pace. I’m grateful I stopped myself before I tried free-styling. The glitz and glam is a lot of fun, until you’re still at square 1 acting the same way you did, only dressed up.

24. Your experience improves with age. I have to educate myself about expensive living and work 3 times as hard to be taken seriously.

25. Etiquette is as important as your appearance. You can look like a luxury queen, and exude being his buddy when you burp without saying anything or scratch your back.

26. Invoke your fantasy aura at all times. You’re not an average woman. Men look for you through matchmakers, spiritual guides and wishes.

27. Your low self esteem can be your demise. It’s not quirky to go out and accept anything thrown at you. Your esteem dictates your outfits, attitude, lifestyle and mindset.

28. You’ll unfollow a lot of your influences becoming more feminine. You’ll discover how your influences feel about you in their music, when they’re angry or under pressure.

29. Resting is very important. Going to bed before midnight doesn’t mean you have no social life, it’s your safety net for your life and mind.

30. You’re saving your life. You’re saving yourself from what your family suffered and what you would’ve suffered. Remember to appreciate all you’ve done.

Be Luxury, Live Luxury.

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letssweettalk · 2 years

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At first I hated femininty. Not because I’m unfeminine, but because it always felt so rigid! All the channels I’d watch or posts I’d read would tell me to squash “habits” that are big parts of who I am or to fit a certain mold.

I’m naturally politically inclined, outspoken, firm, opinionated, and competitive as hell! I’m not a nurturer, in fact I’m still on the fence about motherhood...mostly leaning toward no. With that being said I felt like femininty had no place for a woman like me.

I was VERY wrong. I’m learning how to use all of those traits and marry them with my feminine aura that’s already in me to be the most badass sophisticated, seductive goal getter. So if you’re a headstrong girl like me you’ve got it in you and don’t be deterred from the journey!

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letssweettalk · 2 years

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