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Getting dumped by someone who has fallen out of love with you is better than living with someone who has fallen out of love with you
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echo-stimmingrose · 10 months
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I just made a post about the end of pride month. It's July now, so happy disability pride month to my fellow disabled people!
Friendly reminders to able bodied people
Don't tell disabled people how to refer to themselves
Listen to them when and how they refer to their disabilities
You don't need to know why someone is disabled
This includes if they have a service dog, you may ask what tasks the dog performs if you are a business owner. Not what disabilities they have.
Also, in the US there are no "service dog cards/papers"
It's illegal to refuse service to someone because of a disability
If you know someone who is disabled questions are fine as long as you are respectful. Some of us love to educate. (However some aren't things we like to talk about, be respond that)
Slurs are never acceptable if they don't apply to you (you wouldn't use a racial slur don't use one about disabilities either)
Don't make jokes based around disabled people stereotypes. It's not funny.
Not all disabilities are visible!
I know you mean well but you do not know what it feels like, please do not tell disabled people you do.
When we say we are tired and you are also tired, we do not mean the same thing.
Abilism isn't funny, it causes so much harm and discrimination please don't be abilist.
Reminders for my fellow disabled people
You are valid no matter what.
You are allowed to have good days and still be disabled.
You are allowed to have bad days and need extra help or more time to rest.
With that you are allowed to take days to rest.
You know your limits, please follow them and don't harm yourself.
You are not an inconvenience!
Please remember to take your meds, they are important
Don't stop taking your meds without consulting with a doctor (unless they are doing horrible things, even then please contact your provider)
Also doctors who don't listen suck, we've all been there and we feel you.
You are not faking for attention no matter how much your brain tells you that
Sometimes you can't always look on the bright side. It's okay to recognize the negative as long as you don't let that take over.
Asking for help is good and doesn't bother people. And if it does those aren't people you should have in your life.
If a mobility aid will help you then use whatever will help you
Your problems are "bad enough" and valid. Don't compare yourself to other people and if you need help then get it.
You do not need to be absolutely horrible to get help.
If your diagnosis came as relief that is perfectly fine, knowing there's a cause for your problem and now having ways to manage it is wonderful.
If your diagnosis did not come as a relief that is perfectly fine as well. It's terrifying and soul crushing sometimes getting diagnosed and realizing you're going to deal with this forever. You're not alone.
You know your body better than anyone else. Listen to yourself and what your body needs.
You got this, you aren't alone. Mental and physical disabilities suck but be proud of them.
You live with them everyday and you're still here, you're still fighting. You're so strong.
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verademialove · 6 months
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“Pain is the essence of life. It’s a living human’s fate to struggle and move forward in spite of that pain.”
Tomorrow (2022)
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mynameimpossible · 10 months
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Sei davvero guarito?
o stai solo cercando di non pensarci?
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x3nshit · 11 months
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people pleasers be like, "OH MY GOD IM SUCH A BAD PERSON. I SHOULD BE NICER TO PEOPLE. I DONT DESERVE LOVE. I'VE DONE TERRIBLE THINGS!" and all they did was tell the waiter that they got the wrong order.
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staticevent · 11 months
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(but only sometimes.)
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bloodyrosesnthorns · 10 months
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i want to drench my arms in blood but then i remember i have to hide them and i don’t even feel like it.
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sugarhai · 6 months
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you will figure this out, you will be ok
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luckypoppymilliemama · 10 months
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I am seriously so saddened to realize people have used my name and my cat to steal money from some of you. This is crazy, never, ever did I think that my Poppy would be used negatively.
Let’s give a little rundown of who we are. I’m Michelle, a 30-something year old married mama to 3 skin kittens, and 3 fuzzy kittens. One of my skin kittens is an adult, the other two are rapidly approaching attempting to leave the nest. I am disabled, physically and mentally which leads to emotionally, too. My fuzzy kittens help a lot with that.
2 summers ago, a friend texted me asking if I wanted a kitten. Of course I did. Then I found out she was a feral kitten that her mama had left behind because her one back leg was missing a foot, so she couldn’t climb and jump like the rest of the kittens were, and she was getting too heavy to carry in her mouth. That kitten now only have 3 legs, and is my Lucky baby.
Come early February of the next year, I saw on a friend’s aunts rescue site two of the most gorgeous little calico kittens I had ever seen. I claimed them before Valentine’s Day, even though I wouldn’t be able to get them until after Mother’s Day since they were slow to grow. They were attached at the hip, there was no way I could get one and not the other. Those were my Poppy girl and Millie moon.
That’s how I ended up with my fuzzy kittens. They are the best fuzzy kittens I have ever met. All 3 of them have a different job in calming me and my middle daughter down while in emotional crisis. Poppy is and has always been that calming rumble that you try to concentrate on instead of everything else that is happening. And it works more than anyone would believe.
Poppy is sick. My go fund me has all the explanations and updates you could ever need; I even have to add the email with the vet when she gets a chance to email back to me. I have endless pictures and videos to show she is my little love.
Please, if you can, share this post anywhere and everywhere, across all forms of social media. My follower numbers are so low, I’m surprised it’s not a negative number. I know a bunch of you got scammed, and I’m sorry. I really am. If I could make it better, I would.
Myself, I’ve even cut back some of my less essential but still needed medications so I have the money to get Poppy the treatment she deserves. I just need my baby girl to be better. It’s time sensitive because we honestly don’t know how much time she has left with her red blood cell count being in the low 10s percent wise (I think it was 13-14% last time, and it should be above 35). I am extremely transparent in what I show you all because if you are helping pay for it, I figure you have a right to see where the care is going and what it’s being used for.
We are trying to get the maximum amount of funding so we can get all the testing done because the liver and spleen are just as important as the bone marrow biopsy, but we will not look a gift horse in the mouth. Whatever we get it, it’s another cent that we didn’t have to scrounge around to find, another minute off the ever clicking clock.
Best ways to donate: to the hospital itself:
Philadelphia Animal Specialty and Emergency
Dial 267-727-3738, press 2, ask to place a credit on Poppy Riggs account, #FE22554C. All of this info is able to be found on the images in the gofundme.
The Gofundme. It is the *only* go fund me I have up. Anything else is a scam.
These account below are the only official ways to donate outside of the gofundme.
My email is listed below, and I am willing to answer any and all questions via email or on here, your choice.
Thank you so much for helping. It means everything to us.
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cherylmustdie · 5 months
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i am afraid to keep on living.
i am afraid to walk this world alone.
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apocalypticvalentines · 11 months
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I cringe at the idea of closeness to another individual, yet I equally crave it. 
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Questions I usually get asked about my ASPD usually are, but are not limited to:
”Did you torture animals as a child?” — Nope. That’s a stereotype. It’s similar to the stereotype of people with depression “doing it for attention.” ASPD is a spectrum, meaning that most of us don’t kill animals just for kicks and giggles. However, if someone have really bad ASPD, they may torture animals. It’s similar to the autism spectrum. Some people with autism function relatively normally, while others are non verbal.
“Do you manipulate people?” — Yeah. It’s part of the disorder, after all, and is something the media hides. The media likes to hide the manipulator’s perspective, which is completely reasonable sometimes, but it demonizes those with cluster B disorder. Whenever I manipulate people, it’s often subconscious. I never wake up in the morning and go “wow! What a fine day to go and manipulate some people!” It’s usually more like, “Hm, if I do ___ then ____ will do what I want.”
“So, you have no guilt or remorse?” — Not true. I do feel guilt, just on a very shallow level. If I do something wrong, I’ll feel guilty about it for a few hours at most then get over it.
“Do you cry?” — Yeah. I cry, but not like others do. I cry for short periods of time, 10-15 minutes at most.
“Do you think you’re better than other people?” — Sort of, in a way. It doesn’t apply to everyone, but I’ll sometimes see someone who isn’t very intelligent or very gullible and subconsciously think “Oh wow, that’s someone who is worse than me.” In short, I don’t think everyone is worse than me. Just some people.
If you have any questions, I’d love to answer them.
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your-queer-dad · 8 months
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Hi guys! I'm currently working on a research project to do with young people's mental health. I'm collecting data and listening to young people's experiences to get a informed opinion on young people's mental health and what we can do to help change that. All information is anonymous, but if you'd like to help out please fill out the survey with your own experiences
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rottinglittleprincess · 9 months
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he fucked up my mental health but i’d still kill for him
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loveisrootedinme · 7 months
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