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and one day i started listening to a kind of music i never listen to, and one day i started reading about a topic i never thought of before. and one day, i started doing things because of you.
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Tem jeito não, basta apenas a nossa aproximação que tantas coisas passam pela mente, quando nos reconhecemos pelo o toque, quando o desejo em nós reflete
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zomblorbs · 5 months
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i wish there wasn’t such a stigmatized view on platonically loving people.
I can’t call people nicknames and pet names like hun and honey without them immediately assuming i have romantic interest in them.
i can’t tell my friends i love them without adding on “platonically” or shortening the phrase “ily” “love you” “love u”
i love a lot of people. i love my sister, i love my boyfriend, and i love my best friend. All different versions of love.
let us love people openly and honestly without it being seen as “making a move” or being romantically interested.
please please please stop assuming that love is strictly romantic, i promise you life becomes so much brighter and bigger when you stop keeping love strictly romantic.
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novlr · 1 year
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How to write romantic love
Writing romantic love is simultaneously one of the most joyful things you can do as a writer, and one of the most difficult. There’s a lot of emotion to cover - from the highs of a new relationship, to the struggles of a relationship on the rocks.
Like all of us, your characters will display love differently. Are they open and affectionate? Shy and nervous? Loud and blunt? To help you along the way, here’s some examples of descriptions you can use to show (not tell) your readers that your characters are in love. Movement
Inching towards each other to touch
Shyly tucking stray hair behind the ear
Unconsciously parting or licking lips
Embracing with full bodies touching
Nervously shuffling feet
Running and reaching with open arms
Fiddling with hair or clothing
Crossing or uncrossing legs
Leaning forward to show attentiveness
A bounce in the step
Glancing flirtily over the shoulder
Facial expressions
Flirtatious winking
Smiling to themselves at nothing
Glancing up through lowered lashes
Unblinking eye contact
Grinning or beaming uncontrollably
A look of yearning
Lips slightly parted with desire
Dilated pupils
Glowing cheeks or flushed skin
Faraway, daydreaming look
Slight, secretive smile
Sounds
Deep sighs
Unconscious swallowing
Nervous coughing or throat clearing
Light chuckle with a silly grin
Grunts of appreciation or praise
An inner, audibly racing pulse
Thumping heart
Quick, short breaths
Low, whispered voices
Listening to love songs
Joyfully humming
Feelings and sensations
Nervous tingling
Butterflies in the stomach
Hot and flushed face
Hyper-sensitive skin
Acute awareness of personal proximity
Weak knees or legs turning to jelly
Shaky hands
Loss of speech or getting tongue-tied
Daydreaming and absentmindedness
Seeing the beauty in the world
Pulse racing
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olmoonlight · 1 year
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•Caring begets caring 💕
••Sweet night ✨💋❤
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hektor-world · 6 days
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This is better than any poem, GOOD NIGHT
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where-dreams-dwell · 2 months
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*spoilers for One Day*
For people saying ‘it’s tragic, Dex and Em only got 3 years together’ no. They got 15 years together.
Glossing over the span of their life together to sum it up as ‘only 3 years together’ misses all the love and time they had together that wasn’t solely romantic.
Why is their relationship only ‘important’ or ‘counts’ when it’s a romantic one? Maybe there was always romantic love buried in there or growing steadily but there was a whole lot of platonic love there too.
For 15 years they were the most important person in the world to one another, they described each other as their ‘best friend’ and the person they reached out to at every high and low moment. And for the last 3 of those years they were also a couple.
There are loads of examples of Dex reaching out to Em when he’s at his lowest: the last birthday with his mum, then he’s reeling from his divorce, when he’s scared people will hate him on TV. And you *could* read that as pathetic and Em being his emotional crutch, with Dex latching into her. But you could *also* see that as when you’re struggling and low, you just want your best friend. Because they *get* you. And part of being a best friend is being there in those low moments.
And Em has done the same with Dex, just in different ways. That first year out of uni Em had no idea what she was doing; in a job she couldn’t wait to leave, a relationship that didn’t make her happy, not sure where she was going in life or what she was doing. Em writes to Dex often, and doesn’t need him to reply to her, just to read her letters and be *her* emotional crutch and person to vent to.
Even at that breakup-dinner, Em has things she ‘needs to talk about’ and she’s reached out to Dex to do it. We don’t see her discussing it with Tilly, we see her trying to talk about it with Dex. She’s at arguably her lowest moment (hates her job, hates her partner, hates her home) and she wants her best friend to listen to her. Just like he did when she was 24 and thinking about giving up and leaving London, and Dex convinced her to stay and keep going.
So they are emotional crutches *to one another*. That’s also part of being someone’s best friend.
And for all the low moments Dex also wanted to share his best moments with her too: when he’s excited about the TV pilot he calls Em to say ‘the only person I want to share this with is you’, and begs Em to find a way to be there. Yes this is also him dismissing and ignoring her achievements, yes this is self absorbed and rude and at the height of his egomania, but in that moment of triumph he only wants his best friend there with him.
When they see one another again at Tilly’s wedding Em is brave and self assured when she reveals she’s ‘thought of you every day, missed you every day’, and that even though they are friends again now the fact that Dex will have a wife and child ‘feels a bit like loosing you all over again. Because people with families have different priorities…’ That’s how close they were before.
The sentiment that ‘we grew up together’ is really true, for the both of them. They were very different people throughout their lives, and if they had tried to be a romantic couple earlier there is no guarantee that version of them would have lasted the course.
Would Emma have stayed with a peak-of-his-tv-fame Dex, partying and living life ‘to the full’? Or would they have explosively ended and decided they were too different for one another for it to ever work?
Would Dex have even tried for a career in TV or a full year of travelling if he’d become a couple with Emma after Uni? Or would he have done something else but grown resentful of what-could-have-been?
If they had sorted out their issues and apologised after their fight and Em had left Ian, would Em have found the strength to turn rock bottom into a spring board and finally write her book? Would she have even hit that bottom at all? Or would the hook have remained a pipe dream while she continued as a teacher, happy with Dex but professionally unfulfilled?
We will never know what could have been, and that doesn’t necessarily make those alternatives the ‘better’ option that they ‘missed out on’.
Maybe they would only ever have had 3 years together as a couple and getting it in their mid 30’s the way they did was their most mature and peaceful version.
So yes at times their relationship feels like it’s moving toward the inevitable conclusion of a romantic partnership. But the time before they get there wasn’t wasted or unimportant or unnecessary. And they were always together.
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klajc · 7 months
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faycb · 7 months
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metanein · 1 month
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I wish I had more time to look at you, talk with you, embrace you.
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hcavtarv · 4 months
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It's so heartwarming when people send texts with updates on mundane things that they're doing. It's so nice that you saw a cool rock and thought about sharing it with me or you're baking something and you just wanted to let me know for the heck of it. It's such a small but welcomed reminder that the people you care about also think about you throughout the day.
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knuckie-head · 11 months
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Giggling
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you sit at the piano bench. there are a few easels scattered around the room, with canvases on them, paintings left finished and unfinished alike. the sun catches on the prism you and your housemate put in the window, scattering rainbows across the room. plants spill over everything, vines and leaves swaying.
your housemate is in the kitchen, humming as they sway their way through some cake batter. there's flour on their nose. the radio is on, and quiet chatter fills the room.
you don't talk. you don't need to.
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olmoonlight · 9 months
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♡ In this moment, nothing else matters except the love we share. 💕💋
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hektor-world · 18 days
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GOOD NIGHT
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