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intersexfairy · 1 year

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alright im gonna give it a shot, but not steal the other person's question.

Intersex people only. Dyads please boost <3

[plain text: Intersex people only. Dyads please boost <3 ]

if you respond to this and aren't intersex, you're being intersexist.

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xxstrawberrybunxx · 1 year

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happy valentine’s day to all loveless and heartless aros!

happy valentine’s day to alloaros!

happy valentine’s day to loving aros!

happy valentine’s day to love or romance repulsed, neutral, and favorable aros!

happy valentine’s day to unlovable aros (hey)

happy candy day to aromantic who might feel left out and alienated today, and happy candy day to aromantic folks who enjoy valentine’s day (like myself) despite maybe not experiencing “love” in the same way as others. happy candy to aros who date their friends, aros who only have sexual relationships, and happy candy day to nonpartnering and partnering-adverse aros!

also, happy valentine’s day to folks who are otherwise “love-atypical”. aroace folks (oriented and not), aplatonic folks, objectum folks, polyam and polyaffectionate folks. you’re all super epic!!

and no matter if you love or hate this holiday, happy 50% off chocolate and flowers day in advanced! of course.

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ace-aro-queerplatonic-positivity · 7 months

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The Multiamory Podcast did an Episode (Ep.438) discussing the intersection of polyamory and aromanticism.

Explicitly polyamorous/ polyaffectionate aromantics, not asexuals!

You are all welcome to chip in/ add on through reblogs and tags and commentary!

The relevant Facebook announcement got shared into a group I happen to be in and as I commented, thanking the person for sharing it seeing as the group wasn’t aro-related at all, I got politely asked to explain how polyamory works for me as an aromantic asexual.

Keep in mind this explanation was targeted for an audience/ readership of allo-allo polyamorous people.

Also: CONTENT WARNING ⚠️

Internalised acephobia, self-depreciation, implication of sexualised abuse, mention of faithfulness

So the first thing I always say is that: disclaimer – obviously I can only talk about my personal perspective and aromantic people are very diverse, asexual people are very diverse

I just happen to be an asexual aromantic, whereas many aromantics are allosexual (meaning any sexual orientation that isn’t asexuality); seeing as this post is explicitly about the intersection of aromanticism and polyamory

I personally want a queerplatonic/ alterous life partner

That’s my personal wish, I want someone to share my life with

I consider myself polyaffectionate, seeing as I’m not “amorous” in any way shape or form

To me this means a few things

1) I practice relationship anarchy – I do not place a romantic relationship on some arbitrary pedestal, every relationship is important to me and that relationship looking like romance doesn’t mean much

For the other things I need to explain about myself first

I am a sex-averse asexual. I have had sex. I didn’t like it. I am generally sex-positive but I don’t necessarily want/ seek sex as part of any committed relationship; rather I’d avoid sex

(This following bit is self-depreciation but) Because of that I think I shouldn’t “tie down” any partner. Someone willing to be with me shouldn’t suffer for it and hence I don’t see a point in being possessive/ demanding sexual faithfulness – although the details would need to depend on the partner(s) and situation

Also due to me not making a grave distinction between “best friend” and “date friend” I just think it’s easier to call myself polyaffectionate since relationships involving me need thorough explanation anyway

I have explored through writing* what I’d like for myself and that basically always ends up that I’d like to be comfortable “sharing” my partner with pre-determined other people

I would only agree to a closed polycule, although I don’t need to be involved with everyone in it

Also I always hoped if I get that, if I get to have a queerplatonic polycule, it could be a found family and support network more than dating in the classical sense

Again, keep in mind all of this is just my personal perspective and I don’t speak for other aromantic people or other asexual people

Many asexuals are fine with/ want sex

Some aromantics are non-partnering/ would only practice solo-poly

My ideal relationship would be having one or two partners I live with, who are my family, who I can cuddle or leave to their own devices, basically a house share and we each cuddle and kiss each other as we please 🙈

—The thing is I’m aware I probably talk like someone who doesn’t value themself enough

Like, if I believed I could be enough for a partner my whole stance would be slightly different

But I have not yet made the experience that what I can offer (a sexless, queerplatonic commitment) is enough for people

I’m fully aware that mindset isn’t healthy but until someone proves I can be enough for them, well… “outsourcing” sex is easier than worrying

And if it’s a genuine relationship I’m happy for them, in any case

I wholeheartedly mean that I’d like a closed polycule and would be comfortable as described

But I also acknowledge that part of it comes from feeling inadequate/ not wanting to hold back the person(s) I love

I just know I can’t provide what – to many people – is a need

And since I know I can love more than one person at the same time I think getting to be with someone who also has other partners is my best chance… if that makes sense

As I said, I write a lot and with my latest novel-attempt* I think I found the relationship model I’d be comfortable with 🙈

* I have indeed written multiple fan fictions as well as original fiction about a self-insert character navigating relationships as I would like them to play out (setting aside the overarching plot of the individual fiction works) but seeing as I’m a pro-shipper and actually do have a writing side-blog, I don’t feel all that comfortable to just straight-up link my own writing here. Due to the here relevant works all featuring central relationships with a self-insert character, these works are also deeply personal. More so than other ship fiction I have written. I have linked these works on here before - as part of “#queerplatonic fiction” lists - but never really put “my name” (this blog’s URL) directly to them

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matadorofheart · 5 months

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i saw a video abt how queer infighting has to stop and they mentioned polyamory and for a blissful moment i thought someone was actually advocating for polyam people for once and commenting on how generally shitty the rest of the queer community can be to them

but no, they just started whining about polyam ppl forcing their lifestyle™ on them 😌 of course 😌

#hey guys why the fuck is it socially acceptable to say “stop being mean to your fellow queers” and then just #shit on polyam people in the same breath #why are mono/allo people convinced that polyam/aspec people are all holier than thou trying to force our ideology on them #it's like a defense mechanism god forbid we threaten your precious amatonormativity by doing things a little differently #also i don't say it a lot bc people get mad but yeah i do think polyamory is inherently queer lol #i'm not gonna force labels on people obv #but it is a queer way to do your relationships whether it's an orientation or a choice #and polyam people are oppressed in many ways and do not have the same legal rights as monogamous people that's just a fact #🤷#SO STOP CLOWNING ON THEM ITS NOT PUNK #ness talks #vent //

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j45p32-jpg · 1 year

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More hd flags pt 1

I can only attach 30 files per post so im splitting this into 2 posts

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rolaplayor101 · 2 years

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DNI queerphobes/proshippers

Some more of these for Devotion, cause..Sora's definitely got it @polyamships ; had to pull the ol' Mike Wazowski on Goofs

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kaplisbelial · 2 years

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ooohhhhhh....men♡

#dumbassery #lgbtq+#lgbt+#lgbt #queer #arospec #oriented aroace #ace #mlm #mlnb #nblm #nblnb #t4t #t4t nblm #t4t nblnb #t4t mlm #polyam #polyamourous #polyamorous #polyamory #poly

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awnfox · 6 months

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I am absolutely weak for ships with the trope the grumpy sinnamon roll is soft for the actual ray of sunshine cinnamon roll

so naturally my current otps are ineffable husbands (Aziraphale / Crowley) and Wenclair (Wednesday Addams / Enid Sinclair)

#spoiler: I am in fact the grumpy party dating two rays of sunshine and I love that for us.#seriously though people should rec me more series with ships like these they are SO important to me.#any combo of this dynamic works for me. I will take polyam and qpp grumpy/sunshine dynamic suggestions too!#I just need to see their potential chemistry; I'm not picky about gender/sex/orientation/whether or not the ship is ever canon.#( only exception being that I will not change a character's explicitly stated on-screen identity to force a ship. )#( if their identity is left ambiguous then any ship within reason is fair game. )

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rjalker · 1 year

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Genderqueer, pan, and polyamorous flag :)

You can download the HD version here from the web archive:

"https://archive.org/details/genderqueer-pan-polyamorous"

[ID: A pride flag with nine horizontal stripes of dark blue, lavender purple, bubblegum pink, red, white, yellow, leaf green, medium blue, and black. End ID.]

Anyone can use this flag for anything you want, no credit needed, though if you post it online, Please include an image description! You can even copy and paste the one above! Don't exclude disabled people from Pride!

#pride flags #described images #accessible pride flags #accessible MOGAI #MOGAI #Queer #LGBT #Pride #Genderqueer #Pan #Panromantic #Pansexual #Pan-oriented #Polyam #Polyamorous #combination pride flags #eyestrain #eye-strain #eye strain

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fucknugg3t · 2 years

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ok but what if I had a qpr bf 👀

#Queerplatonic #gay #mlm #oriented aroace #bi #Transmasc #Plz?#polyam

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slightlyreanimatedchaos · 2 years

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Ugh I hate having such a complex relationship with my sexuality because I don't see anyone like me. There's barely any polyamorous rep as is. And then there's pretty much no aro ace rep, let alone sex/romo positive aro ace people!

Sometime I just want to go back to saying I'm bisexual again but that erases so much of my identity :/ and the way a relationship would ideally look to me is impacted by my identity pretty heavily because my partner(s) would have to be okay with the fact that I will never be attracted to them in those ways and it may or may not affect relationship dynamics. I don't know.

And that's on being (polyamorous) bi oriented aro ace ✌️✨🥲

#gay #lgbtq #lgbt representation #polyamarous #polyam tag #asexual #aromantic #aroace #bi oriented aroace

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thequeerbookish · 1 year

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Review: How to Love a Dragon by Lila Mina

Okay, how can I tell you how much I enjoyed book two of the Dragon Tamer series without giving away too much? It seems impossible since its the little things I love so much!

Has Lila Mina’s “How to Love a Dragon”, which is book 2 of her new paranormal queer romance series met my expectations? Quick InfoHow to Love a Dragon Title: How to Love a Dragon Author: Lila Mina Series: Dragon Tamers, book 2 Genre: paranormal romance Content Warnings: none Diversity: POC, older characters Rating: 5/5 Stars BlurbHow to Love a Dragon Book 2 of the Dragon Tamer series. A…

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#author: Lila Mina #diversity: poc #gender: genderfluid #genre: paranormal #genre: romance #How to Love a Dragon #orientation: polyam*#Pairing: f/f #pairing: f/f/f #pairing: m/f #rating: 5 #series: Dragon Tamer #theme: entities #theme: gods #theme: mythology #type: book reviews

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itsoktocallmegay · 1 year

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Ambiamflux flag that I made based of of an alt Ambiamorous flag. (Ambiamorous+Amoryflux)

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the-delta-quadrant · 3 months

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<2 loveless aros 🫀 allo aros 💚 greyros 💚 straight/hetero aros 💚 intersex aros 💚 Black aros 💚 lovequeer aros 💚 aroaces 💚 disabled aros 💚 indigenous aros 💚 demiros 💚 mspec aros 💚 transgender aros 💚 unit aros 💚 polyam aros 💚 aros of colour 💚 fat aros 💚 gay aros 💚 nonbinary aros 💚 nonamorous aros 💚 oriented aros 💚 greyrospecs 💚 aplatonic aros 💚 aros of all kinds 💚 deserve respect, acceptance, appreciation, care, love, whatever feels most comfortable 💚

#aro #aromantic #aro positivity #aro week #arospec

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privitivium · 5 months

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masterlist, rules

minors, ageless blogs do not interact with me i'll throw up, thanks ㅡ i'm into JJBA [1-7 accurately], demon slayer, chainsaw man, and golden kamuy - please ask if i will write for a certain fandom before requesting a character not in any of the fandoms listed

anons: *⚰️ *:3 *💌 *🌙 *🍸 *⚔️ *<3 *🦊 *🎹

i will not write;; anything sexually food related LOL, fem reader nor fem characters x reader, scat, vore, feet, character ships, anything along the lines of eggs................

i will only write subbot/top male reader, domtop/bot male reader, subbot/top ftm reader, domtop/bot ftm reader, feminine male reader or wtv

same goes for characters ^^ ;, sub amab character, dom amab character, sub ftm character, dom ftm character, feminine male/ftm characters. ie; ftm mista / ftm kars / or merely just a ftm/feminine original character WHATEVER IT IS!

i will write polyam between characters + reader if requested but not on my own volition ie; established couple x insert,,

m!character x reader x m!character!!

yandere, stalking, obsession, overall creep ;; anything along those lines.

cnc, free use, consensual somnophilia, dubcon/noncon, kidnapping, feminization, dumbification, daddy kink (giving/receiving), breeding, BDSM, lactation, A/O/B - corruption, i'm open to suggestions :3

dni;;! minors, homophobes - transphobes. racists - bigots, - any discrimination against any genders, sexual orientation, religion, race / ethnicity

masterlist - !

this is not all of it, i am aware. will soon make a seperate post with other navigation!!

vaguely himbos!!

guy w/ small weiner;; bullying him,,

himbo guy w the cold ramble..

yandere "himbo" trying to comfort you; janey;

yandere w glasses;; perceived as a himbo;

intimidating, stoic yandere;; rambles, ur roommate who jerks off while ur in the room:

Delinquent Yan!

delinquent yan;; w himbo reader

masochist delinquent ;;

masochistic delinquent w himbo reader

delinquent/loser rambles;

afab dombots...!!!

afab creep yan;; kasen;

afab dombot;; ivette, who kidnaps you:

afab dombot workhusband:

PLAYBOY!

ㅡplayer gets owned;;

^^player ramble;; of reader whos disgusted by player!;

amab playboy w small dick;;

yan playboy:

playboy w small weiner;;

GAMER!!

ㅡyan gamer;;

yan streamer;;

streamer ramble;;

streamer yan, jerking off;;

"feminine" characters;;

ㅡfem amab;; sampson

sampson being creepy

clingy desperate subbot; silene:

freeuse crossdresser;; with jerk reader

ㅡfeminine amab whore w amab knight;

p2;; saving fem amab whore

ㅡafab incubus w angel reader,

afab incubus p2!

teacher, professor!!

teacher w student;;

teacher w student;; degrading him in his chair...

needy prof;; jerking him off while degrading,

pathetic prof with reader, jealousy;;

miscellaneous?!

soft reader w crybaby bitch

jerking off horny horror movie guy;;

amab subbot nerd w jock reader;;

domtop bully w subbot loner;;

ㅡcrybaby dude who jerks off into ur hoodie ramble

ghost yan;;!!

loser yan;;!!

fem dombot x soft subtop;; shh, first post shh..

yan god w worshiper;;

creep nurse/doctor;; rambles,

bossy yan gangster ;;

ㅡgangster rambles;;

dilf / old man. hoorayy!;;;

subbot old man;;

yan dilf;;

sub dilf w teacher reader;;

clueless subbot dilf w "angsty" reader -

motherly yan;;

first motherly yan; rambling -

motherly yan rambles - roommates??

motherly yan rambles - jealous

suckin his tit ramble;;

mother jerking off ur sleepy boner

breast suffocation as “punishment”

mother yan oral ;;

breeding mother yan;; HOORAYY_!!!

motherly spanking…

overstimming mother yan;;

indulging/punishing bratty reader;;

jerking you off in the shower;;

slapping motherlys ass;; LOL

valentines w motherly;;

alpha motherly w omega ;;

hiding from mother whilst in heat;;

domtop mother yan; you fucking up dishwasher;;

motherly special ingredient;;

fatherly yan;;

bratty subbot fatherly;;

sub fatherly yan;;

motherly + fatherly:;;

horny ass reader;;

lactation;;

ㅡlactation p2;

being sucked off w face ridden; motherly + fatherly.

motherly + fatherly giving you a show;;

spanking motherly + fatherly ;;

sandwiched inbetween!!;; fucking into motherly whilst being fucked into

kimetsu no yaiba;;

amab enmu w highermoon reader ;;

domtop sanemi shinazugawa;;

subbot sanemi shinazugawa;;

rengoku kyojuro rambles;;

rengoku kyojuro w househusband;;

subbot/top douma hcs!

chainsaw man;;

subtop denji w feminine reader;;

angel devil w devil lover hcs;;

aki + denji nsfw hcs;;

kishibe w househusband

jojo's bizarre adventures;;

afab dio w werewolf reader;;

yandere subtop risotto;

yandere ghiaccio;;

jealous yan prosciutto;;

team bucciarati w niche hobby reader;;

prosciutto melone rambles;;

aphrodisiacs w johnny joestar;;

golden kamuy

subtop sugimoto saichi hcs;; i lvoe him so much

tanigaki genjirou;; bear.

#x male reader #dom male reader #male reader #top male reader #kimetsu no yaiba x male reader #kny x male reader #jjba x male reader #jojo's bizzare adventure x male reader #ocs x male reader #golden kamuy x male reader

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am-i-the-asshole-official · 3 months

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Aita for not making any of my characters, that I have to crank out daily, pansexual/polysexual/omnisexual specifically and only making them bi?

🏳️‍🌈👶🏼 so i can recognize this later lmao also I'm not panphobic or anything, this isn't about the validity of the label, pan is fine.

So i (20snb bi) have a project I'm working on where I take all the characters from a specifc media I'm into and pair them up with each other to make every possible ship kid from every possible ship(excluding characters who are kids themselves or are related or something, that shit is gross). Basically taking every character and pairing them up with another and creating a kid I think they'd have. Its a big project with lots of characters and I'm easily over 400 at this point. I really enjoy this, even if I'm not even 25% complete.

However I set a schedule for myself that at least one ship kid needs to come out each day which, considering I draw them, color them and give them some development and some even have siblings, (The refs themselves easily take me an hour to an hour and a half) I have to make lots of them quickly to keep up with my daily grind. I've been doing this project for over a year and although it's stressful, I can get them out quickly with breaks for myself.

Their character sheets all have some pretty basic info like their name, gender, pronouns, personality and more but it also includes their sexuality/orientation. I have a pretty basic list of options for what their sexuality will be: straight, lesbian, gay, Enbian, bi, Aro, ace and aroace with a few random things like polyam, WLW and a good amount of the something-loving-something/juvelic terms. I did this because, well, there's not many entirely unique orientations outside of them and although I love mogai/xenogenders and complex identities, I dont want to potentially drag up discourse or bring problems to my budding art blog over it. Its just not worth it to me to turn something I really care about on its head, even if I like microlabels.

In this case, I'm using bi as an umbrella term as most of the other terms share the same definition with slight variations in wording or action but not much difference in practice. We all like everyone, it's basic stuff. However, apparently this is a problem.

I've gotten one or two anons asking me questions about my guides asking some kind stuff like is this lesbian ship kid a butch or femme or Is this picture of them now or just at the age you put on the ref and other harmless stuff. Then things got rude with some Nbphobia but thrice now I've gotten asks:

1. Asking snarkily if im a panphobe

2. insulting me for not specifically writing pan or Omni and just writing bi.

3. Saying that I "clearly dont care about pansexual representation." Then brought up how my primary oc is native american so i clearly care about representation but that oc used to be a sona and I'm native?? Its confusing. (And Lowkey racist shit to just assume any native character is a "diversity quota" character instead of just a person existing but I digress-)

Im not pan, im bi so ig these people assume I'm not cool with pan people which isnt true? I have nothing aginest them, they are just pretty similar and I dont feel like it matters if they are specfically bi or pan or poly or any other label. I don't go into details like that for any other sub-group, not even pronouns and I included combinations and some common Neopronouns. I understand the importance of representation but my project has less than 50 people looking at it every day, Im not netflix or something. I'm one guy on the most LGBT blogging site with a big project and very little audience, I'm not showing people who wouldn't already know what pan is that pansexuality exists.

This project isn't that deep considering the characters in question aren't human/dont have human characteristics.(no it's not hazbin/helluva) Also ive never spoken about lgbt discourse or stated anything remotely close to it beyond the guides just passively having characters who are an LGBT identity. I've not even mentioned all the potentional orientations they could have so I'm not sure where/why this came up in the first place. The most politcial things ive said are calling out a creator in my fandom who outed themselves as a transphobe and mentioning im pro-palestine. That's it.

I mean this is pretty low stakes, I can just block these people and be done with it and this some seriously online shit but I just wanna check.

Am I being an asshole for just writing bi instead of specifying their mspec label because I have to produce characters quickly and I don't see enough of a difference to warrant a change/specification that would ultimately slow and clog an already stressful and complex project?

I dont think I am but idk lol

What are these acronyms?

#aita #am i the asshole

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