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itsoktocallmegay · 15 days
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Today’s Gender of the Day is: Anonbinary!
Anonbinary is a gender experience outside of male, female, and nonbinary and does not exist in relation to the binary at all. Many xenogenders fall under this category as well as terms like neutrois, aporagender, and maverique. It is a type of outherine gender.
This term is not to be confused with abinary, which is a gender experience outside of male, female, masculine, or feminine but is also not genderless. Anonbinary people can still be agender, feminine, or masculine.
Additionally, while anonbinary people can experience any type of attraction, there are several anonbinary orientation labels they may also use.
A similar identity would be exobinary.
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itsoktocallmegay · 15 days
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autistic anonbinary flag!
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Can you do an autiabinary flag?
Autiabinary + Autianonbinary!!
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Autiabinary is a neurogender in which one can only understand being abinary in the context of being autistic.
Autianonbinary is a neurogender in which one can only understand being anonbinary in the context of being autistic.
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itsoktocallmegay · 15 days
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Cisn't Woman Pride Flag
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Cisn't (non-cis): an umbrella term for anyone who is not cis*. It includes trans people, as well as other gender modalities, such as isogender, ipsogender, ultergender, exparium, utrinque, sensgender, adgender, and demitrans (sometimes demicis for some).
Usually, this includes binary trans women, and some non-binary women. However, there are other binaryn't women, such as intrafeminine, extrafeminine, translunar, isolunar, transfieldian, anonbinary, those with culturally specific genders that are not essentially nonbinary or binary, cis or trans, etc.
In the case of women who were AFAB (assigned female at birth), they can consider themselves as not cis due to being multigender or demigender, for example. They may or may not have xenogenders, neurogenders, or orientationgenders.
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itsoktocallmegay · 17 days
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Honestly BAFFLED that I was out on the internet as aro for almost three years and yet I learn about loveless aros just now. How could I not consider the possibility that some people don't even need or want platonic or familial or any other love, when the human experience is so endlessly vast and different?
Loveless aspecs, you are so valid and your experiences and voices are extremely important in the community, your takes on love and it's absence genuinely helped me broaden my views on this topic in general💚
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itsoktocallmegay · 17 days
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this is just a reminder that exorsexism and binarism are not to be used interchangeably. "binarism" seems like the intuitive term for bigotry against nonbinary people, but it is reserved for bigotry against cultural genders due to the gender binary being forced onto cultures by white european colonisers. all binarism is exorsexism, but not all exorsexism is binarism.
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itsoktocallmegay · 17 days
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Since author of he/him lesbian and she/her gay flags is anti-MOGAI and ace/aro exclusionist, I made another Flags which are aesthetically pleasing and very inclusive! Left is he/him lesbian and right is she/her gay! Anyone who is at least WLW/MLM can use it! A*spectrum WLW/MLM can use it too!
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itsoktocallmegay · 17 days
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Bigender Sapphillean
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Combo of bigender, sapphic, and achilliean.
Someone who is bigender and considers themself to be sapphic and achilliean.
(requested by anon)
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itsoktocallmegay · 17 days
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Queerian Pride Flag
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Queerian (QLQ): queer loving queer; one who celebrates queer love; queercentered relationship(s), between queer individuals (queership/s).
Based on this post from @wedontcareaboutyourbinary. Not the same as queerplatonic relationships (QPR). ~ ap
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itsoktocallmegay · 17 days
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Aporine/Aporaine Flag
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Aporainity, Aporanity or Aporinity: the ability of having attributes regarded as characteristic of aporagender/aingender or showing qualities associated with aporahood; an umbrella term for gender qualities (or essences) separate from masculine, feminine and anything in between (unlike androgynous) while still having a very strong and specific gendered quality. Similar to outherine, enbinine & abinary (abinine) but comgender (comgenine).
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itsoktocallmegay · 17 days
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↑ lgbtqia.wiki/wiki/Cupiroflux
cupiroflux flag I made before I rethought my identity, but it still looks nice but whatever.
it looks like cottage core
(flags I combined under the cut)
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Aroflux ↑
Cupioromantic ↓
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itsoktocallmegay · 22 days
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If you want to move forward in advocacy, you have to remove the stigma about not loving someone in any way, shape, or form. It doesn't mean you hate them, just... you don't love them. That binary of love/hate needs to be broken down for all types of love. This applies to aros and aces in relationships, yes, but goes double for aplatonics and afamilials who don't love their family or friends. Not loving someone isn't a condemnation of that person, it just means you don't feel that way about them. Lacking love doesn't mean you wish someone harm.
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itsoktocallmegay · 22 days
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"Friends dont look at friends that way" COWARD. I look at my friends with awe in my eyes, my chest is filled with love, im glowing because i get to be near my friends. I look at my friends and i would give them my everything. SO SKILL ISSUE, look at your friends with all the love that you have
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itsoktocallmegay · 22 days
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Dragon gaybian, unicorn gaybian, griffin gaybian
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; being a gaybian/lesgay who is connected to dragons in any way
; being a gaybian/lesgay who is connected to unicorns in any way
; being a gaybian who is connected to Griffin's in any way
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itsoktocallmegay · 22 days
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IMAGE IDS. 3 rectangular flags with 6 flags. The first flags stripes are, in order: dark purplish blue, purple, pink, light beige, light red,hot pink. The second flags stripes are, in order: dark purple, violet, light blueish purple, light pastel yellow, light orange, dark redish orange. The last flags stripes are, in order: Indigo, blue, turquoise, light pastel yellow. END OF IDS.
୨୧ • femme, futch, butch turigirl
︵︵︵︵︵︵★ ꒱ explanations :
୨୧ • flags for femme, futch, butch turigirls!
PT. femme, futch, butch turigirl. explanations. flags for femme, futch, butch turigirls. END OF PT.
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itsoktocallmegay · 22 days
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i know people on here are obsessed with saying boygirl and girlboy, but if you do that you need to be level-headed about multigender and intersex people. you have to accept that there are lesbians who are men and gays who are women. if you make jokes about being a girl who's a boy or talk about how much you love boys who are girls, but pull the whole "i'm a lesbian men dni," thing you completely failed and your #boygirl uwu card is revoked.
i don't know how to tell you that gays and lesbians are also involved in the whole "being a girl and a boy" thing, and yes, that includes lesbians who are/partially men and gays who are/partially women. cope. the lesbian, gay intersex, and trans communities are not about you. you can't profess your love for a group of people and then violently strip away their autonomy and ability to correctly identify themselves.
multigender people have the right to define what our relationships are and what our attraction is like. asserting that lesbians can NEVER be men and gays can NEVER be women is quite literally just re-creating the binary, again. you can't be fixated on creating a binary for terms and people that blatantly choose to step outside of it. stop shoving a square peg into a round hole.
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itsoktocallmegay · 23 days
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Both romantic and sexual types of attraction are neutral, they're neither virtuous nor harmful. There's nothing wrong with either experiencing any kind of attraction or not experiencing any kind of attraction.
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