My friend @shellywith2ls found this on Pinterest during our homeroom today, and when she showed me I started dying laughing.
I asked her to send it to me and she just saved the photo and texted it to me, so I can’t properly credit the person who made this. If you see this, hi, I love this, let me know so I can properly credit you 🙃
Edit:
Thank you @voidisnthere for helping me out with the credit!
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I just want to take a moment to appreciate the beauty that is the acespec flag
It so aesthetically pleasing!!! The color palette is just gorgeous, and I’m weak for pinks and purples.
Also the arospec flag?!!
The greens and greenish-blues are just so calming and peaceful. It makes my heart so happy!
Edit: Apparently there’s an aroace spec flag?! And it’s gorgeous too, of course ♡
I literally can’t even-
Our spectrum flags are so pretty!!! ♡
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"asexuals and aromantics dont face discrimination!1"
then why is their an anti-asexual and anti-aromantic tag? and also just in general yeah we do, constantly told that we "just need therapy!" and that "your not apart of the queer community if your just asexual/aromantic!!"
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Excuse me, aces, aros, aroaces and aspecs: you are being awesome today.
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istg half the blogs i see are aroace. do i magically attract the aroaces or is tumblr just aroace heaven
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Reblog this post if your aromantic and/or asexual
I'm trying to prove a point
Edit: or anything aspec 😊
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not going to ask why we're trending I'll just take it as the blessing that it is
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@curiouselleth holy shit you’re right
i went back and looked cuz i know she was wearing a few rings and…
three black rings (just to make EXTRA sure lol) and indeed one of them is on her middle finger.
anyways…
#aro/ace spec sylvie truthers rise up
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HAPPY AROACE AWARENESS WEEK YALL!!!!!
HUGE shout out to all the aros and aces and cupioromantics and everyone else that falls under the aro/ace umbrellas, yall are so important to me, i love you all so much and i hope you guys have the greatest day <3 💚💜🩶🤍
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y'all aroacespecs aren't gonna believe this
i was talking to my mother the other day about how to tell the difference between romantic and platonic attraction and she was like "well if you want to sleep with them that's romantic attraction" and i was like "???????? so you can't love someone romantically without wanting to sleep with them?"
and she was like "well no that's not what i'm saying" and it's like yeah that's EXACTLY what you're saying. you're saying the only difference between your best friend and your partner is that you want to sleep with your partner. what. there's no way.
and people hook up all the time with people they don't know so you're saying one can feel sexual attraction without romantic attraction but not vice versa????? sounds fake
i forget how strange people who aren't on the aro/ace specs are
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I’m aroace, but I did NOT miss out on aesthetic attraction
I shamelessly yell that women are hot (as a female myself) because I think they’re hot. Nothing more, nothing less
It’s so funny cause somebody literally asked, completely deadpan if I was asexual because I said everybody’s hot
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thinking about how I never know how to answer the question "do you have a partner?" bc like. yeah, I do, he's wonderful and I love him with my entire soul. but it's a queerplatonic relationship, and usually that question wants to know if I have a romantic partner. but I can't say no, bc that would be lying. and I don't mind lying sometimes, but he is a huge part of my life
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Please, aro, ace, aroace and all aspec people:
We are not broken.
Please, choose today to stop hating yourself, to start being consciously accepting of who you are. Who all of us are.
Every time I see a post from an aspec person saying that they're broken, that they hate themselves for being aspec, that they wish they could change their orientation... it hurts.
You cannot hate yourself into being someone other than who you are. Your only options are:
1. Be aspec and hate yourself
2. Be aspec and don't hate yourself
There is no secret third option.
I'm generally unbothered by aphobia and amatonormativity when it comes from people who aren't aspec. They generally don't know what they're talking about. But when it comes from someone like me, saying that people like us are broken and worthy of hate, it hurts. Some part of me thinks "well it must be true then." I'm old and wrinkly enough to know that voice should be ignored, but it's still there.
I know people struggle with their sexuality and want to share the burden, I get that. I just wish we could couch it in less destructive terms. "I'm confused". "I'm sad". "I feel left out". "I'm worried about the future". "I don't feel accepted". "I don't like being a minority". Not "I hate myself and I feel like I'm broken".
Because you're talking about all of us.
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“Sometimes, I wish I could fall in love just so I could fall in love with you” hold on. wait wait wait. hold hold up. give me a sec. wait a fucking minute what the fUCK YOU CANT JUST DROP THIS ON ME—
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Every character I relate to has adhd, and is bi, aroace spec, and nonbinary cause I am and I said so...
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