Debunking popular fake claiming points when it comes to tics and tourettes:
"I saw an older video where they didn't tic once!"
1. A trait of tourette's is waxing and waning tics. This means the diagnostic criteria takes into account that some people will go days to months without ticcing, or without ticcing severely.
2. Many of my tics are nearly microscopic. How do you know they weren't? Did you have a full body view of them? How do you know they weren't wiggling their toes nonstop, or maybe those couple of sniffs you wrote off were tics.
"their family/friends came forward and confirmed they're faking!"
1. My little brothers literally forgot I had tourettes. It can also be completely missed in childhood, many women and other people who were AFAB go undiagnosed until adulthood. Sweet Anita? She wasn't diagnosed until 27.
2. Family isn't always a reliable source and many people are estranged from family members, if you aren't very close with a person and their family, don't take their family's word at face value. De
"sometimes they tic a lot, and sometimes you don't see it at all for hours/days/weeks!"
See point one about tics waxing and waning. You are literally describing a symptom.
"Every time someone brings up tics around them they start ticcing!"
This is literally how tics work. If you are reminded of them you will have them. Especially if someone brings up a specific tic.
"you can see they put thought and effort into their tics, tourette's doesn't work like that!"
Clearly, you don't know how it works if you're saying something like this. No one knows how it works or feels unless you have it. Sometimes it looks like I put effort or thought into a tic when it was entirely involuntary. Sometimes, I do put thought into a tic. There's a part of tourette's called a Premonitory urge and it's the feeling you get before you tic. If you wanna get the feeling to go away, sometimes it's better to force out a tic.
It's not helpful to anyone to claim someone is faking, EVEN IF THEY ARE. We will NEVER have any way of knowing if some random online is faking tourettes and honestly the tourettes community has bigger things to worry about, and so should you.
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You told me I was too loud
so I shut that inside
You told me I moved too much
so I trapped my body inside
You told me I was too much
You told me I couldn't
because my body wouldn't be safe
and I stayed so closed inside me
I no longer existed
I cut pieces of myself off and
swallowed them whole
hiding them inside
my inner castle
only to come play when I was alone
and I lost myself
I no longer recognise the faces in the mirror
I no longer recognise who I became
a stranger to myself
He told me I could
he told me to try
and I did
with you gone
I slowly attach the pieces of me
stitched carefully and slowly
back onto my soul
scarred bruised
painfully
but they're me
I recover
and slowly
I start to recognise myself
loud
moving
taking up space
and it's ok
because that is me
I should take up all the space
because the world needs to see
I am here
I exist
I am worthwhile
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Beneficial products for people with tics and Tourette Syndrome
Everything on this list is tried-and-true by me, someone who's had Tourette Syndrome their entire life. I hope that these can help you too!
*no links are affiliate*
Physical Tics
Elbow pads
[image: two black elbow pads with white accents]
These are the elbow pads that I use when I have tics involving hitting things with my elbows. The ones in the link are my favourite because they are soft enough not to scratch paint off of walls, and also don't limit arm movement.
Knee pads (volleyball)
[image: one black knee pad, used for volleyball, with the Nike logo on it]
Luckily, I used to play volleyball, so I already had these on hand when I developed a falling tic. I use my old volleyball kneepads for indoor spaces, while I use tougher roller-skating kneepads when I'm outside.
Fluffy Gloves
[image: two hands wearing brown and fuzzy fingerless gloves, the gloves have a pink pawprint on them]
I actually got this idea from someone here on Tumblr (I forgot who!) who uses them for slapping and hitting tics. They lessen both the noise and pain.
Thick Sweatband
[image: a teal sweatband on a white background]
This is a very discreet way to protect yourself from headbutting tics! Keep in mind that they only protect you from the impact on your skull, and not possible concussions.
Rollator
[image: a red four-wheeled rollator with a seat, from Drive medical]
A rollator can be a good item to have on hand if you have a recurring falling tic or paralysis tic- it keep you from being on the ground all the time! Rollators are also much cheaper than (proper) wheelchairs but have many of the same benefits.
Spill-proof cups
[image: four spill proof cups in blue, orange, pink, and green]
Although it can feel embarrassing to use a spill-proof cup, it's much less embarrassing than spilling hot liquids on yourself.
Glasses chain
[image: plastic black glasses with a long bejeweled chain]
If you wear glasses and have neck tics, these are a must have. Since they've become a trend recently, they can be found in all sorts of unique styles.
Pop-sockets, wrist straps, and heavy-duty phone cases
[image: a hand holding a black and white cell phone, on the case is a thick strap intended to ensure better grip]
Also a must-have if you throw things a lot. Bianca Saez on Youtube (B with Tourette's) has a video on how she created a pillow for her cell phone.
Neck stretcher
[image: a black piece of foam with dimples on it, intended for stretching neck muscles]
After long days of neck tics this little gadget can be really helpful with pain. This will not prevent permanent neck damage- please talk to a doctor about that.
Stress ball
[image: a gray and black fabric stress ball with a tag, the tag reads "IMAK ERGO: StressBall brownmed.com]
And not just for the reason you think! If you feel the need to throw something, having a soft stress ball nearby can prevent hurting others or breaking objects.
Vocal tics
Thick-fabric face mask
[image: an olive-green cloth face mask]
Although it doesn't necessarily help with vocal tics, it can help make them less noticeable. Wearing a face mask is also really helpful if you have coughing or sneezing tics.
Chewy Caramels
[image: a shiny gold bag labelled "Werther's Original". Below it says "Chewy Caramels"]
These are absolutely LIFE-SAVING. If I'm having a particularly bad tic day having something in my mouth to chew on is incredibly helpful. I also can't stand the taste of chewing gum, so these caramels are awesome. You can also get some that have throat soothers in them, which is so helpful if your tics are hurting your throat.
Social aspects
"I have Tourette Syndrome" Badge
[image: a red badge with the words "I have Tourette's" in a white font. The back of the badge is also shown.]
This is the exact pin that I use. It's extra-large and it gets straight to the point. Unfortunately people will steal these off my bags constantly, so I suggest getting multiple.
"I have Tourette Syndrome" card
[image: a business card with the following words:
Why am I swearing? This is not an act. I can't control it. Please don't be offended or afraid. I have a symptom or "tic" or Tourette Syndrome called "Coprolalia", which causes me to make swearing sounds or inappropriate remarks. This is a medical condition and I cannot control my tics. Treatment is limited and there is no cure. I am grateful for your understanding and empathy. My condition is covered by the American Disabilites Act. Visit Tourette.org to learn more.
The logo for the Tourette Association of America is visible in the lower right corner.]
These have saved me from so many embarrassing encounters. The card is very official while still being easy-to-read. Depending on where you live, your local Tourette Syndrome association might have specialized cards available in your language. I personally was able to make customized business cards that are specific to the tics I experience.
"Please ask before filming" badge by @wolfcat-hybrid
[image: a black, white, and red badge that reads "Please ask before filming!" with a drawn image of a camera crossed out with a red line]
I, as well as many other people I know who have Tourette Syndrome, have been recorded without consent multiple times. Although someone who thinks it's okay to film random people in public in the first place will probably ignore this badge, it might at least make them think twice. It also signals to anyone watching their video that you did not consent to being recorded. This manufacturer has all sorts of badges with similar messages!
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If you have any other products that have been beneficial for your tics/Tourette Syndrome, please put them in the notes!
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☁️ another ramble post ☁️
⚠️cw?: Injury, talking about disability stuff as a cg⚠️
as a disabled caregiver it's hard to get around when it comes to physical activities. Mush that with a little who's often energetic and loves to do alot of physical activities, it's hard. I'm a wheelchair user, but I'm not paralyzed so I can leave our wheelchair if need be. It isn't recommended by our doctors to leave for a very long time, usually up to 30 minutes to an hour. (Most of the time we can stand for only 10-ish minutes.) Anyways it restricts alot of things we'd like to do. Such as piggyback rides with our cousins or playing tag. Simple things like that.
But as someone who's only had one leg in my source, I knew how to narrow down my activities when it came to taking care of age regressors. Fun fact! If I remember correctly, about 3 to 4ish of my students were regressors. So I've been a caregiver for a long time pass when I formed in the system. Anyways, what I personally do is I just sit down. It's a pain to get back up on my own, but usually I keep my wheelchair close so I don't really need help getting back up when I need to. So, I like to sit down and criss cross my legs. If my little follows my movements and sits on my lap, I can do majority of my care for them with them in my lap. Such as talking with them, feeding them if they need help with that, watching cartoons, so on. This can also work if they don't like physical touch or not comfortable being in my lap. Just as long as they're at arms reach I'm fine. The only issue was I always have to find a way into the kitchen to try and get them something. (It's the worst part) but I try to make due.
i guess the reason why I'm making this post was because I felt kinda invalid due to my ability to walk much. Even when starting out when I formed in the system, I had people telling me I shouldn't try to caregive if we desperately needed a caretaker ourselves. However I didn't want to listen to them. I know it wasn't impossible, and I know there's many CGs who are disabled just as we are. So I never gave up on the idea and now I'm here
-coming from someone who's a wheelchair user, half deaf and tics. Have a good day 👋
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