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sadieshavingsex · 1 year

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I’m tired of healing I’m tired of waiting to heal I’m tired of researching what’s wrong with me I’m tired of feeling pathologized im tired of pathologizing myself im tired of not feeling safe im tired of overanalyzing everything im tired of not being able to make a decision im

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sex-repulsed-culture-is · 7 months

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Sex repulsed ace culture is hating when people use sex repulsed aces as a reason why kink shouldn’t be allowed at pride

(especially because most of those people don’t give a shit about aces and don’t think we should be at pride either)

-mod merlin

#anonymous #sex repulsed culture is #anticarnal culture is #sex repulsed #anticarnal #arcsexual #mod merlin

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leogoth21 · 1 month

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I think this is important to say but

If you post nsfw and hornyposting, that's fine. But please use nsfw and hornyposting as hashtags.

I filter those hashtags so that I have a warning before I see the complete post.

I often get posts like those without the hashtags on my feed and it makes me extremely uncomfortable.

I'm often very sex repulsed when it comes to other people (except my partner) or unexpected sexual stuff. This is something I can't do anything about.

The only thing I can do is avoid those posts but that isn't possible when I keep seeing them without warnings.

Please help some people like me out with simply hashtagging it.

#sex repulsed #ace #acespec #spreading awareness #arcsexual #asexual spectrum #sex repulsion

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aspecpridecalendar · 2 years

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Happy Pride to all ARCromantics and ARCsexuals!

(ID: Left: the ARCromantic flag. Five stripes, top to bottom: green, black, gray, white, and pink. Right: the ARCsexual flag. Diagonal stripes of red, black, dark blue, black, gray, black, red, black, gray, black, dark blue, black, and red. The central red stripe is widest.)

ARCromantic - Someone with averse, repulsed, or complicated feelings toward romance and romantic attraction. Used by but not exclusive to the aromantic community. May be used as its own identity or as an umbrella for those such as romance-averse, romance-repulsed, and so on.

ARCsexual - Someone with averse, repulsed, or complicated feelings toward sex and sexual attraction. Common among but not exclusive to the ace community. May be used as its own identity or as an umbrella for those such as discarnal (sex-averse), anticarnal (sex-repulsed), and so on.

#all the information is on ARCsexual with mentions of ARCromantic being far less as far as sources :/#arcromantic #arcsexual #aromantic spectrum #asexual spectrum #pride #pride month

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belinhagamer999 · 1 year

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ARCflux alternative flag!

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alexelierart · 6 months

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My Sona recoloured in diffriend colours

#cricket #art #dogitalart #gay men #arcsexual

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gloaming-sometimes · 2 years

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ARCflux flag remake !!

decided to remake the ARCflux flag because the original one didnt have any of the colors of other ARCsexual identities :P

#lgbtq #mogai #mogai posting #liom #liom flag #mogai blog #klyntarix coins #mogai orientation #mogai heaven #mogai identity #mogai label #liom orientation #liom community #flag coining #asexual #ARCsexual #ARCflux

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acore-ballt · 1 year

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ARCsexual

#ARCsexual #lgballt

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askanaroace · 1 year

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I feel sexual attraction to both men and women and masturbated on occasion but i hate the thought of having sex. It makes me sick. Is it possible i could be ace?

I would encourage you to look into sex repulsion. The terminology we created around this concept is ARCsexual, which stands for Averse, Repulsed, or Conflicted (here specifically around having sex). Both ace and allo folk can be sex-repulsed. ARCsexual is the term for either. Apothisexual is when you are specifically ace and sex-repulsed. In a similar vein, repulsexual was coined as a more specific identity than the openness of ARCsexual, where someone isn't necessarily ace but whose sexuality is defined by their repulsion. There is also orchidsexual, where one experiences attraction but doesn't wish to act on it (this may be due to repulsion but could be for a myriad of other reasons as well).

That said, I could very much understand if you related more to the asexual experience than the allosexual experience due to your repulsion. There is not a lot of room in the allosexual world for folk disgusted by sex. A reminder that on this blog, I fully support self-identification for whatever reasons you have. If you want to identify as ace for whatever reason (from it feeling most right to you to it being the best way to communicate your feelings to others), that's totally your right.

#sex repulsed #sex repulsion #arcsexual #repulsexual #apothisexual #asexual #ace spectrum #ask

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transfagfemme · 5 months

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Being an Adverse Repulsed Conflicted aspec is actually so isolating sometimes

#aspec #arcsexual #🐈

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sadieshavingsex · 1 year

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Revolutionary idea: forgive your past self for her decisions!

#mine #exvangelical #relationship anxiety #sexually repressed #purity culture #religious trauma #sex therapy #ex christian #ex fundie #acorsexual #eriscarnal #christian purity culture #ex fundamentalist #exchristian #anxious attachment #arcsexual #codependent #boundaries #AAAAAAAAAA YEAH

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sex-repulsed-culture-is · 9 months

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Sex repulsed culture is seeing conversations about the experience of being repulsed be constantly derailed by sex-positive people. As though their feelings are more important than those who are repulsed. Everyone needs to be respected, but it seems like repulsed people are always having to look out for the feelings of non-repulsed people while having their own feelings invalidated. There is no space to just freely be who we are.

-mod merlin

#anonymous #sex repulsed culture is #anticarnal culture is #sex repulsed #anticarnal #arcsexual #mod merlin

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ptsd-phoenix · 9 months

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