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ivynightshade · 2 months

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fatima aamer bilal, excerpt from moony moonless sky’s ‘when god pottered hand i. your dishwasher is empty.’

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hamoodmood · 5 months

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la1npilledg1rl · 2 months

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‘Was I raised without love or was I born unlovable?’

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littlesadzap · 11 months

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I'm in a really bad mood and I feel like I need to share this list of things I learned as a mentally ill ex-teenager in a toxic home and with friends as "found family"

Things that I hope are obvious but are not always so obvious

-Your parents are victims and perpetrators at the same time

-Your mental disease allowed you to survive and killed you at the same time

-Your mental disease have made you what you are

-No one will ever truly understand how you feel, and that is okay

-If someone laughs and cries at the same time, it's not funny, it's a wake-up call.

-From some things you can't recover and you have to learn to live with them

-Loving someone can't heal their depression

-If someone you love refuses to seek professional help, forcing them will not help them, a person can heal if they really want to heal

-The only person who can help you is you, you must want it first.

-If a person who needs your help is bad for your mental health, walking away from this person is not selfish,you don't live for others

-If a person with mental illness shows excessive and toxic co-dependence toward you, then you are not helping them, you are sinking with them

-Feeling anger toward the person who traumatized you is human, but letting that anger consume you will not help you

-Some things cannot be forgiven and cannot be forgotten, you are not a bad person for that

-Life owes you nothing

-Manic episodes are not always just funny but can be dangerous

-You can't justify yourself for hurting people just because you were hurt but you can forgive yourself and try to do better

-People you have hurt sometimes cannot forgive you, if they hate you let them but don't allow yourself to hate you for the same reasons

-Loving a person with mental illness is difficult

-Healing is fucking painful

PS. These are just random thoughts that came from my personal experience, I'm not a psychologist, I have no professional knowledge for this, this is all just personal

#sorry for being depressing #depressive shit #depressive episode #kinda depressing #depressiv #why do i keep seeing things that make my mental health worse?#mental illness #mental ill health #mental disease #healingjourney #health #self healing #trauma #trauma team #family issues #parents issues #people pleaser

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mikrhsnobara · 2 years

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If going away for your home makes you feel free then I’m not sure everything is alright.

#strict parents #mental health #burnt out gifted kid #school #academic validation #tw depressing thoughts #burnout #gifted burn out #gifted kid syndrome #trying my best #not being able to do what you want because you will get in trouble for it?#toxic love #toxic parents #emotional blackmail #gaslight #daddy issues #mommy issues #parents issues #parenting

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krystaln78 · 20 days

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I wish the world was kinder to my father so he could’ve been kinder to my mother.

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r1errr · 3 months

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#girlblogging #couqette #anya taylor joy #daddy issues #mommy issues #parents issues #last night in soho #girlhood

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holierthanth0u · 2 months

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i dont know who needs to hear this but your parents do not own your features. you can have the same nose as your mom, but it does not belong to her. you can have the same smile as your dad, but it does not belong to him. they dont have to be any part of you.

#traumatic childhood #parent issues #parents issues #trauma #traumatic experience #childhood trauma #complex ptsd #mental illness

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sawiet · 6 months

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i am not a whole person. parts of me died in the house i grew up in

cr: borderlineangel222

#harry potter #hp #draco malfoy #hp fandom #harry potter fandom #draco x harry #harry x draco #drarry #actually bpd #bpd #borderline pd #childhood #childhood abuse #brian kinney #queer as fuck #parents issues #my stuff #it's just the pain of my life #i haven't edited anything video in years so it was weird but i still want to leave it here

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samtf · 2 years

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anyone growing up favouring their dad and thinking your mom was the enemy until you grew up and realised your dad was the bad guy all along and now....you're stuck with mommy AND daddy issues

#samtf #s:tiktok #daddy issues #mommy issues #parents issues #quotes

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ivynightshade · 2 months

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a mad dog would be a far more gentle lover to the rocks being thrown at him.

all hunger is, is love.

[excerpts from fatima aamer bilal’s moony moonless sky.]

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thestargirlboss · 1 year

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satanslion · 10 months

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My dad doesn’t love me, his family doesn’t love me, and I seriously thought he was my favorite for a while, my whole fucking childhood, but no we have nothing in common, he just sees me as his daughter when it’s convenient not as a fucking human being, and i mean I always felt like he had his special way of showing that he cares, but it’s bullshit, he just doesn’t, i mean if he did he wouldn’t be making me have to sue him… and he of all people says that he knows I’ve been having a rough couple of years… fuck him.

#toxic parents #parents issues #father issues #toxic dad #and my mom isn’t a saint either but at least she cares somehow

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girlandthedarkness · 1 year

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I was wondering why I don't like holidays but especially my birthdays until I realized that around that time my parents would always fight so much, from any little thing to the point where it would get violent, that left me so traumatized that only thinking about it makes me cry, so this birthday I want to spend alone, on my own, healing something that was taken from me

#only thinking about those times makes me so anxious and truggers my fight or flight response #i guess that's the part that i have to face and heal #i hate holidays #birthdays #birthday trauma #parents issues #daddy issues #mommy issues #anxiety

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mikrhsnobara · 2 years

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Do you play referee between your parents or you have normal families?

#mental health #burnt out gifted kid #burnout #tw depressing thoughts #gifted burn out #toxic mum #toxic dad #toxic parents #toxic family #daddy issues #mommy issues #parents issues #issues in general

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heliosdiary · 9 days

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My type:

-alive

-love me (optional u can use me as u want just stay with me please)

#bpd #bpd thoughts #love #daddy issues #mommy issues #parents issues #bpd vent

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