Reminder that it’s okay if your gender needs to be explains in ways others may not understand. It’s okay to say your gender involves a color, an accessory, an animal, a style. If your gender is like a pink motorcycle, then vroom vroom. If it’s like that cloudy red color in hibiscus tea with milk, then you can take a nice big sip. If it’s that specific soft style in western animations, then be soft, bubbly, and light. Describe your gender how you want. If scientists can discover a bug and give it the stupidest[affectionate] scientific name ever because they found it, you can tell people your gender is a sunset over a hill because you found it within yourself.

"This is the gender fuckery and cis+ website"You guys can't even handle trans people who don't want to physically transition

cis people just don't get it tbh

(edit: i added a watermark bc some of u cheeky fuckers like reposting art w/o credit ....)

"Oh, you're trans? Are you mtf, ftm, mtnb, or ftnb?" Actually, I'm ftmtnbtftnbtmtnbtmtftxtnbtmtqtmftnbtmtfnbtmtxtmtmnbtmtnbtmtxtqtnbtmtfmnbtm-

In other words, I'm genderfluid

Explaining gender using colours as an analogy, a thought process I have been tracking since I was like 12

Happy Trans* Day of Visibility!

Comment if you’re something different, I ran out of poll options. Reblog for a bigger sample size

hi! im new to tumblr and I just wanted to do this to kinda introduce myself, im kay, im agender, pansexual, aromatic, & cupioromantic. my pronouns are they/it and, im also a polytherian and fictionkin! im in the bluey and gravity falls fandoms (:

i also like melanie martinez, and if feel comfy, I use xenopronouns, too (They/It/Cat/Star/Fizz). and i also have adhd!

also, please read my dni (do not interact), it should be at the top of my blog (its a pinned post)

gender rant

i love being genderfluid tbh. on days where i don't think about my gender that much i usually have little to no dysphoria or im just indifferent to figuring it out. i don't always have to know. some days i just don't have one of those. some days im strongly a boy and i want to be seen as a boy really badly. sometimes im neutral about being called a girl or a boy. sometimes im a silly girl. other times i dont want to be anything and i really dont want to be percieved at all. there are a few more descriptions i switch between too. i almost always fall under gnc/nonbinary spectrum on most days but the way it feels to me varies a lot, even if i dont feel like just "nonbinary" is quite ever the right word.

personally i always identify as genderfluid but sometimes i choose more specific identities when they feel right, and they fluctuate. i think of my gender identities like its a flowchart kinda?? probably sounds weird but its how it makes sense to me.

Misc. Gender Cats

Happy Pride! 💙💗🤍💗💙💛🤍💜🖤

Do other AFAB demigirls or AMAB demiboys feel like they’re not “queer enough” relating to their gender?

I’ve been kinda struggling w this. I KNOW I’m nonbinary, and I KNOW that I don’t have to prove my identity to anyone, but it feels like I’m not allowed to say that I’m not cis/nonbinary bc I still present feminine and don’t have to deal with nearly as many of the struggles GNC people (cis or not) or transmasc/transfem people do.

Funny since I do experience some dysphoria in things like being called a ‘woman’, but being called a girl colloquially or being referred to with she/her pronouns don’t bother me. I experience no chest dysphoria, but do feel some bottom dysphoria.

TLDR: nonbinary gender complicated

rain world artists: *has scugs with specific pronouns and genders*

my self-projecting ass with androgynous scugs that all use any/all:

Shout out to Go the distance.Gotta be one of my favorite genders

So, sometimes I'm hesitant to share things about my dysphoria, since I think a lot of people will glance past the Plurality and try to frame this as some kind of detransition. No hate towards people who do end up detransitioning for any reason, but that's a very different thing to my weird-ass deal, and I'm sure as fuck not reversing any surgeries when the most functional Alter and the earliest one we know of are both transfem still. Hell, we're even still planning to go forward with bottom surgery, and I'm not really even against the idea?

The issue I run into most is, well... boobs. We have D cups, with 420cc (seriously) implants, which makes it a hard to properly go dude mode now? I can bind, and I do it basically the moment I'm fronting, but it's really only flat when I double up on binders, and, uh... yeah, that's a quick way to remember which rib got dislocated once? I'm trying to be smarter about it- one binder and a denim vest to try and hide the extra oomph... but I have to unbind eventually, and it feels awful every time because our body is very, very feminine now.

I did have a peculiar dream last night, though. I was dating a guy (an OC from a story we were going to write) as myself in it, but the time to go to bed together came and I... still had breasts. Then, when I got uncomfortable, Dreamguy just kept referring to them as boytits, which led to me waking up briefly euphoric and confused.

I guess I was just feeling really dysphoric and someone acknowledging the boyness of my hongalongamogongas helped relieve it a bit? Maybe the idea that I could be in a relationship and still be acknowledged as a separate person was also weighing on me, since me and Kay (maybe even Alice?) have very conflicting sexualities and identities, and I worry things will either be too complicated, or I'll have to take a back seat.

I think my biggest worry, though, is... what fucking community do I belong to? Kay's obviously transfem, and even though I'm masc and AMAB, I'm not Cis? I'm still very much nonbinary, just heavy on the masculine side, but the people I connect with and get tips from are transmasc, and it just feels disrespectful for me to attach too much to that community?

I guess collectively we're genderfluid, but even that feels strange when we're different people, and I can't even recognize Kay's thought process most of the time?

I guess I'm just rambling because there isn't a short way to accept being plural and having to deal with conflicting gender identities on top of that. It makes everything way, way harder, but I do know things will work out in the end. I'm taking a crash course to make sure I know enough about Kay's major to hold down a job properly (without fronting and immediately crying because I have no idea how to do anything.)

Plus, y'know... there's always the option of being poly, or just dating someone with a gender ambiguous enough to appeal to a lesbian and a gay boy at the same time. Just as long as they know these are (at least when I'm fronting) he/him chesticles and they prefer to be called sir, damnit.