Introduction
Hey babes,
welcome to my blog!
I’ve been lurking on hypergamyblr and leveling up blogs since forever and the advice I got from there actually helped me to achieve some of my goals.
A few weeks ago I stumbled upon a subreddit called “RedPillWomen”, and it was eye opening. Don’t get me wrong – I don’t necessarily support every theory on there but right now it just makes sense for me and my lifestyle.
But let me tell you something about myself, so you get an idea:
I am a white woman in my early twenties
I have a finished degree
I live in Europe
I am in a longterm relationship with my man (+3 years)
We live together in our own apartment
My man is very succesful and has his own company
I love to cook and to bake but I don’t really like cleaning
I am a homemaker and a spoiled girlfriend (can you be both?)
I am happy and content with my life but I want more. I promise you, that I’ll always tell the truth on my blog and the truth is, that the relationship with my man isn’t the best right now.
We’re not constantly fighting and there is no toxicity or jealousy in the relationship but it is lacking affection, gratitude, sexual attraction and date nights.
Sometimes it just feels as if I’m living with my platonic best friend which isn’t bad at all but I want to bring this sparkle back into our relationship.
I am a firm believer that every relationship needs work. It’s never like in the books or movies, where everything just comes together and somehow works out for decades. It’s hard work.
I also understand if someone would rather break up with their partner than try to fix the relationship, there is no shame in doing so. Especially if there is any sort of abuse, toxicity or lack of attraction to the partner involved.
However, that’s not how it is in my relationship. I still think my man is hot, he never was abusive or nonsupporting to me. Never.
Besides that – he is financially stable, he has goals he wants to achieve and he works hard to provide for us. It would be dumb as hell if I would break things off with him, just because I don’t feel “the” spark right now.
Yes, maybe I would have more fun with another man, who is not working as much and has more free-time – but I have to think about my future and my goals. I have to think about my life in 30+ years.
I know what I want from my life and I know that if I’m staying with my man this life could come true!
What I want from life:
I want a soft life without worrying about being able to pay the bills
I want to be a homemaker
I want children and I don’t want to worry about being able to afford them
I want my children to be able to experience everything they want. No, I don’t mean spoiling them rotten with materialistic things, more like being able to finance them an exchange year in another country or attending a boarding school – if they want to do so. I also want them to be able to pick their hobbies freely, without worrying about money.
I want a stable relationship without drama
I want to be able to buy the clothes that I want
I want to be able to do all the beauty treatments that I want (maybe shallow but it is what it is)
I want to have the house where everyone feels safe and welcome
I know that I have the right foundation to achieve all of those goals, I just have to work hard for them.
It’s going to be quite a journey but I’m very excited about it. I will start to apply Red Pill theories to my life immediately and see where this is going.
I hope to meet some mutuals through this blog – so please comment if you are one, so I can follow your blog!
See you soon!
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💕 There are men who enjoy investing in you.
💕 There are men who enjoy providing for you.
💕 There are men who enjoy maintaining you.
Don't listen to the ones who can't or won't treat you the way you want to be treated.
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