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nooks-cranny-mogai · 10 months

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Aromantic lesbian flag!

For any and all aro-spec lesbians!

Free to use with credit!

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some---weirdo · 1 month

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If this post gets:

100 notes I'll explain my gender to my friends and tell them my pronouns

500 notes I'll explain my romantic orientation to my friends (they think I'm aroace, I just identify as ace) ✓

1000 notes I'll come out to my sibling (they're agender, I know they'll support me)

10 000 notes I'll come out to my sister (she has pronouns in her discord bio, it'll be fine)

100 000 notes I'll tell my best friend I love her

1 000 000 notes I'll come out to my homophobic, transphobic conservative Christan family that I live with (they still talk to my agender sibling, so it'll just be very awkward for the next few years...)

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lilypattern · 10 months

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#lesbian #lesbians #aromantic #arospec #aromantism #asexual #asexual spectrum #acespec #queer

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super-ace · 10 months

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On this last day of Pride Month I just wanna say that I’m so glad you’re here and I’m so glad you’re queer 🌈

#asexual #aromantic #ace #aro #aroace #ace pride #asexuality #asexual spectrum #queer #lgbtqia #pride month #pride 2023 #gay #lesbian #bisexual #pansexual #trans #intersex #agender #non binary

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morsobaby · 11 months

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Remember to support severely mentally ill people this pride month btw!! If someone's identity is caused by delusions that's not your fucking place to come tell them they're wrong. If someone's identity is caused by trauma that's none of your fucking business. If someone identifies with one label due to comfort or shared experiences even though some other label would "fit better" don't fucking comment. And leave those fucking plural and autistic Xenogender people, whose genders revolve around their headspace, alone!

We need to be aware and willing to accept that mental illness does often affect one's queerness and is often in a complex relationship with it. You do not!! Get a free pass to invalidate someone's identity based on their mental or physical health.

#pride 2023 #Pride month #Gay #Bisexual #Lesbian #Xenogender #Nonbinary #Asexual #Aromantic #Actually autistic #actually delusional #I identify as being on the ace spectrum due to my ocd giving me severe sex revulsion on the regular I think that's valid.

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bisexualpositivity · 1 year

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It’s time for a LGBTQ+ demographic survey!

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If your orientation wasn’t on this list, please comment on this post! We want to learn more about you and how you identify.

#lgbtq+ poll #lgbtq+ survey #bisexual #queer #gay #lesbian #pansexual #m-spec #multi spectrum #aromantic #asexual #polysexual #omnisexual #questioning

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annnathegayblogger · 4 months

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Part 2

1. bisexual 2. aroace 3. genderfluid 4. lesbian 5. trans 6. woman 7. non-binary 8. gay man 9. agender 10. demiboy

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magical-demigirl · 4 months

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#Queer #Polls #queer community #lgbtq #gay #lesbian #Bisexual #pansexaul #transgender #non binary #nonbinary #aromantic #aro #aroace #arospec #asks #asexual spectrum #genderqueer #genderfluid

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aloe-does-stuff · 3 months

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America runs on Dunkin’?

How about Tumblr runs on lgbtqia+ people?

#lgbtq #bisexual #aro ace #arospec #aromantic #asexual spectrum #asexuality #gay #lesbian #agender #intersex #queer #sapphic #lgbtqia #transgender #asexual #nonbinary #pansexual

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weirdly-specific-but-ok · 3 months

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What do you think gay men are attracted to in men that they can’t be attracted to in women?

It can’t be anything about femininity or masculinity obviously. That’s both sexist, and cultural so can’t be what drives men-only attraction.

It can’t be anything about stated identity because someone could lie just as easily as they could tell the truth in such a statement, and it makes no sense because homosexuality and heterosexuality exists in other species with no stated identities. It’s not like other animals without gender are all pan.

Saying idk it’s the vibes or some indescribable trait men have that women can’t but “I can’t explain” is a nonanswer.

Soooooooo what is it? Or do you think any sexuality but bi/pan is just cultural performance or an identity rather than an inborn orientation?

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I've let this ask sit in my inbox for a while, but I think it's time I answered it, though the answer will most certainly not be to your satisfaction, anon, I'm afraid.

First off, I'm a bisexual man, and so I definitely don't have any first hand experience of experiencing attraction to only one gender. And in these things, first hand experience is all that matters.

Secondly, as for other species, I have insufficient information about zoological studies in this field, but I don't think it's as simple as you make it sound (this isn't intended to be hostile, I'm just wondering)?

As for the last part, I certainly don't presume to define sexualities as fitting strictly into one of the boxes of culture, identity or inborn orientation. I'm sure that there are more perspectives on this than I can imagine, and I'm equally sure that the experiences of these queer people are valid.

Mainly, the reason I decided to answer this despite it being a non-answer, as you said, is because I do have something to say.

I'm not in the habit of forming opinions of subjects that I have insufficient information about. I know that being seen as neutral is often vilified. I've been in that position, being angry about people's neutrality regarding topics that to me seem obvious. I no longer agree with past-me on that stance.

I would rather not, in my ignorance, cause damage. I think that people with very strong uneducated opinions cause a good deal more harm than those who stay silent in a conflict they know nothing about. Of course this won't be true in all cases.

But personally, I prefer handing the mic over, as it were, to people with more experience, knowledge, sensitivity and perspective about the issue than I.

So, yes, I'll have to go with a very unambiguous lack of an answer here. I simply do not know enough about this, anon. Non-answers, I'm afraid, are going to be inevitable in deeply personal discussions such as these. These non-answers are invariably better than the divisive discourse, invalidation and gatekeeping that occurs a lot.

Let's all be a bit more okay with saying I don't know. I'm trying to be more okay with it every day. I cannot educate myself perfectly about every single relevant topic. I think that's alright. I hope it is.

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g4rdens-of-b4bylon · 1 year

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the wlw urge to ship wenclair

but the aroace spectrum urge to headcannon wednesday as aroace

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tfemithaqua · 2 months

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Hello!

🦇🥀 Vampire Aroace (spec) flag.

For aroaces who either ID with vampgender/vampgender variations, like vampires, or have a connection to Vampires. Can also be used by aroace introjects whose source(s) is a vampire of course.

Some tags below are for reach.

Aroace-spec exclusive.

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pookpy · 5 months

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"What's your sexuality?"

"Idk": Weak, Boring, Yawn

"God knows at this point": Strong, Room for Laughter, Chuckle now

#lgbtqia #lgbtq community #aromantic #asexual #aromantic spectrum #asexual spectrum #pansexual #bisexual #gay #lesbian #wlw #mlm #chaoscore #feralcore

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starchilddante · 7 months

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If labels don't matter, and you "can't change the facts" then why is it so hard for you to just let people be who they want to be and respect them?

You want to hurt them. You want to rub their face in the dirt while you prove how right you are. You want them to feel humiliated and helpless.

Don't you pretend you're anything good. Don't pretend like you care about people or children and making the world a better place. You are just an insecure child, looking for someone easy to hurt, someone you can make cry, just so you don't feel small.

If labels really don't matter to you, why do you have to go and try to tear down what makes people happy?

#lgbtq support #asexual #pride #lesbian #lgbtq #transgender #aromantic #nonbinary #gender queer #genderfluid #gender spectrum #bisexual #gay #queer community

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vixenicks · 3 months

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"aromantic matt murdock" i say into the microphone as the feedback proceeds to echo throughout the empty auditorium and shatter my ear drums

#NOBODY ELSE SHARES THE VISION #except alfie hey alfie #maybe its just me being aro but hes so fucking aromantic dude #“i cant keep any relationships with anyone it must be because of my trauma and attachment issues” no youre aro buddy #i mean thats also the reason you cant form lasting relationships but its not just romantically man i hate to break it to u #uhhh scratches ass elektra is a lesbian and also aro ok bye #daredevil #daredevil comics #ace spectrum karen page too #im gonna say something controversial i think maybe the only reason alot of people ive spoken to about aro matt dont like aro matt is becaus #they want him to date them and or their fave #mattfoggy can still be a thang my sweet summer child..... do u know what a qpr is....#they can still bone and make out and be in love if hes aro........

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localanimequeerio-17 · 1 year

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say it with me, asexuals are valid! aromantic asexuals are valid! aromantics are valid! everyone is valid!!!!

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