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tarotwithavi · 11 months
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Difference between karmic relationships and soulmate relationships
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Karmic relationships are too overwhelming and people tend to lose themselves in these relationships. These are the relationships that make you doubt yourself , Trigger a lot of traumas. Karmic relationships are like forest fires, too passionate and overwhelming, but the fire dies down as soon as it starts. The person you're in a relationship with will trigger a lot of past traumas and sometimes make you feel unworthy of love. These are the relationships where you suddenly stop liking the things you used to love , you feel like a whole new person but deep down you know that person isn't the real you.
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Soulmate relationships on the other hand make you feel worthy of love. You fall in love deeper with the things you love. You do feel like a whole new person but the more is more on the positive side. These are the relationships where you'll find yourself being more confident and accepting of yourself. The person you're in a relationship with will heal you and not hurt you. The relationships where you'll fall in love with the little things like falling leaves, birds, butterflies, roads , sky, stars and most importantly The Moon. In these relationships you can literally feel the love oozing out of your body lol. Also you feel very calm and peaceful in these relationships and not rushed and overwhelmed.
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tellmewhatitis · 11 months
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we literally find each other in every lifetime if u even care
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free-grandmaa · 1 month
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"Would you sing along with me? Don't you want to remember."
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cooki3face · 3 months
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When people say “please stop saying choose better or stop telling us to choose better because you know men pretend to be someone completely different in the beginning and then change.” I don’t ever completely disagree but I will say that there are very clear and obvious signs that we miss all the time within our relationships because we’ve put the person we’re seeing or dating or talking to on a high pedestal and our perception is cloudy due to the way we feel. Cycles of behavior or when and what takes place, when someone takes their affection or their attention away from you, the types of things they talk about or the types of things they reveal about themselves, the way they speak to us when they’re frustrated or annoyed or angry, when someone DOES give you their attention and their affection,, etc.
There was no change or no shift, but there WAS someone who was putting on a performance or who was cookie crumbing you or doing whatever they needed to do from the standpoint of whatever their intentions were for you. Nobody willingly and continuously participates in a behavior that doesn’t get their needs met whatever those needs may be. When you run into a situation where someone takes advantage of you, your time, your energy, or exploits you for their own personal gain the best thing you can do is turn inwards and heal whatever was broken or damaged within you or for you!! And leave them alone, cut contact with them and take your energy back.
In laymen’s terms, “focus on yourself”
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astrobydalia · 8 months
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Friendly reminder that soul contracts aren’t always supposed to be negative. Some people teach you hard lesson and some will help you grow by being an active positive influence in your life.
I always say this, not everything is black or white use your common sense and inner wisdom
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Venus opposite Pluto (6 degrees or less)
Creates a magnetic attraction towards people, places, aesthetics, friendships, music, art we find mysterious and very different from us. There is an intensity in love, there can be an addictive quality within relationships. You or your partner (this can swing back and forth like a pendulum) can become jealous, obsessed, abusive, secretive, manipulative. This can create deep subconscious power struggles. There is an intense nature in you when it comes to love and relationships. In your formative years you could really struggle with feeling bullied or different than your peers. These feelings can lead to poor self esteem/ self image. You feel like you need love, so you might take anything you can get. You might even coerce or manipulate “Gods plan” in some way. For example: stalking someone you admire, waiting until they’re single and then pouncing on the opportunity to pretend as if you didn’t know they’d just broken up with their partner… pretending as if it was just “coincidence” that you got the urge to call/email/text out of seemingly no where.
Really, you don’t have to coerce, beg or manipulate. You have the magnesium, but patience and healthy expectations are key.
Pluto represents the dark, taboo, crime, drugs, dangers and sexuality wether that be “healthy” or abusive.
Venus represents love, relationships, aesthetic, pleasures, art, music.
These two in opposition can lead to being attracted to the exact opposite of what you are.
If you have Venus opposite Pluto in synastry this can feel like a karmic connection. You want to explore the depths of one another. You can feel addicted to your lover. It can feel like you can’t stop thinking or wanting more of them. This can be great between two people who respect themselves but it’s not so good for those who have no self love, because you can really sacrifice yourself for “love” and end up dead or broken inside.
Composite Venus opposite Pluto can be love at first sight or hate at first sight. There can be a magnetic pull or a hurling repulsion. There is a deep connection, penetrating interaction with one another. This can border on the side of obsession, jealousy and possessiveness. The individuals in the relationship can heal immensely through bringing up past wounds and buried traumas to the surface to be expressed, acknowledged and mended. This aspect can help them face their fears when it comes to abandonment, letting go, judgements, and over all the fear of exile and death. This relationship will be transformative.
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ebonyseuphoriatarot · 6 months
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medicinanocturna · 1 year
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Understanding the OPPOSITION aspect in SYNASTRY
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An elaborated piece about the essence of the opposition aspect in your natal chart is here.
It is a good point to start before plunging into its meaning in the synastry. 
To summarise. Whether or not we see it, any quality that we have in us is only alive because of its opposition.
SYNASTRY opposition is the sacred tool for us to recognise the opposition in ourselves. Often it is considered being the most difficult aspect between the two charts, and on some level it is. 
The deeper you are willing to explore, the more you appreciate any difficult aspect, and the aspect of opposition -  in particular. 
Besides understanding WHAT does this aspect mean in the charts of the two of you, you really want to understand WHY.
Answering to this question may take your partnership to a new level. 
First, opposition is the same thing that is … a conjunction…but - in the opposite way. 
When the two things conjunct, we often think that they become one. There is a union, a mixture. Rarely do we get to see that the new union (which results from the conjunction) has the new opposition in itself.
In the synastry chart, opposition can signify several types of interaction between the energies of the two. 
(Please note that although synastry chart mostly refers to the intimate partnerships or friendships, it also includes any other one- on - one relationship like: teacher - apprentice, doctor - patient, client - provider, etc.)
The first type of the opposition is a fight between the two very different qualities. This energy of “fighting”, however, may give an intense arousal in the domain of sexual interaction. And often it is considered being an aspect of passion. But outside of it, this type of the opposition will hugely complicate things, make the energy sharp, or heavy, or tight (depending on the planets), and the sense of fight (“either this, or that” feeling) will always prevail. One partner will feel like the win is theirs, and the other one will have to feel they have lost. Here the compromise usually feels unnatural, and boundaries-breaking for one of the partners.
Another type of the opposition is the ability (usually unconscious) of the partners to distribute the energy in such a way that both parts feel satisfied and in charge while moving towards the same goal. Usually, it refers to the opposition of the planets that signify manifestation of an outward action. Sun - Sun opposition, for example. Mars - Mars can be extremely constructive for a project building as well. But on the level of the emotional spheres, this opposition is still a huge cornerstone. The two people will intrinsically feel there is a pull - push game going on at the energy level, but both are not willing to give away their “share”. Sometimes this is totally unconscious and stems from an insecurity. Energetic vampirism is a common result of this type of the opposition in the chart. In the intimate sphere, it can be very exciting at first, but irritating in the end.
The next level type of the opposition between the two will provoke a healthy interest, an intense curiosity about the “otherness” of the other. Here, this opposition is already felt consciously as a tool to see one’s own opposite sides that have to unite. Sexually, it will have less physical intensity than in the first type of the opposition, but emotionally and sensually it may bring a vast spectrum of colours between the two. However, on the mental level, the two partners usually become pretty discerning and may be inclined to have a mental game (or manipulation) around each other's opposite sides. Depending on the planets, this game can be very resourceful, or exhausting. But usually, it will only lead these two to a more comprehensive understanding of themselves and the meaning of their partnership. 
And the ultimate level of the opposition would be a union. Here, both partners have accepted the opposite sides of the signs, where the synastry opposition is set, so well that their ability to enjoy this aspect creates the sense of integrity. Whether this is a unified outward action, the energy in the realm of feeling, or a sexual ritual, this opposition will feel like the most complete wholeness. Moon in Capricorn versus Moon in Cancer union will feel like the deepest emotional connection where a healthy structure holds an emotional blanket of another person, and both of them feel centred and deeply seen by each other. (The same aspect at the first level will give lots of tears, coldness and misunderstandings to both). 
The opposition of a Taurus Venus to a Scorpio Pluto at this level may create a union where the esoteric power becomes so harmonious and respectful to the material world of beauty that it creates something healing, earthly, but deeply transformative and sensually hypnotizing at the same time - be it a project, or an intimate act. On the lower level, however, this opposition is a synonym of obsession, jealousy, and lots of tears again … 
Remember, there is a middle point in any opposition.
On the higher level, this point is a golden ratio, where the two opposite qualities find its perfect balance. On the lower level, it is a grey zone where the opposite qualities mix in a chaotic fight.
Whether your synastry chart is playing out at the higher level, or the lower level, it is exactly what you need.
But if you feel you need more, then it is the right time.
Drop me a line for a personal look at your chart. 
Yours,
AlSheren
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soulinkpoetry · 21 days
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They were never your soulmate. They were there to point out where you needed to heal.
It might feel like a soulmate ( and a soulmate isn’t always a romantic kind. It can be a mentor or a friend), because you feel an instant energy pull as soon as you meet, but in karmic relationships that person is only there to show you areas of yourself you need to work on. That relationship/friendship soon or later is destined to end.
Sometimes you go through life on autopilot and the universe sends you someone to shake you up.
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jupitersdoll · 7 months
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hey! :) i've been looking everywhere but it's a little difficult to research this topic. maybe you have some insight. can you talk a little bit about relationships between family members, friends, and the kinds of people you attract in your life or are attracted to? what makes some people feel so familiar to you even if it's the first time you've met them? or any themes about platonic/family relationships. thank you! <3
Your relationship with your family and close friends are often karmic relationships. When we explore karmic relationships, South Node/Ketu and Neptune are the two best places to look at first. When looking at the synastry between your family, look if your/their nodes or Neptune contact your/their personal planets. It can give insight into what personal lesson you’re meant to learn with that person in this life or what kind of relationship you had in a previous lifetime. Also, having the same Moon sign, element, or modality as someone can make them feel really familiar and comfortable with you.
For example, Beyoncé and her sister Solange both have fixed moons in Scorpio and Aquarius, respectively. Beyoncé’s South Node in Aquarius is also conjunct Solange’s Moon in Aquarius. Solange’s South Node in Libra is conjunct Beyoncé’s Venus in Libra. They inspire each other artistically and their energy is so familiar and synergistic when they are together.
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I hope this helps!🤍
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divine-mystic-princess · 10 months
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free-grandmaa · 12 days
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"Don't you want to.. I mean, if I gave you another chance would you finally follow through?
If it was up to you, would you save me.. If it was up to you, would you figure me out?"
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cooki3face · 6 months
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What lessons are you learning in love right now
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message: I’m working through my drafts just as I said I would, the time for this reading has come because I feel called to do it and so I will. Things have been tiring and I am in the process of releasing many things as I’m being guided to do during this eclipse taking place at this time. I’m mourning many losses, I’m holding onto my hope, holding onto my strength, I’m resting, I’m healing, I’m transforming. I’m taking with me not pain but lessons. I’m spinning gold out of what I’ve been given. To love is such a wonderful blessing and beautiful gift, even when loss is inevitable or when it is given to you at the very end every time. So we’re going to find out what lessons you’re learning in love today collective. Thank you for co creating this reading with me, for spending time with me, for enjoying my content, and for growing and transforming with me. You are so loved. <3
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Pile one, a good amount of your lessons in love in general and not just at this current moment could be centered around your self-worth and learning it. You could’ve been burned a lot by past lovers or have had some trivial and complex relationships that issues may have lied in your ability to understand your worth, ask for more, and accept more. This hasn’t changed. Your current lessons that you’re learning in love still lie in you having an awakening regarding your self-worth. Some of you are divine beings and are meant to do incredible things and take on leadership roles in life and part of this is going to require you to step into your power and really be a big influence and a big energy in everything you do. Many of you already take on a lot of leadership roles and are mentors and highly valued individuals in your lives but there’s more for you to unlock here.
This past relationship you’ve just gotten out of could’ve flipped yet another switch in you. I’m seeing a huge panel here with a lot of red buttons and/or switches. Everytime you come out of a relationship that was meant to shake you or push you into a different energy and you overcome another button is pushed and another switch is flipped. The number 94 could be significant to you in some way shape or form as it represents progress and spiritual growth. “It encourages you to pursue your goals even if they seem difficult or impossible. Your angels will work along side you as long as you stay committed and focused on reaching success. With determination, anything is possible!” There’s a message here about you not settling for less I’m hearing or continuing to ask for more and raise your price, and add tax.
I’m hearing someone needs to detox the body here as well. You can be sick from something you ate, I feel stomach pain and discomfort in the body, you could have just finished a period if you’re a woman and may be in need of a acv detox bath, you may be feeling thirsty and dehydrated. You’re undergoing transformation and may be tired and feel as though you’re undergoing some sort of “recovery”. Butterflies and their transformation from a caterpillar into their final form could be significant. The divine feminine, the divine mother, the womb, all significant symbolism and imagery.
Someone is stepping further into their divinity with a catalyst in love they’ve just experienced recently as well. I hear spirit saying you’re very close or you’re red hot. The lesson you’re learning right now is regarding serving yourself Justice however difficult of a task it may prove to be. Spirit is putting emphasis on the idea that you’re the creator of your own reality and the way you choose to live your life, who you choose to spend time with you, to have access to your vessel, to your temple, to your heart, and to your mind all falls into your hands here. For many of you in this collective, feminine deities and strong matriarchal women in your blood line stand firmly behind you.
The lessons you’re learning in love also pertains to you overcoming a fear of change and being able to be more fluid in your life and in love here. You could have a hard time letting things go, heavily sentimental in matters of the heart or someone very emotionally passionate and driven. It makes it difficult for you to let go of heartbreak and let go of love when it’s time has passed or far gone. Spirit wants you to learn the art of release, wants you to learn the art of transformation when it’s time to undergo change. Spirit is teaching you to see accurately how much power you hold in your relationships and in your connections. An opportunity to enjoy your energy, an opportunity to sit with you, an opportunity to simply be in your presence even platonically is a divine one, is a blessed one. Spirit says “see this and hear this now.” There will be no contradictions, no arguments, and no compromising on this whatsoever. Whomever comes towards you should be prepared to move mountains and come ready or not at all.
Spirit is teaching you that with one drop of disharmony or an ounce of energy that isn’t serving you or doing right by you that there is no harm in being alone or working alone. So much of your power is heightened in your solitude they say, “so why do you color yourself afraid?” Spirit wants you to know that happiness and fulfillment are always written in the stars for you alone or in a connection with someone whom you love. Your lesson is that it is okay to walk away when you aren’t being served Justice, you will serve yourself Justice.
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The lessons you’re learning in love right now pertain to aspects of your shadow that have been keeping you stagnant for a long time now. Negative thoughts, self-imposed restrictions like behaviors and mindsets that keep you from receiving things you truly deserve, self-imprisonment, and even potentially a victim mentality where you may choose to ignore the truth when met with conflict and make yourself seem like the person in relationships whose being mistreated or burdened when in reality you’ve fallen short or have villainized your partner to make yourself feel safer. I’m hearing when criticized or when something is brought to your attention you may tend to fall into a habit of defending yourself, defending your behaviors, and even using your knowledge or ability to communicate to try and push others into thinking that they were wrong or that they’ve wronged you so you don’t have to feel vulnerable or take true accountability for your actions.
If this is true for you I do see a large amount of this behavior not being behavior that’s meant to be malicious or bring harm to others but that’s been adopted out of trauma and a desire to be seen and heard or even validated and enabled as much as possible because this may have been something you went long periods without receiving within your life whether it came from a healthy or negative place here. I’m seeing someone being yelled at regardless of their making positive decisions, someone who didn’t get positive feedback and affirmation when they did do good things in their romantic relationships, in their platonic relationships, and with their relationships from a familial standpoint especially as a child.
There are lessons in the idea of you deserving more self-care or deserving more self-respect from your self here, giving yourself the freedom to have good things, giving yourself the freedom to serve yourself Justice so that other people can serve you, Justice, giving yourself the freedom to relax into the energy of receiving kindness and genuine love and respect from people who fully intend to give it to you and serve you compensation for heartbreak and loss. But there are also lessons here and understanding the fundamental bricks that makeup who you’ve become and how that seeps into your relationships as an individual, as someone with full autonomy and the ability to make their own decisions and show up as who they truly desire to be in love.
There’s a lot here, a message about stepping into your power and going against the status quo or challenging the status quo and blowing to smithereens preconceived ideas of who you should be and what you should accept whether these ideas were built around you or built by you. Spirit is also trying to teach you that there is more to love and connection than what the human world has taught you. There’s a message here about you coming to terms with the idea that love and true soul-deep connection goes against all logical ideas of what is possible here. You may be somewhat of a skeptic in the sense that you feel the extent of what we speak on (in regards to high-level soul connections and soul ties and soul connections in general) and how much power we give such things does not exist the way they are portrayed to exist but your resistance to these ideas highlights fear within self of true and deep attachment that cannot be destroyed or denied here.
There is knowledge and an aspect of yourself and your spirit that you’ve not tapped into or are covering your ears and eyes to out of fear. You are keeping yourself small in all aspects out of fear and choosing to create delays, tell yourself lies, and hide within your shadow and within the ego. Your recent failures in love and experiences in love teach you things regarding the need to let go and surrender to the divine plan and surrender to the change and transformation you must undergo to step into your power although it is scary and casts light on aspects of you who’d rather sit in the dark and hide away.
There are breakthroughs and mental clarity being birthed and given to you through love and heartbreak and the ups and downs and fluidity of human connection here. There’s something significant here about heart break and your past relationships or misaligned relationships here. You could be experiencing heartbreak or these back-to-back heart chakra awakenings that were sent to you to awaken you to your unhappiness in some of your relationships as well as the reason they may not have worked out because of aspects of your shadow here. You could’ve spent a lot of time in unhappy relationships in your past that you romanticized or glorified due to trauma that could’ve brought some semblance of heartbreak to you.
There’s also another connection I see here with a high priestess or someone who holds great divinity who could’ve given you true heart break or showed you what it means to lose someone whom you shared a true love with or a divine connection with here that’s highlighting and emphasizing this nine of cups in reverse, all this unhappiness and all of these ego. Ego death is highly significant for this pile. When this person leaves they trigger tower moments, where this person goes, rebirth occurs whether they mean to or not. They’re heavily supported and looked after by important deities. This person has an older soul and has walked through many lives being love, war, desire, and temptation, and all things that sit within the human shadow and all of its complexity. Your lesson lies in your shadow, your authenticity, and your ego. It’s time to undergo immense change even if it is difficult, painful, or scary.
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Right now spirit may be potentially highlighting some co-dependent habits and behaviors in love for you pile three. There’s also a potential for some lessons regarding you honoring your feelings and your heart here. You may be someone who is prone to staying in situations that aren’t serving them and will not serve them out of codependency. True love could’ve been presented to you or there is someone that you loved here who was shown to you that you could’ve parted from. The love you had for this person represented love that you could’ve had for yourself but you ran from this person out of fear and made the decision to fall into karmic cycles or continue to invest your energy into karmic cycles and your window to make a different choice was closed on you here.
Your lessons in love, in general, as well as of late lie in your self respect and the need to reinvent who you are and who you choose to be. Something is incredibly significant about your choices here. You may be choosing to mimic certain examples you’ve seen in your life pertaining to who to be, or what love looks like instead of choosing to go in the opposite direction and choose differently to bring yourself true fulfillment. Spirit asks when you’re going to make choices that reflect back to you self love and a desire to be free. The words unfair are coming out here. I’m hearing someone complaining or validating that their life and their experiences are harsh and unfair but not taking the initiative to make better choices.
There’s a masculine energy here or a father that may play a huge role in your decisions and the way you view yourself, view relationships and navigate issues in your life here. If this is not the case there is still issues and misalignment regarding the making of decisions and creating healthy and aligned foundations for yourself in order to flourish. Spirit is saying that your experience in love or what you’re learning in love is necessary in order to push you to step into your power and find it within yourself to full your own cup and fulfill your souls purpose. You could be experiencing a large amount of issues within your current relationship or within your relationships in general both platonic and romantic that are contributing to an ego death or heart chakra awakening so that you can turn inwards and see yourself and see your surroundings for what they are and understand that you’re settling.
Spirit is shining light on your unhappiness and dissatisfaction with a lot of things within your life right now including relationships and spirit wants to know what you’re going to do about it?? Your lesson in love lies in how long you’re going to sell yourself short, settle for less than you deserve, and continue to remain stagnant for no reason other than to push against change and push against the current. Your soul family is not within the circle of people or the lovers that you invest your energy into, those people aren’t meant for you, those people won’t fill your cup whilst you attempt to fill theirs, those people won’t bend over backwards for you the way you bend over backwards for them. Those people don’t love you. Your lesson lies in how long you’re going to hide behind your shadow and ignore the call forward to undergo much needed transformation and healing. When are you going to make the right choices?
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nvr04mnd · 6 months
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the-clumsywitch · 6 months
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I know a lot of people are into the divine partnership thing but please make sure you're not just in a karmic relationship.
- Erika, The Clumsy Witch
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ebonyseuphoriatarot · 6 months
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