One of my unfinished sketches that i paused for krell 😩

I'm like on fire when drawing krang one lesgo

What a lovely dream

But that what it’ll always be. A dream.

Close ups and stuff lmao

Writers be Like

At night, in bed, when inspiration strikes; frantically writing everything down in the notes app.

The next day, the notes app: Shex kdkilles the wilow andgets ksilesd then deis but not rellay bcsu she hads maigvcl

They're not toys.

The Death Tunnel of Waverly Hills Sanatorium | Ghost Files S01E01

You know what i would love to see in season 3? Another deleted/extended scene from season 1. Like the one of Erik giving Wille the snow globe, or a flashback of how the first kiss scene ended, for example. That would be so dope!!!

24.11.23

expectations vs reality: crow edition

expectation: I will feed my crow friends so over time, when I go outside and use my crow call, I will summon the crows to me and it will be the coolest most goth thing ever

reality: the crows land in my yard and summon me by screaming until I give them snacks

I've read this "what your favorite characters say about you" stuff and they always get me wrong

You're a fool if you think I am into this sadistic, possessive bitch, I am into the touch starved, yearning old man who hasn't emotionally connected with anyone in centuries and desperately needs it

Added Bonus:

In my mind, the INTJ x ENTP relationship is unmatched.

But then I meet them in real life and am not so sure.

The Dinner Date Marcy wanted...

...And the one that she got.

Expectations VS Reality

What's in my head as I write:

VS

What's on the google docs:

The forest was green and gloomy.

Expectations Vs. Reality

Expectations vs reality

World's most expensive Baja blast

@laughableillusions

Hi, how are you doing?

I have this trait or habit in my personality,that I'm friendly somehow: I smile whenever someone speaks to me, whenever they say a joke I laugh, I try to console people when there is need, i listen closely and help them. I've always wanted to end this because I hate myself when I do this even when people do me wrong but i still forgive them, why? cuz I feel bad for them and I wouldn't want that to happen to me(again). I treat people nicely even if they don't deserve that. Can you tell if there is something wrong with me and what I'm doing, please help me how to at least reduce this. I'm not a people pleaser,my goal of how i act is not to please them to get something from them later. Thank you

Hi love. I'm not a trained mental health professional or anything of the sort, but the behavior you're describing sounds more like fawning vs. a control-centric form of people-pleasing.

It sounds like you're (at least subconsciously) speaking to people with the expectation that they will treat you the way you treat them, especially if you're kind to them. You treat them in the way you expect to be treated (understandable and admirable!) but need to remember that people will often show you who they are, regardless of how kind you are to them. Be kind and give with no expectation of any positive responses or gestures in return (even if a "thank you" should be the bare minimum, some people just aren't kind).

Before saying or doing something for someone, ask yourself: Would I feel like I'm losing something or need a certain response in return to feel validated from this interaction? If I said or did "XYZ" thing, would I be doing this out of my own generosity or with an expectation of reciprocity or kindness from someone else?

As harsh as it might initially sound, eventually you learn that you need to put your own happiness first and only go out on a situational/emotional limb for someone when it is like a gift to yourself for your own peace of mind rather than a gift to them.

Hope this helps xx