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Hey tumblr just deleted @puppygirl-hornyposting2's account for the second time.
She got deleted back in september, came back in december. made me her girlfriend and changed my life. matt's fucking gone after her directly before and she was anticipating this. She tried to change up her post content so that it wouldn't be ban evasion, talked more about politics, include rita's banning, and inspired me to speak up more.
and she got nuked again. account wiped.
she's not planning to come back again. she's over on transfem.social at https://transfem.social/@puppygirlhornypost if you want to follow her there.
matt, why do you trust the people that you do? why do you believe the people that you do? there are some people that you're okay with hurting, but why are you okay with hurting them? have you ever asked yourself?
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> you try and harass a trans woman off the website
> trans women are less trusting and polite about tme people
> a trans woman does not straightforwardly answer a bad faith question, because she doesn't trust you
> you accuse her of being a bigot or a sexual predator for not answering the question
> you try and harass a trans woman off the website
and the cycle repeats
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If I see another binary person say “male-aligned nonbinary people” I think I’ll explode. Because everytime I see that I know they aren’t talking about people like me - demiboys, Genderfaes, nonbinary people who consider themselves partially men, etc.
It’s always used to refer to mtx/amab nonbinary people.
people will say a transfem demigirl is ‘male-aligned nonbinary’ . It makes me so mad. People are just so openly transphobic towards mtx people..
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If your reaction to “lesbians don’t like men” is to immediately call us terfs, they you’re the one being transmisogynistic here.
Simple as that.
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Tumblr is still actively endorsing transphobia on this website. Reblog the fuck out of this.
Tumblr got back to me about a report for once... Just to tell me that the blatant transphobia I reported "does not violate community guidelines."
These are the posts which Tumblr staff decided should be kept on the platform, with screenshots.
Also, I apologize in advance for censoring the usernames of the transphobes in the screenshots. Tumblr does absolutely nothing to protect its trans users, so I wouldn't be surprised if I ended up getting in trouble instead, just for including their usernames. I will mention, however, that every transphobe had transphobic dogwhistles in their usernames and/or bio. Transphobes are not difficult to spot. Staff are just apathetic at best, and actively transphobic at worst.
Exhibit A: A post in which someone repeatedly and explicitly misgenders trans women, fearmongers about "trans ideology," uses transphobic dogwhistles, and denies the existence of transmisogyny. This isn't even the full post; it was an incredibly long transphobic tangent. The comments were full of transphobes as well. None of them were banned. Tumblr staff think this is okay.
Exhibit B: A post in which someone delights in the idea of a trans person hurting themselves by "ripping at their surgery scars," with additional ableist undertones. Not a hypothetical trans person either; a real individual trans person. She was not banned.
Exhibit C: A post in which a self-proclaimed TERF refers to consensual gender affirming surgeries as "forced surgeries" and frames trans people as "Nazis and fascists" just for trying to become comfortable in our own bodies. She did this in direct response to trans people celebrating their own surgeries. She was not banned.
Exhibit D: A post in which someone says "transgenderism is erasing women" and blames the existence of misgendering and degendering on trans people, as if we aren't also hurt by those things frequently. She also said that trans women are "not women" in comments on her own post. She was not banned.
Exhibit E: A post in which someone engages in a blatant form of Holocaust denial, by saying trans transgender and queer people "were not targeted" (while simultaneously casting doubt on the validity of those identities themselves by putting them in scare quotes). Trans persecution and book burnings are a well documented aspect of the Holocaust. This post was also reblogged by other transphobes. None of them were banned.
@staff care to explain why you think these posts are okay? Would you like to tell us how and why these "don't violate community guidelines"? Did you learn nothing from the lawsuit that happened because of transphobia among staff? After everything that has happened, why is there still nothing being done about the rampant transphobia on this website?
Just curious.
Also, in case I get banned or this post gets deleted, here's an archived version of my post. Keep it tucked away somewhere.
#transphobia#transmisia#transmisogyny#bioessentialism#queerphobia#queermisia#holocaust#book burning#misgendering#degendering#trans#transgender#genderqueer#nonbinary#lgbt#lgbtq#lgbtqia#queer#ableism
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Btw randomly calling a lesbian who has been openly calling out transmisogyny and lesbophobia all the time a cryptoterf simply bc she said lesbians aren't into men is Not A Good Look. Especially since none of you can even explain what a Terf is and instead call everyone you don't like one. Ignoring the fact that violent transmisogyny is the main tenant of said ideology and half of you are also transmisogynistic like 🤨
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The absolute worst shit of any discourse over an identity being inherently worse than another is when someone from that identity agrees and closes themselves inside an echo chamber dedicated to shitting on people like them and they just keep repeating how it's real that they are awful.
Lately it's happening so much with transmascs. so many young transmascs are seeing words from radical feminists saying how men are inherently evil and how only women can ever be oppressed and somehow they eat this information right up, going to great lengths to protect people who want them dead.
And as a trans woman this is absolutely dreadful.
You are not helping anyone by saying how you do not matter. You are not helping anyone by saying you do not suffer. You are not helping anyone by denying yourself.
I will mark you as unsafe for me for now. But I wish you good luck.
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the main reason i wrote The Abuser's Guide to Transmisogyny was specifically coping with the trauma of knowing how bad the crowd trying to specifically target my housing and such was at it. they repeatedly undermined their own point and suddenly regrew a conscience only to lose it and call me a pedophile again a month later multiple times, and were just generally bad at actually making their points believable
and it almost fucking worked anyways
if my partner who was getting me housing was a little less wary of the callout posts she was getting sent, i would be a smear on the highway right now.
so writing The Abuser's Guide was me partially going all A Modest Proposal on it and coping by basically sarcastically telling my abusers how they could have done a better job, because "my abusers were bad at killing me" is a batshit fucking trauma to have.
so every time i see the same thing happening to someone else, the 12 year old who doesn't know how to work a crowd who's mad about a homestuck poll still wielding the weapons of social murder to some effect... it reminds me viscerally of what happened to me
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Oh boy, another one
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Tumblr tgirl moodboard!
#(this is satire in case it wasnt clear)#satire#transmisogyny#trans women#trans girl#tgirl#transfem#IT SHOULD FINALLY WORK THIS TIME#AND NOT GET FUCKING FLAGGED CAUSE OF TUMBLRS DUMBASS AI
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Hey, to anyone harassing trans women into outing themselves for pointing out that being a lesbian does not in fact entail attraction to men, I hope you know you are creating an unsafe environment for trans women on a site run by people who have already proven to be rabidly transmisogynistic.
Greeeeat job, guys. Truly outstanding ‘allyship’ 🖕
#I fucking hate it here#you should be ashamed#not naming any names#because she should have never had to do this in the first place#if you know what I’m talking about and think this is in anyway acceptable#please fuck off#transmisogyny#lesbophobia#anti harassment
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i'd say "how do people keep falling for this shit every fucking time?" but "falling for" would imply they're not just willingly jumping at the chance the second they can. fucks sake.
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If you support the idea of transfem separatism, please never interact with me, a transfem.
My kind of transfem identity is going to be cut out of those groups due to my AGAB. It's transfem in the nonbinary and deconstructed way. You are only supporting a very specific (Often white, perisex, abled, able to pass, out of the closet, and many other factors) groups of transfems, not all of us. You don't support multigender, transfemasc/transmascfem, intersex, altersex, mspec queers, nonbinary, people who have a separate body transition than their gender, butch transfems, and anyone who is not the same kind of transfem that is idealized by the queer community. What do you do about transfems who cannot transition with HRT or surgery for medical reasons or due to disability? Do you see them as "basically men" and do some bioessentialism, or do you hold space for percieved or real masculinity in your spaces?
I'm not a transfem who can be in those spaces because of how anything else is seen as "basically male" or "woman+" and the inherent bigotry of that. The absolute rancid radfem rhetoric about bi lesbians (They are perfectly welcome to my blog because the labels don't hurt anyone) that has been in the transmisogyny discussion is vile. Just because you are queer of any variety, that does not give you a pass to vomit up the rhetoric of our oppressors and the same people who don't want us to exist at the mere moment you see it as if being allowed to not have bigotry directed at you is a limited resource. It's not limited and never should be because no one deserves oppression, because making oppression "deserved" is and always will be abuser/bully rhetoric.
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