Be the oddity, be the peculiar, be strange & unusual.

* Tips are always appreciated as they help me keep working towards doing what I love 🖤 thank you all for any kind of support 🌹

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consider this a sign...

...to be kinder to yourself.

no matter what life has been so far, you deserve more kindness from yourself.

treat yourself gently. care for yourself. go easy on yourself. you're precious ✨

gentle reminder to fake it till you make it

pretend that you are much more important than you believe you are. act like you are worth more than you think you are. pretend that you already have the respect and admiration of everyone in the room and assume you are highly valued for your skills and personality.

you have the privilege of being able to decide who you are. simply just DECIDE you are who you want to be. the power is in your hands, and it's up to how YOU perceive yourself, not how others perceive you. it is not up to others to decide who you are. you decide and if you decide you are an extremely important person with very high standards and high goals, you automatically become it.

just act accordingly. it really is that easy.

I wasn't going to post a transition timeline just yet but I found this old photo of me and just had to share it 😂 also I'm fairly new to this site and everything that's been happening over the last few days is worrying to say the least, this site has been the most welcoming place I've been online since I came out (after reddit imploded and Twitter got worse and worse by the day) I hope the continued outcry from users of this site can at least undo some of the damage that's been done in just a few days in regards to trans users 💜🏳️‍⚧️ Im not going anywhere, I'm proud to be who I am and I'll continue to make a very public home for myself here despite the staff. Stay proud of yourselves, be loud, be proud, be yourself!

Be Yourself (1982)

Idk if there is anyone out there who needs to hear this but:

If you’re having issues with your gender, sexuality, or just identity in general… it’s ok. It’s okay to discover yourself, it’s okay to change, and it’s ok to be comfortable with who you are now. Everyone goes on their own journey at some point, you should embrace yours. If you ever worry it’s “just a phase”, that is okay. You are allowed to try new things and experiment, you are allowed to realize if what you thought about yourself wasn’t true. You are allowed to grow and you’re allowed to change.

From, An AroAce Agender person who thought they were a Straight Girl, A Gay Transmasc, A Bisexual Genderfaun, An Asexual Biromantic Demiboy, and many more.

Never be afraid to be yourself

Spectrum Sloth

"What the herd hates most is the one who thinks differently; It's not so much the opinion itself, but the boldness of wanting to think for yourself - an ability of which they themselves are not capable." Arthur Schopenhauer.