#being lgbt+? bad
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Character in Earthspark: *is nonbinary*
Parents: Oh, a character who isn’t male or female! This is dangerous to our children!
Bee in Earthspark: *cracks a joke about dead children*
Parents: *crickets*
#lgbt+#tw homophobia#earthspark#transformers earthspark#tw child death#hypocrisy#the reaction to things in this show perfectly encapsulate America right now#being lgbt+? bad#kids dying? okay#I should just go leave the country#sigh#transformers#maccadam
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It's always, like, mildly annoying when people see a het trans couple and go "all that work just to be straight?" like... one, you don't know if they're straight and two, trans people don't owe you a queer sexuality to "make up" for the fact we're trans. Transhet people aren't a subtype of trans people, they're members of the trans community, and the queer one if they so desire!
#trans#transgender#lgbt#lgbtq#ftm#mtf#nonbinary#and i don't really vibe with the word microaggression but it's very that#like it just comes across like people think trans folks owe them queerness and cabaret preformances y'know?#and we cannot *be* if it means the way we are being isn't this carefully curated version people have of transness + queerness#and it can kind of warp your desires and understanding of yourself because you *want* community and to be seen and to be allowed to just be#this isn't universal and the 'you' is impersonal. i am aware this is a broad range of experiences and not everybody can/does relate#my overall point is that it's probably not the best move to act like this toward trans people#maybe i read too much into this but it's just something i have seen over and over and over and over . . . again#shoutout to the real ones (heterosexual and/or straight trans people or people in straight-presenting relationships 👍)#back to playing the lelda of zelda (is it bad that i don't even call her zelda anymore i just go 'THERES LELDA!!!')#it sounds wrong to call her zelda now 😭#the LEG OF ZEG. SWORD SKORD???? BREATH OF THE WEATH!! -my brain 24/7/365
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It's been said before, it will be said again, but it's still worth saying: the fact that art centering on straight romance is allowed to just be bad, but art with queer romance in it always has to be indicative of A Serious Problem With the Way We Tell Queer Stories makes being a queer person making queer art deeply stressful
#just saw smthing about red white and royal blue#and like i never watched/read that one so maybe everything ppl say about it is true#and i never watched heartbreaker or love simon so maybe those ones are also genuinely a sign of a serious problem#but idk. the fact that this happens every damn time makes me think that maybe queer stories are being held to different standards#and it's exhausting writing stuff while having a chorus of voices in the back of my head saying i'm misrepresenting my own identities and#making the whole community look bad by writing mediorcre romance#and knowing that even though i'm neither straight nor a girl there WILL be ppl calling me a straight girl fetishizing queer relationships#lgbt#queer community#writer stuff#idk what else to tag this#asexual#bisexual#nonbinary#venttag
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My Scott (Scout) Pilgrim Brainrot is back in full fucking force.
INTRODUCING: THEM!
(Descriptions under the Cut!)
#scott pilgrim#scout pilgrim#ramona flowers#scott pilgrim takes off#lesbian#lgbt#bisexual#Transgender#t4t#squireart#also in case i didnt make it super clear#ramona is also a trans woman#she just isnt nearly as loud about it as scout is#not that its a bad thing#she's really happy for Scout (even if Scout's being annoying about it)#but Ramona's a Woman#and she's been a woman for a long time now#why dredge up the past?
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I’ve been highly confused as to why Michael “deeply openly thirsting on Twitter about David Tennant for half a decade” Sheen is half-in half-out the closet but apparently Wales is absurdly homophobic lmao what the fuck how is a country the size of New Jersey that much of a hater bruh we out number the shit out of you
#i thought googling ‘how to say gay’ in welsh would be funny but it just made me sad#i knew the uk in general had a problem with trans people but WOW it’s fucked up in wales like. there are 8 of you what are you doing#i feel bad now lmao#wales#my weird welsh hyperfixation has taken me places let me tell you#cymru#homophobia#gay#lgbt#lgbtqia#good omens#bbc staged#michael sheen#i thought he was just ‘oh i’m quiet about my personal life’ but that’s not even true like my man’s probably actually scared#what a fuckass country lmao awesome#uk politics#united kingdom#david tennant#what is it with this tiny ass island taking over the world and being shitty lmao and this is coming from an american#bisexual#<- bisexual gang gang feel bad you fuckin haters lol#yes the whole world is homophobic i know etc but it’s like outrageously bad out there apparently#stay mad that i think nationalism is dumb ‘how dare you ever have an opinion you american’#you’re white you are not going to like where the power + privilege argument inevitably goes
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“queer spaces should be inclusive of people who don’t enjoy sex and who have “strange”, negative or repulsed relationships with sex” and “sex is an important aspect of lgbt community, history, and activism and queer people should be allowed and able to talk freely about sex without stigma or shame” are ideas that can and should coexist.
#‘queer people were banned from and shamed for having sex and that’s where a lot of our activism stemmed from’ and#‘not liking or having sex is considered abnormal and a mental illness and also needs to be destigmatized’ are concepts that not only can but#often do coalign#it’s esp important to consider that a lot of lgbt ppl who have a tricky and strained relationship with sex are like that because of trauma#which is very common for queer folks#it’s really not an ace-only thing#like i am sex repulsed but it’s very hard to discern if it’s because i’m asexual or if it’s the trauma. either way i deserve to have those#feelings and be included in lgbt spaces and discussions about sex and treated as just another queer person with a different experience#instead of being alienated because my feelings about sex don’t directly line up with yours#im so sick of people in this community trying to pit us against each other. as an ace lesbian that shit is so toxic and harmful#my relationship with sex is fluid. im sex-positive always‚ but i often find myself sex repulsed. im otherwise neutral about it but im sick#of people acting like it’s either you enjoy sex and have it frequently or you hate it and you shame everyone who has it like youre a puritan#and it’s often aphobes who bought into that ‘aces are puritanical celibate straights who want ppl who have gay sex to die or think they’re#‘dirty’ or some shit. and it was literally 90% crypto-aphobes pretending to be aces to get people to adopt that into their belief system#the same way crypto-t/rfs pretend to be trans women who want to prey on the ‘innocent women’#and y’all will use those posts/screenshots as ‘evidence’ that whatever scapegoat you’ve selected is actually inherently bad/homophobic/#misogynistic/etc and not even#acknowledge the giant hole in your logic cuz you’re too busy trying to find a scapegoat#it’s the same tactics and y’all fall for it every time#text post#like. lesbians are CONSTANTLY getting hounded and told that we’re broken or mentally i’ll for not showing interest in (having sex with) men#for the same reason asexuality is considered bad or wrong or weird#not showing interest in heterosexual relationships or sex is why this is so important#anyone that falls outside the scope of heterosexuality is part of this community whether you like it or not
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Sometimes I wish that people would learn the difference between sex-repulsion and sex-negativity
#sex-negativity (hating sex as a concept and shaming others for liking it)#sex-repulsion (being disgusted by the idea of having sex yourself)#i'm tired of seeing sex-repulsed 'positivity' posts where they confuse these concepts#newsflash buddy; you can be sex-repulsed AND sex-positive.#i do agree that shaming others for liking sex is bad but at least inform the right people#but there are barely any sex-repulsion positivity posts that don't go 'it's okay to be sex-repulsed as long as you aren't sex-negative!'#every time i go to the sex-repulsed tags whenever i need positivity for my internalised aphobia these are the types of posts i see#lgbtq+#lgbt#asexuality#asexual#asexual pride#ace pride#ace#sex repulsed#sex repulsed pride#sex repulsed positivity#sex repulsed asexual#the insomniac archives
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Steven Universe discourse still cracks me up like
Y'all got a show made by people who clearly love doing their job with explicit LGBT+ rep including non-binary rep and a majority female cast with a variety of body types and with multiple women POC voice actors regarding topics like mindfulness meditation, forgiveness, trauma, PTSD, establishing boundaries within relationships, compassion, with an overall message of forgiveness
And yet y'all seemed to wish for the series' demise at every moment and complained about the most insignificant details like that the storyboard artists had slightly inconsistent art styles
The messages and characters are so complex and compelling and the show gets you to think about difficult concepts and topics which flew over people's heads completely
People still think Steven should've idk wiped out the Diamonds? In the show where the whole message is that people are complicated representations of their experiences and trauma and people deserve second chances?
Idk I feel like a lot of "fans" who start discourse don't actually like the show, otherwise they'd actually absorb the basic premise of it
#SU paved the way for lgbt+ rep in modern cartoons#it's such a massive contender in that movement#they put Ruby in a dress so other countries couldn't censor an openly gay wedding#they out loud labeled anf explained what being non-binary is#i could go on for hours#is the series perfect? of course not#people aren't perfect#but it's a damn good show that touched on incredibly important topics and broadcasted that to kids#and gave them the opportunity to experience not just lgbt+ rep but also#rep for all sorts of mental health topics. good and bad#and so many people wanted that shit to sink#amazing#'wow they gave so much screentime to PEARL who is WHITE'#1. she's an alien rock creature#2. she was enslaved. she was brainwashed. she was traumatized.#her rep was so so so important#she illuminated the fallout of toxic relationships#and anxiety. like????? fbiddksbdkagf#it fucking baffles me that the queer tumblr population got a show tailored to them then ripped it apart for no good reason
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★˙ ̟ karen x gretchen/fetchen fluff in which gretchen drives a tired and slightly drunk karen home after the halloween party <3
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as the commotion of halloween night fizzled out and the people began to drain out the front door, karen couldn’t help but cling to gretchen, her energy draining by the minute. she felt herself stumble over her heels with every step, her eyelids fighting the urge to droop.
when the party is ostensibly over, gretchen takes her hand out of instinct, leading her out the door, down the steps, and to her car.
“are you okay to get home?” gretchen asked just a moment before karen nodded while taking a dizzied step forward, her body betraying her pride. gretchen steadied her with gentle hands on her shoulders and a quiet chuckle. “i can drive you.”
with a sigh, karen just mutters, “yes, please.”
gretchen led karen around each dimly lit space to the bathroom, knowing the taller girl’s home like the back of her hand. in front of the room’s rectangular mirror, gretchen reached for the mouse-eared headband atop karen’s head, slowly pulling it up and off of her. after resting it on the marble countertop beside them, she brushed a stray curl from karen’s eyes, giving her a look so soft that it made her exhausted heart flutter.
she couldn’t help but smile as karen resisted sleep, running a cloth underneath warm water. karen squeezed her eyes shut as gretchen dragged the cloth along her face, slowly removing her makeup.
before karen knew it, it’s over and she’s able to flop into her bed, about to close her eyes when-
“you’re not just gonna sleep in your costume, are you?” gretchen asked, placing a hand on karen’s waist. “why not?” karen mumbled into plush blankets.
“c’mon, mama. change really quick.” karen rolled over to face gretchen, pouting before reaching up to be pulled toward her closet.
“gretch,” karen whispered, slowly combing through oversized t-shirts as if her parents were home, “can you stay the night? my family’s gone.” while changing her clothes, she glanced over her shoulder to monitor gretchen’s reaction.
“huh? why?” gretchen asked as karen laid down beside her, draping an arm over her thighs. “i dunno. i just…don’t wanna be by myself,” karen muttered, looking up at gretchen with a sparkle in her eyes that she can’t help but say yes to.
placing a gentle hand atop karen’s head, she just whispered “okay,” as she combed her fingers through the taller’s hair.
gretchen continued to look back at karen tucked under the covers and checking her nails as she fished through various items in karen’s closet.
“hey, kare,” gretchen hesitated for a moment, “can i wear one of your shirts to bed?” karen nodded, mumbling a confirmation. “i dunno why you’re saying that like you don’t wear my stuff already.”
gretchen chuckled to herself, struggling not to make her awkwardness audible.
right. why’d i do that?
a strangely empty silence falls over the two as gretchen begins to undress, removing her black jumpsuit and replacing it with bare legs and a white t-shirt that reeks of karen, her sweet perfume permeating gretchen’s senses.
gretchen walked toward karen’s bed, part of her expecting, hoping that karen would have fallen asleep by the time she arrived. but she hadn’t. somehow, she seemed even wider awake than she was when they first got back.
she took care to attempt to slide underneath the velvet covers with some degree of finesse so as not to disturb karen’s fidgeting. it doesn’t work as well as gretchen hopes, karen craning her head to face her and giving her a heavy smile before squeezing her weakly.
with a sigh, karen’s face became burrowed into gretchen’s clavicle, softly nipping at her skin and bringing gretchen’s heart rate up so high she becomes scared that karen can hear it. she tangled her legs between gretchen’s, a wave of calm rushing over them both, gretchen shifting her focus onto the candle she’d bought for the taller girl a few months before.
“hold my hand, gretch.”
and of course, gretchen concedes.
she can’t help the way their hands fit together so perfectly. she can’t help the way karen’s teeth feel against her neck. she just can’t help that she loves her best friend so much. because god, how could she not?
as karen drifts to sleep, gretchen giggles under her breath, twirling thin strands of her dark hair between her fingers.
“your costume was really cute tonight, kare. we…kinda matched.” gretchen muttered, stringing her thumb along karen’s knuckles. “we did?” gretchen feels karen’s warm breath against her as she asks. “yeah. cat and mouse.” karen takes gretchen in, just for a second.
“hm. that’s so cool,” karen mumbles. “it’s probably, like, meant to be.” she continues, before returning to nibbling at gretchen’s neck.
karen presses gentle kisses to each spot she bit, forcing gretchen to take in deep breaths. and then her eyes widen at the sudden memory that she’d forgotten to buy regina anything for the holiday. and then she remembers, too, that karen is right there next to her- drunk and tired, but still there.
karen’s bed is so comfortable, her body so warm that it pulls gretchen right back to where she is. there with karen, she feels everything melt away.
karen soon falls into sleep, the rhythm of gretchen’s pulse lulling her to rest as she lays on her chest. when gretchen sees karen’s eyes fluttering shut after the long hours she’d spent awake, she allows hers to do the same.
for a few hours in the night, everything will be perfect. everything will be okay. karen is huddled into gretchen’s arms and, god, she looks so beautiful even while she’s struggling to stay awake.
“you should go to bed, gretch,” karen yawns. “you’re so tired.”
karen’s right and gretchen knows it. she never has to chase karen for her to pay attention.
everything’s fine, at least for tonight. and gretchen revels in karen’s warmth, leans into her touch as if she’d been stuck at sea and karen was the one who brought her to shore.
karen was sweeter than the candy they’d collected every halloween for years. for the first time, gretchen thinks that if every halloween can be like this, she loves the holiday just as much as karen does.
#first fic if it’s bad i’m sorry#i’m also sorry for incorporating karen being a biter#i just consider it canon now#mean girls#mean girls 2024#mean girls musical#fetchen#gretchen x karen#karen x gretchen#gretchen wieners#karen shetty#karen smith#bebe wood#avantika vandanapu#avantika#wlw#wlw ship#sapphic#sapphic ship#lesbian#pansexual#lgbt#lgbtq#cady heron#regina george#janis imi'ike#janis ian#damian hubbard#friends to lovers#ruey writes
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sorry but i’m tired of books/media with softcore trans guy protags who are wimpy and anxious and never stop thinking about how trans they are and have a flowery little romance with a guy who calls them cute. like that’s all good and fine but where are my trans guy protags who are straight up gross. evil. covered in dirt and blood all the time. give me a trans guy character who spits and kills people and fucks to the death and doesn’t give a shit about shit PLEASE i am begging you
#write trans men indistinguishably from cis men you cowards for the love of god#for the record i am not saying soft flowery trans guy characters are bad#it’s just that EVERY media representation of a trans guy that i’ve ever come across has been like that#no offence but i would rather read a book about a trans guy who just straight up murders children for fun#than have to read one more book about a trans guy who stresses out over passing in high school#fucking g o d#AND WRITE ADULT TRANS MEN FOR FUCKS SAKE#ENOUGH WITH EVERY TRANS GUY CHARACTER BEING 17#WHAT THE HELL#anyway lmao#op#trans#transgender#trans man#trans guy#ftm#books#reading#lgbtq#lgbt#rant#1k#2k
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Gotham Knights - 1x11
#gothamknightsedit#dcedit#gotham knights#stephanie brown#harper row#crystal brown#anna lore#fallon smythe#sunny mabrey#gotham knights 1x11#harper x stephanie#sharper#femslash related stuff#I ended up more bummed by the cancellation news than I thought I'd be#it's just...so much you know?#feeling bad for the cast and crew for making such an earnest fun show and not getting any kind of fair shot#feeling bad for the fans for yet another f/f cancellation#for the CW and what it's becoming#for us as a society and how much lgbt stuff is being targeted and sidelined again#BUT what can we do but enjoy and support how we can :x#so anyway this was SUCH a perfect ficcy scene#stephanie making the most difficult choice in the world#and after all her bitter comments to stephanie harper comes here and sees this#not just stephanie's decision but her life#and she has to pause for a bit to actually take it all in#and then all her feelings about her own dad but also her guilt and Other feelings about stephanie making her extra fierce#like she's put together everything she's just witnessed with what she already knows about stephanie#and it DOES make her so selfless and kind and such a hero to her#and the look on stephanie's face!#the other part of the fic
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The events of the first movie are SO much more heartbreaking thinking of Hiccup as trans
#the 'this is a talking fishbone scene???#hiccup wanting to prove himself so bad#the line 'you're not my son' even though stoick didn't mean it like that#being a viking in hiccup's case being a metaphor for being a man#and he's trying so hard to be a viking in the way that everyone thinks of a viking because HE wants to be thought of as a viking but it doe#n't align with who he is#and he learns how to be a viking HIS way and eventually everyone ACCEPTS HIM FOR IT AND THEY EXPAND THEIR DEFINITION TO FIT HICCUp'S#DEFINITION OF A VIKING#also??/#SUPPORTIVE GOBBER?? top tier#trans hiccup#lgbt headcanons#hiccup horrendous haddock iii#hiccup haddock#hiccup#how to train your dragon#riders of berk#defenders of berk#race to the edge#httyd#rob#dob#rtte#rosie's httyd brainrot
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I love you, trans people with intellectual disabilities. You deserve to have the same opportunities as everybody else, and that's because you are a person. You deserve to be happy. Intellectually disabled trans people deserve the exact same respect, recognition, and love that (should be) afforded to everybody else.
Intellectually disabled trans people, you deserve to make your own decisions about your transness. You are allowed to want for transition or to change your name, clothes, hair, pronouns, or anything else. You deserve support and understanding. I hope you are able to receive that. You belong in this world as your true self. Your transness and your disability/disabilities are not bad things - they are good, and they are important.
#trans#transgender#lgbt#lgbtq#ftm#mtf#nonbinary#intellectual disability#disability#disability positivity#trans positivity#absolutely *so* tired of people 'forgetting' that intellectually disabled trans people; 1) exist and 2) are autonomous human beings#absolutely hate hate hate the ableism of 'but we have to protect ID trans people from themselves :('#no. YOU deserve to have a say in your life intellectually disabled trans person. you are a person first and foremost#you don't need to be 'saved' from the 'tragedy' of having an ID or from being trans...#...these things are neutral at worst. you deserve whatever support you want and/or need...#...but you aren't ever a bad person for that. you are loved. you are worthy. you are cherished. you deserve to be you
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#Btw I am not saying anything about the authors beliefs. I don't think they're really relevant#hgsn#the summer hikaru died#hikaru ga shinda natsu#ANyway I really like hgsn. It also makes me feel really bad about being lgbt#But you pick and choose I would recommend it to anyone looking for a good horror read but also#do not try and think too hard about the implications of what it says#Bc I reiterate again it will make you feel bad lol
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no nut novemeber but its a competition between you and your partner(s) to make the other lose.
teasing them, edging them, small things til one just breaks.
extra small clothes, just to tease.
light touches right where theyre needed but its not enough.
cock-warming, thinking you can handle it but you cant, you give in and just start riding like a slut.
you wont lose if you dont cum first though.
and if you had multiple partners, you could gang up on one of them. its not cheating, its using your resources.
oh how they’d whine about how unfair it is that you ganged up on them, but it’s really an advantage to them. they can do whatever they want since they lost, anything to make you lose.
#trans nsft#bi nsft#ftm nsft#queer nsft#transmasc nsft#poly nsft#mlm nsft#sub karma#dom karma#lgbt nsft#polyamory nsft#t4t nsft#nsft concept#nsft#this has been consuming my entire being.#i want partners so bad omfg#im normal abt this i swear
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Heterosexual lesbian. Straight lesbian. Are you people fucking stupid.
#im so speechless. youre straight? and a lesbian?#genuinely what is this.#youre not a lesbian. i dont think you actually know what lesbians are.#say it with me. bisexual is not a bad word. you can be bisexual. being bisexual is not any less queer than being lesbian. its okay to be bi.#gay#lesbian#lgbt#bi#bi lesbian#anti bi lesbian
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