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introvertlifestyle · 8 months
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reviewinghiccup · 1 year
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BECOMING CHIEF || HTTYD MOVIES | BREAKING DOWN HICCUP (DEEP TALK)
Blog Post Title : Breaking Down Hiccup (Deep Talk)
Blog Post Series No.: #1
Title : How to Train Your Dragon 2
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Disclaimer: This isn't a full review on HTTYD 2 the movie.
Once again, Hiccup floating in the air, gliding through the skies on Toothless, seamlessly flying on invisible currents is cathartic. I just wish I could breathe air that clear and fresh. I wonder if some time away from everything will make it easier to make tough decisions.
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So far, I don't think I address the question on whether Hiccup wants to be chief. My reviews on Riders of Berk refer to the village's changing perspective of Hiccup and them taking to him as leader. I don't think I've discussed whether Hiccup wants the job. Besides, that question isn't material at the time and space ROB was just yet. Hiccup was still, a kid.
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In HTTYD 2, we know he doesn't want to be chief because he still feels lost. Incomplete. His thirst for adventure continues and he will harken to anything calling his name (apart from his dad). But Astrid's advice rings true. He has had so many missions, adventures, discoveries in ROB, DOB and RTTE but they did not quench or answer the inner call to "Who am I?"
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Even for us, sometimes wanderlust is just a distractions to the grand scheme of responsibilities we are suppose to take on to answer the question we keep asking.
Believing that being chief isn't innately him, is the very doubt that causes him to discount how much of a born leader he is.
"I was so afraid of becoming my dad, mostly because I never thought I could. How, how do you be someone that great, that brave, that selfless? I guess, you can only try," Hiccup says at his father's funeral.
Self-doubt is the thief of destiny. As such, even after his father's passing, Hiccup struggled to step into the role, to feel worthy of it, until Valka said that his father always knew he was going to be great.
"He always said you would become the strongest of them all and he was right. You have the heart of a chief and the soul of a dragon only you can bring our worlds together. That is who you are, son."
A CHIEF PROTECTS HIS OWN
You see. This may sound like news to Hiccup, but for those who have been following his story, he has always been brave and selfless. He protected Berk and his riders, diving to their rescue even at the expense of precious treasures.
Even to the extent of protecting day-to-day relationships. Like what he did for Snotlout at Thawfest, the encouragement he brings to Fishlegs, the validation he gives the Twins. Training dragons to live w Berkians. Defending Berkians. Saving anyone that needs saving. Helping anyone that needs help. Without question or quandary.
He thought that the answer to Who am I was out there, but it was in him all along. And when you are this blind to all your attributes, the only way to answer the all-asking question is by stepping out of your comfort zone.
He has always protected his own. It started w his undying loyalty to Toothless, protecting him from day one.
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I hate that Stoick's death had to happen, but it was that drastic nudge forcing Hiccup into the shoes he was always meant to fill.
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Parts of me feel like I understand Hiccup, 15-year-old Hiccup and 20-year-old Hiccup because I AM HICCUP. Sure, I don't have a village to run and no legacy to fulfil, but boy am I afraid to do something because I don't think I can.
This show just speaks to me because I hear that same internal struggle tugging at my heart. Where do I fit in this world of very definable squares?
But maybe that's the answer I need to hear. That to find it, I have to go towards it. And to believe, that "this destiny" was mine all along.
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starlonga · 6 months
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small town </3
big dreams
no hope
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birdybat · 2 years
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The reason I love Damian so much is because he’s so committed, loyal and passionate. I think that’s why he gets so hurt when people like Tim in the red robin run doubts him because he is truly loyal to Bruce and has never wavered from him. To him he has given up his life with his mother someone he was and is incredibly close with as a 10 year old and abandoned the life he had to prove him self over and over just to be doubted. DC vs Vampires is to me such a good comic because it really showcases how committed Damian really is.
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In this panel, to avenge Bruce, he hides a stake stabbed into his leg and slices his leg open to retrieve it shows just how far Damian will really go to commit. In other panels he pushes himself so hard to protect others and this is why hes an amazing character. On the surface, hes an arrogant, sassy teenage boy but on the inside, he’s a caring, compassionate child with unwavering, unconditional love for his father, family and what he believes in. He truly will do whatever it takes.
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touch-starved-lurker · 5 months
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we all know small talk. we all know deep talk. may i present the opinion that it is not a binary cuz binaries suck. it’s a sliding scale, a 3d space in which to play, something more than two constricting boxes. middle talk is what i call it in my head, but like.
small talk is the weather, how’s the family, sigh this project sucks, how’s school going, what’s your plans for college. deep talk is trauma. deep talk is fears and hopes and pipe dreams. deep talk is my life is falling apart and im scared. deep talk is relationship boundaries and limits and wants and needs. deep talk is about space and time and reality and memory. it’s sad and uncomfortable and hard and rewarding and joyful and full of trust.
i present middle talk, the in-between, the comfortable walk along a familiar path. it’s tell me all about your favourite new interest. it’s let me talk about all the things that wrong and all the things that went right on my trip. it’s deeper conversations than normal with a new person, filling chats with friends. and it can lift my mood like nothing else, connect me but not make me feel too deeply. and people slip through these modes of conversation pretty easily, it’s a sliding scale.
that probably made at least a little sense. :) anyway.
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drama-rebellion · 22 days
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Had a long talk with my psychologist today. She asked me a lot about my childhood and youth and while telling her about my memories, I realized that in some points the past was indeed worse than I wanted to admit. Especially my mum (whom I love), who now blames me for her struggling, saying I destroyed her life with my illnesses … yes, it hurts, but she’s also right. My dad hasn’t spoken to me in years.
Anyway, she told me it’s not my fault. Felt good somebody say it, although I don’t really believe it.
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yeesiine · 1 year
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I need a "come stay with me tonight" text.
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zunatheprincess · 2 years
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My best friend <3 
I don’t know what I would do without her...
I haven’t really had (human) friends for the past few years and even though I am used to it by now I still have my phases when it makes me feel incredibly lonely. Like the type of loneliness that almost causes physical pain. I’ve struggled with my mental health for the past ten years and that makes you lose friends...even though I don’t see most of them as a real loss, but still...
I hope that one day this situation will change again and that I will find my people and my family but until then I have the best dog and the best friend I could ever ask for right by my side :’) 
If you are stuck in a similar situation my heart aches for you, but you are not alone and our time will come 💕
Have a nice weekend! 
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nackteseelen · 9 months
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but how do i tell him that i wan't to know his soul, his regrets, his fears the things he can't talk about. The songs that make him sad at mid afternoon? How can u figure out a person??
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fireonthatcruiser · 10 months
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I wrote it a long while ago and I finally decided to post it... I hope that maybe somehow it'll help someone. I think everyone needs a talk with their younger self from time to time. It's pretty healing! Soooo I really recommend writing something like this! I hope you'll enjoy! Also feel free to tell me what you think and if you like content like this! >-<
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'Why are you crying?' she asked.
'Wh-what?' I responded shocked.
'Did someone hurt you?'
'No, why?' I asked holding back my tears.
'I can see your scars. They're cool by the way.' she said smiling a little. 'Dont worry I'll always protect you.' she said with a spirit.
She looked like she was ready to fight.
'Why would you?'
'Cause I love you of course! Oh don't cry! Are you okay? You look really tired.'
'I'm fine.' I said and she looked at me like she didn't believe me. 'Actually I'm not okay. I'm far from being okay. I'm really exhausted and I don't know what to do anymore. I-I can't take it any longer.' I confessed.
She started crying.
'Don't cry... I didn't mean to make you cry... I'm sorry..' I said starting panicking.
'Don't worry, I just feel your pain. I will share it with you so it won't be too heavy. And don't apologize for everything that's not your fault.' little girl said.
'No, you can't carry this-' I didn't finished.
'You carried my baggage I left for so many years. Now it's my turn to finally take it from you.' she said. 'You're full of cracks! Like a shattered glass! But you're not a glass, you're a human, you shouldn't be broken.'
I looked at her and my heart actually felt seen. I finally felt like someone actually cared about me.
'Why are you looking at me like that?' she asked.
'Th-thank you.' I said with cracking voice.
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starlonga · 6 months
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hollysupertramp · 2 years
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Jules & Elliot  -  Euphoria Season 2 (2021)
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hnnhknu · 2 years
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nachts-wach · 1 year
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as a listener you won't talk much, because you realize, that most people don't really listen
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kala-ya-aan · 2 years
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- Deep talks with you.
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kottkrig · 9 days
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People liking your personal OCs is still such a crazy feeling, I've been doing this for years and ppl asking about them still fills my entire heart with warmth and idk how to handle it
You enjoy this fictional guy I made up for fun?? Whose only content is random artwork or writing made by me and a handful of other artists at most? They have no show/book/game with a large fandom, it's just one person with an art blog?? I love u
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