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messyoungie · 1 month

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Do you make affirmations ? Can you make affirmations for Song Jia / Jang Wonyoung or wonyoungism inspired ? I really aspire to become like them nd get a mindset like Liz

I don’t make affirmations :(

#messyoungies asks #it girl #self improvement #wonyoungism #that girl #pink #song jia #the wizard liz

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messyoungie · 2 months

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Can you make a guide inspired by song jia or wonyoung ??

I’d love to!! i have a lot of posts in my drafts so once i work on a couple more than I’ll get started on that one, thank you for your suggestion :)

#messyoungies asks #it girl #self improvement #wonyoungism #that girl #pink #pink pilates princess #becoming that girl #dream girl life #wonyoung motivation

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messyoungie · 2 months

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Whats your favorite movie ?? :3

as of right now it’s Flying Colors (2015)!! ♡

#it girl #self improvement #wonyoungism #that girl #pink #pink pilates princess #becoming that girl #dream girl life #messyoungies asks

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messyoungie · 2 months

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Hi!! I just found your blog and I love it 🥰

thank you very much!! :) 🤍

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messyoungie · 2 months

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₊❏❜ ⋮ journaling prompts ─ ✧₊∘

✧ here’s a list of some of my favorite journal prompts that I hope will inspire you to pick up a notebook and write :)

◦when do you feel most like yourself

◦is there anything you’re not being honest about with yourself

◦what are you most afraid of others finding out about you

◦what boundaries do you need to set with yourself

◦when are you most “present” or “in the moment”

◦how often do you actually show up for yourself

◦what’s your focus been on lately

◦what past version of you do you like the most

◦what past version of you do you dislike the most

◦what is it that makes you cling to the things that drain you

◦think of the people you’re closest to in life and what you’re most scared to tell them

◦where are you living 90% of the time— in the past, present, future? in the real world or in the digital world?

◦when do you feel like you need to punish yourself

◦in what ways do you put off having your desires/stand in your own way

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messyoungie · 2 months

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Hiiii ⋆ ˚｡⋆୨୧˚

Just wanted to drop by and say that I love your blog <3

The pictures u use make my heart feel full ੈ♡˳

thank you!! 🤍

#messyoungies asks #self improvement #it girl #wonyoungism #that girl #pink #just girly things #this is a girlblog

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messyoungie · 2 months

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songs to add to an it girl playlist? 🎀

— song recommendations for your “it girl” playlist

♡ dead to me - kali uchis

♡ socal girl - chase icon

♡ cocky af - meg thee stallion

♡ megans piano - meg the stallion

♡ comme de garçons - rina sawayama

♡ fall back - clip

♡ 212 - azealia banks

#messyoungies asks #it girl #it girl mentality #it girl energy #it girl lifestyle #it girl moodboard #it girl tips #playlist #it girl playlist

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messyoungie · 2 months

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𝐓𝐇𝐈𝐍𝐆𝐒 𝐓𝐎 𝐃𝐎 𝐈𝐍𝐒𝐓𝐄𝐀𝐃 𝐎𝐅 𝐒𝐂𝐑𝐎𝐋𝐋𝐈𝐍𝐆 ✧

+ make a wishlist so you’ll be prepared when it’s your birthday/Christmas

+ do five or more journal prompts

+ start a new hobby or make a list of new hobbies you’d like to try

+ write a letter to your future self or film a video for your future self

+ digital redecorating: change the theme/layout of your devices

+ reread a book you haven’t read in 3 or more years

+ watch a show or film in a genre you don’t usually watch

+ go on YouTube and make a playlist of your favorite self improvement/advice videos to watch when you’re down or need a push

+ learn a favorite song on an instrument

+ paint or draw the view outside your bedroom window

+ make a Pinterest board that perfectly captures the vibe(s) you wish to embody

+ organize your desk

+ go on a walk when the sun sets

+ watch a YouTuber you used to love

+ plan your ideal trip! it’s super fun to dream up possible vacations!!

+ look for a new podcast to listen to

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messyoungie · 2 months

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if you don’t know how to start, begin with the basics. at least 8 hours of sleep, daily movement, a proper amount of water everyday, and an appropriate screen time. make that your base, the other habits can be added as you go.

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messyoungie · 2 months

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have u seen boys over flowers? i'm watching right now and i love it :p

I have seen boys over flowers!! unfortunately, it wasn’t really my cup of tea and I can’t say I enjoyed it that much😭😭

#messyoungies asks #it girl #self improvement #wonyoungism #that girl #pink #pink pilates princess #becoming that girl #dream girl life #pink pilates girl

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messyoungie · 2 months

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no one’s going to achieve your goals for you

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messyoungie · 2 months

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the secret of getting ahead is getting started

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messyoungie · 2 months

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Luv ur blog

thank you very much!! ♡

#messyoungies asks #pink #girly aesthetic #just girly things #it girl #wonyoungism #self improvement #that girl

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messyoungie · 2 months

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my favorite study tips i’ve received 📓🩰🖇️✦

it’s not about setting a time to begin your studies, it’s more effective to set a time you wish to have all your work done by.

invest in a whiteboard. trust me, it makes everything so much more fun.

need help getting motivated? do one to three small and quick tasks you consider productive before sitting down to study. that’ll motivate you to do your work since you’re already on a roll.

you don’t have to see the workday as 12 hours. a lot of us feel like when we mess up early on in the day, the day is ruined and the only time we’ll get to try again is tomorrow. that’s not true, so stop seeing a day as one long period of time and start thinking of it in terms of halves or quarters. you procrastinated all morning? that’s okay, there are still so many quarters of the day left. quarter one was a fail, sure, but that doesn’t mean quarter two, three, and so forth have to be.

this one shifted my mindset: I was told to see studying and the knowledge I’d gain from it like a muscle. if you use it— practicing equations, working on problems, doing assignments —it’ll grow stronger. if you don’t, it’ll weaken. in other words, don’t think of studying as something you have to do. think of it as practicing your knowledge to make it stronger.

if you have a dictionary in your home, find it, keep it within reach, and actively use it. drop the habit of googling words, it may be quicker but getting used to using a dictionary will not only help you learn the words you had in mind but will also expose you to words you had no idea existed. a simple but great way to start expanding your vocabulary.

after you’ve already completed the mandatory studying and homework, try studying without using technology. it can be fun and is a great way to challenge what you know if most of your studies depend on devices. challenge yourself once in a while to have a completely offline study session as a way of having a refreshing session.

don’t study until you get it right study until you can’t get it wrong. use free online practice work sheets and questions to help you be sure in your knowledge.

have a mini routine before you dive into your study session. like how people have a morning routine, make it a habit to maybe put your hair up, apply chapstick, and fill a mug with your favorite drink before you study. anything that’ll tell you that it’s now officially study time.

if planners seem too confining and strict but keeping all your assignments in your head is overwhelming, opt for an assignment tracker. keep a notebook to write down every single assignment you receive and it’s due date to easily overview and keep track of them all.

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messyoungie · 2 months

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princess on campus

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messyoungie · 2 months

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𓂅⋆ small ways to improve ୭ 🧷 ✧ ˚. ᵎᵎ 🎀

here are some small habits that you can start doing :) they aren’t that intense— they only require consistency, and in my opinion are a great way to take the first step into your self improvement journey ♡

1. leave the phone out of the bathroom 🫧 ⊹₊

— this reduces the amount of time you spend in the bathroom and takes away a bit of screen time too!

— keeping your phone in the bathroom can make your device incredibly dirty and exposes it to a bunch of germs and bacteria

— sitting on the toilet longer than needed can lead to unnecessary pressure on your rectum

2. try to dedicate your bed for sleeping 💭 *.✦

— a good but simple habit to have is to only use your bed when sleeping. try to avoid studying, eating, or passing time in bed

— your brain may not be able to associate your bed with sleeping when you’re doing too many activities while sitting in bed, which can make it difficult for you to sleep

— experts say staying bed for too long can disrupt your mood and increases stress

— doing the same activities while sitting at a desk will most likely make you feel more productive as opposed to you doing them in your bed

3. try to spend the first 15 minutes of the day without your phone 🗒️ ⋆⁺₊

— getting on your phone and using a stimulating app like TikTok first thing in the morning overwhelms your dopamine and will only make you want more and more throughout the day

— try to get some sunlight instead and open your curtains or go outside

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messyoungie · 2 months

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CLEANING YOUR ROOM CHECKLIST ˒ ⊹ ݁ ִ

@𝐌𝐄𝐒𝐒𝐘𝐎𝐔𝐍𝐆𝐈𝐄

desk

⬚ remove clutter from the surface (surface space isn’t storage🙅‍♀️)

⬚ wipe down desk surface

⬚ put things that don’t belong on your desk back in their homes

⬚ reorganize/redecorate surface space

⬚ remove any and all trash from desk drawers

⬚ assign each desk drawer with a purpose if your desk has multiple drawers (one drawer for school supplies, one for stationery, etc)

⬚ reorganize drawers

closet

⬚ pick up anything off your closet floor

⬚ decide what to keep and what to get rid of

⬚ organize; make sure clothes are hung and folded properly, organize by color, season, clothing type, etc.

dresser

⬚ clean the surface

⬚ go through and see what clothes to keep and discard

⬚ have a designated drawer for each article of clothing

⬚ properly fold and put away clothes

⬚ reorganize/redecorate surface

bed

⬚ wash sheets, blankets, & pillow cases

⬚ re-make bed

nightstand

⬚ clear surface and clean

⬚ decorate it in an intentional way (your night stand is right next to your bed, think about what you do and don’t want near you first thing in the morning and right before you end your day)

⬚ clean out drawer(s)

other

⬚ pick things up off the floor

⬚ remove all trash

⬚ empty out your trash bin

⬚ clean your windows

⬚ reassess what you want on your walls (do you need to put up or take down any posters? do you have a pegboard you need to redecorate?)

⬚ make a list of any new decor you think you should buy

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