If a transgender person asks you to deadname and misgender them in front of certain people. Misgender them and deadname them in front of those people. It doesn't matter how icky or gross it may feel, it doesn't matter you'd rather be honest. It doesn't matter if there's more of you there. Certain people aren't safe, and honesty IS NOT the best policy when honesty could put them at serious risk. It doesn't matter if there's a crowd, because when there isn't shit goes down.
Be an ally, do what they ask. Understand that the trans person knows more about their situation than you do, and this includes who's safe and who's not. Some one can be "trans friendly" to other people, but not to people they know or specific people. Do as the trans person asks, yes it's uncomfortable, but it's 10 times worse if the person we don't trust finds out. 100 times worse if they have access to us when you're not around.
Respect trans peoples safety. Misgender and deadname when asked.
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Thing: *signs* "Enid & Wednesday!"
Enid: *very confused* "What is going on?"
Wednesday: "Thing, you better explain right now"
Thing: *signs* "Since you two haven't been on a proper date yet, I thought I would set something up"
Enid: "A KIDNAPPING??"
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I loved the teen talk this week for so many reasons, but Beth May getting a concussion, smoking weed, ending up in the hospital, and crying about never being good at her job again, was the most relatable thing.
Her success despite being a mess gives me such hope. I too am a god damn mess with a successful career somehow. Nice to know we can do both. Cry and keep going.
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I don’t know where people got the impression that Ena has a fear for dogs like Akito does. There is no implication of any of those sorts in the game.
Akito canonically does and for some reason, Ena told that to Mizuki which I do not understand why she has the need to do so when he clearly does not want people finding out about it.
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"haha I'm a mirrorball" until im literally talking like them eating like them behaving like them walking like them
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The similarities between Mileven’s 2x09 reunion and Jancy’s 4x09 reunion is pretty insane.
The way both ships look at each other, the both hug, Mike and Nancy both trying to get in contact with the other for sometime, while Jonathan and El know more than the others are aware.😭
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I didn't know the news channel broadcasts my daily activities
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columbo truely is the detective of all time
fucker just says enough shit and shows up enough places to get his suspects to sweat bullets, and then PLANTS EVIDENCE so that he can reveal it, watch them have a MENTAL BREAKDOWN and confess to the murder
godly police work there buddy
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respect for all younger siblings out there who keep a secret without being blackmailed into it
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can anyone tell me why i enter the grocery store a normal person and emerge as some sort of vile ravening monster
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high school teacher voice hello neurodivergent openly queer kid everyone sees as weird. you need to select a partner for this group pr- what do you mean everyone partnered up already? what do you mean youre the only one left without a partner? well i guess i have no choice but to force you to walk up to a random set of friends and join their group while they ignore you for the entire class again
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"...we both get plenty of use out of it..."
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if i think about the hunger games in peeta's perspective i WILL start sobbing
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the other night i realised my parents were talking about me like i wasn't in the same room as them and i was like ?? wtf ?? and as i considered this in my head i was suddenly like ohhhh, i haven't been verbally responsive for the last half hour or whatever, they probs think i'm in my head. that's chill. and immediately went back to washing the dishes silently
but it just occurred to me
HOW OFTEN DO I DO THAT FOR MY PARENTS TO SEE IT AS A NONEVENT??? PRETTY SURE THEY'D CONSIDERED IT RUDE IF I DIDN'T RESPOND NORMALLY
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