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floof-ghostie · 3 months

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Hey have you guys read "Refusing Compulsory Sexuality; A Black Asexual Lens on Our Sex-Obsessed Culture" by Sherronda J. Brown, I really think you should read "Refusing Compulsory Sexuality; A Black Asexual Lens on Our Sex-Obsessed Culture" by Sherronda J. Brown

#please you guys it's very informative #asexual #it's also very inclusive of trans people please you guys please #queer #lgbtq #sherronda j brown

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seulszn · 2 months

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Listen I love TLOU and the fandom very much but a lot of people (not calling anybody out) need a reality check and need to grow up. I wanna say my two cents on things that bother me in this fandom.

1. Boycotting for Palestine

I have seen multiple times on multiple occasions where people would sit on their phone and complain about why writers are “flooding the tags with this boycotting bullshit” and honestly all I have to say is your super childish you can’t take a hour or a week out of your day to raise awareness on a important topic that is affecting millions of people? Your so horny so down bad for pixelated characters that you don’t care about the innocent children, women and men that are dying in Palestine? The boycotting isn’t gonna stop just because you want your needs filled, the boycotting isn’t going to stop because you think it needs to, it’s not gonna stop until Palestine is free. And if you wanna read things that bad then read nobody is stoping you but a take into ignition that if a writer is spreading awareness then don’t be ignorant and say stupid shit

2. Less Sex and more angst or other genres.

Listen I love Abby and Ellie just like everyone else and I read a lot of smut about them but does that all y’all see when y’all look at them? As sex objects? Like I’m not saying that you should stop writing smut for those characters but write other things to that don’t involve smut, like angst I see a lot of people under that tag say how they wish writers would as write other things that isn’t just smut and majority of the time when they say that they get hated for it. It lowkey gets boring reading fanfics where the whole plot is smut, smut, smut. And again I’m not saying to stop writing smut but please for the love of whatever you believe in write other genres.

3. Black inclusivity

As a black writer and a black person TLOU tag isn’t inclusive enough. I know you must be thinking “Why are we speaking about this again?” Because I’m honestly so tired of how uninclusive the fandom is like I said before Ellie dates WOC if you don’t know what WOC is it’s Women Of Color all of Ellie’s girlfriends where WOC now I’m not saying you can’t write for Ellie as a white person and I’m not saying that never did all I am saying is once again all of Ellie’s girlfriend where POC

Riley was a Black African American who Dated Ellie

Cat the girl who wasn’t mentioned alot but is in the game is Asian American who also dated Ellie

Dina is a Jewish (Mexican, Middle Eastern ) American who dated Ellie

Also yes we know when the reader is white coded so don’t try a put that you don’t mention when race mentioned cause you do and we can tell when you do “She’s Petite and cute with her long blonde hair” or whatever you bitches be saying we know when you guys aren’t inclusive the whole point of fanfiction writing is to be inclusive is to make sure that readers can see themself in your xreader so if your putting all these “white things and then labeling your story as “the readers race is not mentioned” or that OC stuff that y’all do then just label the story as a white reader or a OC reader

4. Futa, trans and masc

Now here I’m gonna discuss two or three things starting off with Futa and Trans. Now I don’t know when “Futa” or “Trans” Ellie and Abby came from but a lot of you readers need to understand and learn the difference between the two because they are both very different things.

Futanari: is the Japanese word for hermaphroditism, which is also used in a broader sense for androgyny. Beyond Japan, the term has come to be used to describe a commonly pornographic genre of eroge, manga, and anime, which includes characters that show primary sexual characteristics from both females and males. In today's language, it refers almost exclusively to characters who have an overall feminine body, but have both female and male primary genitalia (although a scrotum is not always present, while breasts, a penis, and a vulva are). The term is also often abbreviated as futa(s), which is also used as a generalized term for the works themselves.

Transgender (often shortened to trans) is someone whose gender identity differs from that typically associated with the sex they were assigned at birth. Some transgender people who desire medical assistance to transition from one sex to another identify as transsexual. Transgender is also an umbrella term; in addition to including people whose gender identity is the opposite of their assigned sex (trans men and trans women), it may also include people who are non-binary or genderqueer. Other definitions of transgender also include people who belong to a third gender, or else conceptualize transgender people as a third gender. The term may also include cross-dressers or drag kings and drag queens in some contexts. The term transgender does not have a universally accepted definition, including among researchers.

Mind you I am not transgender I am nonbinary but I see a lot of transgender people speak up about how offensive it is to write a character as Transgender but it’s not really transgender but a Futanari remember a Futa is a character who is assigned a gender at birth but just has extra sexual parts like a penis.

Now another thing that bothers me is how y’all Masculinize Masc Lesbians as if they still aren’t women themselves like every time I read a fanfic with Ellie or Abby or even Vi and Sevika from Arcane you guys like to ignore they fact that they are also women themselves like it’s not gonna kill you to give those characters feminine compliments there shouldn’t be a reason why your calling these women “handsome” or other Masculine compliments and also a lot of Masculine women where makeup it’s not just a feminine woman thing. Masc Lesbians are women they aren’t men so stop treating them as if they are men and ignoring the fact that they are women

5. the Innocent childish reader gotta stop.

They title says enough I don’t think I need to say too much but a lot of y’all get innocent and corruption mixed up but a corruption kink is When you find the idea of "corrupting" someone, mostly in a sexual way, like taking virginities or introducing people to stuff like bdsm etc. It's the idea of having someone "pure" do "bad" things under your influence. And innocent is not corrupted or tainted with evil or unpleasant emotion; sinless; pure. not guilty of a particular crime; blameless. (From the dictionary)

Y’all need to understand yes not everyone knows what sex is but everyone knows what a vagina is what a penis is, what a orgasm is and what sex is but they may not knows what happens when you have sex so making the reader what y’all call innocent isn’t innocent it’s honestly to me perverted cause the only one who would say something like “my cunny feels weird 🥺” or that “what is sex 🥺” is a child. Children don’t know what sex is children don’t know what pleasure or orgasms is and when y’all say “the reader is a Bimbo” is also funny cause Bimbos know what sex is as well yes they may be stupid but they aren’t slow so before you make a innocent reader please think “am I making my reader act like a child or am I gonna make her really innocent like how regular grown ass adults act?” so don't get not knowing and "innocent" mixed up

6. The stories where they have sex inside a church also gotta stop

Now I’m not a Christian but these stories are honestly really bad and are Blasphemy a lot of people have come out and said that they don’t like the fact that people are writing stories about church in a sexual way like their shouldn’t be any reason why your characters are fucking inside a church, that’s like stomping on someone’s dead grave. You guys do shit like this and then wonder why Christian’s don’t like us. Religion isn’t something to be sexualized it’s not something to be playing with either this idc how much you hate Christianity you can be a Atheist, or Catholic or Jewish but please for the love of whatever you believe in don’t sexualize people’s religion.

That’s all I can think of at the moment if I think of more I’ll of course make a part two to this but don’t take anything I said here to heart it’s just my blunt honest opinion on things in this fandom and if I get hate for this 🤷🏾‍♀️

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ellies-bite · 2 months

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idk who needs to hear it, but as a trans person, I feel the need to remind EVERYONE that futa is not you writing a trans character, that is fetishization. (you freak)

you are fetishizing trans people, you are gross, your perpetuating disgusting porn practices.

if you enjoy that shit please block me and stay off my blog.

(stay away from me) (you're weird) (and not in a good way)

continuing with this, write less sex!! having plot or having no smut at all never killed anyone!! and make all your fics inclusive!! we're not all skinny white people!! (I am white but I'm not very skinny, and I know most people are writing for petite white people)

Also! not all of us are fem! Hyperfemmes are valid and I'm not saying anything against that but it feels like you guys are saying since these women are slightly more masculine than the average women they have to be with super fem ppl! They are women also!

atp it almost feels like you're trying to write them as men and tbh it's gross!!

I know I'm not the only one thinking this??

Also! significantly more important! I don't care if people are filling the tag with Palestine related things! it's really important! You are playing a zionist's game! and you're reading fanfiction about said game! I'm really sorry you can turn a blind eye to a genocide, but spreading information is more important than getting off on fictional characters!

Like!! you are reading fics about a game made by a zionist!! who is open about his Zionism!!

anyways this got longer than I want but stop being weird please I'm begging you

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horrorjunki3 · 1 year

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Texas chainsaw massacre slashers with a trans boyfriend

Warnings: NSFW, discussion of the female body, dysforica, Canon typical violence, fluff

I'm tagging @maxthompsonjrmalewife because I made reference to there work!:)

Drayton sawyer

Gay panic -> that's it the moment Nubbins brings you in -> I feel like his brothers see this reaction and decide to keep you alive

His such a simp for you, he just loves his boyfriend so much!!

He will never misgender you but he doesn't 100% understand being trans so you might have to explain it

His very responsible so he will always know how long you've Been binding and after care for taping his on it!

His so sweet when you need to do injections he'll coo at you and call you handsome -> he mainly calls you pretty boy or baby boy

Nsfw

His brain shuts down whenever you initiate something -> he has a pretty low sex drive but w his boyfriend doing hormons he probably gets more action then he ever has

Calls you a minx for distracting him from the saw but God your lips feel so good around his cock

He doesn't care If he tops or bottoms as long as you are both having a good time

He gets riled up whenever your walk around in your boxes and a binder - checks you out and can't help wanna fuck on the kitchen table or while his cooking

Chop top sawyer

His loves his trans bf soo much! finds it so hot -> I generally believe chop loves people who are different, unique and unapologetically themselves!

He isn't good at remembering when you starting binding

His pretty good with trans inclusive language

Loves giving you pride pins and stuff

Also shows you off to victims -> lord have mercy if you get misgendered at all in this house all the Sawyers won't have it.

He absolutely loves helping you with injections he probably did some first aid in the war so his pretty good at it -> gives you a kiss everytime it's finnished

If you use Gel this guys a pain he'll always wanna grope you so he gets excess GEL on him and doesn't see the issue

If you ever get dysforia he likes to nest in your shared room with music and lots of cuddles for you! Telling you how handsome you are and how much he loves you

He gets so excited whenever there's development in your transition!

Totally write songs about you being the prettiest boy everr

NSFW Headcannons

Chop loves the contrast between your masculine and Feminine traits

Loves your T dick sooo much! This man would suck you off everyday if he could -> somedays he won't let you leave the beg until your crying and begging from Cummings so much

He a top, and prefers fucking you but as long as his cocks in you he doesn't care who's more Dom or submissive

Loves loves loves cockwarming you, your so warm and wet and your little cocks begging for him to touch it!

Loves if you get more horny when on T -> y'all are fucking like rabbits and he loves every second of it -> bends you over every table and fucks you silly

If you get morning wood omfg this man will gladly give you head of a morning -> infact he will beg to please morsel can he? Your so hard and he just wants to taste you

Nubbins sawyer

This man's so feral for you and is a Stuttering mess

Loves taking photos of you -> loves documenting your transition!!

He becomes a mess everytime you do something 'masculine' -> his attracted to masculinity so if you pick up something heavy or him his a mess!

He can't help you with injections because his hands shake alot -> he does however old ur hand and give you a lil kiss. "No Nubbins you can't have any Gel" -> "No what why are you trying to eat it?!"

His fave part of you is your arms like doesn't matter if they're skinny, muscular or plump he loves them -> loves being held by his boyfriend

He steals all your clothes!!

If you get dysforia he'll drag you off to the house and coo at you -> does all your chores and gets you whatever you need

I feel like all the Sawyer siblings gender you correctly and it's such a safe place for you! No one bat's an eye when you take your shirt off or your not binding -> your a men to all of them and they love you dearly

NSFW Headcannons

He doesn't care If his top or bottom -> nor does he care of him domming or subbing definition of a switch

Regardless of if his fucking you his a moaning mess

If his in a more dominant mood he loves you sucking his dick so much, you look so handsome on your knees for him

He loves you dominating him, his a good boy and you make him feel so good

He totally calls you daddy you can't change my mind

Loves your ass so much! Will bite it and lives fucking you from behind it's such a pretty view can't help but whine and cum over and over

Bubba sawyer

You being trans most likely saves your life -> bubba found someone like them!!

T4T relationship 🥰

They let you wear any of they're clothes!

He adores his trans partner! Feels so connected and comfortable w you like you understand them!

They're very good at helping with shots and aren't a pain in the ass when it comes to Gel like there brothers

Squeals when there's developments in your transition and gives you the biggest bear hug!

I saw a headcannon about this here it is and the artwork (not mine someone else's but it's sooo good!!) That Thomas and Bubba will make binders out of human skin for they're trans S/O and yeah that is cannon idc what anyone says it's cannon

Of you get dysforus bubba gives you one of there shirts -> it's baggy and makes a great dysforia jumper! They will pull you into there lap and run circles on your thighs your so handsome! They just wanna make you feel better!

Loves when you do a stereotypical boyfriend thing to them like bringing flowers! It's so gender affirming for you and them!

NSFW

They love your chest it doesn't matter what size, shape, small large or post surgery -> they'll love it and pamper your chest with kissed and hickies

Don't care If they're top or bottom but he is more submissive

Another one that loves your T dick -> they legit moan whenever they see it please say they can suck it? Please?

They're so gender reaffirming in bed! And always check on you it's soo cute

Please femininise them in bed they love it, makes them feel so pretty!

Loves when you fuck them -> they're such a slut for your cock it's not even funny

They're sex drive isn't to high but they love making there S/O cum so they have no problem with keeping up with you

They prefer slower more sensual sex -> it makes him feel so loved

#slasher simp #slasher x reader #texas chainsaw massacre #nubbins sawyer #chop top sawyer #robert sawyer #chop top x reader #bubba sawyer #nubbins x reader #leatherface x reader #bubba saywer x reader #drayton sawyer x reader #drayton sawyer #slashers x ftm reader

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weaver-z · 2 years

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Ranking famous slashers (based on how likely they are to be cool with trans people)

(Disclaimer: this is a very silly ironic post for pride month).

Chucky (Child's Play)

In what can only be described as an "absolute hum-dinger" of an opening entry, we have Chucky, the only slasher who has (and explicitly supports) a transgender child. Sure. You know what? Good for him.

2. Ash Williams (The Evil Dead franchise)

"Uhh this guy isn't a slasher!" He has a chainsaw for a hand. He's killed 65+ deadites over the course of four movies and a goofy tv show with said grisly chainsaw hand. I will die on the hill that Ash is a good-aligned slasher. Anyway, Ash would also be happy to learn that trans women being more widely-accepted means there are More Women. He wouldn't even have to have being trans explained to him, he'd get it. He's dealt with so much weird shit, someone wanting to transition is nothing. Hail to the king, baby.

3. Herbert West (Re-Animator)

Herbert West looks so much like one of my trans guy friends in real life that I'm just going to decide that he's trans. My guy was synthesizing HRT in his wacky little lab long before he was filling vials with glowing green goo to raise the dead. He's still ranked lower than Ash, though, because he's kind of cringe in general. Sorry, Herbie baby

4. Bubba Sawyer (The Texas Chainsaw Massacre)

Bubba definitely doesn't care about anyone's gender. He's killing them with chainsaws. That being said, the exceptions to this would occur within his own family. If one of Bubba's brothers came out as trans and you decided to be transphobic, Bubba would definitely cut you into even grislier, gorier little pieces than usual, because he's a bro like that.

5. Jason Voorhees (Friday the 13th)

Jason is a conceptually hilarious character at this point, and between all of the deaths and resurrections and visits to Hell and more deaths and resurrections, he's probably had time enough to come to terms with trans people. He just wants to kill everyone at Crystal Lake, for god's sakes. Let him be. (Also, he fought a transphobe--I will explain this remark later in this post.)

6. Daniel Robitaille (Candyman)

Daniel's been dead for quite a while, so that might be a minor roadblock to his understanding of trans people. That being said, he seemed to navigate the modern world pretty deftly in the original Candyman. You might have to explain transitioning to him a bit, but he'd get the concept pretty quickly. He might still kill you with his hook, though. Sorry.

7. Carrie White (Carrie)

Carrie is in a complicated place, because yes, she was raised in a very sheltered, evangelical environment, but we must consider that she is a girlboss and a girlbeast. My verdict? After an initial period of "not getting it," Carrie would throw herself whole hog into being a trans ally. If you are trans, Carrie will be there to light transphobic people on fire. This is not an offer, it is a statement of intent. Be ready for her arrival.

8. Michael Myers (Halloween)

I think that Michael forgot what gender is a while back.

9. Hannibal Lecter (Silence of the Lambs + other movies)

Uuugh... see, I think that Hannibal would absolutely use the right pronouns and name for a trans person, but he'd definitely ask those really annoying "tell me, Will" style questions about your gender over a plate of definitely-not-human liver and fava beans. "Do you feel as though you are step in step with God Himself when you take your estrogen pills, as though your are joining in the act of divine creation?" No, Hannibal, she is just transitioning. Please chill.

11. Billy Lenz (Black Christmas)

Diversity win and loss: Billy Lenz is the world's first trans-inclusive radical misogynist! :/

12. Billy Loomis and Stu Macher (Scream)

Ghostface fans, I am so sorry, but these are two misogynistic teenage boys from the 90's. I do not have high hopes for them.

13. Freddy Krueger (Nightmare on Elm Street)

This guy is the transphobe Jason fought. Booooo. Tomatoes. I'm throwing tomatoes!

#slashers #horror #movies

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pluto-supremacy · 2 months

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Viktor Headcanons: dating a ftm!disabled!reader

➼ This is a very self-indulgent set of headcanons as a disabled trans man, but hey I hope you enjoy!

➼ Reader doesn't have a specific disability, I'm trying to be as general and inclusive as possible so a wide range of disabled persons can relate

➼ No beta we die like Silco

➼ Warnings: mentions of gender dysphoria

GIF does not belong to me! All credits to the owner

Mobility aids out the wazoo laying around you guy's room. Canes? Check. Walkers? Yep. Wheelchairs? You bet. Crutches? I could go on here people

He learns everything he can about your disabilities. I mean everything. Mans is staying up til the wee hours of the morning reading up on how to help you, general limitations from the disability, etc.

Will remind (and force) you to take breaks

"My love, you've been on your feet far too long. Sit down, I'll go get you a glass of water"

You're gonna have to do the same for him too, Viktor doesn't know how to take his own advice

The shower of course has a shower chair (if you need one) with everything within reach

Viktor keeps a section of clothes set aside for your bad dysphoria days. Whether that means baggier clothes, long sleeves, backup binders, his clothes that he always catches you stealing. Anything to try and make you feel more comfortable in your own skin

If you bind, he reminds you to take binding breaks. He'll make sure you can run off to your shared room to take that breather and not have to worry about people staring at you

Keeps easy food to make when you both don't have the energy to make anything

Your guy's bed? The comfiest ever. Lots of pillows, blankets, anything to help your joints and help you feel comfortable

Heat intolerant? Ac is cranked with fans. Cold intolerant? Well now it's the opposite

Uses his experience with hextech to invent new devices for you to help

"I know you said that you were struggling with your heart rate, so I made you a monitor. Small enough to wear under your shirt and it logs everything for a week so we can write it down. It also tells you what you were doing when it spikes or drops. Need some help putting it on?"

He's the first one to advocate for you, and the loudest. A building isn't ADA accessible? Oh, he's on it. Someone is being ableist? He has a sharp tongue and if all else fails, he has a cane too

You're both always there for the other's doctor's appointments. Viktor will drop his work to come with you (which is saying something since he'll deny food, water, and rest to continue his work)

He has a little trans pin on all of his clothes, it's one of his little ways to show you he loves you

If you ever get gender-affirming surgery, he's now doing his absolute best to take care of you while you're recovering. No heavy lifting, helping you get dressed, setting alarms to give you your prescriptions, fluffing up pillows (since you will be on bed rest for a while, doctor's orders), anything and everything he can do to make the healing process quicker and easier for you

"Y/N, if you try to get up one more time I will have to tie you to the damn bed. The doctor said no strenuous activity and to rest for a few days minimum. Rest, please"

Will loudly and aggressively correct people when they misgender you on purpose (he's nicer about it when it's a pure accident)

Can, will, and has yelled at your doctors before. Whether it was an appointment for your disabilities and they refused to take you seriously or if a doctor is 'not convinced' you're trans. Needless to say you never had to see those asshole doctors again

Helps you decorate your mobility aids, whether that be stickers, covers, or making add-ons for them (like a secure bag holder on your wheelchair, for example)

While Viktor isn't really one for shopping, he will happily take you to different shops to try and find you clothes that make you feel comfortable in your own skin. And of course afterwards you guys go out for a little treat, like ice cream or coffee

#arcane #viktor x reader #viktor arcane #viktor x you #viktor x male reader #headcanons #viktor headcanons

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thydungeongal · 6 months

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Hey hey!

You may not be the correct person to ask but im gonna ask anyway and if you feel it would be better answered by someone else plz let me know.

So ive been GMing 5e games for a bit and want to branch out into games which arent as unfriendly to the DM in terms of whats required as 5e is.

Im interested in running Knave, but none of my rpg friends seem really interested.

Where do you think a good place online would be to look for new players? Im trans so im a little scared of running games with non lgbt players at the moment...

Heya!

As we discussed in DMs, I'm going to answer this publicly so other people who may be better equipped to answer this question might see it, because I feel woefully unprepared to answer it. So by answering it publicly I'm exposing your ask to lots of people who may know more than I. :) Having said that, I haven't come out completely empty:

@open-hearth-rpg is a community I've followed for quite a while here on Tumblr, and while I haven't partaken in their games after receiving this ask I was immediately reminded of them, because while not an exclusively LGBTQ+ community theirs is a very inclusive community that has lots of safety tools in place to ensure all players' comfort and safety. They specifically act as a sort of a community hub for running games and recruiting players, so if nothing else by putting out the feelers there, I'm sure you'll be able to find like-minded folks. :)

Second suggestion, and this is literally me scrambling for help from the side of the community that knows more about these things than I do, is that lots of RPG creatives of various shades of the LGBTQ+ rainbow have their own communities, and they usually have a dedicated space within those communities for looking for players. Like, unsurprisingly, lots of RPG creatives expect their fans to also play RPGs, so their communities will usually have spaces for organizing games. @threeheartscast has one such community on Discord (it's an unofficial, fan-run one, but since Three of Hearts is a queernormative podcast their community is unsurprisingly also mostly LGBTQ+, I'm also there lurking hi!). I don't mean that you should join the community of an actual play podcast you may not even know about, but if you already know of LGBTQ+ creatives in the hobby space, look around and check out their communities. :)

Anyway if any of my followers want to chime in, please do! There's only so much a clueless guy like me can do to help with this question.

#thydungeongal answers

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hyperfixatedbastard · 2 months

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Hi, I'm Elliott (they/he) and I write shit sometimes! I'm a trans guy in college that's trying to get back into writing. I'm also super neurodivergent (Autistic/ADHD/prob other things idk), so I like writing fics that are inclusive to queer and neurodiverse folks :)

Please send in prompts or requests! Fair warning that I am a full-time college student that struggles a lot with procrastination and motivation. Thank you for all the love and support! <3

NOTE: NEW WORKS/PROMPT FILLS WILL BE TAKING A LITTLE LONGER!! I'm a full-time college student that's currently going through a very short-notice move, so writing is not one of my top priorities at the moment. I will do my best to get new stuff out, but fair warning that they will take longer and might not be as long as my previous works. Thank you for understanding!

Below are links to my Masterlist, details for Prompt Requests, a form for being put on a Taglist for my writing posts, and my AO3! Please read the rest of this post for rules and info about my blog. I'd appreciate it!

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As for proshippers, I honestly just don't want to deal with that whole can of worms, so as long as none of you ask me to write proship content or anything like that, you're fine ig. I just don't want to go through the effort of actively blocking people and checking accounts for that kinda stuff.

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hughmunculus · 8 months

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Hello new followers! I've gotten like... quite a few since Your Dad took off so maybe introductions are due, I guess

I'm a certified Tumblr Veteran which is so say I've been on and off the hellsite since 2010, which means I am very old, I am ancient. I have seen shipping wars fire off the shoulder of Orion... Please do not ask me to discourse, I have a wife and family

In my personal life though I'm happily married trans guy in New England whos day job is making websites work and look good. When I'm not playing video games or watching some manner of Gay Show I enjoy crochet, the outdoors, and art history! Hopefully this is enough information for you all I do not want to be doxxed

Stuff you will see on my blog: FFXIV, Baldurs Gate 3, Dragon Age, LotR, fine art, not-fine art, horror, retro anime, Fear & Hunger, WWDITS, shitposting, occasional griping, Locked Tomb, Star Trek, Gender and Queer History

Also, this is a safe and inclusive space! I am not welcoming to TERFs nor will I police anyone's identity on the beautiful and infinite spectrum of people we can be. Peace and love on planet earth

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nerdygaymormon · 10 months

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Don't know if you like, take asks like this but I'm a queer trans guy who was raised LDS, and my gf is genderfluid and was also raised LDS. They are very much ex-mormon (the church REALLY traumatized them and they're pretty aggressive about it, which is understandable), and I also consider myself ex-mormon but hold a certain attachment to some of my old beliefs (though since some time last year I've been worshipping a very different form of God and I've been much stronger in my faith because of it). Anyway the point is it's just so nice to see queerness and LDS faith intersecting, especially a trans-inclusive LDS person. Even though I no longer associate myself with the church, my religious upbringing has had a huge impact on my life and it's good to remind myself that God does not hate me because I'm queer, God will not bar me from heaven because I'm queer, and queerness is not a sin.

The LDS Church used to be the prism through which I understood my gay feelings. The messages I grew up with weren't good, such as if I was faithful enough then I could be made straight, or that gays are evil & choose to be this way, or that somehow letting gay people marry was going to bring about the end of the world. For a long time I tried to do enough to prove to God that I'm good and to please make me straight. I was never be good enough and thought I must be irredeemably evil, I was broken and a failure.

Eventually my queerness changed how I see the LDS Church. I had my own answers from God that contradicted what the Church taught. I've had queer people share with me the remarkable answers they've received from God, full of love and acceptance and that they're meant to live and love as the queer person God made them. I also see the most powerful and important messages in the scriptures contradict what we teach about queer people.

I started this little blog in 2014, and over the years have shared my experiences, thoughts, and feelings as a queer Mormon. I also try to include positive affirmations for queer Latter-day Saints and to challenge the rejecting messages we regularly receive.

I'm glad the messages I share rang positive and hopeful to you.

Joseph Smith said, "Our heavenly Father is more liberal in His views, and boundless in His mercies and blessings, than we are ready to believe or receive." THIS is what we should be leaning into, being more inclusive in who we include in God's blessings rather than setting up barriers.

#queerstake

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badchoicesworld · 10 months

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blog guide !!

requests are closed, but feel free to send them in regardless. just expect them to be answered a little later !

this is (for now) an across the spiderverse blog !

please allow me up to a week to write up your asks

characters i write for :

Miguel O’hara

Miles Morales

Miles 42

Hobie (let’s go brit rep)

Pavitr Prabhakar

The Spot

Peter B. Parker

Spider-Noir

general info :

i cannot stress this enough, i exclusively write everything but fem reader, y’all got enough .

that being said, feel free to request anything else at all- when it’s not specified i will just assume gender neutral for the sake of inclusion

trans readers, non-binary, everything in between and all about is completely valid here and i’m more than willing to write about it <3

i do have a health condition that can catch me some days, so there may be times where i’m inactive but it should never be for long periods of time

feel free to get oddly specific with requests ! the more i can work with, the better

but i also don’t mind if they’re just general requests that don’t require a lot of detail

i will NOT write explicit NSFW, i draw the line at clothes being removed unless it has something to do with a prompt (e.g. seeing top surgery scars for the first time), some of these characters ages are not specified yet and i don’t feel comfortable potentially writing NSFW for minors. that is a crime.

there will be some requests i won’t obviously be able to complete for a number of reasons, please do not spam me if this is the case. if i’m willing to fulfil a request i will try my best to communicate with you if needed :]

i have the right to deny requests.

i do wanna say that i am a white guy so i can’t write from first hand experience, but if you request something that includes diversity like a specific race or cultural aspects i will try my absolute best to deliver accurate works. I’ll research to whatever extent i need to (if you don’t already give some information) so i can provide for groups of people that are seriously neglected when it comes to fanfiction and such. and please, in the future, if i ever do fuck up PLEASE hold me accountable and if you can show me what i’ve done wrong and what i should’ve done; what i can do to improve, i would be so appreciative- my goal is to be as inclusive as possible with my writing and the last thing i want is to offend any body of people.

finally, there will be types of writing i can’t do for specific characters. for example, spot, idk how tf i would write like a whole one-shot when my man is how he is now so i’d probably just have to stick to headcanons n such

what i will write :

requests can be either platonic or romantic dynamics, potentially other stuff if you have any ideas. just lemme know ! i do like to consider myself half decent at writing, i’ve studied english literature and linguistics my whole life and i love it very dearly <3 i’m going on to study english as a whole at a higher level (literature, language, linguistics, creative writing)

i'm happy to also apply these headcanons to the cc's, so transgender miguel for instance! just let me know :]

i typically write in bullet points because im a mess

x male reader

x nb reader (feel free to specify if they’re ambiguous, masc leaning or whatever if it’s relevant to the ask)

x trans reader

x cis reader

x spider reader

x mutant reader

character x reader

if you request multiple characters (which is fine <3) i’ll likely default to headcanons for the sake of ease

what i won’t write :

x fem reader .

character x character

NSFW

triggering topics (excluding canon events)

weird fetish/kink stuff :[

hate speech, everyone is welcome here

masterlist :

hobie brown:

how i think Hobie would react to GN!reader calling them their husband casually, even though they’re not married

hobie brown with a transgender, vigilante reader (ftm reader)

hobie admires your fighting spirit (gn reader)

hobie’s punk, you’re metal (band edition, masc reader)

where you and hobie have the most loving connection, but don’t label it (gn reader)

where hobie meets gwens older brother (masc reader)

hobie notices how startled you get when he kisses you (gn!)

hobie realises you’re not as naive as he thought ! (gn reader)

with an s/o that cries a lot ! (gn!reader)

hobie with a snake mutated boyfriend !

hobie with a butterfly mutated boyfriend !

defending his trans partner !

miles morales

miles with an artistic boyfriend riddled with anxieties

miles with a snake mutated boyfriend !

defending his trans partner !

miles 42:

miles 42 w/ an artistic spider-reader ! (masc reader)

miles42 with a butterfly mutated boyfriend !

miles 42 w/ and alien boyfriend !

defending his trans partner !

the spot:

the spot getting flustered by masc!reader

the spot falls into winged readers home (gn)

spider-noir:

spider-noir finds out you’re transmasc on a mission !

helping noir understand trans issues (deadnaming, ftm reader)

with an s/o that cries a lot ! (gn!reader)

noir finds out you wear trans tape (transmasc!reader)

defending his trans partner !

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basedkikuenjoyer · 5 months

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I hit 100 followers a while ago. It's not the biggest thing ever I know, but I also didn't really expect anything like that when I started this silly little blog about a mysterious lady and her goofy samurai gang. For 50 we did 27 favorites. People seemed to like it. Main cast taking up a bunch of spots is boring, though I do think a few of these could potentially end up in the main one. For now though that's Nami, Brook, & Jinbei. This time is more measured, I actually thought about a Sweet 16 and why. It's fun to see how it changes over time:

Cabbage: I love pretty idiots in anime. This one was necessary to keep me invested in Dressrosa. But there is a real amount of nobility there and the story of actually being a fallen prince obsessed with stardom is a good one! Most little guy Leo is surging but Cavendish is still my favorite of the Grand Fleet captains.

Queen Otohime: I've already said a lot about her with our Seafloor Sidestory. Such a great examination of a political leader, a civil rights icon. I've flirted with that role myself at times and always been around it as a quirk of fate...so it's cool to see someone who gets the nuances like Oda did with this story. How it plays off of Tiger's, influences someone like Jinbei. I rate Fishman Island very high and Otohime is a huge part of that.

Pudding: Pudding is such a two-faced little snot but young enough and cartoonish enough about it I think she's funny. Whole Cake is a great arc, love how she plays off of Sanji, the "Doll" element hits a little close to home.

Crocodile: He's got style, he's got grace. He'll throw sand in your face. Cool villain, loved him in Impel Down/Marineford, epitome of T-Boy swag.

Miss Goldenweek: Marianne, Goldie...such a treasure. Girl makes me laugh so much. Comically lazy but the secret weapon that was a nightmare for Luffy. Cover story that made her shine as a capable operative and Rainbow of Dreams rocks. Please come back to Cross Guild you little weirdo. I need you and Buggy playing off each other, I need Crocodile hyping up one of his superstar agents to Mihawk only for her to doze off/ask for snacks in the middle of it.

Nekomamushi: He is a massive yellow cat man. This is a great start. Had a nice theme song too. He loves lasagna but isn't an asshole like Garfield. Rising love. Samurai cat man. Then he's Kiku's lil bro and I enjoy pondering that dynamic. Goro nya nya.

Kin'emon: He was pretty funny before, making the chauvinist a simp for his classy af wife and the confused, but caring father figure to a sweetheart trans girl is hilarious. I love his devil fruit and impersonating Doffy was classic. His supernatural luck forced his way deeply into my heart.

Conis: Conis is lovely. Sweet angel girl...with a big ol bazooka she is not afraid to use. People forget Conis but I still love her. Sky Island was fun.

Jewelry Bonney: Being an angry child makes her so much more fun. Always thought she was a solid Supernova. Being such a glutton is funny. Egghead has elevated her. Interesting devil fruit, it's the one my sweetie would want to eat himself which is neat.

Izo: Izo is very, very pretty. He is also good at shooty but have you seen how pretty he is? He is also the dashing elder brother of #1 blorbo...

Kiku: I know this inclusion will surprise some of you. She's a total sweetie with hidden narrative weirdness. What's not to love and obsess over? Plus she's really tall and forgets that when hiding behind things. Imagine if we saw her trying to hide behind Chopper sticking most of his body out from behind a hiding place. That would tick us back at least one minute from midnight.

Cindry: The other Okiku and subject of our Spooky Sidestory. Maliciously compliant zombie with a showgirl vibe. Far out. Hucking plates rules as a combat style.

Ginny: Some might say she's too new. Some Might Say is a pretty good early Oasis song. Neither of those are relevant right now. I love Ginny. She's wonderful. She got done dirty because flashback characters always get done dirty.

Hina: Hina pleased to be included. Hina pleased. She was our Shackled Sidestory and I love her. The cool vibe mixed with a couple of childish traits. One of our truly good Marines who probably hasn't gotten high enough up the ladder to really know how depraved the World Government is. Cool fruit too, perfect for a Marine.

Monet: Punk Hazard came out right before I went into grad school. I love thinking of her as the beleaguered, far more talented assistant to Caesar Clown who I hate and should just die. Harpies are also classic cool and I will not accept statements to the contrary. I love her snow power too.

Gecko Moria: Touched on this in a post about him for Halloween. He's grown on me a lot as a villain as I've gotten old enough to understand him. There's a realism in his motivations that makes him more of a unique villain. I actually believe if he was serious from the start Luffy would never have stood a chance. Shadow fruit is cool and Thriller Bark is an excellent arc.

Bellemere, Kawamatsu, Denjiro, and Hancock would be the honorable mentions. But these are my true One Piece loves.

#one piece #100 sub spectacular

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transsexualfiend · 1 month

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THIS IS NOT A TRANSMEDICALIST POST, PLEASE USE YOUR CRITICAL THINKING SKILLS.

If you're a trans person who isn't on hrt but is some kind of social influencer, you need to be an ally. Let me explain.

This is often specifically among trans men. Trans women get comments like "yikes you don't pass" all the time, and are constantly told they aren't doing enough to look like a woman. Trans mascs get that same rhetoric too, being told they need to look more like a man, but often also get the comments of "yes! You don't need nasty harmful chemicals to be trans! I wish more beautiful women- er, I mean, trans boys knew that they don't need dirty hormone supplements to be trans!" (especially when the creator is white, thin, androgynous looking, boyish looking, etc)

And then... those creators/influencers who are non-medically transitioning trans men, do NOTHING about those comments... Like hm... very strange. Why are you allowing people to spew the notion that hrt is harmful/gross? Why are you allowing that on your platform? Is fame more important than trans community?

There is no one way to be trans, and of course you do not need hrt to be trans. However, if you are a non-hrt trans person online and you're getting support in the form of transphobic comments, you ARE enabling transphobia and transphobic rhetoric to fester. Why are you letting these comments slide? Or even going so far to LIKE those comments too?? It's a huge red flag.

And there's a difference between: "Thank you for sharing your experience as a trans guy who isn't on hrt! I'm in the same boat and it's nice to see someone with a body/experience like mine!" (This is awesome and is sharing solidarity and I'm glad that social media can be used to connect people who have similar experiences!)

Versus: "I'm so glad to see a trans guy who doesn't shoot himself up with awful androgenizing fluids! You're so young and healthy and you don't need those gnarly chemicals! Just be you :)!" (Active transphobia disguised as support + inclusion.)

It just translates to "Thank god you're not like those ugly sexual deviant transsexuals. You have a much more normal body and you're so much safer to be around than all those medicalized hormonal brainwashed butches!" (WHICH SOMETIMES IS THE OUTRIGHT THING THEY WILL SAY TOO! BUT MY POINT IS THAT IT'S NOT ALWAYS THIS DIRECT.)

#trans #transgender #transsexual #transition #transphobia #queerphobia #homophobia #queer #gender #genderqueer #nonbinary #trans hrt #ftm #trans men #trans rights #hrt #testosterone #transman #transmasc

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pineapplerightsideupcake · 8 months

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hello im on anon bc im new to radblr and im a crypto but just wanted to say thank you for standing up for bisexuals on this blog. idk why but for some reason i expected radblr to have better opinions on bi women than the whole ‘sexually promiscuous bihet’ and ‘traitor for being osa’ and ‘more privileged than homosexuals’ bullshit that everybody else spews. the alphabet cult is actively erasing us in favor of ‘trans inclusive labels’, radblr is invalidating us by blatantly ignoring so many bi women’s experience with sexuality. the biphobia here is almost worse than any offhanded comment ive heard from a straight person. i also don’t think many understand that some women know they’re bi and are confident in that, but others may use bi during a time when theyre unsure if they’re actually attracted to men. ive gone a few of my teenage years acknowledging to myself that im bi, but now in my 20s im questioning if i ever truly felt attracted to men. the things i feel sexually in my most recent relationship with a woman are things ive never felt or even imagined were possible when ‘crushing’ on a guy. i acknowledge that *some* men are aesthetically pleasing for me to look at, but i’m also penis repulsed and always have been. theres nothing sexy to me about penis. truly. it makes me ill thinking about it. and that is confusing for me, bc seeing so many lesbians on here say how sure theyve been about liking women makes me think they did not grow up in an area like i did where homosexuality was truly thought of as demonic, even by the most ‘liberal’ people. i had no idea ssa was normal until i was probably 12 or 13 years old, and before then i just. repressed those feelings. i still did until i was about 17 and fully admitted to myself that ‘hey, i like girls’.

also i didn’t even know what the ‘comphet masterdoc’ was until exploring radblr, but i had heard comphet before and felt that it was very accurate in describing how i feel about men. idk anything abt what’s on the doc. regardless of my ‘true’ sexuality, it feels like theres a very hostile attitude towards bisexuality here, or even someone saying ‘ive tried to have a crush on guys before but only feel sexually/romantically attracted to women’ is met with ‘if youve even THOUGHT about having sex with a man then youre not a lesbian.’ no room for nuance.

sorry for the rant in your inbox, i hope this is okay. but yeah. thank you for being open about bisexuals here and standing up for them.

Thank you! I realized a while ago that radblr had a lot of issues that need to be challenged but I’ve also come to appreciate why these issues occur.

At the end of the day, almost nowhere allows women to speak this freely. Lesbians have had even their online communities absolutely destroyed by the TQ. So more than a few lesbian women on here really don’t want to talk to or about non lesbian women. And I think they’d be happier if they created a separate space for themselves on here where they didn’t feel pressured to, which I think is where a ton of this negativity comes from.

Bisexual women also need to stop offering themselves up as social sacrifices. I see a lot of the anti bi stuff come from bi women themselves sadly. A lot of women on radblr never unlearned that deeply unhelpful ID pol hierarchy from their TRA days.

As for your own personal journey, don’t let other people’s pain, no matter how legitimate, compound your own pain. The way I navigated my sexuality was I called myself a lesbian in my head because men did repulsed me. But it felt like a lie. I’d see a handsome dude jogging and feel a pang of attraction. Men still crept into my fantasies. I have zero desire to sleep with or date men. But that’s got nothing to do with my attraction to them. It’s a conscious personal choice I’ve made for my own happiness and safety.

So call yourself a lesbian just inside your head. Do it everyday. Look in the mirror and say “I am a lesbian” and if after a few months that feels like a lie then you’re bisexual and that’s amazing! If it feels like coming home, if everyday it feels more true, then you’re a lesbian and that’s amazing!

Please love yourself no matter what 💛

#radical feminism #radical feminist community #radical feminist safe #radical feminists do interact #radical feminists do touch #radblr #radical feminists please interact

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featheredadora · 10 months

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when you get this, please respond with five things that make you happy! then, send to your last ten people in your notifs (anonymously). you never know who might benefit from spreading positivity <3

I don't often do these kinda asks, but I wanted to do this one seeing as I'm currently struggling quite a bit (pain + fatigue have been bad for a while) and I haven't be able to do a lot of the usual things that make me happy (I can't draw or even play games much at the moment!)

But I'm still super thankful for even little things that make me happy, so here's 5 things that have made me feel happier at the moment:

1. My birds! I love sharing my life with these little guys (and Sunshine too of course) and I feel happy and blessed every day to get to know more about them, spend time with them, and love them.

2. Trans films!! We watched Spiderverse a little while ago, and then Nimona last night, and it just makes me so happy to watch stuff that resonates with me. To see trans representation that I couldn't find when I was a kid. I hope other little kids feel seen too!

3. Positivity on my dash, and in particular trans positivity, fat positivity, and disability positivity! I've also been reading 'The Body is Not An Apology' by Sonya Renee Taylor (Reading is really difficult for me, so I am very slow, but I am trying!). It means so much to me to see people fighting for a world that is inclusive of, celebratory of, and compassionate towards, all kinds of bodies. I love you body diversity! I love you people boldly living their lives in spite of diet culture, ableism, racism, and transphobia!

4. Over the past few months I've been wearing clothes from 16-year-old me (rather than only wearing plain white shirts every day). Today I wore a 'new' (10-year-old) hoodie, and it is really nice in a sensory way! It feels soft and good to put my hands in the pockets and the material is nice. I am thankful for kid-me for getting this hoodie!

5. Everyone who supported my art over pride month! Honestly, everyone's kind messages meant a lot to me, thank you so much for your kindness! And I am so grateful for everyone who bought merch of my art this month! I'm still kinda shy talking about money on here (I know it's not shameful to be poor! But I'm still unlearning the shame I carried as a kid who grew up in poverty), but I just wanna say it really does mean a lot to have people support my work in such a material way, especially when finances are so tough for everyone at the moment. The money from my art this month has paid for my vitamins/minerals (which are like hideously expensive why are they so expensive??) which are super important for me because (due to sensory issues) I am not able to eat enough to get enough vitamins/calcium/iron from food. So thank you all for that, it makes me super happy!

#asks #anon #ask game #I don't really know what to tag this as #but yeah I am so thankful for all the things that make me happy #even when my body is hurting lots and things are kinda hard right now #long post #positivity

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doggirlvasectomy · 4 months

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How to Not Be a Chaser

I've seen a lot of interactions both online and irl where people expressing completely respectful sexual attraction to trans women have been labeled as chasers. At the same time, as a slutty trans woman, I have had the misfortune of interacting with a LOT of chasers. I wanted to share my perspective a bit, since I know there's a lot of well meaning cis and tme people out there who are attracted to trans women but are afraid their attraction might come off as predatory. So, I want to go over some quick points on how I can typically tell if someone is a chaser or not, and hopefully teach people how to more respectfully express their desire. Keep in mind, this is just one trans woman's perspective! If any other transfems have things to add, please chime in!

1. Please for the love of God don't bring up the fact that she's trans until she does.

If you're trying to flirt with me and your first message is anything along the lines of "I've never been with a trans girl" or "how long have you been on hormones" I will block you. Trust me, if I want to talk about my gender I will.

2. Do not immediately start sexting.

This is kind of just a rule for when you're flirting with anyone, especially women. For some reason though, some seemingly progressive men seem to think it's okay to message a trans woman in a way they never would to a cis woman.

3. You are not kinky or weird for wanting to fuck me.

I am a woman. I'm not a femboy or a sissy. Some people are and that's very cool and good, but if I say I'm a woman then I'm not lying to you. Being attracted to me does not make you bi or pan. If you treat your attraction to trans women as something degrading, you are implying that trans bodies are disgusting. No trans woman with any self esteem will want to fuck you.

4. DO ask her what words to use to refer to her.

"Pretty" and "cute" work well for most trans girls I've talked to, but if you're not sure then it's always okay to ask "what words of affection are you comfortable with?" If things start getting physical, it's also always great to ask what words she prefers for her body parts. Everyone likes something different, but saying the wrong word without asking may make her feel dysphoric and unsexy.

5. Your attraction to trans women is attraction to women.

This is kind of building on an earlier point, but if you're down bad for a trans girl, there should probably be some precedent of you being down bad for cis girls too. Sexuality is fluid, but if you're a cis dude and you're exclusively looking to fuck a trans girl, that sets off a lot of alarm bells. If you're open to the possibility of hooking up with women cis and trans, just say you're attracted to women and trans inclusive. This will let us know that you're a safe person to talk to and that you don't view our bodies as a fetish.

I hope this is helpful to some people! Wanting to fuck a trans woman, fantasizing about being with a trans woman, admiring trans bodies, none of that makes you a chaser. Being a t4t straight trans guy does not make you a chaser. As long as you respect transfems as human beings with autonomy and you approach us the same way you would with any woman, you're golden!

#longass post but i had a lot to say lol #transfeminine #trans is beautiful #trans women #trans nsft

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