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welcometolotr · 2 years
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more quick TFO doodles :) turgon & elenwë and curufin & erion (transcription below cut)
@arofili idk if you remember the conversation we had about erion wearing that set of clothes but I did and i KEEP MY WORD
erion: this one could have sworn that you said you were getting ready for bed...about six hours ago?
curufin: I will go to sleep once I FIGURE. THIS. OUT.
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yuribeam · 2 months
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for whoever needs to hear this:
starting HRT doesn't have to be a huge momentous all-or-nothing decision. you can just try it like you would an antidepressant you've been informed of the risks of.
there won't be any immediate irreversible changes overnight. you can always stop, change your dose, change your delivery system, decide it's not the right time. you can even microdose if you want to.
you don't have to tell anyone. you don't have to announce it if you don't want to.
stop waiting for a perfect time in your life because it won't come.
stop waiting to reach a mythical level of certainty that never comes to anyone, for anything.
you've been thinking about it long enough. if you have the opportunity, just give it a shot. you're worth the courage it takes to make a change in your life.
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hazel2468 · 5 months
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Gross transphobes- “You’re taking T? Enjoy your dried up, atophied, useless pussy!”
Me- *using my e cream which was easily prescribed by my doctor and fucking my beautiful wife on the regular* “Sucks to suck assholes”
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stingchronicity · 2 years
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this is just my lesbian opinion but only women have the nuance to play hamlet. men dont get him like women do. shakespeare doesnt even get him like women do
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teadrop-12 · 2 years
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oh my FUCKING GOD
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pinkpigtailsprincess · 4 months
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🎀 𓈒 ݁ ₊ Hello,This is Dolly 🍭
…you’ve landed onto Planet Ai’ya ! 💫🪼🎀
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?? . . . LOADING … 𓈒 ݁ ₊ > 🌸
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📧; HI HI!! IT’Z ME AI’YA!! 🪼🎀 Welcome 2 my blog/my own little planet this blog featurs topic such as ˚。⋆୨୧˚ LOA ˚。⋆୨୧˚ SHIFTING ˚。⋆୨୧˚ ADVICE ˚。⋆୨୧˚ GIRLY MISC ˚。⋆୨୧˚ MUSIC + MORE! . . . now more on me…
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…4teen …black/soulaan …INFJ-T
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ive been shifting for about 4-5 years now and im only been into loa for almost a WHOLE YEAR!!
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Masterlist!! 🎀🧁
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Law of Assumption! ⭐️
◜ 𓈒 ݁ ₊ it’s your own journey !!
| 𓈒 ݁ ₊ never let 3rd parties shake you
| 𓈒 ݁ ₊ dissatisfied with the old?? stop repeating it!!
| 𓈒 ݁ ₊ have fun with manifesting!!
| 𓈒 ݁ ₊ what does it mean 2 actually ignore the 3D?
| 𓈒 ݁ ₊ break the cycle
| 𓈒 ݁ ₊ everything is in your favor!!
| 𓈒 ݁ ₊ rationalizing loa (boo)
| 𓈒 ݁₊ Dolly nd Honey’s Collab !! 🎀🍯
| 𓈒 ݁₊ live in imagination !
| 𓈒 ݁₊ do it for yourself!!
| 𓈒 ݁₊ you’re the only power !
| 𓈒 ݁₊ Limitless star !!⭐️
| 𓈒 ݁₊ feel your feelings !
| 𓈒 ݁₊ it’s already yours !
| 𓈒 ݁₊ yes or..? YES!!
| 𓈒 ݁₊ ignoring the 3d
| 𓈒 ݁₊ you are god
| 𓈒 ݁₊ you have ur sp
| 𓈒 ݁₊ Build-A-Boyfriend!
| 𓈒 ݁₊ its really so easy!
| 𓈒 ݁₊ you can leave whenever you want
| 𓈒 ݁₊ why pretend to be anything less?
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| 𓈒 ݁₊ wdym theres no movement?!
| 𓈒 ݁₊ it feels good to just give it to yourself
| 𓈒 ݁₊ you’re always in control
| 𓈒 ݁₊ you’re not bound to one life
| never settle for less than what you want
𝜗𝜚 ݁ ˖
Affirmations!! ⭐️
| 𓈒 ݁₊ what competition?
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| 𓈒 ݁₊ princess syndrome
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| 𓈒 ݁₊ I,Candy
| 𓈒 ݁₊ I am the god of my reality
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| 𓈒 ݁₊ you’re everything he’s just ken
| 𓈒 ݁₊ i am a god
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| 𓈒 ݁₊ specific person affs
| 𓈒 ݁₊ if you wanna pretty
| 𓈒 ݁₊ imagination life is your creation!!
| 𓈒 ݁₊ its a dolls world
| 𓈒 ݁₊ pink sugar
| 𓈒 ݁₊ the world is my playground!!
| 𓈒 ݁₊ sharpay evans !!
𝜗𝜚 ݁ ˖ Don’t look 4 movement be it
Shifting Realities!🎀⭐️
| 𓈒 ݁₊ stop leaving room for failure
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| 𓈒 ݁₊ “illogical” things im gonna manifest pt1
Doll Talks ! 🎀💬
| 𓈒 ݁₊ manifesting rant
The Advice Column!🫧
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𝜗𝜚 ݁ ˖ songs from my playlist!
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𝜗𝜚 ݁ ˖ Song RECS!!
Dolls confessional!
𝜗𝜚 ݁ ˖ coming soon ! - 💫
AiSpace!! 🛍️
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(like myspace 😉)
The Princess Diaries!📔🎀
𝜗𝜚 ݁ ˖ coming soon ! - 💫
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inexplicablymine · 2 months
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GET RECC’D - TRANS DAY OF VISIBILITY
welcome to “get recc’d” my themed fic reccomendation lists if you follow me on Twitter, you might recognize that I do threads and fic recs quite often ~ thought I would bring it over here as well for some more fun.
Themed lists: Get Recc’d
Daily Rec’s/Weekly Rec’s: The Fandom Feasts
NOW THAT THE BOOKKEEPING IS OUT OF THE WAY
Happy Trans Day of Visibility!
Today I thought it would be pertinent to highlight some wonderful Trans!Firstprince fics, now this is a non exhaustive list as there are 154 fics tagged / mention “trans” in their stories (finished and in the English language) you can click through those here.
BUTTT WITHOUT FURTHER ADO SOME DRUMROLLS PLEASE (and in no particular order)
Longer Than Most by @happiness-of-the-pursuit (26K/E)
Seahorse Dad Henry and accidental Baby Daddy Alex, this work is handled with so much care and is the kind of soft emotional happy feelings that you just want to roll around in
You love me! You love me? by anarchyat4am (28K/T)
Trans!Alex College AU where Henry and Alex end up at UT Austin together and become accidental roommates, when I tell you this fic is one I come back to repeatedly? Yes this is so soft it made me cry in a good way the first three times I read it (back to back of course)
Anything You Want by somuchworse (5.7K/E)
This is where things pick up into steamy territory, transmasc Henry has never had the big O and Alex helps him see the light. The kind of care and conversation and delicacy in which the discussions are had on top of the steamy hot conclusion make this one a repeat offender on the reread list
say you'll see me again (even if it's just in your wildest dreams) by @coffeecatsme (21K/T)
The softest shmoopiest 5+1 of Henry coming to terms with who he is and Alex falling in love with him the entire way through
the reason comes on the common tongue of you loving me by ncfariouvs (3K/E)
Henry brings back so many people to the apartment but according to him he never gets off, Alex is there to help, a trans!Henry roommates, friends to lovers speedrun that is delicious
T4T First Prince by @cactusdragon517 (10K/E+G)
THIS SERIES my lord go run skip jump dance on over to it and then just stay a while because man is this one of those series that makes you smile through the happy tears of how soft and happy and joyful it is. T4T Henry helping Alex post top surgery and falling in love + bonus second fic of them IN LOVE LATER IN LIFE
snapshots of you and me by @thedramasummer (7K/E)
Post Top Surgery Trans!Henry hires a Boudoir Photographer (shocking news it’s ACD) to do some self affirming photos, and this is such an affirming gorgeous glorious story of that process experience and of course the steamy happy ending
seahorse dad Alex by @jackzimmermemes (3.5K/G+E)
Another Seahorse Dad series! This time with Trans!Alex, take a look at these little slice of life stories of firstprince as they navigate their lives and parenthood and feel full to the brim with joy
long live (the walls we crashed through) by breakmytears (2.5K/G)
Alex and Henry’s son comes out to them as trans and let me tell you if you thought the tears were flowing before there is NOTHING on this fic for the soft unwavering support that is threaded throughout
I Wanna Swim Between Your Thighs by Alex20 (2.4K/E)
Teacher!Alex with a tremendous crush on single!dad Henry (also trans!Henry) and this is the delightful fun filled story of their coming together (in more ways than one)
If I missed an author tag here for their tumblr I tried to find them all but please let me know and I’ll add them in directly!
And with that I bid you good reading! Until next time I hope these recommendations recc’d you in the worst possible way, please support these authors when reading their works by giving kudos and comments! It helps vocalize support and show that readers love what they are doing!
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drarryspecificrecs · 5 months
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2023.12 ~ Top 5 longest fics posted on AO3
1. The Man Who Forgot by @slightweasel [E, 250k]
►After ten years of marriage, Harry forgets. The more things change, the more Draco Malfoy is still up to something.
2. Conjuring Cupid by @sugarplum-senpai [M, 89k]
►Two decades after Hogwarts, Harry's toy shop is ready for the busiest season of the year. Bolstered with an ever-growing work list, plenty of tea, and a sentient puppet always looking for mischief, his life is full. Still, at the end of the day, he’s lonely, and as the boy who lived his search looking for a match is disastrous. When his friends register him for an anonymous dating service, he’s unconvinced. Then again, maybe not knowing each other’s faces right away might just give him everything he’s longing for.
3. City of Quartz by ladygoodman [M, 57k]
►[...] It's 2012, and the granddaughter of Celestina Warbeck is pronounced dead at her home in Los Angeles. Auror Harry Potter finds the case file a little too familiar with other celebrity deaths cropping up all over the UK. The Dark Mark is making an appearance on young witches and wizards as well. There are only a few former Death Eaters who haven't been locked away in Azkaban, and Draco Malfoy is one of them. On that suspicion, Harry follows his tracks all the way to sunny Los Angeles, where he's faced with an entirely new caliber of celebrity culture. Who is Caelum West? How is he mixed in with all of this? And why does he look exactly like Draco Malfoy?
4. Nervous? by @invisible-nerd-girl [T, 46k]
►Harry gets drunk at a party, only to remember a game he over heard muggles talking about. He ends up playing with Draco who doesn't back down. Much to his surprise, it doesn't end there.
5. If I win, lose, or draw, there’s a winner in us all by MystMelody [E, 41k]
►Sixteen years ago, Harry and his England team suffered World Cup heartbreak following an agonisingly close loss at the hands of a single, incorrect umpiring decision. Many years and two World Cup victories later, and Harry is (mostly) sure that he has moved on. As Harry’s final tournament before retirement looms, he is confident that his team have what it takes to lift the trophy a third time - no matter what anyone else might say. Especially Malfoy, who has reinvented himself as a successful Quidditch reporter and seems determined to write as many awful things about the team as possible. [...]
※ Word count: 1k ~ 15k
※ Word count: 15k ~ 40k
The Lost Boy by @youhavemyswordandmybow [M, 17k]
Dark Artistry by @sightedkarma [E, 26k]
The infallibility of unicorn hair by mindor [E, 18k]
Just Exist by Kendra_Storm [T, 32k]
More than a Legend by @romaine2424 [M, 17k]
New Beginnings Taste Sweet (Daffodils) by corazon_san [T, 18k]
O Come, All Ye Faithful by toomuchplor [E, 19k]
Secrets Undone (the Lightning Order) by @xx-thedarklord-xx [M, 39k]
Spoils of War by instead_of_sleeping [E, 30k]
What happened at Christmases by ProseMary [?, 15k]
You're Scrooged, Draco Malfoy by @fencer-x [M, 27k]
Ongoing Fest/Exchange
※ Fics would be listed elsewhere.
25 Days of Draco and Harry 2023 | @slythindor100
Frottage Cottage FFF
H/D Erised 2023 | @hd-erised
Harry/Draco Owlpost 2023 | @hdowlpost
Wheel of Drarry Mini-Exchange Secret Santa 2023 | @drarrymicrofic
Dark Festivus Gift Exchange 2023 | @harrypotterfesthub
Fanatical Fam Fic Exchange 2023
HP Festival of Stars 2023 | @hpfestofstars
HP Soulmates Secret Santa 2023 | @hp-soulmates-secret-santa
HP Yuletide Bliss 2023 | @hp-yuletide-bliss​
Yuletide and Mulled Wine Fest 2023 | @yuletide-and-mulled-wine
2023 Harry Potter Trans Comfort Fest | @magicaltrans
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night-wyld-system · 3 months
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Arguing with someone on twitter and seeing them piss themselves because I actually am not TME and do experience transmisogyny as an intersex woman is always fun.
Anyways if you think calling people "theyfab" is okay why don't you just call me a shemale. Come on, do it. I know that's what you want to call me. Because you purposefully will call me something that describes an idea you have of what is allowed to be sexualized and brutalized but somehow get cold feet when it comes to calling me intersexist or transmisogynistic terms. Is it because you know it's wrong?
Anyways yes there is an issue with transandrophobic people calling trans women and women who are also trans* this term in order to get around being openly transmisogynistic. They don't want to accept they're a transphobe who would beat and kill and destroy their own sisters because they want to claim they will only devour their brothers and siblings who have the "evil AGAB" but the truth is they have no love for trans people at all and would rather we all suffer together.
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* I have a weird situation where idk if I'm allowed to call myself a trans woman because of the whole intersex thing. If I stopped T I could switch to E because I have enough T naturally that I am in the area where I could be on hormones to transition either way. But I chose T because I came to accept I was trans in some way when I was being masculinized both by myself and others. And I actually feel a lot better and healthier now that I've been on T for a while but I'm sure it's possible if I went on E I may have also felt better because I just already had a weird imbalance of hormones. But the main reason I'm sticking to T is because I like facial hair and I like not having periods that remind me of my past with CSA.
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aziraphales-library · 4 months
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hey! i looked through the trans crowley tag, but noted there weren’t many fics about genderfluid crowley, so i wanted to know if you had any good recs?
thanks for your hard work!
Hello! You didn't find many on the #trans crowley tag, because we have a separate and quite plentiful #genderfluid crowley tag! Here are more to add...
Aziraphale Would Still Love Crowley If She Was A Worm by Honey_Sunsets (T)
Whilst panicking about what to wear for her and Aziraphale’s first date, Crowley loses control over her corporation. Luckily, Aziraphale loves her anyway.
Designed for Pleasure by SazzyLJ (E)
Aziraphale overhears absurd opinions about women’s pleasure while shopping. As a member of the human design team, he knows what the female form is capable of, but Crowley dares him to put that knowledge into practice.
Here I Am by AbAlaAvis (G)
The Church of All Angels, Tadfield, gets a new interim rector. Aziraphale and the rest of the congregation welcome Crowley to his new post.
the cracks you made i fill with mortar (a broken pot can still hold water) by aceoflanterns (T)
I gave it away, he had said on their first meeting, though not so simply, but something had fluttered within Crowley in a place unfamiliar to him at the words. A proper angel, Aziraphale is, in the same way that Crowley is a proper demon. Either way, they make it work. or: crowley being in love with aziraphale for 6000 years post-angeldom but some things—like falling, godlike image, and holy water—are not so easily forgotten.
You’re the Apple of My Eye by IneffableDoll (T)
While on a date to an apple festival at a local farm, Crowley tells Aziraphale something about herself. Yes, her. And everything is soft and warm and cozy, and gender is complicated and fluid and strange, and they bake bread. They’re so lovey-dovey it’s truly ridiculous.
What is man, that Thou art mindful of him? by Thestarvedghost (M)
Raphael is a good angel. Sorta. They follow Heaven's instructions, and it’s fine, and honestly Raphael loves it when they can visit Earth, that's great, it’s just- They wish they could stay a little longer. Humans are so fun-they dress fun and say fun things, and make fun things to do and drink and eat and play with and- Oh, Raphael loves them, loves them so completely. And so, after almost 1,500 years of just watching, good angel or not, Raphael decides to just…leave. (AKA, What if Crowley never Fell, but still found his way to Earth, falls in love with a demon, and somehow manages to actually save the world?)
- Mod D
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fatguarddog · 1 day
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So I keep thinking about a trans girlfriend who fattens me as she forcefems me, in a way that's like "oh yes you became such a handsome man all so that you could really be a trans girl" as opposed to like... detrans... not detrans but double trans I guess
Swapping out my T for E, subtly encouraging me to shave because she thinks I look nicer without the beard, slowly replacing my wardrobe with more feminine clothes, making sure I'm always eating well for her so I get nice and soft and curvy all over, touching me so I feel so good as she changes me
I'm pleasantly dumbing down from her conditioning and feedings, so much so that the first time she says "that's my good girl," I hardly notice except for the rush of pleasure... and from there on out I fall deeper and deeper into her grasp and plans as she makes me her perfect fat girlfriend
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2023.12.24 ~ Christmas Eve
Complete fics posted on AO3 this day
1. Benevolence by @xx-thedarklord-xx [T, 11k]
►As a teacher, Harry shouldn’t have a favorite student, but Scorpius Malfoy was definitely his favorite. A story of how Harry’s heart was filled with a little boy who loved his father very much and how the both of them showed Harry that they had room in their hearts for him too.
2. wreck my plans by @hoko-onchi-writes [T, 6k]
►[...] “Impressive,” Harry said. “Don’t you think, Draco?” “Who? Oh, the mistletoe. Surely, yes.” Draco wasn't listening. How could he when Harry was right there, existing? It was like staring into the sun.
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Fest/Exchange
1. Christmas Holiday by wevvittyy [G, 2k]
►Harry and Draco are working on some personal projects to get done before they spend Christmas away. ★ Fanatical Fam Fic Exchange 2023
2. True Love Gave To Me by Anonymous [E, 23k]
►It’s the first of December, and all Draco wants to do is make Christmas lovely for Scorpius. But then Harry Potter shows up, asking him to save the world, and it turns out they’ve almost saved the world a couple of times before. One-hundred and forty-four times, to be exact. Or: what happens after the time loop? ★ H/D Erised 2023 | @hd-erised
3. an unlit neon sign by @beyondtheclose [T, 5k]
►Harry found a new way to contact Malfoy in an old potions textbooks and, for the first time in six years, he responded. /// A fic about getting closer to figuring yourself, experimenting with gender expression, and coming out for the first time. And reconnecting with someone you thought had likely died six years ago. ★ 2023 Harry Potter Trans Comfort Fest | @magicaltrans
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cerise-on-top · 7 days
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WOOO YOUR REQUESTS ARE BACK OPEN !! first of all, HII welcome back, how are you doing? are you doing alright? i hope you are !!! >> p.s, this is the same anon who requested tall husband!reader nd 141 <33 i'll be 🦗 anon from now on!!
i've come back with another (awfully long 😔) rq !! if that's fine....,,!!
okay so i absolutely adore m!readers, and i have another one for that, so the idea is kind of like,, reader is a bit older/the same age as [char], and he's transmasc! though, he didn't have time to transition in his earlier years- he's just recently started t. what do you think price, nikolai, alejandro, nd rudy's initial reactions are to him like being so giddy to start transitioning and just reactions to him changing his body in general? :)
sorry this is disgustingly long again, & feel free to delete this ask if you feel pressured at all <3
— sincerely, 🦗
Hey there! I'm actually doing better than I did yesterday, thank you :D And don't worry about sending in long requests, I don't mind it one bit! In fact, it helps me get a better feeling for what to write :> And don't worry, I was looking forward to writing this! This was probably my most anticipated request in a long time!
Price, Alejandro, Rodolfo and Nikolai with a Transmasc!S/O
Price: He knows that trans people exist. He’s supportive of them, but that doesn’t mean he understands what they’re going through. He’s never really had a phase where he explored his gender, he’s always felt comfortable being a man. However, he’s very understanding. As soon as you come up to him and tell him you’re finally getting your shots or your gel, he’s overjoyed. Yes, you’ve always been his boyfriend, ever since you came out to him, but you’re finally getting to go on the journey of getting HRT? He smiles along with you and gives you a big hug when you can barely sit still from glee. However, that joy doesn’t compare to actually watching you transition. You’re slowly growing a beard, your voice is getting deeper, your fat distribution is changing. He’s there to celebrate every step of it with you. If you’re alright with it, then he’d like to take a picture of you every once in a while so you can watch how far you’ve come yourself. However, he will sometimes make you go on a jog with him. Might force you to go to the gym with him as well since he can imagine working out could make you feel even manlier. Since he’s on deployment for months at a time, he always finds it to be a treat whenever he gets home. After all, he gets to see you transition so much in all this time. In order to celebrate all these milestones he will take you out on a lot of dates, with him paying, of course. You’re his most ideal man, you need to know just how loved you are. Lots of praise too, you’ve come so far, you’ve gone through so much, you’re so very strong. You’ve gone through things Price can’t even imagine. He’s definitely extremely supportive of you.
Alejandro: He’s never considered himself anything but a man either, but he loves trans people. In fact, I like to imagine that he’d actively stand up for them if someone is being a dick towards them. Alejandro is a well respected man who can make just about anyone shut up, he will not tolerate any bigotry. So, as soon as you come out to him, he gets a big smile on his face and immediately starts calling you his boyfriend. And, once you go on T, he’s just as happy as you are. You’ve had to live in such an uncomfortable body all this time, finally you get to feel like yourself. He’ll help you with your testosterone as well, if you let him, of course. Every time he delivers your shot to you or rubs the gel in he gives you a hug afterwards, shaking a bit with excitement, always raving about how happy he is for you. Sometimes he jokes about how hormones can also be exchanged through making out, but you don’t have to kiss him if you don’t want to. Again, it’s just a joke. You’re his handsome man and if anyone ever dared to disrespect or misgender you then they’ll end up with a black eye. As mentioned above, he does not tolerate bigotry in the slightest. Sometimes he’ll run his thumb over your beard and tell you just how gorgeous of a man you are, and how happy he is to have you with him. On your dysphoric days he’ll remind you that you’re the most wonderful man to have ever existed. Trans is just an adjective, you are a man, you’ve always been one. Sits you on his lap, wraps a blanket around you and lists all the traits that make you a man. And even if he can’t make the dysphoria go away, he’ll still stay with you and cuddle you until you feel better.
Rodolfo: I think there was a time in Rodolfo’s life where he thought he was better off as a woman, but that phase didn’t last too long, a year at most. He didn’t go through with anything either, but he knows what dysphoria feels like to some degree. Ergo he’ll never be a bigot towards trans people. He respects them quite a lot, being misgendered and referred to by the wrong name feels so disheartening, having to go through all of that for such a long time is horrible. So he feels a bit bad when you come out to him, thinking that he’s referred to you by the wrong name and pronouns for such a long time. He apologizes for that as well. Of course, he wishes you all the best and will support you through whatever you wanna do. In fact, if you wanna get surgery then he offers to split the costs with you, he just loves you that much. Once you tell him you’ve finally gotten the prescription for testosterone he’s ecstatic. On the outside he may seem calm, but on the inside he’s a bit disarrayed from the happiness he feels for you. He picks you up and spins you around because he’s just that giddy. Will also help you administer your shots or help you apply your gel, if you’re comfortable with that. He’s very observant, so after a few weeks he’ll tell you how you’re slowly starting to change. Like Price, he’ll invite you to do workouts with him so you can become stronger. However, he also offers to learn about other things with you. Is not above teaching you how to ride a motorcycle either, if you don’t already know. Riding one always makes him feel very masculine. As soon as you grow your first stubble, he’ll cradle your face in his hands before squeezing you so tight, you’d think he wanted to break a rib or two. Praises you so much when he sees you slowly change, he just loves you so so dearly.
Nikolai: Not trans himself, has never had a phase either, but if he likes you then he’ll actually pay for your surgery. He actually paid for Gaz’ top surgery because he’s like a son to him and wanted him to be well. You’re Nikolai’s boyfriend, so naturally he’ll pay for anything you might need. Top surgery, bottom surgery, testosterone, doesn’t matter, you’ll get it from him because he wants to be a supportive boyfriend. He’s a very observant man, so he likely had a hunch you were a trans man before you even told him. While he may not have said anything, he wasn’t particularly surprised when you told him. Asked you for your preferred name and pronouns and hasn’t referred to you as anything else since. He didn’t make a big deal out of it. Has threatened bigots before, though. When you told him you finally got to be on T, after all those years, he was happy. Again, he didn’t make too big of a deal out of it, but he told you how proud he was of you. Like Alejandro, he also joked about making out with you, though. Nothing serious, if you didn’t want it to be, however. Will also point out the small differences as soon as he notices them. As you change more and more, he subconsciously becomes more touchy with you. You’re just such a sweet man, he can’t help it. No real reason, just watching you become more and more content with yourself makes his heart flutter too, so he falls in love with you even more than he did before. If you want to, you’re more than welcome to wear his clothes too, regardless of whether they’re too big on you or not. Nikolai is a very tall guy, so there’s a good chance they are. As a joke, he teaches you the sacred art of grilling in summer. You’ll be able to make the meanest burgers around.
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Hey, maybe I dreamt it and it wasn't you, but did you have brain fog issues with spiro? How was that like and how did you found out about it and tell your doctor? I think I'm having these issues as well and don't want to mess with my prescription but I don't know what to do about it and how to deal with it. I'm like a year and 8 months into hrt having 4mg of oral e and 100mg of spiro, if that helps.
i have absolutely talked about this before! and yes, spiro did give me horrendous brain fog.
spiro gets the job done in the same way that you could technically use a sledgehammer to hammer a nail. it wasn’t designed for hrt and it is rarely if ever prescribed at the dosages we take other than for trans fem hrt.
this is gonna be a long post so obligatory read more
one thing you gotta watch out for with docs prescribing spiro is that a lot of them don’t know how much you really need and therefore just prescribe what’s recommended by very outdated and outright transphobic guidelines (for more on this look up the bullshit about WPATH). the guidelines are very much cookie cutter kind of template and since every person is different, they don’t always work well.
i got put on the max dose of spiro about 1 year on hrt (200mg) and my brain fog was so bad i was barely able to do my job, on top of other side effects like extreme dehydration to the point where i was fainting.
fortunately, there are other options! it got a LOT better for me after i switched to finesteride and finesteride has worked great for me with no notable side effects!
and there are other options too! i’ve never taken any of these but you can ask your doctor about leuprorelin, flutamide, dutasteride, or if you’re not in the states, cyproterone acetate.
another viable option is no t-blocker at all and that’s called mono e. this one i don’t know as much about but i think it works only if your t is already suppressed enough before you start it and i think it also helps if you’re on progesterone.
also a side note about progesterone, my new doctor, who is VERY knowledgeable and actively educates themself on new info about hrt told me that progesterone is actually not recommended anymore bc even though many trans women say that it helps, it can also cause some kind of issue (that i can’t remember specifically unforunately). also they said that if you do add it, waiting until you’re 4-5 years into hrt might be better and again i’m not exactly sure why.
imo, get off spiro as soon as you can cause spiro is the worrrrrst.
but anyways, hope that helps!
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yourfavismspechomohet · 5 months
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@e-upe
A Bi Lesbian can be someone who is:
1. Biromantic Homosexual
2. Homoromantic Bisexual
3. It can be someone who fits under a Bi definition, but labels themselves as a Lesbian. (One of the many reasons for this is because all sapphics used to be called Lesbians.
4. An Abroromantic/Abrosexual whose identity constantly switches back and forth between being Bi and being a Lesbian.
So, yes, it is entirely possible to be both Bi and a Lesbian.
You calling me homophobic when the whole point of homophobia is to be someone who dislikes ANY and ALL queer people is ironic, because it awfully sounds like YOU’RE the one who’s homophobic.
Bashing on ANY queer identity, even the ones you don’t like, is homophobia. Exclusionists and gatekeepers don’t belong in the LGBTQIA+ Community.
In your tags you also said “LGB drop the T”, so it looks like you’re really living up to you being exclusionary. One of the first people who ended up giving us Pride Month was Marsha P. Johnson who was a Trans rights activist.
You also implied that I was straight in the tags, like it or not, but there are other queer people that are allies to Mspec Lesbians not including Mspec Lesbians.
And the term “Bi Lesbian” has been around since the 90s and maybe even longer than that.
Also comparing Queer identities that you don’t like to Nazi’s and KKK is gross. Because you sound like the same people who compare queer people to pedophiles or zoophiles.
Mspec Lesbians people are not pushing out Lesbians and Bi people, they’re trying to find a place in this community to fit in. JUST like how queer people tried to do with straight people. All queer identities INCLUDING ones that you don’t like is homophobia, and it doesn’t make you any better than straight homophobes just because you’re also queer. This community started as ALL queer people loving ALL queer people. Exclusionary is so stupid and defeats one of the most important reasons on why Pride exists. Because Queer people are supposed to support each other.
To deconstruct gender, you must also deconstruct sexuality.
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yaoiboypussy · 17 days
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I know I've heard that with E in the US that you can often get it relatively easily (in pill form) from Planned Parenthood. Is there no similar analogue for T?
Signed, a transfem trying to learn about our community's struggles
Yes you can! I know some trans guys who got on T through planned parenthood.
But unfortunately going through planned parenthood for T is too expensive for me.
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