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ivydoomkitty · 1 year

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I'm excited to announce my next 2023 convention guest appearance is at @grandecon1 in Grande Prairie, AB Canada July 14-16, 2023! I'm looking forward to returning to Canada and seeing you all! Grande Con is a wonderful con that fundraises for @odyssey_house , a non-profit organization and registered charity. They provide safety, security, and support for women and their children who are victims of domestic violence, are in crisis, or are in need of a housing alternative. #npo #latina #domesticviolenceawareness #domesticviolence #bodypositive #alberta #womensupportingwomen #grandeprairie #cosplayofcolor #cosplay #fyp #fypシ #latinacreators #nonprofit https://www.instagram.com/p/CoWC3LZryuV/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

#npo #latina #domesticviolenceawareness #domesticviolence #bodypositive #alberta #womensupportingwomen #grandeprairie #cosplayofcolor #cosplay #fyp #fypシ #latinacreators #nonprofit

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bizypeople · 2 months

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simsstuph · 10 months

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Grams: He hasn't told you much has he?

Delilah nodded: Not really, he doesn't say much when it comes to before he moved here with you.

Grams sighed: Dan and his granddad were very close, my Bob would take him fishing every weekend and then he'd spend every weekend with us. He never wanted to go back home. It always broke my heart.

Grams drifted off into a memory.

Grams sniffled: Sorry dear, It cuts like a knife knowing Bob is gone forever. You spend most of your life with someone and suddenly they're gone.. It's a strange thing to adjust to.

Delilah rubbed her arm, unsure of what to say: I'm sorry Grams.

Grams wiped her nose with a tissue: Anywho, Dan's dad is a horrible man, I never understood what my daughter saw in him. She wasn't the best mother because of it. Always put him first, let him beat on the boys.

Delilah: Boys? Dan has siblings?

Grams: Two brothers, both younger. They aren't old enough to leave like Dan did.

#becomingdelilah #ts4 #thesims4 #sims4 #thesims #sims4story #ts4stories #triggerwarning #domesticviolence

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11s4daze · 17 days

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I don’t think you get it. All the ways an abuser tears you down with their words is horrific in itself, but their is something else that hurts just as much. It’s all the ways they DON’T show up for you. The neglect. The silent treatments when you stand up for yourself.

They cheated and lied for years, keeping me in cognitive dissonance and watching me suffer. Telling me how much my pain and crying caused them to feel bad. That it was unbearable to be around.

You just don’t get it unless you’ve lived through it. It destroys your soul. It shreds every bit of spark inside you. It destroys your self worth. It damages your brain and causes complex ptsd. You can’t leave. You can’t stay. You’re in complete survival mode. Dissociated. Detached. A walking zombie having the life slowly sucked from you. Please don’t judge. Help them. Help them. Help them.

#domesticviolence #covert narcissism #narcissistic abuse #emotional abuse

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little-tiffany · 4 months

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Cycles exist because they are excruciating to break. It takes an astronomical amount of pain and courage to disrupt a familiar pattern. Sometimes it seems easier to just keep running in the same familiar circles, rather than facing the fear of jumping and possibly not landing on your feet. It Ends With Us.

-Colleen Hoover, It Ends With Us

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blessingellyse · 5 months

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WHY NARCISSISTS WANT CHILDREN 💯🎯⁉️📌

It Attracts A Lot Of Attention. Narcs Need Attention Far More Than Most People And Will Use Almost Anything To Get It Even Children And What Better Way Is There To Get Everyone’s Attention? Narcs Are Impulsive And Don’t Think Through Consequences So They’re Often Blind As To How Big A Commitment Children Are, Preferring To Focus On The Adulation Instead. Narcs Know That Word Travels Fast And If They Have An Ex They Want To Get At, They Might Have Children Just To Hurt Them. Especially If They Know That They Wanted Children Themselves. That’s How Petty They Can Be.

Narcs Hate Being Single And Certainly Don’t Welcome Someone Dumping Them. That’s Their Job So They Use Children As Insurance. Narcs Know That It’s More Difficult To Leave Them If They Share Children. Because Their Partners, Who Are Usually Empathic, Think Of Their Children’s Needs Before Their Own And Although May Be Unhappy In Their Relationship, Stay To Keep The Family Together. With Children In The Equation, It’s A Whole Different Ball Game. Because A Split Affects Them More Than The Couple And Many People Don’t Want To Be Responsible For Tearing A Child’s Family Apart. So They’re More Likely To Stay With The Narc Even If They’re Unhappy.

Increasing The Pressure To Stay In The Relationship Allows The Narc To Treat Their Partners Worse And Get Away With It. Narcs Learn How Far They Can Push Their Partners, Without Quite Pushing Them Away. They Learn Their Breaking Point And Push Them Just Bellow That Point. This Allows Them To Take As Much As They Can, Yet Keep Them Around So They Can Take Some More, Giving Them The Most Bang For Their Buck. The Breaking Point Is Likely To Be Much Higher When Children Are Involved Because No Right Minded Person Would Split A Family Over A “Minor Incident”, Which Narcs Are Experts At Making Them Seem. So The Bar Is Raised As To What Behaviours Would Spell An End To The Relationship, Allowing The Narcs To Get Away With More.

Even If The Relationship Ends, Children Still Play A Useful Role For The Narc. Because For 18 Years, The Narc Has Access To Their Former Partner And They Have The Law On Their Side. They Can Disappear And Do What They Want. Then When Things Turn Sour, Come Marching Back “For The Sake Of The Children". Narcs Don’t Particularly Care About Seeing Their Children. Which Is Why They Often Have Long Absences From Them, But They’re A Great Tool To Use To Get Their Feet Back Under The Table. Most Well Meaning Parents Won’t Deny Their Children Seeing The Other Parent. Even If They’ve Disappeared For A While. This Allows The Narc To Dip In And Out Of Their Life. And Work Their Charm If They Want Some Action. If The Narc Has Children With More Than One Partner, Then It’s Party Time. Because They Can Flit Between Several Peoples Lives. And When They Grow Bored, Discard Them And Move To Another.

Narcs See Their Children As Extensions Of Themselves And Some Want Children So They Can Live Through Them And Push Them To Accomplish What They Never Did. So They May Push Their Children To Become Doctors, Lawyers, Actors, Singers, Etc. Regardless Of What The Child Wants For Themselves And This Can Cause Problems Later In Life. It Can Be Like Fitting A Square Peg Into A Round Hole. People Need To Find Their Own Way, Based On Their Own Strengths, Weaknesses And Interests, But The Narc Is Too Focused On Their Own Ambitions To Consider This And Relentlessly Push Their Own Agenda.

The Narc Usually Takes Credit For Any Success The Child Has And Claims It’s Their Genes And Good Parenting That’s Responsible. To Outsiders They May Seem Like A Proud Parent, But The Only Pride They Really Have Is In Themselves. They See Children As A Boost To Their Profile. Because In Their Mind It Shows How Virile And Desirable They Are. Some Narcs See Children As A Numbers Game. The More They Have, The Greater They Must Be. So They Try To Have As Many Children As Possible, Despite Being Absent Parents.

Narcs Don’t Usually Have Strong Parental Instincts, So They Leave Most Of The Parenting To Their Partners And This Works Out Great For Them. Narcs Like To Saddle Their Partners With Children Because It Keeps Them Under Lock And Key. The Narc Knows That Their Partner Has Little Freedom When They’re Almost Solely Responsible For The Children And It Keeps Them Safely Tucked Away At Home Whilst They Swan Around Without A Care In The World. Parenting Is Draining And Narcs Like To Play The Energy Game With Their Partners. This Is Where They Tire Them Out Whilst Preserving Their Own Energy. This Allows Them To Dominate Their Fatigued Partner Because They Have Less Mental And Physical Strength To Fight Back.

Although Narcs Do Little Actual Parenting, The Outside World Doesn’t Know This And The Narc Talks A Good Game To Friends, Family And Co-workers, Creating The Impression They’re Doting Parents And Normal Functioning Members Of Society. Narcs Hide Behind A Family Persona To Disguise Their Dysfunctional Ways And It Can Work Wonders For Their Image And Reputation. Narcs Love People Thinking Highly Of Them. It’s An Ego Boost For One And It Also Helps Them Gain Attention And Favours Because People Are More Willing To Trust And Spend Time With People Who Are High Functioning. Narcs See Everyone Around As An Extension Of Themselves Rather Than As Separate Individuals. This Includes Their Own Children.

There Are Several Mistakes The Narc Parent Is Certain To Make During Their Counter-Parenting Journey. These Mistakes Will Undoubtedly Come Back To Haunt Them, Possibly Years Down The Line. Narcs Are So Self-absorbed They Fail To Stop And Consider That Children Eventually Grow Up And See The Damaging Behaviour With Their Own Eyes. Their Children Are Not Immune From Being At The Receiving End Of The Narc's Cycle Of ‘idealise And Devalue’, Where They Are Alternately Lovebombed, (Showered With Praise And Attention), And Then Subtly Devalued, Criticised, Withdrawn From And Put Down. This Leaves Them Confused And Hurt, And They Start Jumping Through Hoops To Please The Parent Enough To Re-Enter The Idealization Phase Again. This Is A Cycle That Repeats Ad Infinitum, Over And Over Again, Even When The Child Becomes An Adult Themselves.

Narcs' Children Will Be Triangulated And Played Off Against Others (Often Their Own Siblings Or Cousins), And Will Find Themselves Vying For The Narc’s Attention. They Will Be Gaslighted/Lied To By The Narc To The Point Where They Their Own Reality Is Dismissed As False, So That They Stop Trusting Their Own Perceptions Of Reality. They Will Be Demeaned And Shamed. If They Are Particularly Good At Something, Behind Closed Doors They May Find Themselves On The Receiving End Of The Narc Parent’s Jealously. Confusingly, The Narc May Then, In Front Of An Audience, Hold Up Their Child’s Talent As A Source Of Pride, As Just Another Way To Gain Positive Attention For Themselves.

It’s Not Surprising That Narcs Want Children For Selfish Reasons. Everything Else In Their Life Revolves Around Them, So Why Should This Be Any Different? But It’s Easy For Their Partners To Be Fooled Into Thinking That They Want Them For The Right Reasons, Especially When The Narcissist Knows What To Say. Narcs May Talk Romantically About How Children Will Bring Them Closer And How Much Joy They’ll Bring, Which Is All Very Appealing, But When The Children Arrive, The Harsh Reality Kicks In. The Narc Becomes More Narc Because They Can Get Away With It And Spends Little Time And Energy On Their Children Because They’re Still Hyper Focused On Themselves. Despite All The Promises They Made, The Sad Truth Is That Even With Children, Narcs Want Everything To Revolve Around Them And They’re Happy To Take The Focus Away From Their Children Because Deep Down, They’re Big Kids Themselves.

In Short, And To Put It Bluntly, Narcs Do Not Have What It Takes To Be Good Parents. They Cannot Put Another’s Needs First.

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darlingcarol1ne · 1 year

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Each time I tell the story, minor details change. Sometimes it's raining. Other times a light drizzle. Once, it never even rained at all. The shirt you wore was blue but maybe it was beige? In one version, you hissed as you danced your trembling hand under the faucet to drown all the blood. In the extended epilogue of that version, you had just thrown a vase at my head and missed, the shrapnel wounding you instead. On the days that I am fearless and poet enough, I tell people the rehearsed story: the one where you walked through the front door and kissed me as I fisted your beige t-shirt with the blue stripes. I throw a light drizzle of olive oil on the focaccia bread and pretend not to tremble when you raise your voice. You don’t “mean” to throw the vase but you do anyway and the wound finds you instead and I think to myself that this might be my only form of justice. Now, years later, I dance to drown out the blood.

#trauma #actuallytraumatized #domesticviolence #emotionalabuse #poetry #poems #ventpoetry #ventblog

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haunted-whisperings · 1 month

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when i look in the mirror i never trust what i see having trouble realizing me told what to do, what to feel where do i begin to find what is real i said no, “you mean yes” i guess not so sure anymore an uneven score wanting more do i deserve such i feel i have been missing much caught in a web of lies unheard for years, my many cries chains stay the course do you think he feels remorse overactive emotions dysfunctional neurotransmitters i’m not a quitter not even bitter i just need to know how do i go from here to there care self-distrust do i matter much it’s not a crutch i’m struck by a twist of fate stalemate maybe someone help me figure this out untwist my brain serotonin lost my mood the cost depressed on a quest to find my true mind real emotions presynaptic collapse my body reacts self-harm moving to my arm sound the alarm imperfections now found on my body’s sacred ground tell me the truth show me what to do is this true as tears drop shocked mediating tension hand is wrenching stainless steel again appeals to the theory of invalidation

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daisylovesrumble · 7 months

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Colorado Springs man found guilty in Walgreens murder | Courts | gazette.com

"Over the past five days of trial, the prosecution alleged that Johnson on June 11, 2022, stabbed and killed his co-worker because she had rejected his romantic advances, and had become jealous of her new boyfriend, who also worked at Walgreens."

#incels #violence against women #domesticviolence

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callmecaptainamazing · 10 months

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I am a 26-year-old full-time Nursing student. I work Fri, Sat, Sun 6 am to 6 pm, so I do have income coming in. I am a single mom to a 3-year-old little girl and I'm currently pregnant as well. I just left my ex (the father of my children) due to domestic abuse. I do not make as much money as I used to since I went back to school The agreement between me and my ex was that I would cover the smaller bills (i.e. utilities, childcare when needed, gas for my vehicle and groceries; I also pay for my car insurance and the car note), and he would cover the rent and any major expenses. I have kept my end of the bargain, and it was to my knowledge he was doing the same. I left him less than a week ago, and today, the property manager for the complex I live at posted a notice on my door that I have to pay 2,475.00 before 7/31/2023 or get out. Otherwise, she will file for eviction through the course if I do not pay or get out at this time. The monthly rent here is 739.00, and I am capable of paying a, and she says that it still stands. I have looked into other local resources and have filled out applications for help. There is a long waiting list for most of the places I looked into. And the county where I reside I not taking applications for rental assistance at all at this time, I also filed for an LOA with my school so I can get to work catching up on my finances and getting things in order in the aftermath of my separation from my ex.I am trying my best to help myself and it has taken a lot out of me to reach out to others for help, too. I do not want to subject my child to homelessness and I really am capable of paying some of the amount, just not all. And I can keep things on track afterward. I don't know what to do. Any help is appreciated.

This is the only social media I have that he doesn’t have access to or knowledge of. It associated with an old email from high school too.

https://gofund.me/b25a6811

#gofundme #domesticviolence #dv #dv survivor #domestic abuse #narcissistic abuse #dv awareness #domestic violence hotline #help

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nando161mando · 26 days

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Neo-Nazi leader charged with child abuse, domestic violence - Raw Story

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digitaldeadm · 1 month

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Watch "OFFICIAL THE ART OF ABUSE TEASER TRAILER 2024" on YouTube

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cyarskaren52 · 4 months

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You do not have to forgive someone who hurt you. You do not have to forgive someone who deliberately made your world a dark place. You do not need to forgive your abuser or your rapist in order to heal. But you do need to forgive yourself. Forgive yourself for falling for their foolish games. Forgive yourself for thinking you could “save him”. Forgive yourself for the wrong choices you may of made. Forgive yourself for what you didn’t know back then.

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carrieanncleveland · 1 year

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Understanding Narcissistic Abuse: What It Is and How To Recover?

Narcissistic abuse is a form of emotional and psychological abuse that is perpetrated by someone with narcissistic personality disorder or traits. It can take many forms, including gaslighting, manipulation, emotional neglect, belittling, and exploitation.

The following are some common signs of narcissistic abuse:

A constant need for attention and admiration

Belittling, demeaning, or insulting language or behavior

An inability to acknowledge or apologize for mistakes

A lack of empathy for others

Manipulation and gaslighting

Control and domination over their partner

Emotional neglect or abandonment

Blaming their partner for everything that goes wrong in the relationship

Isolation from family and friends

Threats or violence.

Recovering from narcissistic abuse can be a long and difficult process, but it is possible. The following are some strategies that may help:

Seek Therapy: Therapy can provide a safe space to process your experiences and emotions, and can help you develop coping mechanisms for dealing with triggers and negative thoughts.

Build a Support System: Surround yourself with friends and family who are supportive and understanding, and who can provide emotional support when you need it.

Practice Self-Care: Take care of yourself physically and emotionally. This can include exercise, healthy eating, getting enough sleep, and engaging in activities that bring you joy.

Set Boundaries: Establish clear boundaries with the person who has abused you, and stick to them. This can include limiting or cutting off contact, and refusing to engage in behaviors that are harmful to you.

Challenge Negative Self-Talk: Work to identify and challenge negative beliefs and thoughts about yourself that were reinforced by the abuse.

Take Legal Action If Necessary: If you have experienced physical or sexual abuse, or if your partner has engaged in illegal activities, consider taking legal action.

Recovering from narcissistic abuse can be a difficult and overwhelming process. It is important to seek professional help to heal from the trauma of being in an abusive relationship. Therapy for narcissistic trauma, emotional abuse victims, and survivors of domestic violence are all available options for those seeking help. Professional counselors and therapists can provide support, guidance, and tools to help individuals manage their emotions, cope with the effects of the abuse, and develop healthy coping strategies. With the right kind of therapy, survivors can begin to heal from their traumatic experiences and move forward with their lives.

Remember, recovery is a process, and it can take time. Be patient with yourself and seek support when you need it.

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11s4daze · 22 days

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One of the ways my narcissist abuser liked to convey their dismissivness of what I was sharing was the cliche finger tapping. I called them out on it, so they started tapping their head and face instead.

It’s these little ways that narcs try to make you feel less than, devalued, dismissed. It’s all part of the death by a thousand cuts—their sick way of breaking you down.

#narcissistic abuse #covert narcissism #emotional abuse #trauma recovery #domesticviolence #self worth

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mrsaguapapi · 1 year

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A new chapter coming tonight babes!

Sorry for the long breaks in between! I work at a domestic violence agency and this month is Teen Dating Violence Awareness Month as well as Black History so I'm very busy working with the youth and educating our schools about Healthy Relationships.

I say this not to flex, but to say if you or anyone you know Is going through a situation that involves DV I am here to help 💜🧡

#domesticviolence #teendatingviolence #blackhistorymonth #new chapter #raiseawareness #tenoch huerta #mcu shuri #bucky #james buchanan barnes #fanfic #marc spector #mcu #mcu namor #namor #namor x reader

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