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stardust-on-crustedblood · 7 months

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i'm like if a super rebellious, stubborn girl was forced to be a people-pleasing eldest daughter

#eldest daughter #eldest child #family #love to overshare hehe #dark academia #chaotic academia #dark academia aesthetic #light academia #academia #escapism #books & libraries #bibliophile #hozier #romanticism #eldest child shit #ooohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhaaaaaah

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punkeropercyjackson · 2 months

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"It's cringe to make older sibling characters also parental figures to their younger ones,they're not like that irl!"Tell me you're not an eldest sibling without telling me you're not an eldest sibling

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apppleioi · 2 months

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i can appreciate declan lynch because when you’re the oldest sibling it’s true everyone DOES hate you and you never win.

#leave my girl alone #like if i were him i probably would’ve tried to beat the shit out of my little brother too #sorry ronan #he’s me #ronan lynch #the raven boys #the raven cycle #trc #trb #declan lynch #oldest daughter #eldest child issues

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dilhhindustani · 1 month

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In another universe I'm not the eldest daughter

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randomprose · 9 months

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i get him. i get him so much. i am the eldest kid and this is how i look like. the eyes, the bags under his eyes, the cigarette, yeah yeah that's The Long Suffering Eldest Kid Look™️

BUT WAIT. YOU KNOW WHAT GETS ME HERE?? YOU KNOW WHAT?? HE CHENG WAS GETTING A MASSAGE. HE WAS RELAXING. He probably just finished a whole day of meetings and doing mob boss things and then he gets a fucking call that he’s stupid little brother and his stupid friends have done more stupid things and he has to bail them out AGAIN because Brother Qiu would kill them himself if he doesn’t.

So now here He Cheng is. In his bathrobe. Outside. In the rain. Watching as his stupid brother and his stupid friends climb out of Qiu's carーwhich was actually He Cheng's and which he thinks Qiu probably damaged on purpose just to get back at him foisting He Tian and his friends at him. He Cheng probably didn't even get to finish his massage. He's having the universal Eldest Child experience of something going wrong the second he tries to relax all because his little brother is such a little shit. That cigarette dangling from his mouth is his last life line to sanity.

#19 days #he cheng #my god i relate to this man on a spiritual level #shitposts #i am in love with him your honor #his eyes are so dead is just so quintessential Eldest Child #your eyes will go dead too if you have HT as a brother #HC is exhausted not bc of his job but bc HT is such a piece of shit #mine

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ourstaturestouchtheskies · 4 months

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web-weaving — eldest daughter syndrome

Repose – John Singer Sargent // Eldest Daughter – Isabel Pless // Old Soul – The Highwomen // I Miss Her and I Blame You – MALINDA // Goodbye – MARINA // Surface Pressure – Encanto

Violet Sargent – John Singer Sargent // Study for Carnation, Lily, Lily, Rose – John Singer Sargent // My Ego Dies at the End – Jensen McRae // You're On Your Own, Kid – Taylor Swift // The Hardest Part – Bre Kennedy and Hadley Kennary// Older Than I Am – Lennon Stella // seven – Taylor Swift

The Black Brook – John Singer Sargent // Eldest Daughter – Isabel Pless // 26 – Carol Ades // Eldest Daughter – Isabel Pless // You're Losing Me – Taylor Swift // champagne problems – Taylor Swift

Girl with a Sickle – John Singer Sargent // The Breakfast Table – John Singer Sargent // Surface Pressure – Encanto // Older Than I Am – Lennon Stella // Control – Bre Kennedy // Surface Pressure – Encanto // Old Soul – The Highwomen

A Dinner Table at Night – John Singer Sargent // this is me trying – Taylor Swift // Let the Rain – Sara Bareilles // The Hardest Part – Bre Kennedy and Hadley Kennary // Half Truths – JOSEPH // this is me trying – Taylor Swift

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tangledinink · 11 months

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bad news: i think i am sleep deprived enough to have opinions on the internet.

one 'trope' that's always really bugged me from the rottmnt fandom is the "poor mikey has to be the family therapist/most emotionally mature even though he's the youngest!!!"

and i mean? like, yeah, the 'family therapist' thing by itself has its merit, because I don't think anyone should have to be the 'family therapist' (though I don't necessarily think that describes mikey? like I think he WANTS to and does 'therapy' his family sometimes but I also don't think that this is something that everyone seeks or expects from him all the time?) but it's more like

the

the youngest thing

it grates on me when people act like it's such a tragedy or injustice that he's 'forced' to emotionally caretake for his family members at times when he's the 'baby.' but it's not like he's some child being taken care of/relied upon by adults? in both the show and most fanwork i've seen with this trope, he's doing a majority of this 'emotional caretaking' for his brothers. and like... raph is literally only two years older than him. why is it so messed up if mikey happens to have some more emotional maturity than him in some areas? why is it so horrendous if mikey takes care of raph? just because raph's a couple years older than him? this means it's bad for raph to ask for or want their sibling to take care of them sometimes? mikey shouldn't have to provide any emotional support or care, but raph should?

why is mikey not able to provide emotional support for his family without it being viewed as toxic or tragic just because he's the youngest? this is basically expected of raph as the eldest by the fandom. sure, there's lots of "aw poor raph had to raise his brothers" type stuff (which I also don't really agree with but that's another thing) but it's always in a light of "it's so messed up that raph had to parent his brothers instead of their dad" rather than "it's so tragic that raph is providing emotional support for his younger brother."

i hate this idea that because raph, leo, and donnie are a couple years older than mikey, they are able to protect and caretake for him and that's cute, wholesome "good sibling" content, but if mikey does the same for them, it's somehow tragic angst and reflects poorly on raph/leo/donnie.

#idk im just tired of the trope in generl #not just in rottmnt but rottmnt is a really good example of it #of like? Big Siblings Take Care of Little Siblings #like! yes! big siblings cna and should take care of little siblings!#but why acant??? little siblings also provide support and care? for big siblings sometimes #idk this is all just me projecting and shit #can you tell i am the eldest child #rottmnt #vent #rant #personal

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nashvillethotchicken · 2 months

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People will ask "why did lestat buy the Fairplay for louis? Does show!Louis not have his own money" as if 1: either Tom Anderson or the other one would sell it to him outright (they literally gave him horrific terms for a business deal in ep 1 because they wanted to take him down a peg) or 2: Lestat doesnt explicitly love spending money on Louis and what he wants

#louis has his own money he just want yo money #like i want us to remember. louis inherented a plantation. he sent his sister around europe all first class paid as a wedding gift #and didn't even blink! treated it like a stand mixer or some shit like #louis is rich. he drives a drop top car as a black man in 1910 #he regularly hangs out with the richest people in the city and he pays bills on his house and his mama house and his kid!!#he got it like that #the only thing keeping him from doing what he wants is racism catholic guilt and being an eldest child in a conservative black household #iwtv #interview with the vampire #louis de pointe du lac #ldpdl #loustat #iwtv 2022 #amc iwtv #even outside of louis having his own money lestat in canon loves spoiling louis and buys him whatever!#lestat literally says he can't say no to him in ep 2 like he love that man #lestats love language is balling out

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notthebeststufftbh · 4 months

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Shout-out to the ppl who felt like the whole world depends specifically on them since they were 13!!

It's a negative shout-out. Get therapy bestie.

#like whaat i totally didnt spend my teenage years breaking down bcs i couldn't save every abused child and stop every war #no i didnt think about air pollution and homelessness and spend hours on the internet reading about it to cry later. what.#but if i DID id tell u exactly how flustering it is to know how big the world is but not being able to do shit about it #girlblogging #hyper independence #eldest daughter syndrome #perhaps??

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urostakako · 6 days

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i'm so proud of my son yuji...

I LOVE HIMMMM IVE NEVER BEEN PROUDER... precious son <33 beat that ratty old man up

#yuuji is really living the ultimate asian family drama. his mom's in laws hate them for serving cunt. his dad's got beef with his #pretentious older sibling that prefers to pretend he doesnt exist. and that hes also superior to him #his taia HATESS him for being his parents' son and also screwing him over... cuz his taia def has a complex of some sorts #his dad is fucked up for knowingly or ignorantly getting it on with someone thats not his wife for his own gain #he's got half brothers he didnt even know about from his mom and has killed 8 out of 9 of them #and his older brother hates their shared parent for fucking their siblings over. but also doesnt mind that theyre dead because he #doesnt want to lose yuuji his youngest sibling so doesnt matter what happens to the others #also shared parent dotes on yuuji while screwing him over but has no problem shitting on their eldest child for not measuring up to their #expectations. my poor poor boy IF NOTHING ELSE BEAT UR UGLY ASS TAIA UP 🙏🙏🙏#ali <3 #hanancouldyounot #jjk 257 #jjk spoilers

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hirokiyuu · 3 months

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Heddwyn "Wyn" Caldera is a freshman from Diasomnia. He's well known in alchemical circles for multiple revolutionary breakthroughs in the world of potions, the first of which he discovered at eight years old. Though invited to NRC last year at age thirteen, he waited a year before accepting a position at the school.

here he is my baby boy......!!!! been tossing this kid around in my head a lot lately and wanted to make a profile card for him to show him off to the world. imagine me as a proud parent and ive pulled this out of my wallet.

based off the black cauldron. both the movie and like. the cauldron itself. naturally he is good at potions. since the cauldron is essentially a mcguffin wanted by everyone the idea is that he's extremely good at what he does but is also pretty vulnerable to being used. he's also very stone-faced bc he's...... made of stone............ get it.............

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#twst oc #twisted wonderland #his fave food is veggies bc i think being a 14yo boy who eats Spinch and Enjoys It is funny #im still turnign over his unique magic in my head........ i think the thing i initially wanted for him im keeping for his eldest brother #he and deuce get along well (he is a cauldron) but tbh i dont think he has many other friends #i think theyre parters in pe and i think he tries to tutor deuce in potions and i think both these things go badly. u kno how it is.#if he put as much effort into his magic as he did his potions hed be a prodigy there too. unfortunately he likes Stir and Brew.#doted on in science club. rook praises the shit he works on and he gets so excited and happy and trey is just glad theyre getting along #tbh i dont think trey realizes at first baby is literally world-famous hes just like. theres a kid in this club. ill be nice.#has a good rship with crewel overall tho theres always an odd line for him to walk btwn 'this person is a revolutionary genius at potions'#and 'this kid is fourteen and the most awkward child i have ever taught' u kno.#he ta's in the third years class sometimes. as you do #looks up to malleus and dislikes lilia (too playful/unserious for his tastes) respects silver a lot but finds sebek Very Rude #(they are seat mates)#OK THATS A LOT OF THOUGHTS FOR TAGS and i wnana lie down. think abt my baby please. ok goodnight #wyn stuff #how do you art

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natjennie · 21 days

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anyone else out here a middle child saddled with eldest daughter responsibilities?

#a bumper sticker that says 'middle-child neglect and eldest-child duties'#i want to believe it started when my older sister moved out but. lets be real. it's always been me.#i am genuinely acting care-giver to my chronically ill younger sister while my dad watches basketball on the couch #and my mom doesnt get out of bed.#like. my mom is pretty sick too and works all day and does most of the housekeeping too #so i dont blame her at all.#i mean i guess my dad works all day but. for real king you can't get up off the couch to support your daughter crying and heaving #no that falls to me. yeah yeah I'll get her a drink and make sure she takes her meds.#what's that? yeah I'll rub her back and run a cloth under the sink and bring her something to eat too.#oh? yes fine I wont take a gummy so i wont sleep because she's in a flare up and needs them more than me #to be clear!! I'm not blaming her either like clearly she feels like shit and she feels guilty all the time #i just. some amount of help from anyone else. or at least maybe. idk A DAY I can rest when i feel like shit #but oh- no- she's coughing up bile again. yep I'll come bring a bucket.

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rayyzcosmos · 10 months

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you aren't the eldest child in an indian family if you don't have a feud going on with your dad on basically everything

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sunnyeosss · 5 months

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Transmasc Charlie, who refused to wash his hair as a child, got so tangled that Bonnie had no choice but to cut it.

Transmasc Charlie, who knows how to sew, bake, dance, and do all the girly things to carry on his mom's legacy, too loyal to deny her this love.

Transmasc Charlie, who’s coldly called ‘Joyce’ by his drunk mother, the same mother he has to tuck into bed every night. The same mom he has to take care of like a spouse. Bonnie Kelly’s baby girl; he’s so selfish, isn’t he?

#the ramblings of a madman #projecting my shit onto Charlie #there’s nothing more than the eldest child not wanting to let down their emotionally unstable mother #headcanons #question mark

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manawari · 2 years

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ENOUGH ABOUT THE "BIG FOUR" ANYBODY ELSE WANNA TALK ABOUT THIS NEWEST TRINITY RIGHT HERE???????

I present to you, The Mighty Three 🥰

With Toothless and Baymax thrown in the mix ofc.

But damn, this trio gives the biggest "brothers" vibe!

#this is what i get for watching rotg httyd and bh6 #and im not even sorry<3 #jack hands down the eldest brother #hiccup being the middle child who is sometimes tired of the two's shits #and hiro being the troublemaker the two could ever combined #rise of the guardians #how to train your dragon #big hero 6 #big hero six #jack frost #jack overland #jack overland frost #hiccup horrendous haddock lll #hiccup horrendous haddock iii #hiccup haddock #hiro hamada #the mighty three #.reigne

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soldier-poet-king · 10 months

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Thank u bullshit double standards for reminding me why I absolutely need to move out no matter how much I fear the urban isolation or the cost of rent

#franposting #ughhhh #thE SHEER SEXISM OF IT ALL #ik ik eldest daughter parentified child js maybe exaggerated on this site #but in MY case? every single stereotype is true and im so fuckin angry #im tired.#i cant live even a little #and my brothers continue to pull such shit and get away with it. and even be CODDLED #and all i ever got was harsh criticism and higher expectations #ive never been coddled in my entire goddam life #im the only one of the adult children who even REMOTELY has my life together #and yet. they can do whatever they want. bc my parents feel bad and like them better #and im being compared to the teen who is being a dramatic butthead. bc yknow. a teen #as if me being explicitly suicidal for my entire teen years is comparable to my brother throwing a hissy fit over an iPhone #thanks. glad to see im being taken seriously. that all the work i put into myself and my recovery and my academics are being appreciated #thanks :////#i am going. to meal prep. shower. scream a lil. watch arcane. read. ignore these mfs

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