Sorry 2 burst a loooot of bubbles but if someone in your fandoms says they hate a ship because the dynamic involves a lot of insulting and general mean-spirited attitude between the characters maybe even one-sidedly and you tell that they're overreacting and don't know what friends are like,you are in fact the loser in that situation and no amount of 'it's normal!' is gonna make up for the ratio that you just bragged that your friends aren't soft and gentle with you 'because you can handle it'

I'm vagueing those snake house mfs from the terf wizard series with the note btw <3

Edit:Oh my god this is a fucking anti Harry Potter post!!!!And Hawks is NOT punk,he's a pseudo-cop who murdered a man with DID,if you ship him with Dabi i hope you fucking explode!!

Gf who has trauma induced anxiety disorder and thus hates herself x Autistic bf who's got no filter on how much he likes her from the second they met

"We need to normalize kindness!"You guys can't even handle that making fun of eachother isn't a sign of love for everyone because some people can't handle it so it hurts their feelings and instead call them losers for it and prove their point that you're genuinely cruel

"They don't know what gender is!!!"Yes the fuck they do,they're full of it and i'm using the general 'they' because nonbinary does not mean they/them exclusively every fuckdamn time like y'all think it does.'He's like a girl to me' and 'She's my boyfriend' but then you don't respect he/him girls and she/her boys and bigender has never entered your vocabulary.Good LORDS

The idea for this meme wouldn't leave me alone so here it is

@desi-pluto

If you're an adult in fandoms for children's media,you have to be nice to the kids in them.The creators for the shows and books and games and so forth may be adults but they made them to cater to KIDS.I'm using 'cater' because it's become a buzzword to try to silence minors when they're uncomfortable with things like proshipping when,again,yes it literally IS 'catered' to them so they have a right to say what should and shouldn't exist in their fandoms.I'm not saying it's bad to be an adult who's super into children's media and in fact half the reason i'm making this post is that i fall under that due to my type of autism and as a way healing my inner child from a lot of trauma and i'm sick and tired of watching you overgrown tar pits bullying minors in their own damn spaces and then acting like they're actually yours

You have no right to mock them for being young or insult their headcanons and art and fics because they don't line up with your headcanons that you think are objectively superior with no basis other than your egos or call them weird for doing crossovers of their interests because it makes them happy and helps them develop their writing skills without needing to get a professional involved.You want to be horny about the adult characters and write darker topics with respect and both with proper tags?Go right ahead,nothing inherently wrong with either.But sexualizing characters who've always been underaged in canon and calling writing taboo relathionships that're taboo because they have abusive dynamics and have been proven to be used to abuse irl people(in///cest and age gap headasses,i'm looking at you)and not just 'cencorship' or whatever has no place existing to begin with but especially not in elementary/middle/high school franchises

You're literally PUTTING REAL KIDS IN DANGER with your weird little incel fantasies instead of leaving them fuck alone and degrading them over being upset over your bullshit that you invaded their boundries to push onto them and as an eldest sibling to both my biological ones and several younger people i've gotten close friends with to also consider siblings on both my side and theirs,i won't stand for any of this and i have no remorse in actively trying to push y'all out of here.If you're an adult who's in fandoms for children's media,you have to be nice to the kids in them.I'm not fucking asking

"I love men who're freaks🥰😳😍"You guys can't even handle dudes with physical disabilities

Obligatory disclaimer that this is not about anybody who regularly likes/rbs my posts but the rest of y'all are making snakes manifest in my house,PLEASE engage with them as the actual characters and dynamics instead of just tropes/norms

An illustration of my taste in men

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Please stop calling every old man character a dilf.Peter B Parker is a dilf because he's a hot older guy who's good with kids.So's Jin Bubaigawara.So's Roy Harper and so forth.Simon Petrikov is not a dilf because he dosen't fuck(he could but he's too ace for that shit).Slade Wilson is also not a dilf because he's neither good with kids because he actively abuses them nor hot because he looks like a racist grandpa who does microaggressions as a lifestyle.Emperor Belos is a colonizer with the serial killer eyes gene and the build of a malnourished victorian duke.Words mean things besties

Eternally grateful for ships that are 'asshole guy with edgy traits x girly and soft uwu nice girl' not in an 'he treats me badly but i can fix him!!!' way but in an 'he looses all his edge around her and acts like a doting boyfriend long before they start dating because of how in love with her he is and she's also stronger than she seems' way.Also they're always t4t and autistic4autistic,no exceptions

Black and red-coded teen genius with a hodgepodge of neurodivergent disorders who's somehow cool asf and the biggest dork ever at the same time s/o 🤝 Teenage punk who's gnc asf,not afraid to talk shit to literally anyone and throws hands for their friends the second someone fucks with them s/o

At this point 'The hero always has to get the girl' is slang for 'Weh weh my female fave choose the protagonist because they're best friends instead of my edgy boi who EARNED her' and i refuse to let it slide in 2024.C'mon be serious,if you want the edgy boi to get the girl but it actually being well-written read Bleach and watch Adventure Time like the rest of us

Me picking characters to selfship with be like

An illustration of my taste in comfort characters

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