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thelifeofsharks · 2 months
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Would it not be cool if we could have a post with none ableist tips for how to navigate life with NPD and/or ASPD.
So give me your best tips on how to live with ASPD and/or NPD.
(narc abuse truthers will be banned on sight.)
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888-stargirl · 11 days
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when i say “for the plot” and it ends up ruining my life and putting me into a year long depression
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tomorrowusa · 4 months
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« Donald Trump is going to -- if he starts losing -- he's going to take everyone down with him. I mean psychologically that's what he's going to do. He's not going to want to -- he's never going to support somebody who beats him.
So, it's sort of a difficult situation for the Republicans. They have this man who needs to win at all costs basically to stay out of prison, and at the same time he's such a personality. He's a narcissistic sociopath, and he -- he is not going to let anyone else win without trying to destroy them. »
— Conservative anti-MAGA contributor to The Atlantic George Conway on CNN in conversation with Jim Acosta and David Gergen.
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Trump has a Götterdämmerung aspect about him. If he can't win then he's going to take everything and everybody down with him.
Trump almost certainly won't lose the Iowa caucuses. But if his totals are below expectations, he will lash out at everybody imaginable.
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I don't buy that Mr. Markle was blind to his daughter's narcissist rage and abusive behavior.
"Sharp Elbows" is how the mother of Meghan's childhood friend described MEgain.
Does anyone remember the story about the raging argument Sparry and wife had on palace grounds while they were dating?
If so, correct me if I'm wrong: staff reported they had never overheard anything comparable to this level of shouting & screaming by a BRF member. Allegedly it was this argument that caused the dog's injuries.
I didn't believe the story until they shared photos from the so-called trying to roast a chicken engagement event (at Nottingham Cottage) which included the dog & his broken legs.
We received first hand reports of her narcissist rage while from Australians who witnessed: slamming doors, profanity, disrespectful tone to hosts, and of course the hot tea incident.
I wish I had saved Rebecca's notes bc Sparry and wife have managed to live up to their reputation.
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the-bonfires-ember · 4 hours
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Friendship and ASPD
In a cluster b server I’m in, someone asked about how ASPD impacts friendships and I was encouraged to cross post my response on here so here we go.
Firstly, I’m going to go through how I figured out friendship and how to make it work for me starting from my lowest functioning point to where I am now.
So to begin with, I had no true circles. I floated between groups of people who could give me what I wanted in that moment and just manipulated them into giving it to me if my request alone was not satisfactory. Sometimes all I wanted was social camouflage, sometimes i wanted money or food or a distraction. It was arbitrary and there was no real long term plan - at least, when i was no longer in an environment where long term strategies were vital.
Eventually, as I started working on my recovery, I managed to maintain relationships that were exclusively online. The convenience in putting away my laptop and my social obligations disappearing along with it was immensely helpful and it gave me a way of experimenting with being a little more open and a little more attached that had no Real Life repercussions. It was still transactional, all my relationships still are to this day, but they started becoming less Obviously transactional. I was still getting physical, tangible stuff from people, but I was also getting support, a safe space to figure out how to relate to my emotions, and somewhere to practice empathy and other social skills like it. There was a lot of trial and error but when I ruined something in one space I could just start again somewhere else and not have to worry about the two overlapping.
Now that I am Recovered™️ sort of, I’ve developed Exceptions, who have at some point shown that they are trustworthy and nonjudgemental and understand the antisocial side of my personality and are happy to help me work around it. My symptoms sort of change around them. I don’t have remorse but with Exceptions I will feel a kind of visceral disgust directed at myself for how I could have hurt them like that and that will quite often spark a narc crash.
I decided a long time ago what I didn’t want to be, so throughout the entire process I was watching for patterns of behaviour that were harmful for the sake of being harmful. I created a quite intricate set of rules that I couldn’t loophole my way out of and that was very much an important factor in how I continued to develop my skills and ability to interact and maintain relationships.
I am still bad at a lot of stuff though. I don’t reach out to people, I never start conversations so a lot of people just disappear until I’m reminded of them. I’m also awful at vocalising appreciation and while I know logically that people like to help their friends, I constantly have an internal debate about whether I am taking advantage of people I don’t want to be taking advantage of (given that taking advantage of people tends to make them pissed off eventually). And there are days where I don’t want to be around anyone at all and thats ok. It’s better for me to let myself be by myself than to force myself to interact with people when I really dont want to.
Recognising where I lack skills and reflexes prosocials have has been a skill in and of itself and it took a long time to develop it. But it’s been worth it to me, I’m now able to experience and enjoy so many aspects of life I thought weren’t meant for me.
And I’m very smug about being able to get it despite it being implied I never would.
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This poem explores the journey of a man who emotionally manipulates women, keeping them in a state of hope and uncertainty while he continues to search for fulfillment. Despite finding someone who seems to fit his ideal, he remains empty and continues his cycle of exploitation. The women in the poem are depicted as horses, symbolizing their role in his manipulation and control.
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healingwgabs · 7 months
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Saw your most recent post in the ASPD tags, don't post there if your going to be abelist.
It’s not ableist, ppl with these patterns thrive in our society and are quite overrepresented in powerful jobs and are quite successful (in this sense)! I’d go as far as to argue that our current society was built by them and for them to excel in, giving them an unfair advantage over others who carry more “light triad” qualities and aren't along the spectrum. Even if u look at the workweek, most ppl don’t function like that (they're wired differently)...I do recognize that these disorders are stigmatized, however, I do think that’s for good reason and those who have these diagnoses should be approached with caution. ASPD is a diagnosis that is more of a danger to others more than anything else if u read the criteria
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catsanddemonssystem · 26 days
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Prison should only be used on the most extreme cases. (Rape, murder, hate crimes, exteme personal property damage) 90% of the people in jail shouldn't be there. People in jail should still have a high standard of living. The point of jail should be to isolate dangerous people in tell they can be rehabilitated so they can't do harm not to punish someone.
The criminal justice system should be based on restorative justice and rehabilitation not punishment. Sorry but fuck your desire for revenge.
Criminal background check should only be used when working with valuable people. Criminal background checks are just used to target mentally ill people and bipoc people.
People who belong to groups who suffer from mass incarceration (indigenous people, black people and NPD/ASPD people) should receive the minimum punishment and should never be given a felony.
When a plea deal is given the is no time restriction on it and the guilty party should be allowed to choose between the plea deal and the sentence chosen by the jury.
There should be three trails. The first one is to see if the arrest is justified. The second one should be if the person did the crime and the last one should be what the punishment for the crime will be. Plea bargains should not be a thing before the 3rd trail. (Yes your tax dollars are going to pay for this)
Cops should be 100% disarmed. (This includes teargas, teasers, riot gear, bullet proof vest) Being a cop is a choice but being indigenous, black, a narcissist or a sociopath isn't.
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narcissistsrus · 2 days
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Most narcissistic men are gay. They’ll never admit it but I think that’s their dark MO. He hates when you receive attention from other men because he wants the attention from the men. Ask him if he’s gay, and see the response.
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isolde-serpentia · 2 days
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How could you?
I gave you everything.
I gave up everything.
I lost myself as I gave you empty hands because there was nothing more to give...
And you smiled.
You loved every second of destroying me.
Your poison eventually succumbed me to the addiction.
I became addicted to you.
Your this ghastly drug that's a leach on my soul, and you'll feed.
I have no nutritional value left, but you'll feed anyway.
I can't get away from you.
My every move...
My every waking moment flashes your image through my mind like lightning striking a tree and setting it a'blaze.
You destroyed me.
You mock me as a victim as of your a saint.
Well, I'm no victim.
I'll be the one to bury you with your own poison one day.
Even then, I will still never be able to get away from you.
At least the world will be safer without your existence.
For that, I will be able to smile back at you.
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mfb1949 · 9 days
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littledolce · 13 days
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move on
it was time to move on. sign the agreement to sever these sociopaths.
so there is freedom, and there is also powerlessness. slight feelings of resentment towards those I thought could help. but, as the one before, each of them fell away in their own quiet way, not wishing to expose the true nature of the situation- that the unit, right now, is ineffective and unable to protect against a cluster of narcissistic sociopaths. while I did meet the occasional angel, I really did not get help when it really mattered - the institution, like others, in fact actively sabotaged, lied, and attempted to scapegoat me.
and I feel like a burden to others because I need(Ed) to talk so much. and maybe it is too much. not many reach out unless I reach out first. MO says this is normal, but it doesn't feel good. no one can bear what I did, alone. I am not meant to thrive in this atomized modern life, without others- without kindness, love, and working together. I feel purposeless not being part of a team, a collective. I notice feelings of abandonment, but I suppose it's not as bad as before because I know I have myself.
As Zarina said recently, "I think I went into such deep darkness and have known such deep pain that I'm left entirely on my own ... to know myself. I don't think God is guiding me anymore. No one is. I'm staring into the abyss and all I have to hold onto is my own heart".
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gardensof-babylon · 24 days
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I think a lot of people would give me more credit for being only as insane as I am if they knew I had a father who told me he’s a sociopath
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amateurcritic · 26 days
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Imagine a dumb sociopath having a smart roommate(imagination under the cut).
Sociopath: I’m going out tonight with friends.
Roommate: No you’re not. You don’t have friends.
Sociopath: Yes I do! They like me!
Roommate: Be real. Nobody likes you. They only pretend to like you because you’re easy to manipulate.
Sociopath *appalled*: I’m not easy to manipulate! I’m great, I get everyone’s drinks, I shoplift their favorite things, I kill pets! I’m actually manipulating them, see! Into thinking I’m cool!
Roommate: So you’re not cool?
Sociopath: I am cool! I’m just not gullible!
Roommate *puts down x-box controller*: You would do literally anything I asked if I said I’d give you a puppy.
Sociopath: Pfft! No I wouldn’t. You don’t even have a puppy to give me.
Roommate: I’d buy you one.
Sociopath: I’ll buy my own.
Roommate: Every pet store in town knows not to sell to you.
Sociopath: Darn!
*Long pause*
Sociopath: So are you gonna-
Roommate: Only if you stay in tonight and behave yourself.
Sociopath: Fine!
*Sociopath stomps away and goes straight to bed*
*Sociopath returns the next morning*
Sociopath: Where’s-
Roommate: There is no puppy.
*Sociopath opens mouth*
*Roommate tosses the sociopath a stuffed animal*
Roommate: And that’s how easy you are to manipulate.
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What Is a Narcissistic Sociopath?
Here are 10 signs:
1. They Live In a Deluded Reality
Narcissistic sociopaths don’t see the world in the same way other people do. In their distorted version of reality, they are entitled to whatever they want, regardless of what it takes to get it or who is hurt in the process. They will justify their actions, even ones that are inexcusable, and show no remorse. A sociopath’s narcissism may also lead them to develop delusions of grandeur about being important, special, or exceptional in some way. Or, they can experience paranoid delusions that others are out to get them.
2. They Are Obsessed With Power & Control
People with NPD and ADP are power-hungry. Sociopathic narcissists put a lot of time and effort into acquiring positions that give them power or control over people, bowling over anyone who gets in their way. Once they obtain control, they may demand to be addressed in a certain way or make others follow rules that don’t make sense. This obsession also tends to show up as a refusal to acknowledge any other authority, including rules, laws, policies, or requests made of them by others.
3. They Take Advantage of & Use Other People
Narcissistic sociopaths have a habit of using, exploiting, and taking advantage of others. This tendency shows up in all of their relationships, including romantic, platonic, or familial relationships they’ve been able to maintain. They seek out codependent, nurturing individuals who are more easily manipulated and controlled through guilt, shame, or fear, and will hold onto these relationships for as long as the person remains “useful.”
4. They Have No Moral Boundaries
There are no lines a narcissistic sociopath won’t cross to get what they want. Their moral compass is non-existent, leaving them without the sense of “right and wrong” that most people have. After doing something harmful, illegal, or sadistic, they won’t feel remorse, regret, or guilt. In fact, they may even feel a sense of satisfaction knowing they were able to deceive, emotionally manipulate, or hurt someone.
5. They Have a Limited Range of Emotions
Narcissistic sociopaths don’t experience feelings of love and affection, or more vulnerable emotions like guilt, shame, or sadness. The only strong emotion they seem to be able to access is anger. This can show up as outrage or narcissistic rage when they’re slighted, offended, or not granted something they feel they deserve. This stunted emotional range also keeps them from being able to experience empathy, sometimes leading them to engage in destructive behaviors that grant them some form of feeling.
6. They Have a Huge Discard Pile
Narcissistic sociopaths are known to discard people and things that are no longer useful to them. Over time, their narcissistic discard pile stacks up and may include former friends, lovers, colleagues, and mentors. Their discard pile may also include expensive material things they got bored or tired of, as well as roles or activities that served a purpose at one time but are no longer useful to them.
7. They Become Hostile When Threatened
Narcissistic sociopaths are most dangerous when they feel threatened. Because of their natural tendency to be paranoid, less trusting, and more easily offended, threats can be a routine occurrence for them. When they feel threatened, the narcopath will often become hostile and aggressive, lashing out and becoming abusive toward others.
8. They Feed Off of Negative Energy
A narcissistic sociopath feeds off of negative emotions and energy. There is something about drama, others’ fear or pain, or the chaos of disaster that seems to excite them or give them energy. This kind of parasitic attraction to negativity is a telltale sign of a sick person, including a person who may have traits of NPD and ASPD. This behavior is also what makes sociopathic narcissists sadistic and dangerous, causing them to enjoy the pain and suffering of others.1
9. They Get Bored Easily
A narcissistic sociopath is constantly seeking sensations and cheap thrills because nothing can hold their interest and attention for long. They become easily bored with people, things, and activities, and will abandon them once they are no longer entertained. This boredom can also turn into a restlessness that causes them to find destructive outlets. For this reason, people with these traits tend to be impulsive and aggressive, or engaged in crime, violence, or drug use.
10. They Are Empty Inside
A narcissistic sociopath may have worked hard to craft a powerful, important image, but this is a front. Lacking the ability to feel a full range of emotions makes them hollow and empty on the inside, keeping them from really experiencing things, expressing themselves, or connecting with others. This internal emptiness is what they’re trying to hide from others with their narcissism, and also what they’re seeking to escape within themselves by using maintaining a level of entertainment, power, or destruction.
Hailey Shafir, LCMHCS, LPCS, LCAS, CCS Medical Reviewer: Rajy Abulhosn, MD 
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