my best friends sister recently came out as trans and it’s really showing the subtle transphobia and bias around me

it’s never “she came out” or “she’s trans” it’s

“/deadname/ wants to be a girl”

“/deadname/ feels that he is trans”

idk man it’s just really off putting because to me it’s literally just an identity, it’s expression, it’s comfortability, and like, ok yes it’s a change if you’ve known this person as one name your whole life, but it’s just like a surname? if they choose to take the spouses last name that’s what you call them, not that different. pronouns, to be honest, are not difficult to adjust to. sorry, but if you’re ’uncomfortable’ calling someone by their preferred pronouns imagine how they feel. finally comfortable enough to tell people, and now you’re saying “sorry, I’m just having trouble adjusting to calling you by she/her.”

???????? it’s incredibly weird to me. anyway, thought I’d share bc trans people are so so important and even if we’re ‘progressing’ it’s subtle language that can actually hurt the most.

anyway anyway, so happy for her, and I’m glad she felt comfortable enough to come out, because especially where I live that’s not easy <3

ANOTHER 90s AU HC (or any au): sokka learned english first then inuktitut second while katara learned inuktitut first & English second. but katara didn't learn English until she was eleven because kya died before she could really break it down for her and hakoda left before he could teach her at least the basics. and gran gran spoke little English. so sokka had to teach her.

omggg :((( this one's bittersweet I love it

I've always been so personal about the wt siblings and this completely scratches the itch

Imagining late nights Sokka and Katara sitting on the couch, and Sokka humming English songs to her and that's how she learns in the beginning

Sokka catching Katara still occasionally humming those songs years later and just smiling to himself </3

hiii :) hope you're well

hiiii ♡ to be truthful school is taking a TOLL rn but I'm managing !! (hope you're well too !)

peace at last.

Reblog if it's okay to invade your ask box.

Always

"Zukka isn't real-"

This is the gayest frame of animation I've ever seen... Please stop lying to everyone....

fuck it, we bawl, actually. i’m crying girl.

Ice cream date 🤍

hi I just wanted to say I love ur art <3

currently avoiding reblogging gay things out of fear that family could find my blog unfortunately 😭 but I needed to let you know that your zukka art is gorgeous and I am spiritually reblogging all of it. may or may not be scrolling through your entire blog after this to see all your art, hope you don’t mind !!

omg 😭😭😭 no stop of course it’s okay!! I totally understand that, like my family is very conservative so if they ever saw my art I’d be kind of dead, but the fact that you thought to come tell me is so fucking adorable I’m so grateful!!! <3333 I will never ever complain about someone liking my art especially if they’re sweet like you x

your zukka au,,,,, i love it so much <3 <3

thank youuu!! <333

expanding on my au idc x

the total… I’m gonna be sick I love this community 😭

(in my currency that is literally over 3.8 million. this is insane.)

every time there’s a donation for ao3 and i see how just INSANELY over the target goal it is… like we are NAWT living without this website fellas 🙏

new art coming soon so here’s proof i didn’t forget how to draw 👍

every time there’s a donation for ao3 and i see how just INSANELY over the target goal it is… like we are NAWT living without this website fellas 🙏

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its uh titts out monday (i think) In case you don't know, there is this really entertaining and spicy fic @ranilla-bean wrote named Nip It in the Bud.

zuko sure wasn't subtle and sokka an absolute gentleman.

Hurt Zuko, my beloved ❤️‍🩹

He was doing something heroic, probably

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A while ago I was invited to contribute to the Form the Ashes ATLA fan Zine for @recovery-zine!

I got to illustrate this double spread! (which was terrifying, thank you) Pretty sure this is where the thought "Jee survived the north" began to form for me! The theme was about the war ending, peace settling and people getting to come home and reunite with loved ones.