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sewi-li-suwi · 1 year
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Enlargen balls feels like it has so much wasted potential. Like, it's widely known that the size of an orb is directly proportional to its scrying potency, right? You could increase the potency of your everyday scrying orb, or carry a marble or shrunken full sized orb in your pocket before enlargening and using it.
It could also theoretically be casted on water droplets to have an alternative renewable source of water - potentially this could be useful to wizards more studied in transmutation than summoning.
It just. idk. Feels like it can do so much more than "haha funny testicle explosion spell", y'know?
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For cis people, on writing trans characters, part 2
Hello there! So, my "for cis people, on writing trans characters" post got... more popular than I thought it would, and I was asked for a part 2, so here it is! Some more terrible ways of representing the transgender experience that I saw on my beloved Goodreads.
Being trans isn't a plot twist. I've yet to see a good story in which a major plot point is "PLOT TWIST: they're trans!" However, I have seen several mildly-to-severely transphobic stories that do this. It just isn't a good idea: it further links transness with deception, and it treats transgender identities as a shocking and scary thing. To be clear, I'm not talking about stories in which a character comes out as trans later on in the story, I'm talking about shit that uses a character's transness for shock value. Any book in which revealing that a character is trans would be considered a spoiler, or which has a conflict at any point that can best be described as "Surprise! My love interest/sibling/parent/murder suspect is TRANSGENDER!" falls under this category.
Being trans isn't a costume. No joke, I saw one story in which a trans girl's love interest only used her chosen name or called her "she" if she was wearing a dress. I don't like that at all. Transgender identities are not costumes. They're not drag personas or alter egos. If a character is transgender, they are transgender regardless of what they're wearing or how they're acting, and their proper pronouns, terms, and names should be used and respected at all times. (It's possible that a trans author could write a good story featuring a trans character who thinks of their pre-transition self/the version of them that they associate with their AGAB as a different person or different iteration of them, but I really would not recommend that cis people do this).
Being trans is not just about your body. Please don't reduce your trans woman to "a woman with a penis" or your trans man to "a man with breasts". The worst example of this one I saw would probably be The Art Of Being Normal by Lisa Williamson, in which a stealth trans boy comes out to his trans girl love interest by showing her his body, as if his body were the only relevant marker of his trans identity. There is so much more to transgender identities than what your body does and does not look like, and this reeks of the transphobic, borderline fetishistic focus that certain cis people have on trans people's genitals and other body parts. Remember that being transgender is first and foremost about your identity, not what body parts you happen to have. (Also, fuck The Art of Being Normal. That book, I shit you not, contained every transphobic red flag on this list, and was my inspiration for posting it in the first place. If any trans people who see this felt safer and less alone because of that book, that's absolutely wonderful, but... every single item on the list...)
So that's all, I think. If anyone's confused as to what any of the items on this list or Part 1 mean, I am more than happy to explain or provide examples-- I understand I can be a little unclear when expressing my thoughts. (And Goodreads, please don't disappoint me again. I don't think I have a part three in me.)
-Lenni
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disabledprincesses · 2 years
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As its pride month, heres something I wrote about how I feel as a she/they
My gender is grandmother, meaning: yea its feminine and yea it usually means i have a vagina and boobs and im okay with it, but also im so old and tired of everything including gender so its like a shrug in pink.
My gender is the mushrooms you find and everyone says theyre beautiful and pretty and cute and yes theyre those things but theres also so much more than just pretty.
My gender is when people call a ship "she" when yea you can see it as a she, but its not a woman.
My gender is a pink dress, genderless fabric dyed in a color to hold a shape of a womans body but at the end of the day its fucking fabric, it doesnt have a gender.
My gender is like a bird with eyeliner and a pink beak, it may be feminine and beautiful and youll always say she but the bird doesnt know gender, all it knows is to be.
My gender is the color pink, a beautiful shade created of red and white and possibly blue, simply one piece of the light spectrum that we can see that creates the image of everything we deem as feminine, motherly, kind, and of women, however it is not a woman itself. It is one piece of a huge spectrum of light and to see it as feminine is only a small part of what it actually is.
A rose doesnt grow that way to be a girlie object, it simply grows that way and lets the people around it be happy giving it meaning. Only the rose knows its true meaning and what it is.
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choppedupnotkilled · 3 months
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Joke headcanon that I don’t actually believe, but I’d like to believe it: Orin purely has vanilla missionary sex with women, it’s basically a ‘gynecologists don’t want to have sex with their wives after they get home from work because they’ve been staring at vaginas all day’ situation.
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Hi! I'm a dyadic nonbinary author writing a nonhuman character (he/him) whose species naturally has both a uterus/ovaries/vagina and testes/penis- would it be best to refer to this species as intersex, as I know "hermaphroditic" has a stigmatizing/gross history and this character, while nonhuman, has human-level intelligence/isn't an animal? (There are also intersex human characters in this story/an MC with Klinefelter syndrome, he isn't my only intersex representation). Thank you in advance!!
I would say it’s best to use intersex simply because we’ve transitioned away from from hermaphrodite and consider that a stigmatizing/outdated word. However, it is your writing and ultimately your decision. One other thing to think about though, is that since this is a nonhuman species, you do have room to have the species in question use a term that you’ve created. Since it’s meant to be a nonhuman species, it can use non-traditional fictionalized languages/terms.
-Mod Noah
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hazyaltcare · 2 years
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Extraordinary Girl: A playlist for a transfem Kokichi Ouma with borderline personality disorder and gender dysphoria with some 4lung in it.
Warning: Gender dysphoria, transphobia, self-hatred, misgendering, slurs, genital mention
Tracklist:
4lung - Gay Aunt Jane's Wacky Knife Play Fortress
Amy Winehouse - You Know I'm No Good
tv room - Know It All
Against Me! - Transgender Dysphoria Blues
strxwberrymilk - Pink Skirts Are Really Sweet
Crusher-P - Echo
4lung - Cry to Survive
Cavetown - Sweet Tooth
The Distillers - City of Angels
she/her/hers - Misgender Dysphoria Blues
Green Day - Extraordinary Girl / Letterbomb
Lana Del Rey - Terrence Loves You
Christina Aguilera - Reflection
Listen to the playlist here.
We really liked making this playlist because it introduced us to so many new artists and songs, we hope you enjoy it too! However, feel free to request any change you need.
Mod Vintage (🤖 and 🕵️‍♂️)
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enderdrive · 2 years
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why don't terfs understand that it isn't appropriate to say that a minor's dick is small.
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ivytwines · 7 months
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when the doctor regenerates, their first instinct is almost always to comment on their new body and it’s unique features (i know these teeth, don’t like the color of my kidneys, etc etc). however when they regenerate into thirteen they make no comment on the sudden disappearance of certain… body parts. this can lead me to only 3 possible explanations:
1) the doctor does not have genitals, in any regeneration. I find this to be stupid and boring
2) the doctor has always had a dick and continues to have a dick even when they are in a more “female” presenting body. trans coded doctor ftw here but I think there’s a better explanation…
3) the doctor has had a vagina before (either always like in scenario #2 or just in certain regenerations) and therefore feels no need to comment on this bodily change.
I am a firm scenario #3 believer and it allows me to come to the obvious conclusion that the tenth doctor was rocking with a pussy. I am he/him lesbian truthing for the tenth doctor at all times
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You are not in the wrong for asking to be referred to with certain pronouns, names, or gendered terms. But this is merely the more common experience for trans people.
Sometimes, we also ask that people refer to our bodies or clothes in a certain way according to our level of comfort. It's not unreasonable to ask "Hey, could you please not refer to my underwear as 'panties'? That makes me uncomfortable." The same goes for other articles of clothing or accessories.
We often ask that our bodies are talked about in neutral terms. "Don't call them breasts. Please just call it my chest." or "Please don't call my genitals X or Y. Just use neutral terms."
And all of this is totally okay! We all have different levels of comfort when it comes to our bodies, our language, or our clothing. It's okay to want to feel comfortable and safe. Keep setting boundaries unapologetically.
- Your Bigender Big Brother 💙💚
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choppedupnotkilled · 4 months
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Audrey wasn’t always asexual, but sexual attraction was always muddled for her due to being transfem and not having the right parts. By the time she got the right parts, she had basically lost the ability to experience sexual attraction due to her trauma in her relationships and at The Gutter (so basically she's caedsexual.) This happened over a long period of time and was not due to any one event, although James (my OC who is her ex before Orin) certainly sped up the process with his knife-play. Seymour, in contrast, has always been asexual.
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frownyalfred · 7 months
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so that's why kids are "pups"? Because as a pup they're neither boy or girl or both, they're just pups? Wow, that's a very interesting kind of manner on this topic of the genitals in the A/B/O world...
Yes! Pups who generally are born male or female. After that, the secondary designation isn’t known until the eventual presentation heat/rut.
I’m not going to lie, I kind of ended up here because of some choices I made while writing a coral room, but I’m not upset with the idea. I think it’s fascinating to truly not know how you’ll present until the actual day it happens.
And in order for it to actually be a surprise, you don’t have external genitalia — other than a urethra — that would indicate what was going to happen. I think it’s actually super fascinating also because that’s how humans in the womb are — we start out with nothing, then the beginnings of AFAB genitalia, and then if you’re AMAB, things keep changing even further.
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randomnerd737 · 2 months
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headcannon that when Logan gets really angry, like, will actually murder the next person he sees in the the most brutal way imaginable angry, he just kind of loops back around to looking stoic and emotionless, the only difference being he's eyes look like they are on fire.
description of incredible violence below the cut
of course, if someone got close enough to notice that, they would be kicked in the nuts so hard they fall off a skyscraper into the center of the earth while their body is slowly and painfully being ripped apart before they could process it.
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genderqueerdykes · 1 year
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just wanted to send in a positive message, ive been on t for a lil over a month now and i was kinda worried about bottom growth at first. ive always found my genitals gross, but i also find dicks gross, so i figured it was just a Thing id have to live with. i figured bottom growth from T would either cause no change in my feelings or make them worse, but it was a risk i was willing to take.
Oh dude. i LOVE bottom growth. i can look at those parts of myself without immediately becoming grossed out and having to look away. its SO COOL. i dont have any other changes yet so this is my favorite thing rn lmao but ohh its so cool!! ive never felt this..comfortable? in my body. Its so cool. I feel so cool.
i'm so freaking happy for you! that's literally the best thing in the world ^ _ ^
i felt the same way, it started happening very quickly and noticeably for me due to being intersex and i was just like WOW !!!! the whole time! you're right, i just. felt more comfortable in my body, i was like yeah!!! that's more right!
i'm glad you feel cool, you are cool. i'm glad you're happy with the changes you're seeing so far, that's really awesome! i'm glad you're having moments like these! ^ _ ^ very happy for you! hope to hear from you again! take care, hope ur transition is safe & good for you!
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frogsinajar · 1 year
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you know what *opens portal* Have Rasputians DICK Dave
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a conclusion to the raspenis odyssey
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vtuberconfessions · 3 months
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TW: Genital Mutilation
Sometimes I think about the Vtuber who stapled her pussy shut.
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sapphire-heart-tippy · 2 months
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speaking on the bottom surgery thing..I too wish I was born male and am sad that science isnt in a place where I feel aesthetically comfortable with surgery but something Ive enjoyed while being on hrt (and am looking forward for the future) is bottom growth and I plan to get piercings that "mimic" what cis men have. Theres a lot that can be done..dont give up hope in finding whats right for your body!
I feel that so much x_x and same, I'm actually excited and looking forward to bottom growth too once I actually start T 💪✨ I'm hoping for the best for you as well! 🏳️‍⚧️⚧️ (I've been thinking about getting a packer or something too)
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