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an aromantic person is someone who (fill in the blank here) // april 10 2024
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GET YOUR BODY OUT OF SURVIVAL MODE SO YOU CAN CREATE FROM YOUR HEART
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(trying to) romanticize my life
compilation of random moments of my life from the past 2 years (2022-2024)
some moments are meaningful, some are mundane
the point is to try to find beauty in everything, both big and small moments
from the simplest of things like a snow globe to something so huge like a concert
life is precious, and we should be thankful for the gift of being alive
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the point of art is not to be great but to make it transparently obvious that there is something wrong with you
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never let this die
this video has been going around for a while but the English subtitles didn't match the energy of the spoken French at all. i had to fix it.
reblog to spread this version
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I'm thinking of repurposing this blog
it's been 2 years since I began with this and speaking about aro experiences but as a greyro currently in a relationship, I feel like I can't speak about this anymore...
I don't want to delete anything as it is all very important for my community, but I do want to repurpose this and speak about my philosophical interests, religious beliefs (atheistic satanist), occultism, paranormal, poetry, MY ART !!! and so much more, I want to create my little corner on the internet
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less “if you see a man and woman together at pride be nice! they could be bi/pan/trans/ace/aro” and more “stop gendering strangers to harass them anywhere, but especially at pride holy shit”
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In 1991, 15 Dutch regional news papers put out a giant questionnaire, which then was answered by tens of thousands of people
Among the questions also was this one
It basically says:
Do you consider yourself:
- heterosexual
- homosexual
- bisexual
- a-sexual
According to the results of this survey,
92,8% of the men and 93,5% of the women identified as hetero
3,1% of men and 2,1% of women identified as gay
2,6% of men and 2,7% of women identified as bi
1,5% of men and 2,7% of women identified as ace
I think this is fascinating, especially that they found so many asexual people, like this was in 1991 and yet they already found more people than that 1% that gets quoted a lot
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update april 2024
this post is from november 2023 I believe, and so much has changed since then.
around the time I posted this I had come to terms with my identity on the aro spectrum being specifically greyromantic, because how I felt at the time was basically "I'm not looking for love and I don't care about it but if it happens, it happens"
and guess what? it happened
I fell in love with the person I was talking about in the original post, and he's my boyfriend. I have been learning and unlearning so much about myself during these past few months.
I learned that love isn't like in the movies, there's no fireworks or sparkles or butterflies, it's just peace. so much tranquility and being comfortable within the same space as someone else, caring for and about them. the love I feel for him is very similar to the love I feel for my family and friends, and I always thought it was different, because that's what everyone always says, that romantic love is different.
but maybe this isn't romantic love. it's aromantic love. it's my type of love. my way of loving of him. maybe that's why it feels so nice.
he knows I'm greyro and suspects he might be as well (or somewhere on the aro spectrum at least).
but, what do I do now with this blog? I created this with the purpose of creating a safe space for aromantic individuals, and since I'm greyro and in a relationship, I personally feel that I no longer have the right to speak on this subject. or at least not in the same way.
am I falling in love or do I just enjoy my friend's company?
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after arouind 9pm all music sounds better and all fanfic reads better BUT all thoughts become 97% less reliable. trust me im science
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I read this and had to leave the book for a bit...
#aro#aromantic#lgbt#queer#aromantic spectrum#arospec#aroace#aromanticism#aro positivity#asexual spectrum#asexual#ace#loveless#loveless alice oseman#alice oseman
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"When I got back to my room, the people upstairs were having sex again. Rhythmic thumping against the wall. I hated it, but then I felt bad, because maybe it was two people in love.
In the end, that was the problem with romance. It was so easy to romanticise romance because it was everywhere. It was in music and on TV and in filtered instagram photos. It was in the air, crisp and alive with fresh possibility. It was in falling leaves, crumbling wooden doorways, scuffed cobblestones and fields of dandelions. It was in the touch of hands, scrawled letters, crumpled sheets and the golden hour. A soft yawn, early morning laughter, shoes lined up together by the door. Eyes across a dance floor.
I could see it all, all the time, all around, but when I got closer, I found that nothing was there.
A mirage"
- Loveless, Alice Oseman (p. 200)
#aro#aromantic#lgbt#queer#aromantic spectrum#arospec#aroace#aromanticism#aro positivity#aroallo#asexual spectrum#asexual#ace#loveless#loveless aro#alice oseman
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well, there are many aroace people in relationships, they're different than amatonormative relationships but they're still valid, they exist.
ask yourself what do you feel for your partner, it may not be romantic love, but it might be something else. adoration, fondness, etc. love can manifest itself in many ways.
first figure that out and then have a conversation with her to see what could work out for both of you.
am I falling in love or do I just enjoy my friend's company?
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I started reading loveless by alice oseman.
I've had this book for a month now and hadn't sat down yet to start reading, I'm only a few chapters in and I already feel like crying, because I can relate to georgia (the protagonist) SO much...
I will keep yall updated on my thoughts about the book
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am I falling in love or do I just enjoy my friend's company?
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