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clusterrune · 5 months
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npd centered/safe blogs
[npd scentered/safe blogs]
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active
@ndcultureis
@narcissisticpdcultureis
@enigma-in-reality
@loverofmirage
@npdemu
@npd--bakugou
@selfdxculture (last posted sept.)
@yourlocalnpd (last posted sept.)
@fixingantinpdableism (last posted aug.)
@narcissist-hoarding (our term hoard blog)
@npdfavs
@prideisforeveryonebutcops
@a-sip-of-milo
@narc0path
@nicepersondisorder
@edrecovery-space (we have not posted in a while but are still active)
@fantasy-store
@cpunkwitch
@your-fave-is-crippled
@vineyard-edits
@archival-arrival
@ego-est-ignis
@objectumluv
@butchcoining
@narcissism-awareness (last posted may)
@mischiefmanifold
@npders (last posted aug.)
@queersrus
@apparentlysubhuman
@sapphic-horror
@your-npd-meme-plug (last posted july)
@puffl3m0n / @acetrappolaswife
@pyrocultureis
@hauntedselves
@empath-abuse-awareness
@citrine-rabbit
@narcissists-true-crime (last posted nov)
@kodiescove
@foolishnpd
@nahmanidontwantto
@alphabet-mafia-collective
@duckduckgoose-exe
@npd-haver
@zombie-dyke
@indifferentvincent
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archives
@npdarchive
@npddoll
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[inactive blogs moved to new list] here(link)
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if any blogs would like to be added or removed please let us know! same goes for any blogs you may have/know that arent on the list and you think should be added.
does not have to be a blog specifically for npd content but at least safe for those with npd.
i would also prefer to include blogs that are screen reader and dyslexic friendly. ie no non-sans serif fonts or coloured text and/or at least includes plane text. as well as blogs that are pro-(researched) selfdx.
[aspd, bpd and hpd bloglists coming soon]
id's in alt text.
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dylan-the-gay · 1 year
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People with personality disorders should kiss other people with personally disorders
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I don't buy that Mr. Markle was blind to his daughter's narcissist rage and abusive behavior.
"Sharp Elbows" is how the mother of Meghan's childhood friend described MEgain.
Does anyone remember the story about the raging argument Sparry and wife had on palace grounds while they were dating?
If so, correct me if I'm wrong: staff reported they had never overheard anything comparable to this level of shouting & screaming by a BRF member. Allegedly it was this argument that caused the dog's injuries.
I didn't believe the story until they shared photos from the so-called trying to roast a chicken engagement event (at Nottingham Cottage) which included the dog & his broken legs.
We received first hand reports of her narcissist rage while from Australians who witnessed: slamming doors, profanity, disrespectful tone to hosts, and of course the hot tea incident.
I wish I had saved Rebecca's notes bc Sparry and wife have managed to live up to their reputation.
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Please follow the link to 👍🏿LIKE You Don't Fool Me
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cistranny · 1 year
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if u use the term "narcissist abuse" and believe all narcissists are abusers then I genuinely hope you can learn to be better because I guarantee you have hurt so many people with your rhetoric and bigotry. also explode
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purplehalnw · 6 months
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helenaroman1111 · 10 months
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solitaryschizoid · 2 months
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neurotypicals will be like "you can't self diagnose" and then diagnose everyone they dislike as a narcissist
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qwainte · 9 months
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I'm not a discourse or educational blog but I saw a post claiming that using the term "narcissistic" against people who don't have NPD is ableist among other claims and I just wanted to make a post in response because their replies are off.
Narcissism is not exclusive to NPD, similar to how depression isn't exclusive to MDD, or how one can exhibit antisocial traits without having ASPD. You can be a narcissist and not suffer from a personality disorder.
Narcissistic abuse IS a thing and they are many people who have been victims of their loved ones due to untreated NPD or simply bc they possessed narcissistic traits
Destigmatizing mental illnesses/disorders shouldn't mean sugarcoating the adverse effects it can have on people surrounding the afflicted person. We are all capable of doing good or bad, with or without mental illness
Please, no one come on to my post and put words in my mouth. I meant no more than what was written above.
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kitten-forward · 6 months
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doomsdayradio · 1 year
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HELP THE TIKTOK ABLEISTS ARE SAYING NARCS EYES CAN STRAIGHT UP GO BLACK⁉️⁉️⁉️
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bro they think we're mythical fucking demons im done😭😭😭
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clusterrune · 3 months
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lets try this again
i have
narc
narcissist(s)
narcissistic
narcissism
npd
narc/narcissist(s)/narcissistic supply
narc/narcissist(s)/narcissistic crash
covert narcissism
overt narcissistm
delusion of grandeur
chosen person (cp)/(chp)
equal person (ep)
narc/narcissist(s)/narcissistic rage
what other npd/narcissism centric terms can i add?
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dylan-the-gay · 1 year
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[ did this to me and my partner but anyone can use ]
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[ Love it <3 ]
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Please, if you can, take a moment to read and share this because I feel like I'm screaming underwater.
NPD (Narcissistic Personality Disorder) stigma is rampant right now, and seems to be getting progressively worse. Everyone is using it as a buzzword in the worst ways possible, spreading misinformation and hatred against a real disorder.
I could go on a long time about how this happened, why it's factually incorrect (and what the disorder actually IS), why it's harmful, and the changes I'd like to see. But to keep this concise, I'll simply link to a few posts under the cut for further reading.
The point of this post is a plea. Please help stop the spread of stigma. Even in mental health communities, even around others with personality disorders, in neurodivergent "safe" spaces, other communities I thought people would be supportive in (e.g. trans support groups, progressive spaces in general), it keeps coming up. So I'm willing to bet that a lot of people on this site need to see this.
Because it's so hard to exist in this world.
My disorder already makes me feel as if I'm worthless and unlovable, like there's something inherently wrong and damaged about me. And it's so much harder to fight that and heal when my daily life consists of:
Laughing and spending time with my friends, doing my utmost best to connect and stay present and focused on them, trying to let my guards down and be real and believe I'm lovable- when suddenly they throw out the word "narcissist" to describe horrible people or someone they hate, or the conversation turns to how evil "people with narcissistic personality disorder" are. (Seriously, you don't know which of your friends might have NPD and feels like shit when you say those things & now knows that you'd hate them if you knew.)
Trying to look up "mental health positivity for people with npd", "mental health positivity cluster bs", only to find a) none of that, and b) more of the same old vile shit that makes me feel terrible about myself.
Having a hard time (which is constant at this point) and trying to look up resources for myself, only to again, find the same stigma. And no resources.
Not having any clue how to help myself, because even the mental health field is spitting so much vitriol at people with DISORDERS (who they're supposed to be helping!) that there's no solid research or therapy programs for people like me.
Losing close friends when they find out, despite us having had a good relationship before, and them KNOWING me and knowing that I'm not like the trending image of pwNPD. Because now they only see me through the lens of stigma and misinformation.
Hearing the same stigma come up literally wherever I go. Clubs. Meetings. Any online space. At the bus stop. At the mall. At a restaurant. At work. Buzzword of the year that everyone loooves loudly throwing around with their friends or over the phone. Feels awesome for me, makes my day so much better/s
I could go on for a long time, but I'm scared no one will read/rb this if it gets too much longer.
So please. Stop using the word "narcissist" as a synonym for "abusive".
Stop bringing up people you hate who you believe to have NPD because of a stigmatizing article full of misinformation whenever someone with actual NPD opens their mouth. (Imagine if people did that with any other disorder! "Hey, I'm autistic." "Oh... my old roommate screamed at me whenever I made noise around him, and didn't understand my needs, which seems like sensory overload and difficulty with social cues. He was definitely autistic. But as long as you're self-aware and always restraining your innate desire to be an abusive asshole, you're okay I guess, maybe." ...See how offensive and ignorant that is?)
Stop preventing healthcare for people with a disorder just because it's trendy to use us as a scapegoat.
If you got this far, thank you for reading, and please share this if you can. Further reading is under the cut.
NPD Criteria, re-written by someone who actually has NPD
Stigma in the DSM
Common perception of the DSM criteria vs how someone may actually experience them (Keep in mind that this is the way I personally experience these symptoms, and that presentation can vary a lot between individuals)
"Idk, the stigma is right though, because I've known a lot of people with NPD who are jerks, so I'm going to continue to support the blockage of treatment for this condition."
(All of these were written by me, because I didn't want to link to other folks' posts without permission, but if you want to add your own links in reblogs or replies please feel free <3)
#actuallynpd#signal boost#actuallyautistic#mental health awareness#narcissistic personality disorder#people also need to realize that mental health professionals aren't immune from bias#(it really shouldn't come as a shock that the mental health field has a longstanding pattern of misunderstanding and mistreating ppl who ar#mentally ill or otherwise ND)#the first therapist i brought up NPD to like. literally pulled out the DSM bc she could barely remember the criteria. then said that there'#no way I have it because I have low self-esteem lmaoooooo#anyway throwback to being at work and chatting with a co-worker. and the conversation turning to mental health. and him saying that#he tries to stay informed and be aware and supportive of mental health conditions & that he doesn't want to be ignorant or spread harmful#misinformation. and then i mentioned that i do a lot of research into mental health stuff and i listed a bunch of things. which included#several personality disorders. one of which was NPD.#and after listening to my whole ass list he zeroed in on the NPD and immediately started talking about how narcissists are abusive and#he knew someone who had NPD and how the person who had it had an addiction and died from the addiction in a horrible way and he#was glad he did#fun times#or when i decided to be vulnerable and talk abt my self-criticism/self-hatred bc i knew my friends also struggled w that and i wanted to#support them by sharing my own coping methods. and they both(separately!) started picking and prodding at my npd through the lens of stigma#bc i'd recently opened up to them abt having it. they recognized self-hatred as a symptom and still jumped on me for it. despite me#trying to share hurt vulnerable parts of myself to help them and connect with them.#again..... fun times
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soupjug · 1 year
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people who have been diagnosed with a pd,
i have my first therapy appointment in a week or so and i want to bring up szpd ( covert specifically ) as a possibility, what should i say? i was going to write a list but without something to prompt me i can’t thing of jackshit. i forget everything. my thoughts / feelings are so vague. and i not sure what about my behavior is or is not notable. i definitely don’t wanna just like go through the list of recognized symptoms cause that makes it less personal to me. and i’m not trying to prove that i have it, i’m trying to explain my thought process as to why i thing that is the most likely explanation
i think i might be kinda stressed over this ( ? not sure ) and i don’t want her to think i’m autistic or what not.
id really appreciate any help ty
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purplehalnw · 1 year
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For the love of god stop using the word narcissistic/narcissist/narcissism as an adjective for when someone is acting like an asshole just say "selfish" or "egotistical". You don't need to be a narcissist to be an asshole. NPD is an actual mental disorder and when you use the term narcissist so casually you are furthering the stigma against ppl with this disorder.
Also btw narcissistic abuse is not real, that's just emotional abuse. The abuse ppl can receive from those with NPD can also be received from those without NPD. For instance, you wouldn't call yourself being abused by an autistic person as "autistic abuse".
And just in general, the person who abused you didn't do so because of some mental disorder, they did it because they chose to.
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helenaroman1111 · 8 months
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