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questionnightammo · 22 hours

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Happy Pride! Here are some LGBTQIA+ asks!

No NSFW/invasive questions!

How do you identify?

When did you first come out? Who was it to? How did it go (if you feel comfortable sharing)?

Pronouns?

Do you have a partner/queer platonic partner? If yes, what's your favorite thing about them? And if no, share your favorite thing about yourself!

Favorite queer song?

Favorite queer artist/art piece?

Favorite queer pairing in media?

Favorite queer book/author?

Aside from your own flag(s), which of the flags is your favorite aesthetically?

Name something you really admire about other identities in the queer community (i.e., if you're bi, say something about the ace community, etc)

Do you have any queer role models? If so, tell us something about them!

Frogs?

Favorite urban myth/legend (i.e. Bigfoot, Nessie, Mothman, etc)(yes this is a gay question)

Have you been to your local city's pride parade?

Favorite drag queen/king?

Have you ever done drag? How did it go?

Do you have any queer tattoos? If so, share!

Are you a plants, space, ocean, or dinosaurs gay? Or secret fifth option?

Favorite silly stereotype about your identity?

Older queers, what's one piece of advice you can give to younger queers? And younger queers, what's one question/concern you have that you'd like older queers to answer?

Happy Pride everyone! 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️❤️🧡💛💚🩵💜

#lgbtqia asks #asks #questions #lgbt asks #lgbtqia #lgbtqia community #happy pride 🌈#pls note op of this is bisexual lol

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wolfnanaki · 7 months

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GVH inspired a conversation between my friends and I regarding whether or not it's rude to depict a nonbinary character's sexual organs in fan art and fanfiction given that they are nonbinary and probably don't want to be percieved as explicitly masculine or feminine. What do you think about this contentious topic?

Well, really, that depends on a number of factors.

One is if you think sexual organs are explicitly masculine or feminine in their gender presentation. It's the same with trans men and women. If you can accept that a trans man is a man, a trans woman is a woman, and a nonbinary person is who they say they are, then you should be able to accept whatever they've got going on under the clothing as part of that.

I've seen nonbinary and trans artists with very enthusiastically sexual characters, and I've seen characters that are never to be drawn sexually at all. In truth, everyone's relationship to sexuality and their body is different, that's not limited to trans and nonbinary people either. And quite often, the porn artists of the internet do not care about that nuance. I've seen characters that are canonically ace and/or aro get drawn in ship art and porn.

On that note, the developers of GVH have said they didn't want to see porn of their characters, yet it happened anyway. It's unfortunate but also expected; the internet's far too big and filled with too many people to regulate something like that, and if you were try, there are tons of ethical concerns about artistic freedom vs. censorship to discuss, something I think should be left to people smarter than me.

To cut it short: you can respectfully portray trans and nonbinary people sexually, it's not impossible. At least with this game though, I would personally recommend against it, but if you do it anyway, I really don't want to see it.

#ask box #queer asks #LGBT asks

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kuchipatch1 · 5 months

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yall have got to be more normal about Southern people and I'm not kidding. enough of the Sweet Home Alabama incest jokes, enough of the idea that all Southerners are bigots and rednecks, and enough of the idea that the South has bad food. shut up about "trailer trash" and our accents and our hobbies!

do yall know how fucking nauseating it is to hear people only bring up my state to make jokes about people in poverty and incestuous relationships? how much shame I feel that I wasn't born up north like the Good Queers and Good Leftists with all the Civilised Folk with actual houses instead of small cramped trailers that have paper thin walls that I know won't protect me in a bad enough storm?

do yall know how frustrating it is to be trans in a place that wants to kill you and whenever you bring it up to people they say "well just move out" instead of sympathizing with you or offering help?

do yall understand how alienating it is to see huge masterposts of queer and mental health resources but none of them are in your state because theyre all up north? and nobody seems to want to fix this glaring issue because "they're all hicks anyways"

Southern people deserve better. we deserve to be taken seriously and given a voice in the queer community and the mental health space and leftist talks in general.

#this is kind of a vent honestly but ive been thinking abt it a lot #ask to tag #ok to reblog #southerners #queer #lgbt #neurodivergent #alabama #georgia #tennessee #texas #discourse #?#poverty #southern queer

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ink-the-artist · 7 months

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The 7 Deadly Sins

bonus art: i felt like the gay wrath drawing looked a bit like an old gay liberation poster :)

#ask to tag #god these took so long you have no idea lol #im gonna put all these up on my redbubble eventually #gluttony doesnt just refer to food its any kind of overindulgence #art #illustration #colored pencil #marker #wlw #wlw art #lesbian #lgbt #body horror #blood #artistic nudity

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talisidekick · 2 years

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If a transgender person asks you to deadname and misgender them in front of certain people. Misgender them and deadname them in front of those people. It doesn't matter how icky or gross it may feel, it doesn't matter you'd rather be honest. It doesn't matter if there's more of you there. Certain people aren't safe, and honesty IS NOT the best policy when honesty could put them at serious risk. It doesn't matter if there's a crowd, because when there isn't shit goes down.

Be an ally, do what they ask. Understand that the trans person knows more about their situation than you do, and this includes who's safe and who's not. Some one can be "trans friendly" to other people, but not to people they know or specific people. Do as the trans person asks, yes it's uncomfortable, but it's 10 times worse if the person we don't trust finds out. 100 times worse if they have access to us when you're not around.

Respect trans peoples safety. Misgender and deadname when asked.

#trans #transgender #lgbt+#lgbtq+#2slgbtqia+#lgbt #transfem #transmasc #transneutral #there is a post about this on my blog but it reminded me of my own situation #my whole family knows I'm out and I didn't want them to #my entire extremely christian catholic and mormon extended family knows because I let my sister tell my parents because we weren't talking #now I live in constant damn fear I'm going to get a message forwarded from family to the point I blocked my own parents #these are dangerous people who will stop at nothing to ruin my life if they find me so I'm going to ask I get deadnamed and misgendered #in front of them #i'm going to lie that it's a joke so I can live my life in relative peace.

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peach-pot · 1 year

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(if you don’t mind reblogging this post, that would be groovy ^_^)

#first and last time I ask people to reblog a post on the post lol #hannah talks sometimes #this will be my ‘general tumblr population poll’#and then I can compare it to my blog one #it’ll still definitely be like. my side of tumblr because it’s starting on my blog but. eh you get it #asexual #aromantic #polls #aspec #arospec #acespec #asexuality #aromanticism #lgbt

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decolonize-the-left · 2 months

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I saw your post about the leopards eating faces and democrats and if you think the us is bad under biden have a good look through project 2025 and please fucking realize that queer people, those that can get pregnant, and people of color are going to be absolutely fucked if trump wins in November.

Sigh

If you ACTUALLY read it then you'd know Biden is ALREADY carrying out the goals outlined in project2025. You'd also know that his administration is even using the SAME exact language that's found in the Mandate for Leadership. Such as "protecting the freedom of navigation in the Suez Canal"

I literally have a post floating around somewhere where I said he was gonna escalate the genocide and smoke out all the rebel groups because guess what? Project2025 outlined that too. Literally listed them as targets that the administration should focus on.

Another part of it says they should continue to protect and support Israel's "right to defend itself" at any cost.

So yeah that thing you're afraid of? It's here. And it's here because you thought the fascist with a blue tie was less scary than a fascist than a red tie so you stopped paying attention when Blue Tie Man was around. And that blue Fascism that's allowing book bans and abortion bans and making trans people illegal is going to stay here and grow because you don't fucking care to address it unless the tie is red.

Maybe fucking read the thing you're trying to fearmonger me about because I guarantee I've read more of it than you.

And it's not that I find the realities in it less scary, it's that I'm not such a privileged shithead that I would prioritize my own comfort over lives being lost in a literal fucking genocide.

Yeah shit sucks for queer people and trans people and trust me, I know that, but we aren't being killed in broad fucking daylight and having people go into denial about it so maybe instead of barking up MY blog about how fucked up everything is you go and send the DNC and your representatives some emails and tell them to give Democrats a candidate that doesnt commit genocide?

How about instead of yelling at me to lower my standards cuz things MIGHT get scarier for you if Blue Tie Man doesn't beat trump (and he won't) you ACCEPT that reality and DO SOMETHING USEFUL about it. How about you and your party just BE BETTER????

There's seven months before the elections and Biden is tanking every poll and Democrats are voting uncommited in swing states and what's Biden doing? Doubling down on every single policy that he's losing voters over (like supporting Israel). If he loses that's not my fault or anyone else's.

Maybe stop asking people to vote for a warmongering white supremacist.

"think of the queers and pregnant people and PoC"

I Am.

They live in Palestine and Sudan and the DRC.

Or did you mean I should prioritize different queers and pregnant people and PoC?

Don't be shy. Did you mean I should prioritize you?

Cuz yeah. Fuck that.

(white) USamerican citizens prioritizing ourselves over everyone else is exactly how the world got so fucked up.

I'm NOT voting for Biden under any fucking circumstances, don't waste my time with another bullshit uninformed scare mongering ask like this again just cuz YOU lack the solidarity to care about any community but your own.

The fuck?

Do you think the queer community only counts Americans? What an ignorant thing to say. "Think of minority communites but only from this specific part of the world"

You wouldn't know community if it hit you in the fucking face.

#asked #answered #project2025 #queer #lgbt #poc #reproductive rights #bodily autonomy #the fact you separated PoC from queer and pregnant people is Weird As Fuck also btw like just say youre a white supremacist ffs #biden #2024 #vote

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redheadbigshoes · 11 months

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I feel like everyone around me is a swiftie but me lol

#stephanie asks #lgbt #lgbqia

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pinkhairswagtourney · 2 months

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unfortunately going to have to make another post because things are getting bad again

i work as a gas station attendant and accommodations were made when i was hired so that i could sit down while working due to my fibromyalgia / chronic pain . recently a customer complained that i was being “lazy” so my manager decided that i can’t sit down anymore . i can do that , sure , but i won’t be able to move the next day . i tried explaining this to my manager but she said that the decision was final . and so i’ve had to call off a lot of days these last few weeks because of the extreme pain that i'm in . my manager told me that we have to meet this sunday and i’m pretty sure i’m going to get fired .

i live paycheck to paycheck and even then i’m constantly struggling to afford medication , food , gas , etc . i have no savings , so if i lose my job , i’m completely fucked . and honestly i’m just very tired of living like this , not knowing when my next meal is going to be or having to scrounge up every last cent i have for my insulin .

i hate asking for help so often but i really feel hopeless right now . i don’t have anyone to turn to IRL , otherwise i would . even a few dollars means so much to me , it’s literally the difference between me eating or having to fast for another day . i do art commissions if you’re interested , you can find all of my links below . please boost this and spread this post around . thank you so much for reading this

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#lgbt #queer #please reblog #crowdfund #queer crowdfund #mutual aid #financial aid #aid request #urgent #signal boost #ask to tag

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choppedfuncollection-blr1 · 10 days

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#ethreal #hot lips #brokenheart #lgbt inspo #lolita goth #ask away #merica #gaybies #mendes army #gvf fic

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sleepyshrooms · 2 months

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making a new post bc the old one was getting notes with no donos i spent my entire paycheck on prescriptions and i've been unable to afford anything to eat . i've also been dealing with severe fibro flareups that caused me to miss a few days last week so i already know my next check is going to be short . if anyone could throw a few bucks my way so i can get some food , i would appreciate it very much . i'll leave my commission info and links below . thanks for reading

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#lgbt #queer #please reblog #crowdfund #mutual aid #financial aid #aid request #urgent #signal boost #ask to tag

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lenny-link · 4 months

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FEMHEAVY TF2 TUMMY !! !! !!