hey lets answer that question in the reblogs!

"Are you a boy or a girl?"

me first:

I'm the fairie in your nightmares

Demifluid Combo Flags

Hi, everyone! I made some demifluid combo flags to indicate which gender one has that's static. I know others have made similar flags before, but I couldn't quite find what I was looking for and wanted to be thorough.

I'm happy to add even more combos if anyone requests one. I'll also happily post combos with demifaun, demifaunet, demifae, demifaer, demiflor, and demifloren upon request. (I already made them but didn't want to clog anyone's dash more than I already am).

Anyway, here they are:

Demifluid man on the left, demifluid woman on the right.

Demifluid neoboy on the left, demifluid neogirl on the right.

Demifluid proxvir on the left, demifluid juxera on the right.

Demifluid agender on the left, demifluid neutrois on the right.

Demifluid androgyne on the left, demifluid maverique on the right.

Im going to try and explain my gender to the 0 people who are paying attention to this blog, because I deserve to ramble a little bit I think

For context I'm afab. I've pretty much always known I wasn't a man, which is a big part of why it took me so long to question my gender at all. I specifically remember seeing the term transmasc online when I was first discovering queer terms and being like "hmm I wonder if that could be me" and then looking it up and seeing it listed as a synonym for trans man and just being like "oh ok then guess im still cis". I didn't start seriously questioning until like. April of this year I think

I don't know why it took me so long to consider the idea of being nonbinary, but it was actually a conversation with some of my trans friends that made me consider it. I remember saying something like "I may be cis but I'd trade my female body for a completely neutral one in a heartbeat" and one of my friends was like "r u sure ur cis lmao". Silly stuff. My whole thing was like, I want a body that looks like nothing, that I can make look like anything. If I want to wear mens' clothes I don't want boobs that get in the way of that. But I want to be able to wear a dress and not have like, idk body hair and a dick getting in the way of that. And I said stuff to my friends like, I don't rly want hormones but Id wear a binder to look more neutral, Id voice train and get my voice deeper, that makes sense right

My biggest hangup was on pronouns, because I was REALLY proud of being a she/her. But I decided, hey I can't knock they/them until I try it right? So I proposed a they/them test for a week, and never looked back lmao. I went through a phase of absolutely despising she/her for a month or two, but I've since made up with the pronoun set as you can see in my bio. She/her and I are good friends now we've settled our differences <3

Putting the rest under a cut for the sake of my 2 followers' TLs not being flooded because I still have much to say

My gender is very multifaceted, but in the physical realm you could call me transmasc. It took me a while to realize but I hate my boobs (or rather, took me a while to realize that disliking your boobs is not normal lmfao), to the point where I very quickly went from "eh I might get a binder for some outfits" to "I NEED to get top surgery". I'm also not a fan of my hips and ass, never have been but I don't think there's much I can do about that one. I also have solid evidence for vocal dysphoria, in that I can remember a specific time as a kid where I learned that your voice sounds deeper to you than it does to other people because of the way you hear it through your skull. This disappointed me GREATLY because I always prided myself on the idea that I had a boyish voice. I do think I'd like to train my voice lower, if possible. Lastly for physical dysphoria I've always had a thing about my height, but I mostly learned to ignore it since boys LOVE to make fun of girls (and other boys I suppose) for their height. I learned to shut it out and make fun of myself as well as a coping mechanism, because it really did and always has bugged me. But what can I do, I've 5 foot even at 19 years old and it doesn't seem to be changing any time soon.

As for my internal experience of gender...I think this low-quality ms paint chart will explain it best.

Basically my gender exists on two simultaneous sliding scales--one of them a distinctly gendered outside-of-binary gender that I'm choosing to call neutrois, because it's an existing term that works for what I'm talking about. The other gender is a female-aligned gender that is distinct from cisgender femininity but is still feminine in nature, which I am choosing to call femme because I hate the words woman and girl and female in relation to my own gender. I can experience both of these scales at maximum intensity--bigendered as both neutrois and femme at the same time--or minimum intensity--essentially agendered, no distinct experience of gender either way--OR I can be some strange combination of these, such as minimum femme and maximum neutrois or half neutrois and full femme, etc. I've found that the strength of ANY gender fluctuates over longer periods of time, in that I tend to feel low amounts of gender for a period of about two weeks, followed by higher feelings of gender for about two weeks, during which the relation of femme to neutrois fluctuates on a daily basis.

As for labels, the best way I can think to describe this is bigenderflux, and also demigirl (or demifemme, as I prefer to call it). But for obvious reasons I usually just call myself nonbinary. I also like terms like librafemme, describing the property of being both agender and feminine, and juxera, describing the property of being feminine aligned in a way that is different from the way cis women are feminine. But it's...hard to label.

The funny thing about this is that it doesn't really line up with my gender expression much at all. There are days that I'm feeling fully agender or fully neutrois, and am strangely in the mood to wear a dress. Or days that I'm feeling mostly femme and want to present like a boy. So realistically my gender doesn't really have any bearing on anything at all. But I like charting it, because a few months ago if I'd woken up feeling feminine I would have spiraled into a panic about how I must be faking being trans. But this allows me to understand myself and predict how I'll feel so I know that when I feel a certain way, that's normal and part of who I am.

I feel like I had more to say in this post but I guess this is purely a gender summary. Now you know I guess

new color adjusted flags ❤️ in order transfem , transmasc , unlabeled , pangender , uranic , cassgender , alloace , genderflux , proxvir +juxera. all avaliable emoji in our pride emote server 💫😁

Are you...

Juxeraboy is a gender based on juxera, and has a similar definition. Juxeraboys feel connected to femininity but not in the same way as women; it can be described as feeling connected to femininity in in a uniquely male or male-aligned way.

bigender flag (mini)dump part 3 !?!?!?

juxera + boy | juxera + proxvir | girl + proxvir

nymgirl + boy | nymgirl + nymboy | girl + nymboy

Mae Borowski from Night in the Woods is an autistic canonically pansexual demisexual catgender chaokleine nostalgian autumngender forsickquotic juxera bigender girlthing with ADHD, PTSD, and a dissociative disorder who uses she/her, it/its, meow/meows, they/them, he/him, fall/falls, and scratch/scratches pronouns!

Her girlfriend Bea Santello is an autistic trans lesbian with PTSD and chronic fatigue!

dni link

I really love all your gender symbols! could you try to make a juxera symbol and a proxvir symbol?

also if you haven't already maybe a femme and futch symbol since you've already done butch? it's fine if not but I thought I'd ask for that too

Left: Proxvir Right: Juxera

I can't seem to think of any ideas for a femme or futch symbol so if someone can help me with some suggestions, I would really appreciate that! Otherwise, I may revisit this another time. 💙💚

Gender Buddy: Juxera (77/120)

Level: 2 Element: Water FRND: 90 PWR: 122

Abilities: Squeak: Calls over other Buddies when needed. Ripple Effect: A way to kick up sand at the bottom of the ocean to look for food.

Bio: This Buddy is a master of mimicry and can take the shape of many creatures. If it really likes a Buddy, it might try to make itself look like it by changing its shape and colors to match (and yes, there is one particular Buddy it seems to have an affinity for.) It swims around in shallow waters along with other Buddies that can swim, but may pop up to say hello every so often.

Tech bros: “BuT iF We uSe A wRiTe-In BoX fOr gEnDeR ThEy mIgHt AlL gIVe diFfERenT AnSWeRs” Bro, that’s the point. You can’t have accuracy with overly limited check box options.

Because I don't ever want to "fully" medically transition, because I'm not usually dysphoric about my breasts and never about my vagina, because I'm multigender, because I'm not a binary man, because I like dresses and lipstick and nail polish, I often worry I'm not "man enough." I don't pass. I use a mix of pronouns, including some neopronouns. Would an achillean man want to date me? Find me sexually attractive? These thoughts hurt and I'm afraid to find out the answer.

Just wanted to share a few more combo flags I made, in case they're useful to anyone else! On the left is juxera + maverique. In the middle is maverique + proxvir, and on the right is juxera + maverique + proxvir.

juxera maverique genderfluid boy flag!

juxera maverique genderfluid boy flag-

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flag by me, requested by @gncfairy​ :3 tagging @radiomogai​ 

Bi + Demigirl + Genderfluid + Juxera + Polyam + Nerodivergent =

Bi - Someone who is attracted to two or more genders.

Demigirl - Someone who feels partially but not fully as a girl.

Genderfluid - Someone who’s gender changes fluidly.

Juxera - A gender relative to female, but is something separate and entirely on it’s own.

Polyamorous - Someone who desires to be in a relationship with multiple people.

Nerodivergent - The term “neurodivergent” describes people whose brain differences affect how their brain works. That means they have different strengths and challenges from people whose brains don't have those differences. The possible differences include medical disorders, learning disabilities and other conditions.

Are you...

Juxera is a gender identity that is strongly connected to femalehood, but in a way that is different from the way women may be connected to femalehood. Juxera is a gender that is separate from other identities, and from being woman aligned or fiaspec.

juxera | proxvir

juxera and proxvir gender symbols because I couldnt find any. the direction of the little sticks is important.

Juxera– a gender relative to female, but is something separate and entirely on it’s own. it is not outside the gender spectrum.

Proxvir– a gender relative to male, but is something separate and entirely on it’s own. it is not outside the gender spectrum

both of them are coined by wulfgendur in 2014, not me

based more on flag versions below

juxera | proxvir

tagging @flag-resources