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wakeupf1lthy · 1 year

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#rap #hiphop #sonic #fashion habits #hip hop #opium #vlone #vlonecarti #outfit #tshirt #f1lthy #playboi carti #destroy lonely #ken carson #whole lotta red #die lit #fashion

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femmefatalevibe · 9 months

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25 Life Lessons I've Learned In 25 Years

In honor of turning 25 this month, here are some lessons I wish someone could've baked into my brain by 18. Hope this helps xx

Putting yourself first is not selfish, it is an act of self-care. Actively discounting others is not the same as protecting your peace.

Pay attention to who gossips and keeps to themselves amidst an interpersonal conflict. Insecure people or those in the wrong will speak the loudest and go on the longest in a fight to prove their innocence. Individuals who are self-assured and comfortable with the truth know it's better to communicate their feelings appropriately and then move past it. Confidence is assertive, tactful, and relatively silent.

If you want to know who to believe in an argument, pay attention to how both sides speak about the conflict. The perpetrator will often speak about the individuals' character/morality while the victim will explain their personal experience in the context of the relevant situation.

Display empathy and consideration, but don't live to satisfy others' emotional needs and expectations. Say farewell to anyone who dismisses or guilts you for your own needs, emotions, priorities/life goals & aspirations.

Your needs matter. No one needs to approve or validate your desires. If someone feels they have control over you or tries to persuade you to change your mind to ensure you put their emotions and needs first, cut them out of your life. They do not care about you.

Almost no one deserves insider access into your life and mind. Upholding your right to privacy – especially regarding your finances, dating life, health conditions/concerns, and long-term goals – is the simplest way to protect your peace.

A friend to all is a friend to none. Be wary of those who will not stand up for you behind closed doors. These people do not care about you, they care about what your place in their life does for them and their ego.

Be radically honest and accepting of who you are. Don't apologize for your preferences, aspirations, and values. You deserve to live in a way that makes you happy, not to appease others in hopes of their approval or future favors due to your karmic good deeds.

You deserve happiness, love, and nice things, life experiences, relationships, and opportunities in your life regardless of what others may or may not possess/ be able to experience. Dispel this scarcity mindset ASAP. Jealousy and internalized shame are destructive to your self-esteem and all your relationships.

You are worthy and offer many incredible, unique gifts to the world. Don't allow naysayers, critics, or bullies (of any age) to dim your light or sacrifice pursuing your dreams. Decide you're the leader of your own life. Then act accordingly.

Direct communication is always the way. Remain tactful, but at least when dealing with non-manipulative people, always say what you mean and mean what you say. It will save a lot of trouble and petty disagreements that could've been avoided with clearer communication.

You don't owe anyone an explanation for your feelings, emotions, and actions that don't have a direct, inescapable impact on someone else. "No" is a complete sentence.

Approach conversations as a meeting of the minds. Healthy debate or conflict is about seeking to understand the other person, not prove yourself right. Leaving your ego at the door will allow you to expand your mind and avoid many unnecessary conflicts or arguments.

If it's not a hell yes, it's a no. For a job, date, sex, attendance at a time-sucking social event, family gatherings, an informal meeting not essential for you to keep your job, a wedding, birthday party, holiday invitation, etc. Outside of your contracted hours and time necessary to keep yourself/your home clean & well-maintained, you should spend your time exactly as you please. Doing things you don't want to do will only breed resentment down the line toward yourself and others.

Detangle yourself from any who refuses to self-reflect and take accountability. This person is selfish and will never see you as fully human with emotions, needs, and a complete life/internal world of your own. Cut them out (or at least fully emotionally detach and limit contact with them) immediately.

Speak your truth, but always say a little less than you feel necessary. Overexplaning and oversharing do you no favors. At a minimum, this approach allows you to protect your peace. In the worst circumstances, this tactic can also save you from a lot of trouble in your personal or professional life.

Learn to ask for a little more than you're comfortable with, but do so with grace, tact, and confidence. Whether it's a salary/rate negotiation, flight/hotel/restaurant accommodations, get in the habit of making that slightly higher/up-leveled request like you're expecting a "yes." You can't get something you don't ask for, so speak up and show you know your worth. This habit can bring a lot of great opportunity into your life and builds up your confidence.

Everyone is on their own timeline and path. Don't compare yourself to others' credentials, job titles, relationship status, net worths, or jean sizes. Comparison is truly the thief of joy. Remaining envious of others only takes up the energy that could otherwise be used to elevate or enrich your life.

Become clear on your priorities, and remain diligent with your habits & routines. Set SMART goals. Implement healthy habits and rituals into your daily lifestyle. Be consistent with goal-supporting and wellness rituals (generous sleep schedule, healthful eating habits, daily movement/regular exercise, reading, task time-blocking, cleaning, and life/work admin schedule), so they become second nature. Help yourself by creating these default habits to ensure your brain is wired for success whether you're in an easygoing era or a stressful life season.

Stop seeing other people (especially other women) as your competition in your profession/dating life and within your platonic relationships. Use your immediate criticisms as a tool for self-reflection. Actively deconstruct the patriarchy in every aspect of your life. Other women coworkers, dating prospects, and friends are not your rivals nor individuals who should be evaluated based on their assertiveness, sexual history/appeal, relationship status, or desire to perform traditional maternal/domestic roles.

Understanding how to interact with others in a cordial, tactful manner is significantly more important than having everyone like you. Learn how to positively influence people without seeking approval. What other people think of us is none of our business. All we can do is show up as the best version of ourselves, and remain optimistic about a potential connection.

Acceptance, accountability, and consistent discipline are the holy trinity to creating a sustainable change that you can maintain for the long haul. There's no shame in starting from the bottom, but you need to be honest about where you're at, so you can create a realistic game plan/small behavior-changing habits that stack up over time to help you implement the radical change you're craving.

Let go of any internalized shame. Being the "good girl" does you no favors in life. Set a standard and expectation to be respected, not to be perceived as "innocent" or submissive – this is how you get taken advantage of in professional, platonic, and intimate relationships. Remain ravenous for respect. It's the only way to live life to the fullest.

24. Investing in your appearance is a form of self-respect. Wanting to look & feel your best and present yourself in the best light possible to others is not a superficial pursuit. Remain unwavering about your hygiene/beauty/grooming routines, deliberate styling choices, healthy eating & workout habits, and mindfulness of social graces. You're your #1 publicist, so act like it. Life is all about embracing satisfaction with a sprinkle of reputation management.

25. Be unapologetic about your financial ambitions, priorities, investments, savings goals, etc. Financial freedom IS freedom. The only way to change the system is to break it from the inside out. Leverage is everything. Allocate, and assert your (financial) power wisely.

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atmothart · 1 year

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Wouldn't lizard fashion be something like spikes and scales and a frilled lizard collar?

Like so?

(Bonus art under the cut)

#thank you anon I've been wanting to draw proper lizard fashion for a while and this gave me the motivation I needed #dracula daily #re: dracula #dracula #lizard fashion #The colours I chose here make Drac look like Harry Du Bois - which is appropriate given how I tend to depict his personality in my shitpost #bonus under the cut featuring Dracula's Weed Smorking Girlfriends #personally I really like the theory that the three vampire women are actually dracula's wife and two daughters #since the book never actually calls them his wives and the two subordinate girls are specifically described as looking similar to him #the idea that he turned his family but is no longer capable of loving them (or being loved by them) adds a whole extra layer for me #because he still goes through the motions - goes out to get them food (babies) and provide for them/fulfil the role of a patriarch #but its hollow and loveless and done out of strange obligation/habit - like an echo of being alive #BUT for the sake of comedy I will always draw them as his three weed smorking girlfriends because it's just funnier #or rather as I like to think of them - his three weed smoking EX-girlfriends who spend all day making fun of him and and freeloading #I'm going to tag any art with them in it from here on out as #the ex-wives of dracula #he's going to england to escape their ridicule

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coqxettee · 11 months

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Summer girly

Glow-up tips 🌸☀️

Things I’m trying to do everyday to become THAT girl for/in summer

Wake up at 7am everyday ☀️

Brush hair/practice cute and different hairstyles!

Drink Water/Green tea. Cut out juices/sugary drinks etc

Basic hygiene routine. Shower, brush teeth, wash hands, sanitise etc

Eat lots of fruits and veggies 🥗

Go for a 30min-1hr walk around my town everyday

Try and get in 10,000 steps daily 👣

Journal everyday. (Write in diary, to-do lists, and write out daily/weekly goals)

Limit screen time 🚫

Pick outfits out the night before so I have more time in the morning!

Practice Yoga/Pilates in the morning or before bed

Read 30 pages of a book everyday 📖

Shower routine. (Scrub, shower gel, moisturise, shave etc)

Skincare routine every morning/night 💦

Watch one new ep of a show I’ve been meaning to watch

Listen to music that makes me feel good!

Get 8-10 hours of sleep every night 😴

Not eating anything after 9pm/before bed time

Take time to go on Pinterest 💕 It inspires!

Talk to family/friends everyday!

Do something you enjoy 💗

Trying to do these things everyday may seem tough in the beginning, but practice and repetition is key. Once you start doing these everyday you will see MASSIVE differences!!

Take baby steps and be yourself/focus on yourself

☀️🥗🌸

Happy summer darls! <3

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xo-indulgence · 4 months

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How To Build Small Habits In 2024~

Building small habits can lead to significant changes over time. Here's a plan to help you establish and maintain small habits in 2024:

1. Start Ridiculously Small:

Begin with tiny habits that are easy to integrate into your routine. For instance, if you want to start exercising, commit to just five minutes a day initially.

2. Focus on Consistency:

Consistency is key. Aim to do your chosen habit every day, even if it's in a small capacity. This helps in creating a routine and makes it easier to build on the habit.

3. Link Habits to Existing Triggers:

Associate your new habits with existing activities. For example, if you want to meditate, do it right after brushing your teeth in the morning.

4. Track Your Progress:

Keep a habit tracker. It can be a physical journal, an app, or a simple calendar where you mark each day you complete your habit. This visual representation can be motivating.

5. Celebrate Small Wins:

Acknowledge and celebrate every success, no matter how small. This reinforces the habit loop and motivates you to continue.

6. Stay Accountable:

Share your goals and progress with a friend or family member who can support and hold you accountable.

7. Stack Habits Together:

Build a routine by stacking habits. After you've established one habit, add another related one. For instance, after exercising, have a healthy breakfast.

8. Be Patient and Flexible:

Rome wasn't built in a day, and habits take time. Don't be discouraged by setbacks. Be flexible and adjust your approach if needed.

9. Reflect and Adjust:

Regularly assess your habits. Are they working for you? Are there any adjustments needed? Adapt as necessary to fit your lifestyle and goals better.

10. Mindset Shift:

Embrace the process. Focus on the journey of habit-building rather than just the end result. Understand that each small step contributes to long-term change.

Remember, the key to success with small habits is their cumulative effect over time. Over the course of a year, consistent small habits can lead to significant improvements in your life.

Great Book Recommendation: Atomic Habits by James Clear

*Kisses*

#2024 #goals for 2024 #building small habits #hypergamy #luxury #fashion #my post #glamour #black woman luxury #beauty

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tatck · 1 year

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July doodles

#don't look at me i have no fashion sense #sonic the hedgehog #shadow the hedgehog #amy rose #sonic art #i have a habit of drawing wintery shit in july #my doodles

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artist-ellen · 11 months

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Historical Mermay prompt 8: Late Victorian Mermaid

Last but not least is a Late Victorian Mermaid. I based her design around 1880s fashion, especially riding habits... but with flowing mermaid hair of course.

I am the artist! Do not post without permission & credit! Thank you! Come visit me over on: instagram.com/ellenartistic or tiktok: @ellenartistic

#historical mermay #mermay 2023 #mermay #mermaid #late victorian fashion #riding habit #lnart #ellenart #costume design #digital illustration #historically inspired #historical fashion

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thegentlefem · 1 year

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really just want to dress a shy boy up in a fancy suit and then fuss over him all evening until he turns into a flustered mess. just lightly trailing my fingers along his collar or through his neatly combed hair at every stolen moment. sitting briefly in his lap and straightening his tie, even though we both know I’d rather tug on it and use it to drag him up and shove him against the nearest wall. whispering little praises in his ear all night. “darling, you look so pretty.” then watching a blush creep to the tips of his ears.

#thegentlefem #uniform #hng wanting this #bonus if dressing nicely is his usual habit #boys with a sense of fashion >>#blushing #shy boys >

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philosophybits · 10 months

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Every generation laughs at the old fashions, but follows religiously the new.

Henry David Thoreau, Walden

#philosophy #quotes #Henry David Thoreau #Walden #fashion #habits #opinions #society

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thingsinlife990 · 10 months

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July energy; 💕🕯️🍸📑🛁🧘🏽‍♀️☕️🐚

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lookingbackatfashionhistory · 1 year

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• Riding Habit.

Date: 1912

Designer/Maker: Redfern

Place of origin: London

#fashion history #history of fashion #dress #fashion #riding #riding habit #redfern #london #1910's fashion #1910's #1910's dress

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xx-may4-malic3-xx · 7 months

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Hello again emh fandom

Behold my goofy ass cosplay <33

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bloodmoonlvr · 7 days

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Miss Meroux, estimated 1840s. Unknown photographer.

#moonie art #for class #vintage #vintage fashion #trying to find relevant stuff to tag this with #cuz i have a habit of just slapping my own org tags on things and calling it a day #but like. wtf do you tag this with

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costumeloverz71 · 6 months

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Side Saddle Riding Habit, 1770-80

#fashion #vintage #riding habit #late 1700s

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femmefatalevibe · 11 months

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who are your favorite youtubers?

Divided by category. Hope that I'm not missing any!

Fashion & Beauty:

Patricia Bright

Lydia Tomlinson

Christina Mychas

Justine Leconte officiel

Frederique Bros

Erica Ball Style

Audrey Coyne

dear peachie

Jackie Aina

Mikaela Carrizo

Bella

HighLowLuxxe

Business & Finance/Career:

The Break (Patricia Bright's Finance Channel!)

Graham Stephen (Very sound financial advice and no course pushing/ or scamming type rhetoric)

Nischa (Licensed professional, sound advice!)

Latasha James (Great for entrepreneurs and those interested in the social media industry)

Erin May Henry

Alex Cattoni

Tina Huang

Health & Wellness:

Pick Up Limes

Rainbow Plant Life

Move with Nicole

Caroline Grivan

Heather Robinson

Doctor Ramani

Lifestyle & Self-Improvement:

Jenny Mustard

Hannah Adkins

Kalyn's Coffee Talks and Flows

Lavendaire

Rowena Tsai

Elicia Goguen

Keltie O'Connor

Mel Robbins

Hope this helps xx

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chic-a-gigot · 6 months

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La Mode nationale, no. 44, 4 novembre 1899, Paris. No. 14. — Groupe de toilettes, robes et costumes. Bibliothèque nationale de France

(1) Toilette de promenades en serge brique, entièrement faite à plis en large avec entre-deux de dentelle noire, sauf le bas de la jupe qui forme un volant uni; manches unies.

(1) Walking dress in brick serge, entirely made of wide pleats with black lace in between, except the bottom of the skirt which forms a plain ruffle; plain sleeves.

Matériaux: 6m,50 serge.

(2) Collet de jeune femme, en velours du Nord noir, garni de bouillonnés de mousseline de soie et d'un volant plissé également en mousseline de soie noire; col et revers en satin blanc brodé de jais.

(2) Young woman's cape, in black North velvet, trimmed with bubbles of silk muslin and a pleated ruffle also in black silk muslin; white satin collar and lapels embroidered with jet.

Matériaux: 5 mètres velours.

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(3) Toilette de réceptions en éolienne gris-perle. Jupe plate avec tunique courte à dents rondes et draperie en pareil dans le bas, retenue par des choux. Corsage tout passé en large avec boléro drape en dentelle, manches avec plis.

(3) Reception ensemble in pearl gray windscreen. Flat skirt with short tunic with round teeth and similar drapery at the bottom, held in place by collars. Wide bodice with draped lace bolero, sleeves with pleats.

Matériaux: 14 mètres éolienne.

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(4) Toilette de visites en velours bleu-marine. Jupe fourreau tout unie. Corsage légèrement baleiné avec empiècement en forme et basquine en passementerie assortie bordée de fourrure, manches unies.

(4) Visiting ensemble in navy blue velvet. Plain sheath skirt. Slightly boned bodice with shaped yoke and basquin in matching trimmings trimmed with fur, plain sleeves.

Matériaux: 14 mètres velours.

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(5) Robe pour fillette de 6 à 8 ans; en drap beige. Jupe avec quatre plis dans le bas. Corsage plat fermé de côté par deux choux de velours beige, empiècement piqué en velours beige, manches à plis piqués.

(5) Dress for girls aged 6 to 8; in beige cloth. Skirt with four pleats at the bottom. Flat bodice closed on the side with two beige velvet puffs, beige velvet stitched yoke, sleeves with stitched pleats.

Matériaux: 4 mètres drap.

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(6) Costume d'amazone en drap satin noir. Jupe fourreau à traîne avec double piqùre blanche. Petite veste à pans carrés derrière et devant, avec revers de panne rayée noir et blanc; gilet de piqué blanc.

(6) Amazon suit in black satin cloth. Sheath skirt with train with double white stitching. Small jacket with square tails at the back and front, with black and white striped panel lapels; white pique vest.

Matériaux: 7 mètres drap.

#La Mode nationale #19th century #1890s #1899 #on this day #November 4 #periodical #fashion #fashion plate #color #description #bibliothèque nationale de france #dress #cape #riding #riding habit #collar

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