i love you aspec lesbians i love you aromantic lesbians i love you asexual lesbians i love you aroace lesbians i love you arospec lesbians i love you acespec lesbians i love you demiromantic lesbians i love you demisexual lesbians i love you greyromantic lesbians i love you greysexual lesbians i love you aroflux lesbians i love you aceflux lesbians i love you a spectrum lesbians 🧡

Are there any ace lesbians that just don't vibe with "bambi lesbian"? Both ace and allo lesbians that wanna use the term that's great but for me personally I don't really claim it. Not all bambis are ace but not all aces are bambi. I noticed a lot of bambi lesbian & ace sapphic content always equates being ace with being a fem sapphic and I dont get it. Non sexual intimacy gets equated with "feminine" roles like cottagecore, being a stay at home gf, cooking, gardening, pink, sweetness, softness etc. Like where's the stuff for the asexual butches? Asexual studs? Asexual stems? Ace sapphics that lean more androgynous and masc? Where's the ace sapphic & bambi stuff about buying masc clothes with your partner, or building something with them or changing a tire and shit. The term bambi, a small soft, dainty, innocent animal being the representation of not having sex/sexual attraction feels a lil weird too. You can be soft and dainty and sexual. You can be non-sexual and dominant and strong. And again asexuality =/= not liking sex its just means little to no sexual attraction. When you look at ace culture the terms and imagery isn't exclusively masc or fem. An animal that isn't stereotyped as being softy feminine and innocent for lesbian aces is a label I'd feel more comfortable claiming. It would kinda cringe but a sea urchin or dragon would make more sense to me. Or it could take a page from our aro bredren with aphrodite lesbian and be "artemis lesbians" or something idk. There's absolutely nothing wrong with being fem and ace sapphic or just fem btw, it's just non-sexual love isn't automatically purer by default, not all ace sapphics are fem and you can be masc, butch, stud, stem or androgynous and soft too.

pov: we pick fresh oranges, and then go home and bake a simple orange loaf cake🍊

What up Tumblr? My brain decided it is yearning hours.

Qlw all across the asexual spectrum should feel safe and welcome in qlw spaces. Acephobia is queerphobia and not tolerated here.

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I’m seeing so much a-spec inclusion on this blog and it really just warms my heart so much. Like really, thank you. I don’t know who’s trying to pit a-specs and lesbians against each other, but as your local space ace I 100000% love and respect all of you beautiful wlw. You really are just about loving and caring for women and it makes me so incredibly happy. I hope all of you get the cute girlfriend of your dreams. Keep doing what your doing! I love you all! 💜💜💜

I just saw this, sorry it took so long to respond. And youre welcome! I'm pretty sure im arospec myself so I really want both ace, aro, and aroace wlw to be included.

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have some shitty chaotic pride flags ^^

check out the rest of the flags on my profile since tumblr has a 10 image limit lol as well as the fixed versions of a few of these cuz I’m big dumb

if I ever decide to come out, or rather let people in and tell them about this part of myself, I'll say I'm a lesbian (homoromantic) and maybe mention I'm asexual (if I'm in the mood to explain the split-attraction model and how one can experience romantic feelings but not sexual feelings). I am an ace lesbian. Have always been... but I've come to realize that I wouldn't open up about the way I experience romantic feelings, about being demiromantic to everyone...

tbh I don't WANT to tell everyone I'm demiromantic even if I am very open and vocal about it online. I feel like my demiromanticism/aromanticism is a very personal thing and one that I could only share with a person I want to commit to for example, like "hey let me explain how I experience romance," but I don't believe it's something I'd be open about. aside from the fact that I am not one for casual dating so I wouldn't need to disclose that beforehand... it's different than sexual feelings where I would definitely be open about my asexuality with a potential partner. I'm just rambling at this point but yeah I wanted to share this and remind others out there who may feel the same way about their identity that you're allowed to keep some labels for yourself and not tell everyone about your personal experiences. you don't owe it to anyone. it is absolutely okay to come out and just say you're _______!

Straight people can look at the majority of all the TV shows and movies ever made and see only straight people in them and then have the audacity to say that Heartstopper is not realistic because the majority of the characters are queer ???? You're just homophobic bestie we had and HAVE to deal with straight people in every kind of media being the only ones there for years now you can get a taste of that feeling

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lanamia save me. lanamia. save me lanamia.

i want to see something based on conversations with friends recently…….

Queer YouTubers That Don’t Suck:

So after all the horrible stuff with James Somerton you might want queer video essayists who aren’t like that. Here are some of my favorites along with my favorite videos of their’s

STRANGE ÆONS - History of Queer Women’s Symbols

Spacey Aces - Asexual Imposterism | Am I Fake?

Rainbott - Why are all Cryptids queer icons?

Lily Simpson - The Trans Boy Meets World Episode

Hana Hyperfixates - Gravity Falls and LGBTQ+ subtext: Decoding the Queercoding

Rowan Ellis - The Tedious Repetition of Coming Out Movies

Oakwyrm - A Delightful Dead End

Jessica Kellgren-Fozard - Are You a Butch, a Femme, or a Stem?

Dreamsounds - Boy Bands & Queer Feelings

Starting my art journey of the new year with yuri just like last year hell ye :3

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