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#npd abuse isnt real
solitaryschizoid · 2 months
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neurotypicals will be like "you can't self diagnose" and then diagnose everyone they dislike as a narcissist
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occultist-romantic · 8 months
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this is fucking crazy to me i mean people w npd arent mythological demons, how the hell does someone's eyes turn black. these shitheads are just ableist, no other explanation. these survivors gather to shit on people who were ALSO traumatized as a child.
if you support every other mental illness except for cluster b disorders, schizophrenia, did, etc. then you are ableist. you're not that mental health advocate you think you are.
not every abuser is a narcissist, psychopath, sociopath, etc. abusers are people who choose to abuse. abuse is something that is done INTENTIONALLY. you can see someone who is hurting.
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lavenderisawake · 2 days
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NPDMAXXING/NARCMAXXING
a gender in the gendermaxxed system for when your gender is NPDpilled and NPDmaxxes you are NPDmaxxing.
This gender is exclusive to people with NPD.
flag coined by:: @rabidbatboy
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ray-of-melancholy · 14 days
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I want to like r/cptsd and r/cptsdmemes but God they are so ablist to people like me. I'm sick of not being welcomed in spaces that fit me and that by all means I should belong in because of my disorder actually, like sorry my trauma didn't form in the nicely packaged way you wanted it to, im not happy about it either.
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autopsyfreak · 11 days
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tired of people on tiktok acting like BPD and HPD are the ‘good cluster b disorders’ or the ‘victim cluster b’s’ meanwhile NPD and ASPD are the ‘evil mean abusive cluster b’s’
stfu.
we’re in the same cluster for a reason, you can’t support some whilst demonising the others.
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voxxy1950 · 15 days
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If you want to describe your shitty fuck ex who was self-centered, egotistical, and manipulative, just use those individual fucking words instead of a personality disorder. It's easy to just have a vocabulary.
This can apply to narc abuse believers as well, just use different words!!! They explain your abuse much better instead of acting like narcissists abuse in a special super different way because ANYONE can be manipulative, egotistical, and self-centered!
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npd-haver · 5 months
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narc abuse believers: “actually npd and narcissism isn’t the same thing☝🏻🤓”
narc abuse believers in the next sentence: “ppl with ‘npd/narcissists’ are evil entities that should be castrated and thrown in jails for existing!!!🔪🔪🔪”
like which one is it
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bigswigrollers · 5 months
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everytime I see someone with bpd say anything about "narcissistic abuse" I'm like dude were supposed to be on the same side as them. bpd npd solidarity we are both severely stigmatized bro
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vixen-angel · 5 days
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purposely putting yourself in danger, or being visibly sad so maybe someone might ask if youre doin alright.. but then nobody bats an eye.
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On the topic of NPD and "narcissistic abuse".
So, I've been a victim of a few abusive relationships. I've been starved, guilt tripped, gaslit (to the point I STILL have trouble figuring out if I'm right about something that has been confirmed several times.) And out of the few people I was hurt by, do you know how many of them were diagnosed narcissists?
One. Just one. Though, the others were autistic. Hell, even severely depressed! But I'm not out here advocating against "autistic abuse." That sounds pretty ableist, right?
So what gives you the right to do that to people who are also struggling? How would you feel if a psychiatrist or therapist told you that you were evil or could not be helped due to a disorder. How would you feel if when trying to figure yourself out and going through the symptoms, all you find are articles upon articles of how you're inherently abusive and no one should love you or give you any attention?
If someone is abusing you, it is not BECAUSE they are a narcissist. It's not BECAUSE they have a disorder you seem as uncouth or scary. And you're not wrong for being upset or angry about your abuse. You deserve to feel your feelings!!!
But when you start shooting down your fellows in struggling with mental illness, you drag us all down. You make the people you claim to care for feel unsafe.
Do better. Be better to people. Encourage people to get help if you notice dangerous or hurtful behavior. You can be hurt, but don't let your actions further hurt others and perpetuate the cycle.
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solitaryschizoid · 2 months
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Why is it so hard for neurotypicals to understand that it's not safe to be formally diagnosed with a personality disorder when they literally paint us as abusers and evil monsters at every possible chance they get?
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dodgeryy · 2 months
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Let's settle this home boys.
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pile-of-trauma · 8 months
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once again, now for the people in the back:
NARCISSISTIC ABUSE DOESNT EXIST!
WHAT YOU MEAN TO SAY IS EMOTIONAL ABUSE!
STOP DEMONIZING AN ENTIRE GROUP OF PEOPLE (THATS A TON OF PEOPLE, BTW) WITH A PERSONALITY DISORDER THAT WAS NOT THEIR FAULT AND MOSTLY CAUSED BY TRAUMA AND ABUSE IN AND OF ITSELF!
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I need someone messaging me every morning when I wake up telling me how great I am so I have enough energy to get through the day
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autopsyfreak · 15 days
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the biggest betrayal. bffr
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wxrmeaterz · 11 days
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heyyy lets not site the fucking article about how "histrionic narcissists are the worst people to be friends with"
im literally just some dude
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