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dumbfaetrash · 2 years

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Arospec polyams are actual literal gods

#arospec polyam #arospec #polyamory #aromantic #actually aromantic #we are gods #polyamourous aromantic

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incognitopolls · 5 months

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We ask your questions so you don’t have to! Submit your questions to have them posted anonymously as polls.

#polls #incognito polls #anonymous #tumblr polls #tumblr users #questions #aromantic #aro #aroace #arospec #aspec #asexual #ace #acespec #polyamory #polyam #polyamorous #polls about relationships #polls about lgbtq stuff

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shmaroace · 1 year

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polyamorous aros i love you!!!!! thank you so much for giving two massive fuck-yous to amatonormativity

#tw: swearing #i identify as polyam but i'm not like. practicing or what you call it #literally cant maintain relationships for my life esp. non-platonic ones #aro #aromantic #arospec #polyam #polyamorous

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gigglingauspice · 1 year

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was having a conversation with a friend about what a “normal” amount of partners to have is. This is about any kind of committed partner— not just romantic or queer platonic, but sexual, alterous, wavership, and “undefined but my partner regardless.”

If you have more than nine partners, good god do I respect your time management.

#polls #monogamy #non monogamy #polyam #queerplatonic #platonic partners #gay #alterous relationship #arospec #acespec #please reblog #polling #Wavership

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ziptie-bouquet · 1 year

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I hate that people view polyamory and aromanticism as completely opposed things. We surprisingly have so much in common:

We deconstruct amatonormativity from different perspectives that are both very enriching.

We suffer from laws and advantages given only to mono married couples, and that aren't granted to us too.

And also:

Polyam aros exist!

There is so much erasure regarding polyam/ace/aro people within the queer community, and something that everybody disregards is the different meaning relationships can have for aros and how that mingles well with polyamory.

Obviously, I'm not saying that every aro is polyam, but the strict and restricted understanding of relationships by people outside of those circles masks the reality of people who are both!

Aroallos exist and can engage with multiple sexual partners at a time. People can love in more ways than friendships or romance, that's why we have QPRs or terms like alterous or exteramo attractions. The aro spectrum is very vast, and there are a lot of different experiences that can make people identify as aro and polyam. Our definition of relationships, even with just platonic attraction, can be incompatible with traditional mono romantic relationships, too. There are so many possibilities and so much close mindedness around it.

Just keep an open mind if you're not concerned by this. Remember to include us at pride. We're queer and fight with you against heteronormativity!

#aro #aromantic #aromanticism #lgbtqia+#arospec #lgbtq #lgbt #polyam #polyamourous #polyamory #alloaro #aroallo

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saffigon · 1 year

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To aromantics who think they will never get the relationship they want:

You can. It is possible. There are folks out there willing to be in non-romantic relationships. I am a living example that it is possible. I am in a polycule of 7 and not a single relationship is romantic. There are 4 queerplatonic relationships and 2 relationships that are completely unlabeled. 4 of the 7 are aromantic, 2 are ace, and the other two are alloallo. It is entirely possible to enter the relationships you think are only in your mind. There are people out there like you that want these kinds of relationships. You are not alone in your search, and you will find people that will want to engage you this way.

#aromantic #aro #arospec #aspec #aromanticism #queerplatonic #polyamorous #polyamory #polyam #polyaffectionate #aromantic positivity #aro positivity

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thermodynamic-comedian · 1 year

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epic fight between me (polyamorous aromantic) and the phrase "you're the only one for me"

#aro tag #aromantic #aro #arospec #aromantic spectrum #polyamorous #polyam pride #polyam tag #amatonormativity #pairing aromantic #romance neutral #romance indifferent #aroallo #aromantic allosexual

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noahizslay · 6 days

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hey my dear humans! how y'all doing?

i just wanna tell y'all something pretty important...

WE'RE ALMOST ON PRIDE MONTH!!

DON'T FORGET TO SLAY ON PRIDE MONTH Y'ALL

🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍⚧️

bye!<3.

#lgbtq #queer #nonbinary #trans #asexual #aplatonic #aromantic #aro #ace #aplspec #arospec #acespec #aspec #gay #lesbian #bi #poly #pan #omni #polyam #pride month #slay

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polyam-aro-culture-is · 4 months

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poly-aro culture is having a queerplatonic crush on almost all your friends and being perfectly content with the situation

Same

#aromantic #lgbtqia #lgbtq #polyamourous aromantic #aro #polyamory #polyamourous #arospec #polyam aro culture is

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bizarreaizen · 9 months

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i've always hated love triangles because it doesn't make any sense, like a love triangle isn't two people in love with the same person because that is not a triangle, an actual love triangle should be person a is in love with person b, person b is in love with person c and person c is in love with person a, that is an actual triangle, also I've come up with a few endings to love triangles, 1. the main character realized they're aromantic(or aroace) and the two other people who are in love with the mc realized they were actually in love with each other so mc gets to live a happy life alone and the two other people get to live a happy life together, 2. the three of them end up in a polyamorous relationship, 3. they all just move on from each other and/or continue being good friends with each other.

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intersexfairy · 1 year

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alright im gonna give it a shot, but not steal the other person's question.

Intersex people only. Dyads please boost <3

[plain text: Intersex people only. Dyads please boost <3 ]

if you respond to this and aren't intersex, you're being intersexist.

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our-polyam-aspec-experience · 5 days

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Hey everybody!

My name is Oryn and I wanted to create a space for people who are Aspec and also polyamorous!

This blog can be for anything relating to that.

I also run @polyam-aro-culture-is

You might have seen me mention a discord so if you are interested let me know! (Though I’m aiming to have it be 18+)

I might do a proper intro post later but I am 23 and my pronouns are he/they.

#asexual #aromantic #polyamourous #polyam #aspec #acespec #arospec #ambiamorous #polyamorous aro #polyamorous Ace #polyamorous aromantic #polyamorous asexual #polyamorous AroAce

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gigglingauspice · 1 year

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Been seeing some interesting answers on this poll... so, once again-- This is about any kind of committed partner— not just romantic or queer platonic, but sexual, alterous, wavership, and “undefined but my partner regardless." Any kind of serious, long term partner.

if you want nine or more partners-- good lord. good luck, and godspeed. if you want no partners, i wish you a very pleasant 'everyone leaves you alone about it'

#polls #monogamy #non monogamy #polyam #queerplatonic #qpp #platonic partners #gay #lesbian #alterous relationship #arospec #acespec #polling #wavership #relationship anarchy #please reblog #messed up the first time. oopsoes.

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ziptie-bouquet · 11 months

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I choose to be daring and go out with a sign that says "polyam and aro: I exist" at pride.

Readying myself for all the people who'll go: "but polyamory is only for romantic relationships!!! You're too terminally online!!!" by sharpening my kitchen knives rn

#polyam aro #i will choose violence #aro #aromantic #lgbtqia+#arospec #aromanticism

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rolaplayor101 · 3 months

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This Valentines/Aro Day

I'm sharing my Arospec/Black/& Polyam book haul!! ft. Romance or Queer Platonic Relationships!

Legendborn(almost finished): black girl main character, interracial mf relationship, multiple queer supporting characters! YA fantasy with themes of racism and trauma

A Queen Of Gilded Horns(I've only read River of Royal Blood): Black main characters, black mf relationship, romance isn't the main plot which makes it very engaging for a romance tired black person like me! Focus is on racism in the fantasy world, multiple queer supporting characters!

Symbiosis (I haven't read Escaping Exodus yet): Black girl Mc, Sapphic relationship I heard! Mostly sci-fi plot I think! I'll recc it anyway cause I am gonna read it during this Black history month!

Ruin of Stars (only read Mask of Shadows): poc gender fluid main character in relationship with a woman, aromantic and black supporting character!! Fantasy with assassins and political commentary and trauma

Moonlight Love Witchcraft(havent started): Multiple Poc Mcs, polyam relationship, nonbinary main character, asexual werewolf mc!! Indigenous mc!! Comfy fantasy!

Silver Under Nightfall(haven't finished): Black Mc alongside Asian Mc and genderfluid southeast asian??? mc!! Polyamorous relationship! Paranormal vampire fantasy with great plot!! So far!! Tw for SA and trauma

Blasted Research(haven't finished): ace and nonbinary mc!! Polyam m/nby/nby relationship! Dystopia sci-fi and only on ebook!

Role Playing(almost finished): Asian American mc and bi demirose mc! Mf relationship but queer!! Video game romcom with themes about the harms of amatonormativity featuring 50 year olds!

The Bone Season(haven't really started): Multiple poc supporting characters, main character is demirose! Multiple queer characters! Fantasy dystopian setting! Love interest is nonbinary??? In second book.

Genesis of Misery(haven't finished): nonbinary southeast asian mc! Sapphic relationship! Religious political sci-fi plot with multiple queer and poc characters!

Most Ardently(haven't finished): trans and queer retelling of Pride and Prejudice! Gay relationship! Plain historical romance! Multiple queer supporting characters!

By Your Side(finished): a short queerplatonic story! Bi mc with aro mc! Polyam queerplatonic relationship!! Realistic college fiction that's like 38 pages!

Is Love the Answer (finished): aroace nonbinary mc and multiple aspec mcs! All poc cause they're Japanese. Possible queerplatonic relationships discussed! Realistic college fiction!

I Want To Be A Wall(finished): Japanese Aroace mc and gay mc married in a qpr!! Realistic comedic fiction! Full review here

If the authors have anything to add, I'll @ them here! @linseymiller @sshannonauthor @whatnowrin @coffeequills @thegabecole @themargherita-s @queerio-cheerios @itsneonyang

I also do art commissions if anyone would like to help me buy more queer and poc books 😢 😭

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tylerlovesbees · 1 year

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Something that i find really ironic and kinda funny is the fact that 2 of my best friends are polyamorus. I am very close with both of them and they tell me about their relationships and occasionally ask me for advice. I am aromantic. I just love the fact that when it comes to romantic orientation we are polar opposites and yet could not be closer as friends :) I love the support and diversity present in our friendships and honestly I can't help but think that this is how it should always be.

I just wanted to share some pride positivity, have a good day everybody :)

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