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#aspd tag#npd tag#narcopath#no bc I literally want this on a tshirt so bad. tattooed into my skin or something like a physical need
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Manage your expectations. The more you expect YOU from the narcissist, the more disappointed you’ll be. Expecting the narcissist to suddenly be normal, respectful, understanding and logical is a great way to be more and more disappointed. Let yourself be disappointed instead of gaslighting yourself into believing that they will one day “see the error in their ways” and holding your breath for however much time you think they need to see the light or whatever. (Tip: pour that energy and effort into yourself and your healing journey.) When you expect them to be exactly who they are, it’s a lot less shocking to observe them being exactly who they are. Instead of having expectations of other people (in general too, not just narcs), taking them at face value and trusting their behaviour over their words will save you an immense amount of stress. Of course, this doesn’t change the situation or eliminate the stress completely, but it’s a great start to have this shift in perspective in the back of your mind. 🚨🚨🚨PS: Registration is OPEN for my free webinar: Creating Your Own Closure After Narcissistic Abuse! It’s happening LIVE on March 28, at 2:00 pm EST. Go to the link in my bio to register! #Narcissisticabuserecovery #narcissisticabuse #emotionalabuse #mentalabuse #narcissist #hiddenabuse #gaslighting #manipulators #verbalabuse #covertnarcissist #narcopath #projection https://www.instagram.com/p/Cp2OyyYMtwL/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=
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Jessica Jean Hinchcliff, narcissist meth addict liar.
#borderline personality problems#living with borderline#bpd thoughts#bpd#narcissismawareness#jessica hinchcliff#methhead#pathologicalliar#fraud#narcopath#sociopath#narcissist#murderer
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WHY NARCISSISTS WANT CHILDREN 💯🎯⁉️📌
It Attracts A Lot Of Attention. Narcs Need Attention Far More Than Most People And Will Use Almost Anything To Get It Even Children And What Better Way Is There To Get Everyone’s Attention? Narcs Are Impulsive And Don’t Think Through Consequences So They’re Often Blind As To How Big A Commitment Children Are, Preferring To Focus On The Adulation Instead. Narcs Know That Word Travels Fast And If They Have An Ex They Want To Get At, They Might Have Children Just To Hurt Them. Especially If They Know That They Wanted Children Themselves. That’s How Petty They Can Be.
Narcs Hate Being Single And Certainly Don’t Welcome Someone Dumping Them. That’s Their Job So They Use Children As Insurance. Narcs Know That It’s More Difficult To Leave Them If They Share Children. Because Their Partners, Who Are Usually Empathic, Think Of Their Children’s Needs Before Their Own And Although May Be Unhappy In Their Relationship, Stay To Keep The Family Together. With Children In The Equation, It’s A Whole Different Ball Game. Because A Split Affects Them More Than The Couple And Many People Don’t Want To Be Responsible For Tearing A Child’s Family Apart. So They’re More Likely To Stay With The Narc Even If They’re Unhappy.
Increasing The Pressure To Stay In The Relationship Allows The Narc To Treat Their Partners Worse And Get Away With It. Narcs Learn How Far They Can Push Their Partners, Without Quite Pushing Them Away. They Learn Their Breaking Point And Push Them Just Bellow That Point. This Allows Them To Take As Much As They Can, Yet Keep Them Around So They Can Take Some More, Giving Them The Most Bang For Their Buck. The Breaking Point Is Likely To Be Much Higher When Children Are Involved Because No Right Minded Person Would Split A Family Over A “Minor Incident”, Which Narcs Are Experts At Making Them Seem. So The Bar Is Raised As To What Behaviours Would Spell An End To The Relationship, Allowing The Narcs To Get Away With More.
Even If The Relationship Ends, Children Still Play A Useful Role For The Narc. Because For 18 Years, The Narc Has Access To Their Former Partner And They Have The Law On Their Side. They Can Disappear And Do What They Want. Then When Things Turn Sour, Come Marching Back “For The Sake Of The Children". Narcs Don’t Particularly Care About Seeing Their Children. Which Is Why They Often Have Long Absences From Them, But They’re A Great Tool To Use To Get Their Feet Back Under The Table. Most Well Meaning Parents Won’t Deny Their Children Seeing The Other Parent. Even If They’ve Disappeared For A While. This Allows The Narc To Dip In And Out Of Their Life. And Work Their Charm If They Want Some Action. If The Narc Has Children With More Than One Partner, Then It’s Party Time. Because They Can Flit Between Several Peoples Lives. And When They Grow Bored, Discard Them And Move To Another.
Narcs See Their Children As Extensions Of Themselves And Some Want Children So They Can Live Through Them And Push Them To Accomplish What They Never Did. So They May Push Their Children To Become Doctors, Lawyers, Actors, Singers, Etc. Regardless Of What The Child Wants For Themselves And This Can Cause Problems Later In Life. It Can Be Like Fitting A Square Peg Into A Round Hole. People Need To Find Their Own Way, Based On Their Own Strengths, Weaknesses And Interests, But The Narc Is Too Focused On Their Own Ambitions To Consider This And Relentlessly Push Their Own Agenda.
The Narc Usually Takes Credit For Any Success The Child Has And Claims It’s Their Genes And Good Parenting That’s Responsible. To Outsiders They May Seem Like A Proud Parent, But The Only Pride They Really Have Is In Themselves. They See Children As A Boost To Their Profile. Because In Their Mind It Shows How Virile And Desirable They Are. Some Narcs See Children As A Numbers Game. The More They Have, The Greater They Must Be. So They Try To Have As Many Children As Possible, Despite Being Absent Parents.
Narcs Don’t Usually Have Strong Parental Instincts, So They Leave Most Of The Parenting To Their Partners And This Works Out Great For Them. Narcs Like To Saddle Their Partners With Children Because It Keeps Them Under Lock And Key. The Narc Knows That Their Partner Has Little Freedom When They’re Almost Solely Responsible For The Children And It Keeps Them Safely Tucked Away At Home Whilst They Swan Around Without A Care In The World. Parenting Is Draining And Narcs Like To Play The Energy Game With Their Partners. This Is Where They Tire Them Out Whilst Preserving Their Own Energy. This Allows Them To Dominate Their Fatigued Partner Because They Have Less Mental And Physical Strength To Fight Back.
Although Narcs Do Little Actual Parenting, The Outside World Doesn’t Know This And The Narc Talks A Good Game To Friends, Family And Co-workers, Creating The Impression They’re Doting Parents And Normal Functioning Members Of Society. Narcs Hide Behind A Family Persona To Disguise Their Dysfunctional Ways And It Can Work Wonders For Their Image And Reputation. Narcs Love People Thinking Highly Of Them. It’s An Ego Boost For One And It Also Helps Them Gain Attention And Favours Because People Are More Willing To Trust And Spend Time With People Who Are High Functioning. Narcs See Everyone Around As An Extension Of Themselves Rather Than As Separate Individuals. This Includes Their Own Children.
There Are Several Mistakes The Narc Parent Is Certain To Make During Their Counter-Parenting Journey. These Mistakes Will Undoubtedly Come Back To Haunt Them, Possibly Years Down The Line. Narcs Are So Self-absorbed They Fail To Stop And Consider That Children Eventually Grow Up And See The Damaging Behaviour With Their Own Eyes. Their Children Are Not Immune From Being At The Receiving End Of The Narc's Cycle Of ‘idealise And Devalue’, Where They Are Alternately Lovebombed, (Showered With Praise And Attention), And Then Subtly Devalued, Criticised, Withdrawn From And Put Down. This Leaves Them Confused And Hurt, And They Start Jumping Through Hoops To Please The Parent Enough To Re-Enter The Idealization Phase Again. This Is A Cycle That Repeats Ad Infinitum, Over And Over Again, Even When The Child Becomes An Adult Themselves.
Narcs' Children Will Be Triangulated And Played Off Against Others (Often Their Own Siblings Or Cousins), And Will Find Themselves Vying For The Narc’s Attention. They Will Be Gaslighted/Lied To By The Narc To The Point Where They Their Own Reality Is Dismissed As False, So That They Stop Trusting Their Own Perceptions Of Reality. They Will Be Demeaned And Shamed. If They Are Particularly Good At Something, Behind Closed Doors They May Find Themselves On The Receiving End Of The Narc Parent’s Jealously. Confusingly, The Narc May Then, In Front Of An Audience, Hold Up Their Child’s Talent As A Source Of Pride, As Just Another Way To Gain Positive Attention For Themselves.
It’s Not Surprising That Narcs Want Children For Selfish Reasons. Everything Else In Their Life Revolves Around Them, So Why Should This Be Any Different? But It’s Easy For Their Partners To Be Fooled Into Thinking That They Want Them For The Right Reasons, Especially When The Narcissist Knows What To Say. Narcs May Talk Romantically About How Children Will Bring Them Closer And How Much Joy They’ll Bring, Which Is All Very Appealing, But When The Children Arrive, The Harsh Reality Kicks In. The Narc Becomes More Narc Because They Can Get Away With It And Spends Little Time And Energy On Their Children Because They’re Still Hyper Focused On Themselves. Despite All The Promises They Made, The Sad Truth Is That Even With Children, Narcs Want Everything To Revolve Around Them And They’re Happy To Take The Focus Away From Their Children Because Deep Down, They’re Big Kids Themselves.
In Short, And To Put It Bluntly, Narcs Do Not Have What It Takes To Be Good Parents. They Cannot Put Another’s Needs First.
#narcissist#narcissisticabuse#narcopaths#sociopaths#psychopaths#narcissists#domesticviolence#domesticabuse#verbalabuse#emotionalabuse#mentalabuse#psychologicalabuse#sexualabuse#reproductiveabuse#physicalabuse#narcissism#malignantnarcissism#covertnarcissism#npd#abusesurvivor#narcabusesurvivor#toxicpartners#toxicpeople#abusivepartners#abusivepeople#narcissisticparters#narcissisticpeople#narcissisticparent#narcissisticpersonality#narcissistic
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I haven’t been this attached to a male character since Aziraphale in 2019 😓 but it’s worse bc I’ve only known this dude for like a day meanwhile it took me a couple weeks to build up to this level of attachment with Aziraphale… I’m Unwell
#dr Sarkov#alex sarkov#the imperfects#mara.txt#he is not only my new blorbo. his is also my scrungly and my little meow meow. my babygirl. my precious child#why do they keep making characters with my exact personality and disorders. it’s too much for a humble narcopath to take#he’s so autism just like me too like!!! this little guy belongs to me#i haven’t kinned someone this strongly since I first discovered Regina Mills in 2011#and it’s a man?!?! insane
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I love u autism and schizophrenia sptectrum fusorder people and schizotists on my phone❤️ I woukd leave you alone when you wanted me to and respect your boundaries (schizo-autism equivalent to when people say “I am holding your hand” because im doing such a good job already with respecting your boundaries)💗🙄😒(<-I’m avoiding eye contact)
#…#glad we exist to hold the world together sorry for being a narcopath with DID so i make us look kind bad😌#and bc I’m an addict. I’m rlly high rn which is why I didn’t answer the anon this is half ass related to#**kind of bad#schizophrenia spectrum#autism
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saw puss in boots
#i prommy i dont run around diagnosing every character to ever exist with Narcopath#its just. so obvious w him tho#whole time in the theather i was white knuckling nd going I KNOW WHAT YOU ARE over n over in my head#waposts
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Things a man needs to realize before he can properly woo me:
- He’s mine and mine only. He belongs to me.
- I’m god.
- He is nothing compared to me.
- He was put on this earth for the express purpose of being my pretty, loyal servant and devoted worshipper. In return, I shall spoil him with lavish gifts and by railing him silly.
- Beards are fugly, and wearing them is a fucking sin against me. And so is getting his hair done with those ugly shaved sides. Keeping his head full of hair and his face and body smooth is THE shit and he will earn 1000x more love, spoils, and sex for doing so.
- This world and everything in it belongs to me, especially him.
- I am ought to do whatever I please, and he is ought to do, think, and feel whatever I command.
- His mind is not his. Even if it isn’t mine yet upon meeting him, it will be soon.
- The moment he starts looking crusty and unkempt is the moment he is no longer blessed. Unless it’s his hair going in all diff directions when he wakes up. That’s hella cute.
- He is ought to not be overly slothly, yet not so ambitious or full of zest as to irritate me or surpass my own vigor.
- He is my pet. But not in an animal way. A lovely human way.
- Basically be 1950’s housewife willingly. If I need to force him or coax him to live a a life of servitude to and worship of me, he is NOT THE ONE.
#yandere#actually idk what yandere rlly is I just discovered the word today and it seemed to fit my ideal relationship#doraric#dorare#narcissian attraction#doraric attraction#I need someone to love and worship me as the narcopath demon I am#possessive love#possessive
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Dude this is so me fr
#this is the autistic narcopath rep I wanna see in the world#that’s a joke btw i have no idea if the creator has pd’s lol but this video really sums up my whole deal#it used to really bother my friends in high school when I would just mirror bc they would be like “hey do you like *insert movie here*”#and I would say “Yeah omg it was super good!” and then agree with them about it and everything#and they eventually caught on to the fact that I almost never saw/liked the same films as them. or actors or shows or books or or or#lemme tell you it was SUCH a relief to finally let go of all those friendships with the excuse of “outgrowing each other”. i get to be#totally myself whenever I’m alone and it I get to be alone a lot more now!!! it’s so so so good#i hate masking I hate mirroring imagine being behind the counter of a store 24/7 365 and having to do ur customer service thing always#that’s life for me. utterly exhausting#npd tag#aspd tag#autism
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#Vitamin C IV integrative cancer care#Glutathione IV therapy Milton#cosmetic Acupuncture Milton#Fertility Acupuncture Milton#Narcopathic doctor in Milton
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Jessica Jean Hinchcliff, meth head narcissist.
#modernart#narcissist#covert npd#narc abuse#narcissisticgaslighting#covert narcissism#jessica hinchcliff#methaddict#meth addiction#narcopath#liar#toxic#moron#uglyperson#jessicahinchcliff
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Tw ableism!
aspd + npd culture is "I can't be a narcopath, I hate myself and I am not a criminal." and slowly figure out you're being ableist and you're afraid of yourself.
At least you know where to start discover yourself after questioning yourself.
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#cluster b culture is#npd culture is#aspd culture is#aspd + npd culture is#cluster b#npd#aspd#Mod Reef#anonymous#tw ableism#ableism tw
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The Dark Empath
We were born into darkness. We lived in the dark for so long that we learned how to transform the darkness into light. From a higher level our soul knew that we would not have to live or even want to live in the dark forever. We were raised by narcissists, sociopaths and psychopaths even some, we can see through any manipulation tactics. The difference between a narcissist and a dark empath is the dark empath or light empaths enlighten themselves and see through the illusions of darkness. Whereas the narcissist stays stuck in a toxic cycle loop, blaming everyone and everything for their problems creating chaos from their unhealed wounds.
The dark empath steps out of the toxic cycle loop, heals their wounds and steps into the truth of the light. It's as plain as day to us what they are doing that everyone else is asleep to in our reality. We are are labeled as being too dark at times, scary, intense and even named the most dangerous personality type, we are-- for the wicked ones for the evil injustices you see in this world because we expose the Truth with our bulletproof boundaries and unbreakable soul.
Trigger warning: We are no threat to the innocent and vulnerable because we were once innocent until our innocence was stolen from us. Who else but us can see through these malignant narcissists, narcopaths, sociopaths, these dark warlocks, dark alchemists and actually change the world? The dark empath exposes these demons we saw through from the very beginning. We were chosen and came here to call these shameless demons out. For a while, we will let you think you have had the upper hand, that you've won the battle meanwhile letting the narcissist expose themselves by thinking they are manipulating and using us successfully. We always win the war. The dark empath can read you for filth in one minute and have these demons terrified of being exposed and shaking and begging for forgiveness. We actually don't enjoy doing this, we wish we didn't have to. But we don't mind confrontation or having uncomfortable conversations. Our silence was for your protection, not ours. We state facts, we speak truth through God, we are not the ones to judge; leave the judging to the narcissist.
Some people will tell you the dark empath is manipulative, emotionless, has no empathy but that is false matrix programming. They say that because they misunderstand our assignment from Source. Understand, these narcissists were murdering and burdening our pure hearts for decades. We're wise on manipulative tactics but an un-evolved empath will only manipulate, lie, cheat only with the narcissist that abused them for a short period of time. We know hurting anyone is a lower vibrational act and we know we will feel God's wrath for hurting someone without just cause. ANY violence, any hate, any lie, any pain, any curse, any abuse or lower vibrational act is inexcusable; telling the truth, and exposing the truth is not evil or lower vibrational. We just speak truth and it upsets everyone not living in their truth. Demons do not like to be confronted with the truth and they will retaliate against us. But we will not be silenced.
Why? We refuse to tolerate abuse and ignorance. Because the holy spirit is within us telling us exactly what to call out. The last thing we ever want to do with all this power is scare or invoke fear in the fragile narcissist because we know being in their body is torture enough. They hate themselves, they are completely disconnected from who they are- we know our loved one is underneath there being used by their demons but if you disrespect us, guilt trip is, blame us, shame us, threaten us, lie to us, gaslight us, betray us, belittle us, abuse us or anyone we love, we will show no mercy for the highest good of all. We've already lived and survived in the darkness we already lived in hell our entire lives, we know how to enjoy our time there and we know what we refuse to tolerate.
We know what we want and we know what we don't want and no one can bend us to their will. No one can buy us, control us, or manipulate us. It's not the narcissist you should be afraid of, it's the dark empath that is the most dangerous, but not for the pure hearted, not for society, but for the evil wicked ones playing in the dark and thinking they are getting away with it. By the time they come across one of us they are done. They are finished. Their karma is the end to their toxic ways. Their reputation is ruined. Any mistruths they speak will be carried by the winds, to the ears of the spirits, angels, archangels, deities, demons, ancestors that watch over and protect the dark or light empaths. They are humiliated by God, not by us. They will never be in our life or inner circle ever again. We do not consent to our energy being siphoned by these demons ever again. They will have to watch from the sidelines for the rest of their lives. We are the definition of resilient and not for the weak. We are both light and dark. We embrace our shadow side from a positive aspect versus a negative one. We are the curse breakers, we are the light bearers in the dark. Beware the wolves in sheep's clothing.
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This is something I'm working on rn to try and tackle the problems we face a lot. The title is a little satirical, supposed to be a parody of those blogs that try to help with like narcissistic abuse and that. Its gonna have lots of info, from how to fake feelings and empathy to managing anger and apathy. If there's anything you want to see, please let me know. If there's anything you can help with, send it on and I will give credit in the post I make. I want this blog to be full of information and resources, and I want it to be a place free from narcopath abuse shit. The last thing I wanna see when I google how to deal with my problems is how other people deal with them from the outside. It'll hopefully help people with npd, bpd and hpd as well, not just aspd.
#aspd#actuallyaspd#antisocial personality disorder#cluster b#actually aspd#actually cluster b#cluster b personality disorder
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The fanfic/art moral 'activism'
So i got three people who are not hiding behind anon and they are anti shipper or whatever they call themselves ( I'm not saying all in that group is like that tho. But, these three blogs seems to fancies themselves with that label)
They have cute blog aesthetic and I bet are gen z. I got three people that I see with my own eyes being moral crusaders and super disturbing at the same @ashlake who told me to slit my wrist @yuunaremy a Kirby blog or whatever who told me that I deserve the rape and death threats and then that troll blog asters-disaster whom I saw sending violent threats to others. I forgot @narcopath who is ashlake mutual and telling me in a very detailed graphic way, on how to do self harm with razor because they disagree with my AO3 stance
Fuck it. I'm naming you people because you guys are going around harassing people. DM me for screenshot
Literally being super violent to others
I think this phenomena of fandom and fanfic crusading happen because the need of Millenial and Gen Z to be better and politically more progressive than past generation which is good and all but tend to breed the irresponsible activism. They were fueled by older people who are into moral crusading out of the need to be 'right' and jacking off to the thrill
( I see you the certain 40 years old person who harassing people in a certain fandom )
The younglings are easily influenced and so they followed these older people example and joining the crusading.
If you don't care about fanfic discourse you'll be branded as a pro ship or whatever and thus a target of harassment as well because you don't take side and you are not good enough.
if you said you are anti censorship you'll be branded
if you are 'sus' of any kind you'll be branded.
If you said "hey guys don't harass others over fanworks" you'll be branded.
In their emotional and vanity fueled mind they will attack anyone and do anything in the name of being 'right'. Like a republican, witch hunters and templars or judge Frollo.
Also may I remind you that the anti kink and crusade against any kind of 'problematic' story is also heavily sponsored by TERF/ SWERF and conservative? I have seen more than once the same people who harass others over fanfic are either influenced by TERF or associated. Often repeating the talking points
The TERF/SWERF and conservative are riding this accountability and call-out culture to do their agenda and using young people as a canon fodder. Sinister but effective...
Look at this gem that i found from an ultra conservative account. Sounds familiar?
Now this is another gem that I found from one of those purity call-out blog that I bet wouldn't want to be associated with ultra christian
Of course I can understand the concern with child/adult stuff or troubling content or whatever but these kind of people will brand everything as 'sinful' and the category keep expanding and expanding. See genderbending?
It's bleed into space outside of fandom, which is very very concerning
Literal saw a TERF saying that Daddy kink is immoral and predatory and then another blog who is not Terfs blog, progressive and into fanfic crusading parroting the same talking point. Word for word, because they feel like of course they has to follow this point because it feels aligned with their fanfic activism
They have been doing this since Live journal era
Their methods of operation involving harassment, false accusations, false callout and false mass report. This shit has been happening since Live journal era, then to FF.net and now to AO3 and the pro vs antis stuff. Ourobos cycle.
It's destroying lives, fandoms and online spaces
#fanfic#ao3#discourse#fandom discourse#fandom critical#analysis#politics#antis#vs#proship#livejournal#ffn.net#moral purity#puriteens#tw harassment#books#literature#writing#political discourse
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