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blessingellyse · 5 months
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WHY NARCISSISTS WANT CHILDREN 💯🎯⁉️📌
It Attracts A Lot Of Attention. Narcs Need Attention Far More Than Most People And Will Use Almost Anything To Get It Even Children And What Better Way Is There To Get Everyone’s Attention? Narcs Are Impulsive And Don’t Think Through Consequences So They’re Often Blind As To How Big A Commitment Children Are, Preferring To Focus On The Adulation Instead. Narcs Know That Word Travels Fast And If They Have An Ex They Want To Get At, They Might Have Children Just To Hurt Them. Especially If They Know That They Wanted Children Themselves. That’s How Petty They Can Be.
Narcs Hate Being Single And Certainly Don’t Welcome Someone Dumping Them. That’s Their Job So They Use Children As Insurance. Narcs Know That It’s More Difficult To Leave Them If They Share Children. Because Their Partners, Who Are Usually Empathic, Think Of Their Children’s Needs Before Their Own And Although May Be Unhappy In Their Relationship, Stay To Keep The Family Together. With Children In The Equation, It’s A Whole Different Ball Game. Because A Split Affects Them More Than The Couple And Many People Don’t Want To Be Responsible For Tearing A Child’s Family Apart. So They’re More Likely To Stay With The Narc Even If They’re Unhappy.
Increasing The Pressure To Stay In The Relationship Allows The Narc To Treat Their Partners Worse And Get Away With It. Narcs Learn How Far They Can Push Their Partners, Without Quite Pushing Them Away. They Learn Their Breaking Point And Push Them Just Bellow That Point. This Allows Them To Take As Much As They Can, Yet Keep Them Around So They Can Take Some More, Giving Them The Most Bang For Their Buck. The Breaking Point Is Likely To Be Much Higher When Children Are Involved Because No Right Minded Person Would Split A Family Over A “Minor Incident”, Which Narcs Are Experts At Making Them Seem. So The Bar Is Raised As To What Behaviours Would Spell An End To The Relationship, Allowing The Narcs To Get Away With More.
Even If The Relationship Ends, Children Still Play A Useful Role For The Narc. Because For 18 Years, The Narc Has Access To Their Former Partner And They Have The Law On Their Side. They Can Disappear And Do What They Want. Then When Things Turn Sour, Come Marching Back “For The Sake Of The Children". Narcs Don’t Particularly Care About Seeing Their Children. Which Is Why They Often Have Long Absences From Them, But They’re A Great Tool To Use To Get Their Feet Back Under The Table. Most Well Meaning Parents Won’t Deny Their Children Seeing The Other Parent. Even If They’ve Disappeared For A While. This Allows The Narc To Dip In And Out Of Their Life. And Work Their Charm If They Want Some Action. If The Narc Has Children With More Than One Partner, Then It’s Party Time. Because They Can Flit Between Several Peoples Lives. And When They Grow Bored, Discard Them And Move To Another.
Narcs See Their Children As Extensions Of Themselves And Some Want Children So They Can Live Through Them And Push Them To Accomplish What They Never Did. So They May Push Their Children To Become Doctors, Lawyers, Actors, Singers, Etc. Regardless Of What The Child Wants For Themselves And This Can Cause Problems Later In Life. It Can Be Like Fitting A Square Peg Into A Round Hole. People Need To Find Their Own Way, Based On Their Own Strengths, Weaknesses And Interests, But The Narc Is Too Focused On Their Own Ambitions To Consider This And Relentlessly Push Their Own Agenda.
The Narc Usually Takes Credit For Any Success The Child Has And Claims It’s Their Genes And Good Parenting That’s Responsible. To Outsiders They May Seem Like A Proud Parent, But The Only Pride They Really Have Is In Themselves. They See Children As A Boost To Their Profile. Because In Their Mind It Shows How Virile And Desirable They Are. Some Narcs See Children As A Numbers Game. The More They Have, The Greater They Must Be. So They Try To Have As Many Children As Possible, Despite Being Absent Parents.
Narcs Don’t Usually Have Strong Parental Instincts, So They Leave Most Of The Parenting To Their Partners And This Works Out Great For Them. Narcs Like To Saddle Their Partners With Children Because It Keeps Them Under Lock And Key. The Narc Knows That Their Partner Has Little Freedom When They’re Almost Solely Responsible For The Children And It Keeps Them Safely Tucked Away At Home Whilst They Swan Around Without A Care In The World. Parenting Is Draining And Narcs Like To Play The Energy Game With Their Partners. This Is Where They Tire Them Out Whilst Preserving Their Own Energy. This Allows Them To Dominate Their Fatigued Partner Because They Have Less Mental And Physical Strength To Fight Back.
Although Narcs Do Little Actual Parenting, The Outside World Doesn’t Know This And The Narc Talks A Good Game To Friends, Family And Co-workers, Creating The Impression They’re Doting Parents And Normal Functioning Members Of Society. Narcs Hide Behind A Family Persona To Disguise Their Dysfunctional Ways And It Can Work Wonders For Their Image And Reputation. Narcs Love People Thinking Highly Of Them. It’s An Ego Boost For One And It Also Helps Them Gain Attention And Favours Because People Are More Willing To Trust And Spend Time With People Who Are High Functioning. Narcs See Everyone Around As An Extension Of Themselves Rather Than As Separate Individuals. This Includes Their Own Children.
There Are Several Mistakes The Narc Parent Is Certain To Make During Their Counter-Parenting Journey. These Mistakes Will Undoubtedly Come Back To Haunt Them, Possibly Years Down The Line. Narcs Are So Self-absorbed They Fail To Stop And Consider That Children Eventually Grow Up And See The Damaging Behaviour With Their Own Eyes. Their Children Are Not Immune From Being At The Receiving End Of The Narc's Cycle Of ‘idealise And Devalue’, Where They Are Alternately Lovebombed, (Showered With Praise And Attention), And Then Subtly Devalued, Criticised, Withdrawn From And Put Down. This Leaves Them Confused And Hurt, And They Start Jumping Through Hoops To Please The Parent Enough To Re-Enter The Idealization Phase Again. This Is A Cycle That Repeats Ad Infinitum, Over And Over Again, Even When The Child Becomes An Adult Themselves.
Narcs' Children Will Be Triangulated And Played Off Against Others (Often Their Own Siblings Or Cousins), And Will Find Themselves Vying For The Narc’s Attention. They Will Be Gaslighted/Lied To By The Narc To The Point Where They Their Own Reality Is Dismissed As False, So That They Stop Trusting Their Own Perceptions Of Reality. They Will Be Demeaned And Shamed. If They Are Particularly Good At Something, Behind Closed Doors They May Find Themselves On The Receiving End Of The Narc Parent’s Jealously. Confusingly, The Narc May Then, In Front Of An Audience, Hold Up Their Child’s Talent As A Source Of Pride, As Just Another Way To Gain Positive Attention For Themselves.
It’s Not Surprising That Narcs Want Children For Selfish Reasons. Everything Else In Their Life Revolves Around Them, So Why Should This Be Any Different? But It’s Easy For Their Partners To Be Fooled Into Thinking That They Want Them For The Right Reasons, Especially When The Narcissist Knows What To Say. Narcs May Talk Romantically About How Children Will Bring Them Closer And How Much Joy They’ll Bring, Which Is All Very Appealing, But When The Children Arrive, The Harsh Reality Kicks In. The Narc Becomes More Narc Because They Can Get Away With It And Spends Little Time And Energy On Their Children Because They’re Still Hyper Focused On Themselves. Despite All The Promises They Made, The Sad Truth Is That Even With Children, Narcs Want Everything To Revolve Around Them And They’re Happy To Take The Focus Away From Their Children Because Deep Down, They’re Big Kids Themselves.
In Short, And To Put It Bluntly, Narcs Do Not Have What It Takes To Be Good Parents. They Cannot Put Another’s Needs First.
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sulcrafatejackets · 2 years
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As far as the idea of trafficking a human being to get back at them for plagiarism?
What’s the situation with the reproductive abuse and people stealing eggs from people? None of my eggs have been stolen but if I ever hear and I am going to hear about that and so we are definitely going to be murder in these doctors I don’t care how you guys have to make that happen I want it done
I can tell you guys that no eggs have been stolen from me because they would already know better than to even dare cross that line
#OKIsn’tEnoughDr.WilliamJTravis
Okay, dick heads?
Okay?
My selfishness, quite fucking warranted today. Quite.
#ReproductiveAbuse #EggTheft #ItIsNotAJoke #WhatAreWeDoToPutTheHeatOnTheseBoys
#TheWeightOfBalls
#TheHeftOfBalls
#TesticularCancerAwareness
They are not going to try and conduct any experiments on eggs the way that these guys think they can do because they are going to be briefed and then killed I don’t have to explain to you guys that there is a connectedness thing and we are all connected and women are extremely sensitive creatures and I know you guys would kill us for some of that but if you want sensitivity jump in but at the same time my eggs from my ovaries due to my ex come out of my ovaries right I don’t even know you know what I need to learn the reproductive system a little bit better I don’t go from like the like the ovum to the ovaries w
Right whatever
No it’s not about stealing my work anymore either because those guys can also be killed if we lived in a world without Alice in Wonderland and without Tarzan without insert child’s story here what would this world be like
Dennis willcutt you have no integrity whatsoever you’re an absolute piece of garbage and you’re not gonna feed your family by using my work so I don’t know what kind of other cars Keith has bought but he’s going to give anything back that he took from me and you and your wife are as well Dennis will cut whether you believe it or not know I will cut you back motherfucker and I will cut you a lot harder
Catherine fold your fucking ears you stupid worthless white bitch oh her years all bless her old ass bitch heart
She has no respect for my heart she has no respect for my upper chakras whatsoever and I have no respect for her life now I don’t think anybody has any respect for her life now keep on bitch keep on
Anywhere like I was saying Dennis anything that you’ve taken from me you know I shouldn’t have to tell you that you don’t do that you and your wife and your son will return anything that you’ve taken if you want to keep your life you may say I don’t care I’m old anyway but you know what I do care and that’s why I have to contact David and and figure out from there what the fuck I’m gonna do because if I have to get you killed so that I can have my shit then I will and if you don’t give a shit then why in the fuck would you call a friend to put Catherine in her fucking place is she the new horsey dog in town?
She doesn’t get it though so obviously people have only hinted to her that there are problems when you act like a cunt I said CUNT but you know what bless your heart just like Vicki fake Christian bitches with low IQs no social skills they feel absolutely inferior and they should go fetch if you wanna brain go fetch that’s right doggy
Do you guys please don’t tell me that the mornings here it’s not Sarah
Sarah wishes but Sarah needs to respect boundaries and go fuck herself
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freedom4ewa · 4 years
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Forms of Abuse provided by WomensLaw.org Domestic violence, also known as domestic abuse, can come in many different forms. At the root of all forms of abuse, however, is the need for the abusive partner to keep power and control over the victim. Domestic Violence/Dating Violence Overview of domestic violence and dating violence, who it affects, and the different types of abuse. Emotional Abuse Information on emotional and psychological abuse. Financial Abuse Information about credit card debt, identity theft, and other money matters when there is domestic violence. Reproductive Abuse and Coercion Information about reproductive abuse and coercion. Sexual Abuse and Exploitation Information on sexual assault committed by strangers or acquaintances, sexual assault committed within intimate relationships, including by a spouse (known as marital rape), statutory rape, and forced prostitution. Stalking/Cyberstalking Information about stalking and cyberstalking. Litigation Abuse Information about abuse through the court system, such as when an abuser files excessive motions, petitions, and adjournments to make the victim continually come to court. #youarenotalone #knowledgeispower #emotionalabuse #financialabuse #datingviolence #reproductiveabuse #sexualabuse #stalking #litigationabuse #protection #knowyourrights #freedom #love #hope #fearless #warrior #freedom4ewa #helpisontheway #domesticviolence #survivor https://www.instagram.com/p/B9Rv9NXg2mo/?igshid=dvuje2y03r4l
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travelswithkambiz · 7 years
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Talking about #WomensRights, seems no one is concerned about #ReproductiveCoercion (or #ReproductiveAbuse). The fact that it is not criminalized in the United States violates the basic right of women to consent. Although a female may have consented to sex, but putting a whole on a condom (for instance) to make a woman Pregnant, is manipulative and the basic definition of #SexualAssault. While in the U.S. seems no one cares, in many other countries it is considered a form of #rape. For instance, in #Sweden inseminating a woman without her consent is illegal, even if the woman has consented to (protected) sex. In Canada, a man sabotaging condoms leading to pregnancy will caused charges of sexual assault. Isn't the time to punish #ReproductiveAbusers as rapists?
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freedom4ewa · 4 years
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Help is available 💜 #youarenotalone #knowledgeispower #emotionalabuse #financialabuse #datingviolence #reproductiveabuse #sexualabuse #stalking #litigationabuse #protection #knowyourrights #freedom #love #hope #fearless #warrior #freedom4ewa #helpisontheway #domesticviolence #survivor https://www.instagram.com/p/B9RftIjgaV3/?igshid=jf1tnswbf8qr
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