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the-ineffable-ace · 24 days

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Fanfic Suggestions

I want to read some fanfiction but I often struggle to find any after I’ve read the more resent stuff. I was wondering if anyone who sees this could maybe give me some suggestions. I’ll list a couple of fandoms I am in and what I’m looking for.

Fandoms:

Stardew Valley: shane x male!farmer, harvey x male!farmer

BG3: astarion x male!reader, astarion x male!tav

Additional Info:

Can be on here or ao3

Anything is fair game.

- smut/lemon, angst(only if it has a happy ending), fluff, literally anything

If the reader is gender neutral that works great as well. Just don’t give me any female reader stories.

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the-ineffable-ace · 1 month

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I’m failing horribly.

I know New Year’s resolutions are usually set on New Year’s Eve but I’m gonna just set one now.

I miss posting on tumblr so I’m gonna try to do it more often.

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the-ineffable-ace · 4 months

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Today I was told that it’s obvious that I’m gay because I struggle to not make my dnd characters a tiefling and/or a bard.

Is this a common stereotype?

#lgbt #lgbtq #lgbtq+#dnd character #dnd #dungeons and dragons #d&d #tiefling #bard #tiefling bard #bard tiefling #gay stereotypes

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the-ineffable-ace · 4 months

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I know New Year’s resolutions are usually set on New Year’s Eve but I’m gonna just set one now.

I miss posting on tumblr so I’m gonna try to do it more often.

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the-ineffable-ace · 5 months

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I wanna read this so bad

#i need this book

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the-ineffable-ace · 6 months

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In honor of my medical and mental health journey, I will be listing “health stats”.

Mental Health Diagnosis: ADHD, generalized anxiety disorder, gender dysphoria, and religious trauma(not in my diagnosis file but my therapist said I have it).

Physical Health Diagnosis: PCOS, vaginismus.

Upcoming: Doctors appointment to see if I have asthma.

I want to make it VERY CLEAR that this isn’t supposed to be a post to romanticize my conditions. This is to celebrate getting diagnosed because, with a diagnosis, doctors tend to take things a bit more seriously.

I’m celebrating the fact that I can get help and learn to live with these conditions and not have them negatively impact my quality of life.

#mentalheathawareness #physical health #health #mental health #health awareness #mental health journey #diagnosis #vaginismus #adhdawareness #adhd #pcos #pcosawareness #anxiety #gender dysphoria #religious trauma

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the-ineffable-ace · 6 months

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This makes me so happy because I’m asexual and my favorite class is bard.

I Want It All: Masterlist

Summary: A collection of Astarion x AsexualBard!Tav stories and headcanons based on the initial three parter, I Want It All (Ao3 Link)

Series

I Want It All: Part 1, Part 2, Part 3

One-Shots/Drabbles

Scrappy Little Mutt

No Excuses Necessary

cuddle drabble

Your Heart Or Mine

Put Your Lips Together

Better Than a Memory

Headcanons/Notes

Random Ship Question Headcanons

Astarion x Tav Being Silly Together

#astarion #badlur's gate 3 #bg3 #astarion badlur's gate #astarion ancunin #bard #rpg #bg3 astarion #bg3 bard

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the-ineffable-ace · 7 months

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Hello, hope this message find you well? I just came across your GoFundMe and i see that your cause is relevant and worth donations. But i wonder why you have not reach the goal. If i may ask, have you ever considered any creative way to attract potential donors who are passionate to donate towards your campaign?

Since it’s not personally mine I haven’t really planned anything big but I am open to suggestions. It’s his mom that made the GoFundMe and I just wanted to post it somewhere in case I can get at least one person to give something. I know the possibility of getting people to donate is low but I figured it was worth a try.

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the-ineffable-ace · 7 months

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Please stop scrolling and give me a minute of your time

This is Conner Ostricki. He was a classmate of mine. He unfortunately was a passenger in a car that got hit by a semi truck. He didn’t make it.

He was only 16 years old and he was a great person with a kind soul. His mother is trying to raise money to afford a proper burial for him.

Please donate if you can. Even if it’s just 1 dollar.

#donate if you can #pls donate #please donate #gofundme #car accident mention #car accident tw #car accident #teen #teen accident #funeral #go fund me #funding #burial #please help #help appreciated

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the-ineffable-ace · 7 months

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My Adventure Time comfort episode is S9 E11

That’s the post.

#adventure time #princess bubblegum #princess bonnibel #bonnibel bubblegum #marceline #marceline the vampire queen #fire princess #flame princess #adventure time jake #finn the human #ice king #bmo #cartoon network #breakfast princess #land of ooo #candy kingdom

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the-ineffable-ace · 8 months

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I know it isn't a hate crime for the porn bots to use the asexual tag in their mass tagging but ooh boy I sure hate it.

#relateable #asexual #asexuality #aspec #ace #lgbt #talk about advertising to the wrong demographic #lgbtq #queer #acespec #lgbtq+

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the-ineffable-ace · 8 months

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Lots of people say “you’re just ashamed of being a virgin” when I say “virginity is a social construct created because of purity culture and it’s used to shame women.”

My answer is going to be expressed right now.

No, I’m not “ashamed of being a virgin.” I just hate that so many people get shamed for not losing their “virginity” and when the do “lose it” people shame them for that(mostly women but I’ve seen it with men too plenty of times).

It’s also very heteronormative. It is so heavily built on the concept that only a man can take your virginity(in the penis in vagina sense). This is often because some people believe that the hymen needs to be broken to be considered a “virgin”. In actuality, the hymen can be broken from lots of other sexual/non sexual activities. Some people aren’t even born with hymens.

In some cases people think that it needs to be “extreme enough” too.

I don’t believe in virginity for these reasons and one other one.

I have done sexual things. I have done a lot of sexual things but never p+v(penis in vagina) sex. Some people would consider me a virgin and some wouldn’t. Quite frankly, it doesn’t matter and I don’t care. Virginity isn’t real, plain and simple🤷🏻.

Can’t being sexually intimate with someone be just that? Yes it can and it is.

I’m 16 so lots of people my age (let’s be honest here) have participated or want to participate in sexual activities. Some people aren’t as interested though which is a different discussion but worth mentioning. I’m asexual so I don’t experience sexual attraction. Some asexuals it’s just very little. That DOES NOT mean asexuals can’t participate and even enjoy sexual activities!

For example, I have done sexual things with my partner of almost 8 months. I’m afab and my partner is amab. Now I know lots of people would freak out because they’d be afraid of me getting pregnant but the thing is, I won’t. I’m not interested in being penetrated(especially in the vagina) and I also have a strong case of vaginismus and my gynecologist couldn’t even get a Q-tip in. So not only can I not get anything up there, I don’t want to either. My partner(who isn’t asexual) is completely fine with my sexuality and said that if I said “no more sexual stuff” they’d be okay with it. Even though I don’t experience any sexual attraction, I still enjoy doing sexual things with my partner. I see it more as a way to bond with them and just a fun activity to do and bring pleasure to each other.

In conclusion: virginity is a construct, your body is YOURS, don’t pressure yourself, go at your own pace, practice safe sex and be knowledgeable, asexuals are valid regardless if they have sexual relations or not, also consent is important!!!!(i wish i could underline this because it’s so damn important and this is one of the few times i encourage forcing your beliefs on others. IF YOU DO NOT HAVE CONSENT THEN DO NOT FUCKING DO IT!)

Spread peace, love, kindness, and just live life in a way that satisfies you and is healthy for you. Trust me, you’ll be happier and more satisfied because if it.

*Edit*

I forgot to mention that the p+v=bye bye virginity also doesn’t check out because of lesbian sex and gay sex. And the fact that biologically there is also no such thing as virginity.

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the-ineffable-ace · 9 months

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What is your favorite aesthetic(s)?

#aesthetic #aesthetics #aesthetic wiki #lgbt #lgbtq #ace #asexual #asexuality #queer #acespec #lgbtq+#questions

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the-ineffable-ace · 10 months

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a badly made meme for a bad aphobic comment

…well, actually all aphobic comments are bad but you get the picture

#asexual #lgbt #lgbtq #ace #asexuality #queer #acespec #lgbtq+#memes #funnymemes #vent meme #ace memes #asexual meme #asexual memes

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the-ineffable-ace · 10 months

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I made a writing prompt today and I’m thinking about using it. I would like people’s opinions on it. Fair warning; It’s a little wacky.

“A girl gets killed by an evil self checkout and more people meet the same fate at the same store. No evidence is ever left and the cameras mysteriously glitch every time it happens. A retired, traumatized, guilt ridden detective goes undercover one last time and disguises himself as a shelf stocker to get to the bottom of who or what is causing these killings.”

#queer writers #writers on tumblr #writer things #writerscommunity #writers block #literature #writing #story prompts #opinon #mystery #comedy

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the-ineffable-ace · 1 year

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It’s been a hot minute since I’ve posted anything and I’ve been thinking about getting back to posting more memes again.

I’ve been so busy with school that I haven’t had the time to post anything.

Nothing much has happened with me except I’m fighting for dear life in school to pass biology and I’m now in a relationship. Although saying “now” makes it seem like it’s brand new when we’re been together for 4 months now.

Anyways, I hope everyone has a good day, noon, afternoon, and night. I hope to make a lot more of my own memes. I don’t know what kind of memes they’ll be so I guess we’ll see what comes to me.

#they’re baaackkk #asexual #lgbt #lgbtq #ace #asexuality #queer #acespec #lgbtq+#nonbinary #memes #trans #transgender #queer blog #queer blogging #sfw little blog

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the-ineffable-ace · 1 year

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in a world that does not want you to exist, living in spite of it's hatred, and doing what you can to make your life and the lives of others better is a revolution in itself

dont give up. keep living. take care of yourself. be kind

#lgbt #lgbtq #lgbtqia+#queer #gay #lesbian #pansexual #trans #transgender #nonbinary #intersex

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