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imactuallyreallycool · 29 days

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What a lovely dream

But that what it’ll always be. A dream.

Close ups and stuff lmao

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five-sided-dice · 6 months

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Writers be Like

At night, in bed, when inspiration strikes; frantically writing everything down in the notes app.

The next day, the notes app: Shex kdkilles the wilow andgets ksilesd then deis but not rellay bcsu she hads maigvcl

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unstatedmartini · 2 years

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They're not toys.

The Death Tunnel of Waverly Hills Sanatorium | Ghost Files S01E01

#ghost files #ryan bergara #shane madej #watcher #ghost files s01e01 #expectations vs reality #obSESSed with ryan's incredibly scientific new ghost hunting tools #jog king!#.mine

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tack-boris · 2 months

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You know what i would love to see in season 3? Another deleted/extended scene from season 1. Like the one of Erik giving Wille the snow globe, or a flashback of how the first kiss scene ended, for example. That would be so dope!!!

#i don't have expectations tho #young royals #wilmon #yrseason3 #flashbacks #expectations vs reality #let me dream

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theyoungwritersmind-aristanelson · 2 years

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#writer meme #writing jokes #writing humor #writing memes #expectations vs reality #novel meme #writer humor #relatable writing stuff #in my head vs on paper

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blmpff · 5 months

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24.11.23

#expectations vs reality #lol #nonkul chanon #thai actors #ifylita #i feel you linger in the air #cast #blmpff

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bonesandpoemsandflowers · 5 days

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expectations vs reality: crow edition

expectation: I will feed my crow friends so over time, when I go outside and use my crow call, I will summon the crows to me and it will be the coolest most goth thing ever

reality: the crows land in my yard and summon me by screaming until I give them snacks

#bird updates #corvid #expectations vs reality #about me #also the group of small polite gift giving crows was effectively run outta town #by the two BIG BOIS #one of whom is indeed Mister Yells at the Waitstaff #no gifts! more noise #tbh i love them and they eat SO much for their size i'm so impressed #the polite murder was very cool tho i hope they're alright #the gifts were always like. shards of broken glass and dead snails.#but carefully arranged so I would notice them!#anyway. different cultural norms.#v fascinating

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anni1600 · 2 years

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I've read this "what your favorite characters say about you" stuff and they always get me wrong

You're a fool if you think I am into this sadistic, possessive bitch, I am into the touch starved, yearning old man who hasn't emotionally connected with anyone in centuries and desperately needs it

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#obey me #digital art #obey me shall we date #obey me fanart #obey me one master to rule them all #lucifer #obey me lucifer fanart #obey me lucifer #om lucifer #expectations vs reality #fanon vs canon #sadistic bitch vs love starved man #Anni1600 art

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writingthroughthenight · 7 months

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In my mind, the INTJ x ENTP relationship is unmatched.

But then I meet them in real life and am not so sure.

#expectations vs reality #intj #entp #intj x entp #mbti #mbti ships #intj mbti #entp mbti #chaotic evil #chaotic good #chaotic neutral #in my head #thoughts #random thoughts

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ilovetvtoons · 1 year

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The Dinner Date Marcy wanted...

...And the one that she got.

#amphibia #marcy's journal spoilers #marcy's journal #amphibia spoilers #spoilers #marcy wu #anne boonchuy #sasha waybright #sashannarcy #sprig plantar #captain grime #what she wanted #what she got #expectations vs reality #at least she still got to compliment sasha's outfit #despite sprig

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oleatofarts · 8 days

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Expectations vs reality

#humor #humor blog #lol #memes #expectations vs reality #hello kitty #p

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five-sided-dice · 6 months

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Expectations VS Reality

What's in my head as I write:

VS

What's on the google docs:

The forest was green and gloomy.

#writing #creative writing #writerscommunity #writers on tumblr #writeblr #writers #writing community #relatable #expectations #reality #expectations vs reality #writer things #blog #life be like #female writers #writersociety #writersofinstagram #fic writing #logic

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pixlerelish · 4 months

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World's most expensive Baja blast

@laughableillusions

#expectations vs reality #Happy New Year #Happy New Year 2014 #The Ra One security guard would have let him get away with it #Pix's pics

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femmefatalevibe · 10 months

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Hi, how are you doing?

I have this trait or habit in my personality,that I'm friendly somehow: I smile whenever someone speaks to me, whenever they say a joke I laugh, I try to console people when there is need, i listen closely and help them. I've always wanted to end this because I hate myself when I do this even when people do me wrong but i still forgive them, why? cuz I feel bad for them and I wouldn't want that to happen to me(again). I treat people nicely even if they don't deserve that. Can you tell if there is something wrong with me and what I'm doing, please help me how to at least reduce this. I'm not a people pleaser,my goal of how i act is not to please them to get something from them later. Thank you

Hi love. I'm not a trained mental health professional or anything of the sort, but the behavior you're describing sounds more like fawning vs. a control-centric form of people-pleasing.

It sounds like you're (at least subconsciously) speaking to people with the expectation that they will treat you the way you treat them, especially if you're kind to them. You treat them in the way you expect to be treated (understandable and admirable!) but need to remember that people will often show you who they are, regardless of how kind you are to them. Be kind and give with no expectation of any positive responses or gestures in return (even if a "thank you" should be the bare minimum, some people just aren't kind).

Before saying or doing something for someone, ask yourself: Would I feel like I'm losing something or need a certain response in return to feel validated from this interaction? If I said or did "XYZ" thing, would I be doing this out of my own generosity or with an expectation of reciprocity or kindness from someone else?

As harsh as it might initially sound, eventually you learn that you need to put your own happiness first and only go out on a situational/emotional limb for someone when it is like a gift to yourself for your own peace of mind rather than a gift to them.

Hope this helps xx

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askagamedev · 10 months

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If two different games run on the same basic engine (ex: Source, UE4/5, Unity), how much does the “If it runs on the same engine, it can or should have features 1 and 2 as the other,” carry for post-release development games?

Those arguments don't really hold water at all. Games are more than just the sum of their parts. Making all of the pieces work together cohesively is a huge amount of work. Every game is a complex web of features and content. Any given feature is dependent on a bevy of other systems and features and any failures can easily cascade into catastrophe. One of my acquaintances works on the Call of Duty franchise - she told me that they often have difficulty porting features between the single and multiplayer versions of the game due to the way the technology is set up. It can take days of engineering and scripting to bring a feature from DMZ to regular multiplayer or another game mode.

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ashtheenby · 1 year

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What people think deity work is:

Me: I call upon the Gods once again, and sacrifice my soul!

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What it actually is:

Loki: You should get me a sucker

Me: Fine what flavor-

Loki: Cotton Candy!

Me: Okay, just give me a sec

Loki: COTTONCANDYCOTTONCANDYCOTTONCANDY

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Alternatively:

Hades: Go to bed

Me: No, I’m fine

Hades: Go to bed

Me: I’ll be okay

Hades: *Makes my key start sticking*

Me: Really?

Hades: Go to bed

#witchcraft #pagan #deity work #loki #loki is a candy gremlin #I have a cup of candy as his offerings #expectations vs reality

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