actually no, we're not "dating". we're bound together for infinity. like the stars. so, fuck you, actually.

does anyone want to be best friends that also live together and go on adventures together but like mundane adventures like ikea and target and also wants to lay our heads on each others shoulders when sleepy but also have separate bedrooms but also enjoy spending most of our free time together……. just me? ok

what if we cuddled for so long we were both warm and we smelled like each other. what then.

for an aro person, I fantasize a lot about intimacy. but not in a romantic context like smoochy ooky pooky boo-boo...hell no.

intimacy as in being completely emotionally open to/with someone, being so comfortable with them that you just feel safe and warm. I want to have that type of closeness with someone without having to feel guilty that I won't be able to give them romantic love.

it can be something so very deep within my core, but it's just...not romantic. is that so bad?

I am so deeply in love with you. No words will ever do justice to my adoration and affection for you. All I can say is I love you I love you I love you I love you

Relationship but we’re both aromantic and tell people we’re “dating” but only we know we aren’t.

I have a friend who isn't part of my main friend group (most of whom are some flavour of gay/know about qprs/know my partner), and a few weeks ago she asked about my relationship and what a qpr is etc which she did so sweetly and listened so openly. Today when I saw her, she tried to ask how my partner is doing, but not knowing exactly what to call us or remembering his name, said, "how is your... lover that is a friend that you want to live with that has blue hair going?"

do any of my friends know the love I carry in every word i say to them. When I add too many words, drag on a joke that’s over, when I message them despite the fact the conversation barely ended five minutes ago? every word i speak is an intimacy that’s laced with outright adoration for them as people and all the little details that make them who they are. Do you know I love you? Do y’all know how much of you I try to commit to memory? How much I try to make you smile? do y’all know the love I feel for you?

mmm hand holding is just the most amazing thing to me like. our hands. are touching. our hands are in each others hands. i can just?? squeeze your hand?? anytime i want?? and trace circles on your skin with my thumb?? like woah.

I think cuddling is so underrated. I want to drape myself over him unapologetically, embracing him as if the stars and moon would collapse because, regardless, I would hold him close just so he knows how irreplaceable he is.

Alterous attraction is so wild because it’s like I love you in a way neither of us can comprehend, I love you like the birds love the sun in the morning, I love you like the moon clinging to the night sky, I love you when we’re holding hands or cuddling or just sharing a space, I love you when you laugh or smile, I love you when you are near me and far away from me, I love you without a label, I love you when we go at our own pace, I love you when we express our love in different ways, I love you because you are my person and I am yours, we are friends and we are more and I love you

I just really want to find “my person”

but a lot of people say that, and it apparently just goes without saying that they mean it in a sexual and romantic way

but no I just want someone that I feel completely comfortable with and can live with and make breakfast with and go see new movies with and just always know that they’ll be there for me and that i’ll be there for them but without any sexual or romantic expectations and like I want a committed stable relationship but in a queerplatonic way and ughhh it seems impossible to find

the way i want to hold someone and be held by them— just because it feels nice. i want to love them, but not fall in love— for it is something i can’t truly do; not in a romantic way. i want to be as close as can be, partners, soulmates… but not lovers, just us.

i want to walk hand in hand and feel comfort and peace. i don’t want sex nor kisses, or someone to wants me that way— but i crave physical contact, intimacy… in an innocent and loving manner. in a way that touches my soul and connects me to them. i want to scream because i’m not in a romantic relationship. i feel like i’m going to be alone forever; yet, when I’m alone, i silently cry… relieved that i’m just fine as i am, with friends that care.

however, there’s a part of me that craves more— that needs someone, just for a moment, just for a minute. just so i can feel a platonic connection that was written between the constellations above me.

so just for a moment, i can feel complete.

daydreaming isn’t enough i need it to happen to me in real life

How do y’all even get qpp’s ? Asking for a friend

I want to shout "I love you" at the top of my lungs, but I know you don't like loud noises, so I'll whisper it to you instead