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butch-reidentified · 1 year
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Fucking FINALLY seeing this somewhat talked about
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naturalborndevil · 7 months
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Father's child, nobody's daughter
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thecorvidforest · 10 months
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sending love and support to all veterans, shooting survivors, victims of police brutality, DV survivors, everyone with gun-related trauma. you’re not being dramatic, you’re not overreacting, this holiday is incredibly painful and triggering for a lot of us. you’re not alone.
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themichaelsheen · 11 months
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amber heard is one of the most harmful people ever to purport to be an advocate for women’s rights. Shame on her and anyone who still supports her.
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luhvrwrites · 2 months
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୨⎯ "𝐃𝐀𝐓𝐄 𝐍𝐈𝐆𝐇𝐓"
(Im new on here and I hope you guys enjoy this!! It's actually the first chapter of my new wp fanfic)
Tw: abusive relationship, toxic relationship, strangling, dark rafe, jealousy.
Rafe wasn't the sweetest guy, not even close. He loved thea a lot but he would never show it, he was too 'cool for that lovey-dovey shit' in his words.
So when he called her up and told the girl to be ready in 10, she was completely confused. Still, thea made sure her pretty long locks fell perfectly and she wore a pair of jeans that hugged all the right places and a tight brown top.
"Baby, what's this? I'm taking you out. Somewhere nice so put one of the pretty dresses I've brought you, k?" Rafe doesnt ask, he tells.
"but I like this" whines the blonde as she stands in front of the mirror looking at him behind her slim frame in the reflection, she was 5'9 so he didn't tower over her as much as he did his ex.
Rafe sighs loudly and stares at there reflection. He shakes his head and grabs the girls wrist, turning towards him.
"I like this outfit too babe, but this time, I want my girlfriend to look extra good. So either put on the pink dress or the black one I got you." rafe said as he stared at her pretty face. Thea Peyton was lucky she was blessed with her mother's nose and her father's golden strands, making her the most beautiful chick in the Obx.
"fine" she huffs, strutting upstairs to change and feeling Rafes eyes dig daggers into her as her heals land on the wood.
Rafe watchs as Thea made her way upstairs. He watchs the way her hips sway as she walks, how everything he got the girl hugged her body and he couldn't help but smile to himself.
This was the first relationship where he was genuinely attracted to the girl he was dating, instead of faking it, maybe this one would actually be good.
She comes back down after 10 minutes. Now in a tight pink dress, searching rafes face for any indication he doesnt like it.
"You look amazing in that babe, really shows off your curves." Rafe cant help but stare at her. The dress was tight in all the right places and Rafe couldn't take his eyes off of thea. Hes mesmerized by how gorgeous she looks. He glances back down, not wanting her to notice how much he was staring.
"so where you taking me Rafey?" Thea asks him softly, letting her hand sway with his as he leads them both to his black truck which is where lots of there most unspeakable acts were performed.
"It's a surprise babe." Rafe beams as he opens the truck door for her. He climbs in after and shuts it. He starts the car, the engine purring. The truck starts to slowly drive out, and as he drives his eyes go over to her and he immediately grins.
"why are you being so nice?" she questions as the girl trys to rack her brain to remember if maybe it was one of there anniversarys? nope, or was it a holiday? wrong again.
Rafe laughs a little bit as her brain went into overdrive. "Babe, don't overthink it. I'm just being a good boyfriend. I thought that maybe we could go to a nice restaurant tonight and just chill." Rafe shrugged and smiles again.
Both ride in silence as they drive out of the city into the country passing all the big white houses that fill the streets of the outer banks. When she sees a sign for a nearby restaurant, Thea can't help but notice it's very nice and fancy. He pulls up and gets out, opening the door again.
"wow, how kind of you" she thanks in a posh british accent, her heels slightly twisted on the gravel of the parking lot.
Rafe chuckles at the way she thanked him making a mental note to tease the blonde later.
"Just following etiquette." He holds her hand and leads Thea to the restaurant, pushing the glass and greeting the waiter before they are sat at a nice table for two. It was empty besides the pair.
The waiter brought out menus and after a bit, Rafe ordered for her and himself. The waiters left to give the two time to talk. Rafe takes this opportunity to stare lovingly at her from across the table "am i dying or something?" Thea giggles as his icy blues don't leave her tanned skin.
"No, just a simple date babe." Rafe rolls his eyes mockingly but he keeps that grin plastered on his face. He leans forward a little and places his forearm on the table and his other hand goes to brush her light hair back, caressing theas cheek with his thumb.
A tingle runs down her spine and she couldn't help but notice rafe was acting different. Almost a bit too sweet, but he's probably just feeling a little romantic, right?
Then it clicks that rafe was only trying to make his girlfriend forget about what he had done to her last week.
Last weekꜜ
It was a Wednesday, and thea and her boyfriend sat in her room arguing again. She had put a love heart on her friend's photo on instagram and he wasn't taking it so well.
The argument was the same thing as always—you're too social, you have too many male friends, there's always drama etc. It was getting old and she were so sick of it. He was leaning his whole body over her lean frame now, looming over Thea and he grabbed her by the neck, shaking her a little bit.
"rafe please you're hurting me" She winced as his cold gold rings and to the pain of the pressure.
"Oh am I hurting you babe?" Rafe looks down with his blue eyes, filled with anger. "You hurt me every time you look at other men, every time you text them back, every time you're nice to them. You don't understand the pain you cause me." He grits his teeth and shakes a little bit harder.
Thea claws at his skin, trying to get free and to finally catch a breath, her nails dig into his skin and leave little marks which he will feel later. He lets out a little grunt of pain, but his grip on her tightens, making it hard to breathe.
He leans closer and screams into the girl's scared face, the veins on his neck and forehead are bulging "What is so hard to understand about that? You are mine and mine alone! If you can't handle that then maybe you should just leave then, right!" He leans even closer to her, his nose pressing against theas at this point.
Thea started to cry and she can't help but feel a wave of fear as Rafe pushes his weight down on her. His hand tightens around your throat, the lack of air making her breath shallow and frantic.
He takes his large hand away from her, chuckling gently at her as she falls to the floor. Her breath heavy as she gets access to the air again, clutching her neck to try soothe the pain.
Rafe just laughs and stands over Thea, not helping her up. He shakes his head thinking he's done nothing wrong and laughs again.
"See this is why you need to stop being so social and nice to people. If you just did what you were supposed to, none of this would happen." Rafe shrugged and sat down on the bed, leaning back on her pillows.
Of course, it was her fault.
Present dayꜜ
Rafe kept caressing her cheek. His grin never faded as his eyes looked deep into theas. There was an edge to the sweetness that she didn't like. He seemed a little too happy given how aggressive and mean he could get in just seconds. There was a certain anger behind those icy blues now that she noticed.
Rafe pulled her blonde hair a little too hard when he brushed it back over her shoulder, and that same tingle she felt a few minutes ago now felt like a pinprick in her stomach. He noticed this small change in the girl and his eyes narrowed, but he kept that nice guy persona.
The real question is how long can he last before lashing out again? He would never really change and both knew that.
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zuuriell · 2 months
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sharing my thoughts on things (+ changes to my blogs):
alright, this isn’t gonna make much of a difference here tbh as i don’t talk about him much on here (i do so more on my agere blog: @tinysharkzz ), but i wanted to make a proper post to make things clear !!
(trigger warning for mentions of abuse - yes, this is regarding wilbur soot)
as you may know, shelby/shubble recently came forward about her ex-boyfriend abusing her. and there has been strong speculation of said ex being wilbur which i believed to be true, but the whole situation for me was so overwhelming that i decided to just stop posting + talking about wilbur/lovejoy anywhere until there was any kind of confirmation, and now that wilbur’s tweeted an ‘apology’ (it’s an absolute failed attempt at an apology imo) it kind of snapped me into gear and i realised i need to change things on here asap.
before i get into the stuff about wilbur, i wanna start by saying that i fully support the victims. shelby, lexie, and everyone else who’s been affected.
i’ll be removing any posts or moodboards i made about wilbur/lvjy from my agere blog, and i’ll be listing them in my ‘not taking requests’ criteria. i’ll also remove them from my interests/intro posts as i try to steer clear of their music & content.
this is a really upsetting thing which i really wish never happened. it makes me feel so disgusted that i used to support this man, even though the only wilbur i knew of was his online personality, it brought me so much comfort through lockdown and other rough times in the past few years. i’ve grown up as a person while being a fan, so to feel like i’ve grown up with something only to find out the disgusting things he’s done makes me feel so betrayed.
i’m not gonna be able to instantly go ‘yep, i’ve lost all positive feelings about the content & music that has helped me mentally, it can all be banished from my life’ cuz i don’t think that’s gonna do me personally any good - if this sounds cringe idc but i quite literally have emotional attachments to a handful of his songs & some old yt vids that bring me so much comfort when i’m at a low point, and i’m not gonna willingly hold myself back from feeling comforted when i know something i can do to healthily cope is right there.
that being said, i won’t be talking about this stuff online anywhere, as i know it’s not something to be proud of & he certainly doesn’t deserve that kind of positive attention considering what he’s done.
i am thoroughly disappointed in wilbur, and although 1 random person on the internet saying that doesn’t change much, i hope other people join me in not supporting him. he has done horrible things and i hope he gets karma for it all.
if anyone’s struggling right now or has been affected by these topics, i’m here for you and my dms are always open if you’d like to talk. you’re so valid, i hear you and i see you, and i support you :)
once again all my respect and support goes to the victims, i hope they’re able to heal ❤️🫂
love u all!
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teentoospoiled · 4 months
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On the morning of Dec. 15, Danny Daniel, 61, is walked out of an NYPD station after being arrested for the loss of life of Angelina Renita Parker.
Parker was found lying on the floor of her Bed-Stuy home, with a fatal gunshot wound to the neck.
"Such a senseless death," Parker's mother Mrs. Mary Parker, 89, told the Daily News.
"She was there for everybody. She just filled her day just doing things for everybody. She would always call and say ‘Ma, do you need anything?’”
Angelina would be remembered as a kindhearted, honored member of her Brooklyn, New York community.
Police said the victim had an "on again, off again" relationship with Danny Daniels, though she considered him to be just a friend.
Daniels denied the unalivement of Parker's, however he was arrested at a bus stop in Greenville, South Carolina three days after the fatal incident of #AngelinaRenitaParker and was extradited to Brooklyn
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This Keke Palmer story is absolutely horrible and I dare anyone to joke about it just cuz Keke is a funny and bubbly Black woman. ALL women deserve protection, and especially their children if they have any. I hope to God that ex-bitch of hers knows nothing but suffering. I hope Keke and her son are safe.
And if you try to joke about it, you’re getting reported and blocked. Don’t play with me. DV is NOTHING to joke about.
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unhingedfemmecontent · 4 months
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domestic violence isn't funny
not only was that Matt Riffe joke insanely unfunny it is just also horrifying. i know i am super late to talking about this but i wasn't posting on tublr when it happened
Watching the eyes of the person you thought you where going to spend the rest of your life with go cold as they choke you is an experience i wish on not a single person.
As someone who has gone trough multiple forms of abuse and SA domestic violence crushes your soul in a completely different way (not comparing by how bad they are just how different it is).
20 PEOPLE PER MINUTE ARE PHYSICALLY ABUSED BY AN INTIMATE PARTNER IN THE UNITED STATES
72% OF ALL MURDER SUICIDES INVOLVE AN INTIMATE PARTNER 94% OF THOSE VICTIMS ARE WOMEN
WOMEN MAKE UP 82% OF PEOPLE MURDERED BY AN EX PARTNER
i don't care if you think i'm soft i don't care if you think i can't take a joke ( i joke about my own trauma all the time)
it is not a funny joke and it was most certainly not a funny joke coming from who it came from
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j-a-nuary · 4 months
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I really can't believe some of the bullshit people donate to shelters.
NOBODY WANTS YOUR OPENED AND OBVIOUSLY USED MAKEUP
NOBODY WANTS YOUR STRANGELY STICKY COLLECTION OF NAIL POLISH FROM THE 80s
WHY IS EVERYTHING ALREADY OPENED??
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callmecaptainamazing · 10 months
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Please Share
I am a 26-year-old full-time Nursing student. I work Fri, Sat, Sun 6 am to 6 pm, so I do have income coming in. I am a single mom to a 3-year-old little girl and I'm currently pregnant as well. I just left my ex (the father of my children) due to domestic abuse. I do not make as much money as I used to since I went back to school The agreement between me and my ex was that I would cover the smaller bills (i.e. utilities, childcare when needed, gas for my vehicle and groceries; I also pay for my car insurance and the car note), and he would cover the rent and any major expenses. I have kept my end of the bargain, and it was to my knowledge he was doing the same. I left him less than a week ago, and today, the property manager for the complex I live at posted a notice on my door that I have to pay 2,475.00 before 7/31/2023 or get out. Otherwise, she will file for eviction through the course if I do not pay or get out at this time. The monthly rent here is 739.00, and I am capable of paying a, and she says that it still stands. I have looked into other local resources and have filled out applications for help. There is a long waiting list for most of the places I looked into. And the county where I reside I not taking applications for rental assistance at all at this time, I also filed for an LOA with my school so I can get to work catching up on my finances and getting things in order in the aftermath of my separation from my ex.I am trying my best to help myself and it has taken a lot out of me to reach out to others for help, too. I do not want to subject my child to homelessness and I really am capable of paying some of the amount, just not all. And I can keep things on track afterward. I don't know what to do. Any help is appreciated.
This is the only social media I have that he doesn’t have access to or knowledge of. It associated with an old email from high school too. 
https://gofund.me/b25a6811
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nightshiftmagnolia · 6 months
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‼️URGENT‼️ AID NEEDED FOR DV SURVIVOR
ALL PROCEEDS WILL GO TO LEGAL AND HOUSING FEES
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lilitunoirrr · 1 year
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Knowing what happened between Wednesday and Tyler - and then Tyler turning out to be the Hyde in the end, and not Xavier, feels so connected to the underlying theme of every Domestic Violence relationship, when they "turn".
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abbyslev · 7 months
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its DV awareness month, and i wanted to tell all my survivors and victims that your story doesn’t define you, but it made you stronger and you deserve nothing but to be loved! DV is a really sensitive topic, but it’s something that shouldn’t be treated like a plague. million of people suffer, and it isn’t pretty. it isn’t for attention. just know that i am here for you and i am so proud of each and every one of you!! i love you all and do not be afraid to reach out🩷
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nsk-1977 · 2 years
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I for one wholeheartedly agree.
I’ve been free for 2+yrs and still have to remind myself that it’s okay to NOT be okay.
Just don’t give up. Not everyone is that evil and malicious.
Don’t pay attention to the flying monkeys. Not my monkey’s, not my circus.
Just sit there and let their lies fly by you, they don’t deserve you. And yes, sometimes belt it out and cry in a bubble bath.
#healingjourney #abusesurvivor
#pagan #self love #1 in 4 #rock bottom #npd #boundaries #one day at a time #dv awareness #gaslighting #always a victim #protectyourenergy
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teentoospoiled · 4 months
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“Daddy is stabbing Mommy,” their daughter told officers on scene
The unalivement of #RobinSimpson , 49 occurred in front of her 8 year old daughter she shared with the man who ended her life, Michael Simpson Jr, age 58.
Robin was a social worker, a dedicated mother and Godmother and a proud Delta sorority member
Michael Simpson Jr, stabbed himself after taking the life of his wife along with her organs, including her heart and brain. He has survived and has since been charged with murder and aggravated assault.
The family questions how long it took for officers to respond, since removing organs is no swift task. Houston Police Department requires a request for this info which has not been released yet.
This Philadelphia native is well loved, respected and would always be remembered for her beauty and kind heart.
May Robin Rest In Peace
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