need my femme here by my side, to massage my shoulders after a long long day. to cuddle her and kiss their pretty face as a thanks. to slowly make out with him because i cant keep my hands quiet.
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Hello girls, gays, and theys of Tumblr! Are you in need of two loving gay aunties to share some wise words and help you feel less alone?
We are Cam and Gabriella, a couple of girlfriends who stay at home, and we just started a podcast aptly called Stay at Home Girlfriends. It's an advice podcast and a positive queer and also female-focused (though ALL are welcome) community and we'd love you to be a part of it!
Click the links below to check out our latest episode! I think you'll be glad you did 🥰
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Hope to see you on the other side and remember you yourself as much as anyone in the entire universe are deserving of your own love and compassion! 💜
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since my old blog got nuked, i gotta make this post again because yall refuse to be anything but ignorant
lesbian sexuality ≠ heterosexual men's sexuality
lesbian attraction to women ≠ men's attraction to women
trans men cannot be lesbians, because they are men. if you think so, youre a transphobe as well as a lesbophobe.
lesbian attraction is not perverse, predatory, dehumanising to or sexualising of women's bodies
men have never and will never be included in lesbian sexuality and attraction under any circumstance
(and if your mind immediately goes to trans women and transfems when reading the above, congrats, youre a transphobe)
butch, femme, stud and stone are lesbian only identities
similarly, dyke is a slur that literally means lesbian. if youre not a lesbian, you're not a, nor can you 'reclaim', dyke.
butches and studs ≠ men or man-lite
butch ≠ masculine
femme ≠ feminine
transmasc ≠ trans man, therefore transmasc lesbians are a thing and trans men cannot ever be lesbians
trans women and transfems have been & will always be included in lesbian attraction, sexuality and community
trans lesbians & transfems can be butch
he/him lesbians ≠ (trans)masc, butch, stud lesbians
black lesbians ≠ automatically masc, butch, stud or tops
"bi lesbians" or "mspec lesbians" do not exist.
the split attraction model is for aromanticism and asexuality only. if you identify as such, youre just a bisexual who doesnt wanna unpack your internalised biphobia so resort to lesbophobia to cope with your self loathing caused by harmful stereotypes about your sexuality, which is bisexual. if you claim they do exist, you're both lesbophobic and biphobic
thank you for coming to my TedTalk. im sure you didnt listen to a word i said.
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It's a rainy day, we're sat at home on the sofa together, a movie playing quietly as we just bask in each others company under a blanket. You're sat between my legs, back against my chest my head resting on your shoulder, a hand resting on your stomach, idly drawing random shapes on your skin as you play with the fingers on my free hand. You're slowly falling asleep in my arms (and avidly denying it despite your drooping eyes) making me smile in both adoration and amusement. I tell you that you can sleep if you want to, that I'll hold you throughout and maybe even join you but you just refuse, claiming you aren't tired once more although you do shuffle around to move to lay atop me, head on my chest (claiming your favourite pillow *hopefully your words not mine*). I just chuckle and move a hand to settle against your back and thread the fingers of my other hand into your hair beginning to scratch your scalp lightly. You move to rest your head up against my neck and it's there that I eventually feel your breathing even out and not even a few minutes later you've fallen asleep atop me. Pressing a kiss to your head i whisper playfully "Not tired my ass" with a smile before closing my own eyes and joining you for a quick nap in our cozy little bubble.
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How's the day-to-day life like on a wimmin's land?
this is a pretty difficult question to answer. every land is so different, and every womyn's experience is so different. every season is so different, and every day is so different. i asked your question to my sisters on the land and they all gave me extremely different answers.
the important things in our lives on this land are:
1. we all have regular jobs. we leave the land to go to work, largely on a part time basis. some of us have seasonal jobs. we work in a variety of fields, but mostly domestic labor. we each pay rent to the land herself, and she spends it mostly on maintenance and land tax.
2. we share chores. living on land is a lot of work and it's important that we can trust each other for support. sometimes you pick up other wimmin's slack. sometimes the other wimmin pick up your slack. that's community.
3. despite living on very little money, we enjoy great abundance. our garden gives us more produce than we can eat alone. our orchard gives us jams, pies, and wine. our pantries and freezers are always packed full. we residents and our guests never hunger. this seems to be true for every wimmin's land i have visited.
4. we love the goddess. that is to say, we love each other. we take the time to spend the time together. we celebrate the wheel of the year and make each holy day special. we care for the plants and animals of the land. we thank the earth for all her blessings.
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