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wormgremlin · 8 months

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I wanna say something else on the topic of rude comments on AO3. I know a lot of people just choose not to respond to trolls. I also know it's probably a waste of my time to respond. But I have a sliver of hope in me that people genuinely don't know why what they're doing is fucked up. And I lean on that sliver and I reply, yes perhaps a bit snarkily or rude. But all the while telling them why what they did is wrong. That being said, I will not stop deleting comments. That noise doesn't belong on anyone's fic, not even mine.

I'm not a fast writer. I'm not a prolific writer or a popular writer or even a particularly GOOD writer. I'm aware that sometimes my verb tenses are bad or my characterization off. I have a lot of words I overuse or awkward wording patterns I can't leave behind. But I get a beta to fix what can be fixed, then publish it.

I'm not a good writer. I write because I have ideas that I would rather have written out than have live forever in my head. I write for fun. I write to see the representation I want to see, even if I write it badly.

I repeat. I am not a good writer. However I am a stubborn writer. I am a resilient writer. And I reply to the people who think it's okay to criticize fic writers because I can deal with it. Because I don't care. And because I know it hurts others. And I hope, desperately that they do so unaware of the effect they have. Because that means they might be willing to change.

There seems to be a bizarrely short logical jump from "unasked for criticism is okay" and "telling people to kill themselves is okay." I don't write particularly problematic ships. No judgement or shame, I just don't.

But every fic is problematic under a bad faith reading. If you don't like something, it's a very short leap to "problematic." It's like that one post said: coffee shop AU? Workplace harassment. Genderswap? Transphobic. Queer relationships? Fetishizing. And if all someone needs is not liking something in a fic to begin criticizing an author or accusing an afab queer person of misogyny and homophobia... Well. It's a short leap from that to telling someone to kill themselves, isn't it?

And I may seem strangely fixated on the "kill yourself" angle. But I remember just a few years ago. People were doxxed. Lists went around of blacklisted individuals, and blocking them was a way of virtue signaling. So was using that blacklist as a mailing list for telling people to kill themselves. People were in my friends' ask boxes telling them to commit suicide. My friends who were not always in the best mental space. Over fanfiction. Over problematic things in fanfic. When I insisted that perhaps it is inappropriate to leave such comments, several other people stopped talking to or blocked me simply for saying "telling someone to commit suicide is inappropriate" and being associated with blacklisted individuals.

Of course, escalation isn't necessary to make it harmful and inappropriate, on a lesser scale. What was it that one particularly dense person said? Something about my characterization. So what if my characterization was bad? Back button exists for a reason! Don't waste either of our time reading it! "Don't like, don't read," dldr -- there are whole acronyms about it! You would think the point has gotten across by now. I am a self proclaimed bad writer. You're right! I don't always get Bucky's characterization right. A cis white ex-military man has immensely different lived experience from me. Hell, I've never even handled a gun before. Sometimes that means what I think makes sense for his character... doesn't. But also consider: I didn't ask; therefore, it's inappropriate and not "concrit" as some people like to call it (which I also have opinions about).

Someone commented after I posted about people leaving rude comments that I was how was it phrased? "Crying on tumblr," I believe. I'm not asking you to specifically stop commenting on my fic, I'm asking you to stop entirely. I'm asking you to take a step back and consider the real life effects of sending anon-hate or leaving unnecessarily critical comments on people's works they are making available to you for free. And if you're still under the impression that you are in the right to leave these kinds of comments... This is not me crying on tumblr. Let's be perfectly clear: this is me calling you a bitch on tumblr.

#we love the block feature #and you get a block and you get a block and you--#i swear #this is not a fucking invitation to tell me to kill myself #suicide mention #like u aint my mom u aint my brain u really think u can hurt me?#the fucking audacity of some people #lowkey entertaining tho #oh yeah uhuh yup thats really hurtful ooh you got me you sure did #still fucking dying over the hospital thing tho #gonna write a triage rant later #to go eith the concrit rant i will also write later #fanfic discourse #again #as in keep the discourse as far away from me as fucking possible #back baby back #dont like dont read #seriously #and yea yknow i dont really have the patience anymore to be nice #you get told hey that wasnt good buddy heres why #then you get told wow fuck off little bitch #i have a zero fucking tolerance policy for this shit #you get ONE FUCKING WARNING #anyways i guess u should thank them tho. now im legally obligated to write a sequel #fuck neolib purity culture #god #i do not have to sanitize myself and my life for your consumption #i dont owe u shit cause u aint paid for shit #gonna start charging $20/hour for responding to obnoxious comments

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hinamie · 25 days

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I'll rip in hands and teeth and take a bite

#my art #jujutsu kaisen #jjk #yuji itadori #ryomen sukuna #yuuji #sukuna #sukuita #fanart #jjk fanart #gore tw/#body horror tw/#blood tw/#YUUJIIII BABY BOYYYY BABYYYYYY #hes hungry :/#sukuna seems 2 be having fun gdjhfgsdf . boys when theyre bored.#so happy i wrangled this pose in2 something im happy with i almost abandoned the idea entirely #sometimes front facing is the answer.....who knew :'>#also #can anyone tell me. how far up yuujis fun arms go i had no idea so i just stopped them at the elbow #if im wrong that will b not swaggy :(#listening 2 sena's cover of butchers vanity on repeat btw VIBES #cannibalism motifs my beloved uwu #in other news this is the least amount of shading ive done in a very long time #and its been even longer since i pulled out th white lineart #but overall i like this piece so much yuuji is so cute and it doesnt make sense 2 me at all #edit changed the colour to make it more obvious whats sukunas legs vs whats yuujis back

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ditzybat · 2 months

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damian: why'd you shoot that man? i think he's dead

jason: he was pulling out his weapon

damian: what are you, a cop?

jason on the verge of tears: i'm so proud of you, but never compare me to a cop again

#dc #damian is like a baby who repeats back what he's heard #he picked this up from steph and jason #damian wayne #jason todd #robin #red hood

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getousatoruu · 3 months

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BOY MOM GOJO SO CANON

#the megumi and Gojo one is so uncanny #anyways megumi u know what Gojo did at 16 when he almost died …he came back #I know you have it in you baby boy now is the time #jjk #jujutsu kaisen #gojo satoru #okkotsu yuuta #itadori yuuji #megumi fushiguro

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mydairpercabeth · 4 months

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season 4 is gonna hurt me i fear

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fanfic-gremlin-ft-trauma · 4 months

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tfw you’ve been tasked to murder the prince of the northern water tribe but he’s really majestic

(they make a compromise)

#atla #zukka #zuko x sokka #zukka fanart #atla fanart #moon spirit sokka #moon spirit sokka fanart #blue spirit #blue spirit zuko #blue spirit zuko x moon spirit sokka #IM BACK!!! THE BABIES ARE BACK!!! drawing them again felt like coming home #anyway. this au has been swimming in my head for a lil while so. hope y’all enjoy <3333

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a-dumb-sarcastic-bisexual · 11 months

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Like the majority of society I’m obsessed with Nimona

And I rewatched it a million times and one thing always sticks out to me

There are moments when Ambrosius is surrounded by light like a little protective bubble

That keeps him away from the man he loves more than anything

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batbabydamian · 9 months

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Dick visiting Damian (serial-sibling-sweater-stealer 😔)

#dick grayson #damian wayne #dynamic duo 2.0: what would you do without me?#baby nightwing fan #Damian gets pouty when Dick goes back to Bludhaven lol #batbabyart

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ceceru · 7 months

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Costume partyyyyyyyy!

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redstringredeye · 18 days

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#we’re so back baby #tmagp #the magnus protocol #tmagp spoilers #mine

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nanamin-nah-nanamine · 5 days

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Can you just imagine Nanami letting you ride him? Giving the illusion that you’re in control, praising you for being such a good girl bouncing on his cock so well. His big hands running up and down your sides as he watches and waits.

Waits for you to falter.

Waits for your legs to grow tired and your rhythm to falter as you whine that you still got it and that he doesn’t need to take over.

And he’ll humor you. He’ll indulge you until your bouncing turns to grinding down on his cock, your clit rubbing against his hip bones with each roll and he’ll wait until you’re close before he flips you over and pounds you until you’re squirting <3

#jujutsu kaisen #jjk #jjk x reader #jujutsu kaisen x reader #jjk smut #jjk headcanons #jujutsu kaisen smut #jjk x y/n #jujustu kaisen #jujutsu kaisen headcanons #nanami drabbles #nanami kento smut #kento nanami x reader #nanami smut #hey babies :3 #jus a lil somethin to hold y’all till dinner #trying to get back into my smut writing

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chloesimaginationthings · 15 days

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This is why Michael doesn't scare Elizabeth in FNAF

#myart #chloesimagination #comic #fnaf #elizabeth afton #micheal afton #afton family #fnaf 4 #sister location #fnaf fanart #five nights at freddy's #this is foreshadowing to sister location events…#I wanna believe that Elizabeth always fought back when Michael tired to scare her #it mimics how circus baby and Michael are like #so Elizabeth has just never been scared of Michael #SHE does not play around she will throw hands 😤#wanted to draw more Afton kids content #they are so silly and so dysfunctional 🩵

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suiheisen · 2 months

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the h in nhl stands for homoerotic

bonus intricate rituals:

#this is my new fave live game :')#chiarot tried to scruff sid and my precious gigantic baby son drew said: NO!!!!!!#also it is my duty as a crazy sid/ek fan to say that after sid was freed from the box and was later back on the bench #ek who was still on ice circled back and skated towards him #and tenderly held him by the chin and said something to him (sweet dirty nothings i'm sure)... sid giggled like a schoolgirl about it #anyway. again a very good game for me sid/ek-wise #ek with his arms open waiting for his victory prize aka sid barrelling into him after the otgwg and keeping his face pressed close...#if they don't simply fuck dirty on ice during the er1k celebration...#sidney crosby #pittsburgh penguins #ben chiarot #detroit red wings #again #long post

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brbarou · 4 months

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living war crime

#tlt #the locked tomb #gideon the ninth #harrowhark nonagesimus #tamsyn muir #art #fanart #slaps harrow on the back You could fit 200 dead babies into this thing #shes so silly to me btw. feral cat

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mydairpercabeth · 4 months

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More Baby Annabeth thoughts to ruin your day:

In the show, Echidna explains that monsters trach demigods by smelling their fear; it’s part of the hunt. Once a demigod is aware of who they are and why they’re in danger, monsters will come for them. Annabeth was constantly hunted by monsters from the age of 5. MEANING THIS LITTLE BABY ANGLE WAS SCARED AND ALL HER STEPMOTHER AND FATHER DID WAS MAKE HER FEEL LIKE ITS HER FAULT!!! SHE WAS SO ALIENATED FOR TWO YEARS AND BLAMED HERSELF!!!

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pocket-dragon · 6 months

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not nearly enough Mama K content, GIVE THAT WOMAN A CHILD!

#TFW u get back from hell and find out you have a toddler #the kiddos name is robin btw #her other mom is my half-elf bard tav #bg3 #baldurs gate 3 #Karlach #karlach cliffgate #so anyways dont wear jewlery around grabby babies #Oc #dnd #baldur's gate 3 #comic #not me trying to figure out how to draw toddlers #Mama K #Robin

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