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butch-reidentified · 5 hours
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the “flatness” bothered him good lord. they cannot enjoy anything if it isn’t pornified. the fallout tv show is soooo good and interesting and i’ve been appreciative of how NOT sexualized it’s been so far. it doesn’t just cater to pornsick men, it’s actually enjoyable for us female fallout fans. and the men can’t stand that. because they don’t appreciate a good story, realistic costumes, or good acting. no. all they care about is bubble butt. they’re so foul 😭
i also feel awful for ella. she’s so beautiful and wonderful and talented & to be treated like THIS ??? i hope this guy gets big giant kidney stones
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butch-reidentified · 8 hours
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why are people always comparing working class men to rich women? do working class women not excist?
true it doesn't seem like a particularly useful comparison. and working class men certainly do NOT have solidarity with working class women, so why should we have solidarity with them? especially over other women. the closest thing to an "ultra rich radfem" I know of would be JKR, and she's not even actually a radfem afaik & puts her money where her mouth is all the time for women, I def feel more solidarity with her than working class men who don't give a shit about me and are more than happy to get paid more than me for the same job, to take a job opportunity that I'm more qualified for from me, etc.
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butch-reidentified · 8 hours
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i’m a wealthy radfem because of generational wealth. having money makes life easier as a woman. the trade-off is being under the thumb of male family members.
ooh @womanyellsatcloud (tag not working 😞) was looking to marry you! 😅🤣
but yeah, the crux of it - and why it is a feminist issue first and foremost - is that if the men in your family were abusing you, using that money to manipulate you, etc., what fallback do you have? if the men in your family decided one day to cut you off from their wealth, for any reason at all, where do you stand? idk you or your situation - and this is also on anon, of course - but MOST women in your situation DON'T have a good income on their own or strong social support with resources to fall back on.
the vast majority of "wealthy" women are only "wealthy" as far as the wills and whims of the men in their lives allow. and that is extremely dangerous. that is a feminist issue - and would be even if it wasn't dangerous!!! importantly!!
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butch-reidentified · 10 hours
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tbqh i just feel like im so massively blocked that i can't afford to block liberally myself or there'd be barely anybody left to interact w 💀💀💀
damn I've been unable to reblog all but like 2 meme posts I've seen today. i really am blocked by this entire website 😅💀🤣
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butch-reidentified · 10 hours
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i hope this man dies, the fact that he basically talked about raping her and taking advantage of a woman in her early 20s when shes desperately in need of money to survive & then acts confused as to why she would cry ??? die die die
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butch-reidentified · 10 hours
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That dude has a point lol. As a working class woman, I have more solidarity with working class men than ultra rich radfems
I've never met an ultra rich radfem tbqh, but even if I did, I'd just be impressed. assuming you mean actually wealthy, not just having access to her father's or husband's wealth... which surely is what you mean, if you're a feminist?
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butch-reidentified · 10 hours
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i prob have less than a dozen ppl blocked and I've had this account for a decade or so. i only rly block trad/racist/etc right wing extremist creeps who try to associate with radfems on the basis of thinking we agree on gender identity ideology (we don't). but i am blocked by multiple thousands, easily, just judging by block lists, the Pulse post incident, & how often I'm unable to interact w a post lmao
damn I've been unable to reblog all but like 2 meme posts I've seen today. i really am blocked by this entire website 😅💀🤣
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butch-reidentified · 10 hours
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this is genuinely sooo funny bc I actually can say plenty of positive things about "a man" - a specific man. certain specific men. yes. indeed I can. men as a class? coming up empty. sooo perhaps men could put a teeeny tiny bit of effort into making men as a class look less shit by, idk, they could start with not reacting to the Target upskirt peeper incident by telling each other to "stay safe" while creeping on women to avoid getting caught & arrested....
'women aren't responsible for male loneliness' sure but i think the fact that you in particular can't say a positive thing about a man and only publicly talk about how much they annoy you has a lot to do with the self-confidence issues that root at this loneliness
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butch-reidentified · 10 hours
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this post used the 3rd person "he" not the 2nd person "you" bc ✨️it's not for you✨️
what he says: "there's a male loneliness epidemic"
what I hear: "there's a 'increasing numbers of women and girls setting boundaries and making it harder for me to find a victim companion' epidemic"
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butch-reidentified · 11 hours
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this dude spends so much time replying to our blogs but obviously hasn't spent a fraction of that time actually reading them. or he would be well aware how little of what we talk about is aimed at "[implied USAmerican] suburban white women"
Leftist men will be like Yeah I guess “misogyny” is bad but you have to consider that some men are wxrking clxss and differently abled so :) and also queer so they’re attracted to women in a gay way lol & sex has been dismantled and has no bearing on the way I interact with the world and holy shit I hate white cis women
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butch-reidentified · 11 hours
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Thank you for defending trans women.
No need to thank me, it's the right thing to do.
I'm in the LGBT community and after trans people have done so much for me, giving me the opportunity to live my life openly as a lesbian with my wonderful girlfriend, they deserve my support too.
Trans rights are queer rights and queer rights are human rights. There's nothing else to it.
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butch-reidentified · 11 hours
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people will see you as a monster because they assumed you had a dick
so you agree? you agree that it's the dick-havers, by and large, who have a mass-scale problem with behaving monstrously? you agree that there's an actual REASON women don't want trans-identifying males in our most vulnerable spaces but are fine with trans-identifying females (as long as, obviously, we aren't misperceiving them as male & unaware they're ftm)? you agree that there's a pattern of behavior associated with & majority perpetrated by dick-havers? you agree that your lack of dick, when disclosed, makes women feel safer - for a reason?
and trans men haven’t been conditioned to accept it when it’s finally angled at them when they start HRT and start to pass.
so you agree? you agree that gendered socialization is a real phenomenon inflicted on every single person by the whole of society, and trans-identifying females are not, in fact, male socialized at all (nor prepared to deal with the expectation of male socialization should they pass for males)?
It’s telling as fuck that so many people (from all political bents!!!) will see trans men talk about how being a man is isolating and people see you as inherently criminal and predatory and will respond with some flavor of “should have thought about that before you decided to be a man” instead of recognizing that being a man in our society is isolating and demonized to the point that trans men have emotional breakdowns because living in the body that makes them happiest also means that people will see you as a monster because they assumed you had a dick and trans men haven’t been conditioned to accept it when it’s finally angled at them when they start HRT and start to pass.
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butch-reidentified · 11 hours
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Honestly, when people started confusing “gender” with “sex” it was embarrassing enough, but now that people are confusing gender with “personality” it’s just pathetic.
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butch-reidentified · 11 hours
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butch-reidentified · 11 hours
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It’s really a tragedy that most people get their education on what sex acts to perform and how to perform it based on porn. Positions and sex acts in porn aren’t chosen based on how they feel, but how they look like for a camera and what the majority male audience wants to see (which includes violence and pain btw).
People pay lip service to knowing “It’s not realistic” yet, to the best of their ability, a vast majority of those people are mimicking the acts and positions they see in porn.
How many acts and positions that have their origins in a certain camera framing or a trending director’s choice have integrated themselves as “standard”’sex in people’s imaginations? If people focused on pleasant sensation only in their sex- it would probably look radically different from what most people reach for.
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butch-reidentified · 11 hours
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So Bethany Hamilton gets dumped by Rip Curl and gets replaced by a man instead …… The woman with one arm who lost 60% of her blood and still continued to surf and defy all odds, is booted for saying males shouldn’t compete in women’s sports. What the fuck is going on. This is happening again and again. Incredibly talented female athletes being pushed out of their own sports in favor of men who say they are women. Hello??????? Can anyone hear me????????????
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