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lillylvjy · 5 months

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I hate being demisexual and people saying “so your hyper sexual!”

No. No I’m not.

#lilly stfu #I don’t like labels #you do you #it’s your life #no one defines you #like I don’t have a label in my sexuality!#at all-

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la-esmerqlda · 10 months

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I would like to thank Elon Musk for breaking the stereotype that “high functioning” autistic people are geniuses, because he’s genuinely so fucking dumb I can hardly even fathom it.

#Elon musk #twitter #x #autism #autistic #actually autistic #yes I am autistic #why the fuck is he renaming the site #every decision he makes has me cackling #if he’s a genius then I must be omnipotent #love him breaking the autism stereotypes #I don’t like functioning labels but I feel like he calls himself high functioning

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offkilterkeys · 1 month

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The world isn’t ready for my alpha kid readings.

#jane crocker #jake english #roxy lalonde #dirk strider #homestuck #alpha kids #Jane is the struggler don’t you EVER contest that #many might argue it’s Jake but he doesn’t struggle inherently #usually he just vibes until he’s forced into situations wherein he struggles #Jane struggles from the beginning #her entire arc is a struggle #also had to change it from “the fujoshi” mostly cause I don’t like that and also cause it’s not as versatile as the other labels #I don’t actually think Dirk is boring btw i just think that when put up against his friends he has a lot less complexity going on #like his arc is fairly simple as opposed to Jane and Jake’s #and even Roxy’s #His problems seem inherently a lot more straight forward to me simply because he’s articulate enough to realize he has problems #Jane and Jake are almost there #problems are like on the tip of their tongues #and Roxy is kinda like the John of the team where she isn’t even gonna acknowledge the possibility of problems #girl is like “problems? haha not me #I’m the put together one in this group :)”#and just ignores all her internalized misogyny and heteronormativity #she is a mirror to Vriska in that they both put a lot of emphasis on preforming romanticism as a means of affirming their gender #anyway my alpha kid readings are way too boring so I feel like nobody would really be interested in them Sighhhh

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jasontoddispoly · 10 months

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Okay wait let me get this straight:

Dick and Bruce have father-son issues, Jason and Bruce have Mother-daughter issues, but dick also has eldest daughter syndrome?

Damian and Bruce have father-daughter issues, same as Steph, but damian has the added bonus of mother-son issues as well???

Meanwhile cass and duke are just like. Rolling with it.

And Tim’s in a corner shaking because he’s never had a stable parental figure in his life???

#jkjk abt tim #but I honestly don’t know what to label his and Bruce’s relationship #because it’s obviously more than coworkers and he’s Bruce’s son like that cannot be disputed #but as to the nature of the issues with their relationship #i can’t even #jason todd #batfam #batman #bruce wayne #batfamily #dc #dick grayson #tim drake #duke thomas #cassandra cain #cass cain #stephanie brown #damian wayne #damian al ghul

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bpdohwhatajoy · 6 months

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Being autistic is just people constantly violating your boundaries you already struggle to maintain

#ryan.txt #autism #actually autistic #no I don’t want to fucking call #I don’t like talking on the phone unless it’s my fp and you’re not that #so stop trying to pressure me I don’t wanna talk I just want to watch my movies that relate to my special interest in peace #people always getting mad at me when I don’t wanna talk on the phone like what the fuck #and they make me feel like the bad guy #I’m literally just chilling watching my damn movies bro pls I don’t wanna talk to people #bitches always act like it’s fine that ur autistic until ur actually autistic and it’s more than a label #it’s sad how many of you relate #this shouldn’t be the case #fuck people #you guys deserve so much better

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tesco-finest-aromantics · 7 months

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i feel like the queer community lost when we started policing labels and making sure everyone used the Correct™ labels instead of letting a person decide what feels right for them

#caique posts #inspired by a post a trans guy made asking if it was okay for him to keep identifying as a lesbian even though he’s now a man #and all the comments telling him no because lesbians can’t be men #and also all the other posts of people asking if they’re ''allowed'' to use certain labels #why do you need permission?#who are you even asking permission from?#we’re not cops #do whatever you want forvever #also inspired by an article in a zine in the 80s/90s of two FtMs in a T4T relationship #one of them described the relationship as being between a butch and his sissy boy #i cannot ever imagine anyone calling themselves that nowadays #because of ''only lesbians can be butches'' and ''sissy is offensive'' discourse #i’m sure there are people out there who would want to describe their relationship like that but don’t feel they’re ''allowed'' to #anyway lots of baby queers are tying themselves in knots trying to figure themselves out #and they’re more concerned with using the Correct™ label instead of the one they feel most comfortable with #yeah i just don’t like it #knowing you’re queer should be a liberating feeling #instead of something anxiety-inducing because you’re worried if you’re using labels wrong

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elizakai · 5 months

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Reminder that Dreamtale Twins are canonically sexless beings who identify with male pronouns.

yk what that means troops~💫

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dontflirt · 2 months

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THE BOYZ — [PHANTASY] Pt.3 Love Letter #Run

#the boyz #ot11 #myedits #tbzinc #kpopccc #malegroupsnet #kflops #rosieblr #higabi #melontrack #usersemily #eritual #awekslook #useroro #don’t want to talk about it!#so burn version is my least fav and memorial is my fav so far #these are alright but I want the other run version???#these shouldn’t be labeled as run I think like they gotta be different

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steddielations · 7 months

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*sighs dreamily* steve being eddie’s queer awakening

#steddie #btw i’m here for queer eddie #bi gay pan whichever whatever i’m here for queer eddie #i actually headcanon that he considers his entire self queer and doesn’t label it beyond that but #and likes who he likes #but this fandom makes me ahhh. nervous to talk about that #and don’t get me started on my non binary eddie headcanons…

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vampirepunks · 3 months

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Seeing "proship dni" (or the variety of rude variations that folks think are cute/clever *sigh*) in controversial communities, attached to dead dove content, or on selfship posts makes my head spin every damn time

my brother in christ, who else is gonna stick up for you? the antis? lol. lmao, even.

#'it hurt itself in its confusion'#it's friendly fire and they don't even realize smfh #like damn y'all we've even got antis in the hannibal fandom as if that isn't a hella proship show >_<#y’all really wanna pretend ao3 isn’t The Pro Ship Website™️ huh #antis really have people believing proshippers are actual criminals when most of us are just fandom anarchists against bullying #people appropriate the label for crappy reasons but that happens with literally Everything #it’s a dumb label all things considered but I really wish people could just be nice for once #though I suppose by definition proship is literally Just Be Fucking Nice To Each Other For Fuck’s Sake #like I’m seeing posts like ‘your f/o loves you. unless you’re proship in which case they don’t and [suicide reference]’ and????????????????#literally un-fucking-called for #imagine being a bully and taking the moral high ground abt it #pro ship #pro selfship #rant #logan.txt #on fandom #antis dni #unless you’re gonna behave and be goddamn civil for once

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sunshinediaz · 4 months

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you know what. i find it weird as fuck that people always assume none of the women buck dates (specifically taylor but natalia too) will never want to have children with him. i think we need to sit on why we always always use women not wanting to have children with buck as an excuse to get them out of his life. i think we also need to sit on why we use women not wanting to have children as a way to villainize them.

#and like. i don’t want to have biological children BUT to always label women as not wanting to have children #with a man who LOVES kids but actually has never said he wants kids (right now) is odd to me #loads of women want children—even those who are independent and self-sufficient #and loads of women want to adopt too #i just don’t understand why this fandom is so fast to villainize the women in buck’s life by writing them #not wanting to have children #there’s a problem there!#amanda talks

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talkethtothehandeth · 10 months

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I started asking my ex pcp (derogatory) “Are you unable to do [insert testing/referrals that would maybe help get me closer to a stronger treatment/recovery plan], or is it your personal preference to not initiate these options?” And applying it to other doctors/medical workers and

It gets them to shut the fuck up and do their job real quick, because they don’t want the problems of me going to the Daddy Admin, and bitching about their blatant refusal to help me.

Anyway I’m getting more labs to check my levels 😛

#personal #also her mOTHER—#tw medical neglect #I hope they label me as difficult #I want you to hate me #why can’t they just admit they don’t want to do it #it isn’t that hard— they have to click a few buttons and boom: the referral is there #I do not like doctors very much!#disabled #cripple punk #chronic pain #chronic illness #ehlers danlos syndrome #arthritis #scoliosis #chronically ill #gi issues

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vulgarcunt · 8 months

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Maybe YOU aren’t the bitch with aspd/npd/bpd that’s a bad person but I am

#i hate people with pds that wanna appeal to neurotypicals so badly #‘look at me i have this pd and i am good!!! give me a sticker!!!’#🙄 get over urself get off your high horse bitch #if you even sneeze wrong those people u wanna be liked by so badly would lynch u #im a bitch with many pds and i have no morality and no desire to conform #and apparently if i am im contributing to the stigma #like I really don’t give a shit #let ppl with pds that are labeled as evil be evil #no my pds do not make me a bad person either im just a bad person with said pds #the empaths would have a stroke if they met me #cluster b #aspd #npd #bpd

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figofswords · 1 month

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little known retail fact! if a store is about to close and you’re still moseying around asking questions, the employees are legally permitted to kill you with fire

#like ok if you know what you want and you just need to run in real quick and grab it. that’s fine I don’t mind that #but if it is five minutes to closing and you wander in like oh I’ve never been here before idk what I want can you give me some recs #can you hold my hand and give me a tour can you read all the labels for me can you make me a cup of tea #THATS when I get out the blowtorch

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blaithnne · 2 months

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Menaces when they team up. Need to find a dynamic name I can tag them with that doesn’t sound shippy. Does Kaisen work

#I love them so much #drawing their wildly different body types was sm fun #their eventual relationship after sketchbook gets together is like my favourite thing ever #their dynamic isn’t easy to out a label on #they mostly act like siblings but they’re definitely not siblings #Kaisa doesn’t really take much of a parental role with Lauren bc that’s a grown woman #and Lauren is never gonna call this lady mum #but they care about eachother a lot #and Lauren is protective of kasia the same way she is her mother #and Kaisa sometimes starts fretting over her the same way she does her kids just sorta out of default #they don’t like the terms step mum or step daughter #it just feels wrong to them #sometimes when they’re in a rush to describe their relation to someone they’ll just say yeah whatever that’s my mum or my daughter or smthn #anyways they team up to annoy anders #hilda #hilda the series #netflix hilda #hilda netflix #art #my art #digital art #fanart #doodle #drawing #Kaisa hilda #Hilda kaisa #Lauren hilda #Hilda lauren #kaisen #?

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thefiresofpompeii · 1 month

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i hope ruby gets a well-that’s-alright-then-style notdeath. on the one hand it will make haters mad because oh no not another companion with an impermanent end (and i like to see haters mad) on the other it would require creativity to depict this in a new way + i love all the implications i love the dark fairytale quality of these companion exits i love my un-undead schrodinger’s women

with the way the legend of ruby sunday is titled… legends aren’t usually told about living people. legends are stories of the bygone past, of an age long since over, fictionalised and overgrown with folklore like barnacles sticking to an abandoned shell. there is such a thing as a living legend, but they’re exceedingly rare. the unmistakeable raven’s call in the 73 yards teaser, the trailer’s cut to fifteen crying alone after promising to cherry he’d protect her daughter… the foreshadowing is clear as day…

and yet. there’s one massive HOWEVER. ruby appears in s15: millie’s been spotted on set filming it. which leads me to believe — the doctor isn’t one to take the time travel route and revisit companions that in his future are genuinely dead. that would hurt too much, it would cause unnecessary trauma and could break the timeline. that must mean ruby stays alive in some way. ish. she’s alive and a legend and a mystery. girl-ballad girl-song girl-paradox

here she is, fading out.

p.s.: thesis statement on moffatgirls from the tags i left on somebody else’s post about charley pollard.. well it belongs here since it’s basically the semiotic hurricane swirling around ruby at the moment :)

#on a personal level what interests me about these characters is precisely what gets them labeled as being subject to #misogynistic writing by pop-feminist video-essayists. as an autistic girl* (*ish) however; i find female characters that #aren’t quite ‘normal people’; women who represent an idea or concept or are a puzzle to be solved or a manic pixie dream girl to be #more and in a way far more interesting than a girl-next-door-type universally relatable protagonist #they make for more nuanced stories with more symbolism and more layers of interpretation usually. why should there be realism in a #fantastical narrative? similarly i like characters that are haunting the narrative or dead before it began (big locked tomb fan if you #didn’t know) and like. not to be tvtropes but the lost lenore archetype. dead woman who spurs the hero on to recklessness or revenge.#i identify with that dead girl. the laura palmers of the world. set the story in motion without #necessarily having agency. maybe it’s something to do with my #constant background radiation of passive suicidality. in a fun whimsical way :) i would never kill myself but i don’t want to be a real #person. i want to be objectified but not necessarily in a k*nky s*xual way (that too) in a princess in a tower way #the ultimate femme fantasy innit? there’s something about it. hashtag problematic hashtag conforming to gender roles #10000 tags be upon ye #ruby sunday #millie gibson #doctor who #dw #steven moffat #clara oswald #fifteen #fifteenth doctor #twelveclara #amy pond #charley pollard #river song #donna noble #ncuti gatwa #doctor who meta #jamie.txt #haunting

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