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corvusthecryptid · 1 year

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y'know what? fuck it! shout out to all my fellow "stereotypes!"

shoutout to my fellow autists who do feel like a kid in an adult’s body because their mind works differently. shoutout to my fellow systems who have alters that lash out, and/or alters of fictives from popular media. shoutout to my fellow bpd folks who get clingy and have abandonment issues. shoutout to the autists who act "robotic" and love trains or dinosaurs. shoutout to the people with OCD/OCPD who do get obsessions with cleanliness and orderliness, who do wash their hands over and over, who do lock and unlock the doors a specific number of times. shoutout to the people struggling with intrusive thoughts that do get the violent ones and the sexual ones, not just the self-injurious ones.

shoutout to my fellow flamboyant gays. shoutout to the lesbians who wear flannel and have buzzcuts. shoutout to the aces who like space and cake and dragons. shoutout to the aces who are stoic and don't have an interest in bonding with people even non-romantically. shoutout to the nbs with neopronouns and names like "star." shoutout to the queers(or otherwise lgbt+ folk if you don't use that term for yourself) who have dyed and cut hair, wear a shitload of pronoun pins, wear a rainbow binder that can be seen, and love talking about how much they love being part of the community.

shoutout to my fellow activists who yell and get mad. shoutout to my fellow activists who bring up the problems in things, even if it means "always making it political." shoutout to the feminists who don't wear bras or shave, and don't get along with men.

shoutout to the men who struggle with emotions. shoutout to the men who love blue and camo and trucks and fixing things and sports and hunting. shoutout to the women who cry easily. shoutout to the women who take hours getting ready. shoutout to the women who love pink and shopping and shoes and cooking and taking care of kids and cleaning.

i'm very white so i'll summarize the next one: shoutout to all the BIPOC fitting into "stereotypes" as well. if anyone who is BIPOC wants to give specific shout outs, go for it!

to anyone who fits these or any other "stereotypes":

You are not a stereotype. You are a person with traits and qualities. You are not doing anything wrong by being true to yourself, whether that means fitting expectations or not.

Anyone who hates whatever group you are in for these "stereotypes" would hate your group regardless; anyone who accuses you of "giving your group a bad name" is deflecting the hate onto you because it's easier to pretend that it's nothing they are doing that gets that hatred; the truth is, bigots are bigots and they will always find a "reason" to be hateful. You trying to avoid "stereotypes" will never change that.

(do not fucking clown on this post. you will not get a debate from me, you will get blocked.)

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aintnopartylikeaprideparty · 3 months

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as someone who has experienced abuse from someone with a personality disorder, it's actually incredibly easy to not dehumanize everyone with a personality disorder. i've seen people do borderline eugenic rhetoric surrounding people who have npd, aspd, bpd or other personality disorders, and then be like "I'M allowed to say these things because i'm a survivor, and if you disagree you are hurting abuse victims."

and frankly? i'm tired of it. as an abuse survivor i'm here to say that you're NOT allowed to turn into a fucking eugenicist the moment you're hurt by someone with a personality disorder.

does hurting and belittling other people who happen to have the same disorder as your abuser, people that are already suffering and that are already looked down on by society, bring you any healing? does it bring you peace?

Being hurt by someone isn't an excuse to hurt others that you feel justified in lashing out on. you're literally in control of your own actions,

you may claim to be making a safe space for abuse survivors, but i will never feel any solidarity with you, and i ESPECIALLY don't feel safe with you considering i might have a personality disorder.

you are excluding a large amount of abuse survivors in the name of "advocacy". a lot of people with personality disorders developed one or multiple due to heavy abuse. in the aim of creating a safe space, you are excluding the ones who need a safe space the most.

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motormouthedfool · 5 months

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bitches be like "do i have a personality disorder or am i just looking for attention or am i just trying to find excuses for behaving the way i do"

im bitches

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slow-burn-sally · 6 months

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Are you a "Leave it on in the background" neurodivergent, or are you a "Watch it like a hawk, or not at all" neurodivergent?

#neurodivergent #audhd #autism #adhd #ocd #bpd #ocpd #schizophrenia #npd

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cluster-c-chaos · 2 years

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also this is the last thing for now, but when I was first figuring this stuff out (pre-diagnosis), I googled "is it possible to have more than one personality disorder?" and found the answer to be "yes, but steer clear of someone who does!"

so I just wanted to say... if you have more than one personality disorder, you are still worthy of good things. you can still live a good life. you can still have strong connections to other people, and you can still learn to love yourself. having a personality disorder doesn't make you a bad person, and neither does having several personality disorders

#tw ableism #tw sanism #whatever.#personality disorders #this goes for EVERY cluster #cluster a #cluster b #cluster c #avpd #ocpd

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tumbler-polls · 5 months

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Please reblog for a bigger sample size!

Submitted by @anon.

#paranoid #schizoid #schizotypal #antisocial #borderline #histrionic #narcissistic #avoidant #dependent #ocpd #psychology #mental health #cluster a #cluster b #cluster c #tumblr polls #tumbler polls

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saffigon · 9 months

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shoutout to aros wPDs

shoutout to cluster a aros. shoutout to aros wPPD. shoutout to aros wSTPD. shoutout to aros wSZPD

shoutout to cluster b aros. shoutout to aros wASPD. shoutout to aros wBPD. shoutout to aros wHPD. shoutout to aros wNPD

shoutout to cluster c aros. shoutout to aros wAVPD. shoutout to aros wDPD. shoutout to aros wOCPD

#aromantic #aro #arospec #cluster a #ppd #stpd #szpd #cluster b #aspd #bpd #hpd #npd #cluster c #avpd #dpd #ocpd #personality disorder #personality disorders #pd #pwpd

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franknfurterstriangulardinosaur · 1 year

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The thing is that if there was any positive resources for Personality Disorders, we would be able to get better. Instead, if we look up “narcissist help”, articles come up with “how to destroy a narcissist” and “they’re self absorbed, entitled and manipulative”. You look up your disorder and you just get things that articles on how other people can destroy your mental health, just because you have your condition, because of the trauma that caused you to have this personality disorder. It’s like they don’t want us to get better, they just want us to know how we’re horrible. They need people to demonise us, they want us to be destroyed. They make sure that everything hurts us. They expect us to recover then stigmatise the things we are trying to fix. That doesn’t convince us to get better, that convinces us to become the worst version of ourselves.

#narcissist abuse isn’t real #narcisstic personality disorder #actually narcissistic #npd #bpd #aspd #antisocial personality disorder #personality disorder #hpd #ppd #szpd #stpd #ocpd #dpd #avpd #narcisstic resources #mental illness #eupd #ableism

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gay-jewish-bucky · 11 months

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cluster a and cluster c culture is constantly being left out of conversations about personality disorders while still facing intense stigma and social isolation for your symptoms :/

#so tired #personality disorders #pd #cluster a #ppd #paranoid personality disorder #scpd #schizoid personality disorder #stpd #schizotypal personality disorder #cluster c #avpd #avoidant personality disorder #dpd #dependant personality disorder #ocpd #obsessive compulsive personality disorder

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doomsdayradio · 5 months

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curious about something

feel free to share your PD and your parents' PD/suspected PD if you feel comfortable. i just thought this poll might be an interesting idea considering PDs are believed to be born from a mix of genetic and environmental factors. personally, i have a mix from all the clusters and neither of my parents were diagnosed with a PD, but i've gone over the BPD criteria with my mother and we both heavily suspect she has it. we also suspect my father had NPD, but i am admittedly less confident about that one as he had other diagnosed mental health issues that his symptoms could be attributed to.

#words words words !!#poll #polls #❓#cluster a #cluster b #cluster c #bpd #hpd #aspd #npd #stpd #ppd #szpd #ocpd #avpd #dpd #!

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sysboxes · 1 month

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Cluster C Personality Disorder Userboxes

(also, we have permission from the creator of the flags to do this, so long as the creator is properly credited :3)

Flag credits to @fantasy-store (link)

[Text: This system has Avoidant Personality Disorder (AVPD).]

[Text: This system has Dependent Personality Disorder (DPD).]

[Text: This system has Obsessive-Compulsive Personality Disorder (OCPD).]

[Text: This system is Cluster C.]

Please like/reblog if you save or use!

#endos dni #userbox #system #did #anti endo #osdd #traumagenic system #system stuff #this system #system userbox #cluster c #avpd #dpd #ocpd #personality disorder #mod weeping ❤️

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dodgeryy · 5 months

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Anyone with personality disorders willing to share difficulties in relationships/intimate connections?? Asks, comments, rbs??

-Cluster b (borderline) trying to get to know more about the other clusters and PDs because you never really understand until you talk w em I find.

For me personally the main trigger is just fear of abandonment and emotional permanency. Which literally categorizes bpd but idk if other clusters are as interpersonally defined and recognizable as b???

You're all valid! This is a safe space correct me if I said anything wrong.

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tortiefrancis · 2 years

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people with personality disorders are still capable of love, affection and caring about others, but it's okay to struggle with those things.

you aren't evil for not feeling love, hating showing or receiving affection or not caring. it doesn't make you a bad person, or less deserving of respect.

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dismemberment-on-a-tuesday-night · 4 months

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We need a slur for people without personality disorders.

#Abraham original: Hot off the press #NPD #HPD #OCPD #Cluster B #Cluster C #Personality disorders

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mogai-toybox · 4 months

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Clustive Flags Clustives are system members that hold symptoms of a cluster disorder, control the symptoms of the disorder, or have a role otherwise tied to the cluster disorder they or the system have. [ source ] by @playing-card-coining

Introject flag base: @localhazard-wikiblog

SzPDtive or Zoidtive [ original ] Flag: @schizoidflagcreator [ here ] Symbol: @actuallyschizophrenic [ here ]

StPDtive or Typaltive [ original ] Flag: N/A [ here ] Symbol: @actuallyschizophrenic [ here ]

PPDtive or Noidtive [ original ] Flag: Us Symbol: @actuallyschizophrenic [ here ]

AsPDtive or Antisotive [ original ] Flag: N/A [ here ] Symbol: archived by @aspdsolace [ here ]

BPDtive or Bordertive [ original ] Flag: @ptsdsafe [ here ] Symbol: @ptsdsafe [ here ]

NPDtive or Narctive [ original ] Flag: N/A* and @npdflag [ here ] *original by npdsafe is gone Symbol: @npdflag [ here ]

HPDtive or Histriotive [ original ] Flag: N/A [ here ] Symbol: @puriette [ here ]

AvPDtive or Avoidtive [ original ] Flag: @avpdvoidspace [ here ] Symbol: @avpdvoidspace [ here ]

OCPDtive [ original ] Flag: @21stcenturynarc [ here ] Symbol: inspired by @21stcenturynarc [ here ]

DPDtive or Depentive [ original ] Flag: @dependont [ here ] Symbol: @revenant-coining [ here ]

These flags are a reupload from @hr6819-coining.

@pluralterms @pluralitywords @pdsarchive

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withlove-succubus · 1 year

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Personality disorders

So, what is a personality disorder?

— A personality disorder is an enduring pattern of inner experience and behaviour that causes an individual distress and an inability to function. They usually develop in teenage years or early adulthood

There are 10 personality disorders listed in the DSM-V and they're organised into three clusters

Cluster A personality disorders

– characterized by odd, eccentric thinking or behavior

PPD – Paranoid personality disorder

SzPD – Schizoid personality disorder

STPD - Schizotypal personality disorder

Cluster B personality disorders

– characterized by dramatic, overly emotional or unpredictable thinking or behavior

ASPD - Antisocial personality disorder

BPD - Borderline personality disorder, also known as EUPD (Emotionally unstable personality disorder)

HPD - Histrionic personality disorder

NPD - Narcissistic personality disorder

Cluster C personality disorders

– characterized by anxious, fearful thinking or behavior

AvPD - Avoidant personality disorder

DPD - Dependant personality disorder

OCPD - Obsessive compulsive personality disorder – (NOTE: OCPD and OCD AREN'T the same thing)

Causes of personality disorders:

– genetics

– brain changes

– childhood trauma

– verbal abuse

Each personality disorder has it's own set of symptoms, however all of them share two main ones which are:

– a lack of a clear or stable image of self

– struggling forming and keeping close relationships

Please note that recovery is possible with therapy, although everyone's experience will be different

This blog will focus on cluster B personality disorders, my own experiences and possibly other people's experience, although people from other clusters are welcomed to stay~

Have a good day/night~

— With love, Succubus

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